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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Felincous(m): 3:20pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
lol wow that would be beautiful ooo. All of you have so wowed me with your graciousness. I would send you an email from echeoyi@gmail.com now.

I got it.
I will get back to u later in d day. Thanks.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by lighternote: 3:21pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
0903636776

Number taken. I'll offer you a big cctv job this year. Fingers crossed.
All the best, young man.
I'm really touched by your story.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 3:21pm On Apr 09, 2020
skj1377:


Kindly explain to us the department you worked in the hotel you saved N1million naira from? My point is this nothing good can happen to a thief. You bought a keke and it was stolen same month! Your basic salary in the hotel can't be more than N30k yet you rented an apartment for N300k. Your story would have had better credibility if you had a female reproductive organ while working in the hotel because your are not a homosexual.
Kindly explain how you saved 1million working in that hotel if you are morally upright the way you claim.

This is why most of you fail comprehension and summary in English language.

If you had read everything well you would have seen where he said he brought up an idea in the club section that yeilded a lot for the hotel following which his salary was raised to 50k.

He also mentioned always having like 5k per day and 20k some weekends.

You would also read that lots of customers were Yahoo boys who always allowed only him clean their rooms and that they give him stuff regularly.

Remember Mr Greg? He was his favourite too and always got stuff from him.

He also said he saved his salary for many months without touching it until he made up his mind to move to another apartment and invest in a Keke.

You guys don't always have to run your mouth all the time please.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Lawal1470(m): 3:25pm On Apr 09, 2020
Nice story...Suicide is not the next thing to do
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Chukapage(m): 3:26pm On Apr 09, 2020
kaziblake:
Do not Please I beg you.
Taa! So he should carry another man's burden and problem then end up like OP?? You're wicked.. undecided
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by abbey621(m): 3:26pm On Apr 09, 2020
Everything you wrote, nothing is too spectacular, it is the story of the average foolish Nigerian male that allowed love to dominate their thinking instead of logic. In fact the average Nigerian has a story similar or much more drastic. One issue no one is mentioning is the paternity of that boy. You think because the boy looks like you that is the guarantee that you are the dad? You've already been through so much, I would suggest getting a DNA test to ensure you're the actual father otherwise you might be in for a rude awakening.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Antell95(m): 3:29pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
From then on I was just living a purposely life because there wasn't the will to live again. I was so lonely, there wasn't anyone to talk to or laugh with. No one chatted me up again, I would go some time's 2 days without a meal because there wasn't any food to eat, my soap got finished and I had to start to use Klin detergent to bath, yes I always looked good and smiled when I went outside because I still had lot of good clothes but deep down I was dying slowly and mightily lonely and depressed


I would go make block at Fagba railway and be paid 1500 but that 1500 is spend this way. 200 goes for my transport, 200 to eat morning food, I would buy Tramadol 100 to numb the pain from carrying 700 blocks per day, I would use 300 to eat afternoon meal and another 100 tramadol before you sleep to numb the pain growing on my hip again and another 200 naira food at night again, I was just frustrated and each night i wet my pillow with tears and prayed to die while sleeping anf each morning I woke up with a fake smile when I saw people.


I had to stop making block as I was getting addicted to Tramadol as that could finally mean the end of my life as addiction to tramadol without a job or money would surely lead me to crime and I went to start making bread in a bakery and we would be paid 600 per night after we have worked so hard during the night. All this stuff got me so frustrated and depressed and always angry and just wanting to end it all

You might asked don't I have Uncle's or Aunt yes I did but none came to my aid whenever I swallowed my pride to asked them for help and all they would say is why did I play football and not go to school and I went this way till that hot September 5 of 2019 after trekking so much and knocking on the gate of more than 10 hotels and got home to meet my neighbor needing me to go fix that light.


I just couldn't take it anymore and I was just within seconds of downing that sniper when I shamefully begged here and this where few reasons why I spiraled into deep depression.
(1) My girlfriend left me
(2) a boy that was already sleeping in my arms and chest was taking from me.
(3) used to do giveaway to those that were broke every single Tuesday on my WhatsApp and now my WhatsApp was like a ghost land.
(4) remember eating 2 bags of Rice in the year 2018 alone and now I couldn't even afford a proper meal again.
(5) my soap was 2k that lasted less than 2 weeks and my cream 4k and now I used Klin detergent to bath.
(6) I gave those almajires in my bus stop 200 per day i kid you not and now I didn't even have 1 naira on me again.
(7) how I single handedly buried Mom but now I couldn't even afford 200 to go look for a job unless i trek






Sending u a PM

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by placeofallure(f): 3:31pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
come on my lady it should stop. It's very cool now so don't share any tears again. Her memories lives in my heart forever tho

Since that comment, I have not logged on to Nairaland.

