Smart girl.

She lured you in with good character, intelligence and care (making your food).

Fire her then make her a full time girlfriend who will also oversee your business - Build with her, Reason for firing her is to make her know she isn't a staff but a stake holder in the business so if the business progresses then its for the good of both of you but if you keep treating her like a staff, the narrative will be like employee and boss dating which will be dentrimental to position she holds.

So fire and date her to be your assistant and build a life with her.

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

you haven't tell us the real reason why you never marry in your late 30's . If you don't want to ruin your business, get your eyes off that babe

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

There is no smoke without fire.

What's her phone number, lemme help you talk to her

ednut1:
All these men wey no fit separate business and pleasure. Shame

Will he not eventually marry a human female? Is she not a human female? Should he marry a stranger? I beg, cut him some slack... At least she seems to see something in him.

Delightedonyi:
You have a running business so what are you still waiting for but young man do u want to ask her out because of the food or love if it’s for love go for marriage no go break someone heart please if u know you are going for fun seat back but if you really love her go for her....but next time we don’t care about the shops u have

I don't really understand how you people think or reason sometimes, the guy was obviously trying to represent the situation of things and why he had to employ people in the first place,your inferiority complex is a big problem man,like a guy said the oher time was he supposed to mention your achievements

FreQ:



Suegbe

nope, Na ASuegbe.

Marry that babe.
No perfect wife anywhere.
If u feel good with her, I say go ahead.

Bro that girl is God sent to help your business grow and make you even more prosperous than you currently are. You said she makes even more sales than you because she has a way of communicating with people. She is a good cook, she is intelligent and focused, respectful and most importantly not wayward. She is also not materialistic like other girls that you may have met in the past.
My advice to you is you tell her you have feelings for her now and start a courtship with her. You can do all your studying her and observations better when both of you are in a relationship. That's what courtship are for. If you waste time and another guy wins her heart before you, to find a better replacement for her might be an herculean task for you.
GO FOR HER NOW AND START A COURTSHIP. AGE IS NO BARRIER AT ALL!

Kenplay:

The 6th law of the Mafians says "Never get your meat where you get your bread."

If you are wise enough that quote above is the advice you need right now. You are rising to the top of the pyramid but you are about to use your hands to pull yourself back to the base of the pyramid. let me ask you; Where was she when you were struggling? She should remain a loyal employee. C`est le suin. Bye

I like this comment. Bro you can't test the loyalty of a lady if you have some cash. They can kill just to get you if you have money. I will advice you not to go after her, let her remain your loyal worker bro and stop her from cooking for you

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

Fire her already.
No go ruin your business.

Annie001:

Inferiority complex
Is he suppose to mention your own achievement
Yeye

You have no time for nonsense guy ,wetin concern us if he add his net worth, no be him get story.

adexpa:
If you never marry n you think she can be a good wife, you can do proper findings about her and if you are satisfy with the information you gathered, you can go on to let her know your plans for her. You will have to restrict the public activities to a reasonable level in order to guide her against hatred n jealousy from others ( I mean you need maturity to handle it). Do your findings well before jumping into decision cus human are pretentious in nature.

Good advice. Do proper findings. I advise you don't attempt going for a fling. If your findings turn out well, consider marriage. In the midst of these, do not do anything that would jeorpadize your business or make you lose respect as a boss. Involve God.

It what they say is true about a man. It is said that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

dg0z1luxyx

Nairalander and funny comments are like 5&6,am just here to catch the vibe everyday,
Just check the guy below �

Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it

22 years old is too small

Abegi op

Leave the girl biko

Comot eye for her matter

sammytee042:

I like this comment. Bro you can't test the loyalty of a lady if you have some cash. They can kill just to get you if you have money. I will advice you not to go after her, let her remain your loyal worker bro and stop her from cooking for you

The OP is about to dig his own grave. The world billionaires who run the world all kept their wifes out of their business. Even Bill gate wife is limited to his foundation only. This is the time he needs to understand how this dark world operates.

comos:



If she can run your business, cook very well for you and moderate in house keeping, i will advice you to investigation on her, if you found her report to be good then you are just looking at your wife.
Don't allow her to pass you by, because you might not find somebody like her again.

Thanks

Dont settle for less. Emotional love playing out. Tell her to dress to your office without make up or any wog attachment...she should also wear Native. Abd see how yiunwill see another person

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

chronique:


This is where it all starts from. You got to be very careful. She can make or mar you. Before falling in love with your staff, do a due diligence check on her properly. You can arrange with someone she doesn't know to come and act like your boss and be giving you instructions and treating you like a boy boy. He can even insult you and ask you to kneel down for one offence or the other. Basically just let him reduce you to the level of the other staffs and then, you'd confess that you are not the owner of the business and that it belongs to this your boss. Do it and find out how she reacts to you. Even if it takes six months of playing the game, do it and observe her behavior. The rest is left for you to decide after you have made your discovery.

Oga please don't try this, it's silly.... My advice is just stop eating her food, involve God into it and keep watching her from a distance, what I mean is try to secretly know everything about her first and see if you are ok with.... Women can be very deceptive am not saying she's... Remember your age is not the issue here... Marriage is for better for once.. your marriage decision determines how your remaining days on Earth would be.... as I said stop eating her food first...

God will help you bro...

Kenplay:

The OP is about to dig his own grave. The world billionaires who run the world all kept their wifes out of their business. Even Bill gate wife is limited to his foundation only. This is the time he needs to understand how this dark world operates.

I don't want to be on Forbes bro,I just want a happy family with just enough to get anything we want.

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

1. Since you have feelings too just go ahead propose to her, meet the parents, fix a date for the introduction, tie the knot because time no dey. But be sure she's real and not faking it because of the change you get.
2 . If you cares to find out if shes in for love, let someone come around as the owner of the business and let if filters that you are just a caretaker.

Karleb:


My HOD in school married a girl from the department, they are now have 5 kids and counting, also, the lady now works in the same department.

My Project supervisor did the same.

No matter your choice, people are going to talk. So just do what's best for you.

Undergraduate girls might not be as bad as NL paint them, at least I know few of my colleagues (girls) that are now married, many are seriously engaged (according to them).

Don't mind the people saying negative things
What matters is the intention of the guy, if good, it will definitely work out fine. Shey is it not around one that one is supposed to find a partner

Ishitinyourlife:

Exactly bros,that is what I'm thinking I'm not getting younger and I've met a lot of girls in my life but this girl is quite different, the only thing is that she's like 13 years younger than me.

Child abuse

Lol.. You don chop efo. Why won't fall in love, since you've been eating her food. You fell into her trap the moment u agreed with her to start cooking for u. Forget oo, many young naija girls are fetish, they can go anywhere to achieve their aims.

Seeing you being an already established guy, she then set a nice trap for u, which u fell into unfortunately. You falling in love isn't ordinary. O tii j',efooo.

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

Just take her out of your business and date or marry her or whatever you want.

If you can afford, find out her own business plans and invest in it as a partner. So you still work together, but she does not interfere with your source of livelihood.

Op, anyway talk to God, let God lead you, the lady might be an helper to you, if you can relate, thank God she has already fall yourself.



Pls op and people of God, hunger kills faster than corona, i need food.

UBA bank 2088997146

Ishitinyourlife:

I don't want to be on Forbes bro,I just want a happy family with just enough to get anything we want.

You are just digging your own grave. Men who lets their heart control them will always be rule by men who think with their brain. You are free to enter the trap she is laying for you like a sheep going to the slaughter house. 7 years from now you will get the result. Bye

Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it

she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me


wolf love pretending to be sheep beware my brother brother

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

@Emboldened When will Nigerian men figure out these sort of games women play??
She knows you are doing well financially and otherwise hence she is strategizing her moves like a chess player