And No, my tears are not for her. She chose the path she wanted. Her case can be likened to Taraji P Henson in the movie Acrimony. She worked and was impatient to reap it. I felt pity for you. No one should have to go through everything you've been through. But it's good there's Hope in the horizon for you. You will stand tall again. My love to your darling son. It's well with you.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Midegoldace(f): 3:34pm On Apr 09, 2020
@tankunland, I strongly think you should take a pertanity test.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Hidemyface: 3:35pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
sincerely I would take that advice seriously. I just penned it down without even given it a thought of fetching money because I just felt sad it was 1 year already but God would let me on what to do and how to go

Let the story end the way you wrote it. Leave us in that state of pain, confusion and sadness.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Omar09(m): 3:37pm On Apr 09, 2020
donem:

G you are a living legend, too much sense in your redpill thread, though i cant be categorized a simp, but i still had to take some dose of your Redpill about 2000milligram i hope it aint overdoze?

Pls endeavor to tag me if you invent any new pill, one can supplement with the very potent redpills.

No doze is overdoze. It's like vitamin C. Take it everyday to boost your immune system. Tankio
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by donem: 3:40pm On Apr 09, 2020
Omar09:


No doze is overdoze. It's like vitamin C. Take it everyday to boost your immune system. Tankio
Thanks for the validation sir, peace be unto you.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 3:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
lighternote:


Number taken. I'll offer you a big cctv job this year. Fingers crossed.
All the best, young man.
I'm really touched by your story.
thank you so much sir. God bless you
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by amordi: 3:52pm On Apr 09, 2020
Touching but unfinished story. You have made yourself anonymous, Why not tell us what killed Shola. It will definitely serve a big lesson.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by obinoral1179(m): 3:55pm On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
nope you know I wanna keep my animosity right? But my name is close to ajayi but not ajayi
you are from benue state and idoma to be precise.... Idoma are good people.... All the best bro and take care of your boy....

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Oyiboman69: 4:10pm On Apr 09, 2020
Ariza:
cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry

So touching...



But why would Shola hide Samuel's paternity from you while you were already taking care of him like a son? That doesn't make sense.

Anyways RIP to her.
I'm also thinking about that, but I guess there was a heated argument between them before he gave her the money for the abortion which lead to the lady going to her mother's house
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by paqman: 4:18pm On Apr 09, 2020
I can believe i shed tears when reading this, this story is somehow indicating and revealing a message to me
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Goalnaldo(m): 4:20pm On Apr 09, 2020
I'm phlegmatic but I think I felt one or two tears in my eyes. So touching cry. It's so unfortunate that Shola died. Her love for you is legendary.

I thank God that at the time you cried out for help here they were individuals that came to the rescue. Not everyone can be lucky as you because nowadays the rate at which they now label anyone a scammer and fraudster will even make you to take the sniper quicker.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 4:25pm On Apr 09, 2020
Op, this your odeal is very inspiring


I learnt enough, I pray God blesses you more and keep you long for having a good heart


I'm motivated by this story, I will keep pushing
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SweetCunt97(f): 4:26pm On Apr 09, 2020
Chukapage:
You're shying away from reality and YOU know it ,YOU women hold onto men that treats you like trash not to talk of a baby daddy the father of your child who is irresponsible...NO single man in his right senses should date a single mother...You females always say one thing and do Another,Men watch actions not words... I bet the OP's would not have passed through such an ordeal if he had focused on himself Alone but no ! He added a single mother to his burden ,like great men have always predicted She went BACK to her baby daddy.
Was unfortunate that she did. Anyways, do you. People will always go for who they want no matter d circumstances. Ciao
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Principal87: 4:46pm On Apr 09, 2020
This is about the most logical post I've read on this thread

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by skj1377(m): 4:52pm On Apr 09, 2020
protonic:


This is why most of you fail comprehension and summary in English language.

If you had read everything well you would have seen where he said he brought up an idea in the club section that yeilded a lot for the hotel following which his salary was raised to 50k.

He also mentioned always having like 5k per day and 20k some weekends.

You would also read that lots of customers were Yahoo boys who always allowed only him clean their rooms and that they give him stuff regularly.

Remember Mr Greg? He was his favourite too and always got stuff from him.

He also said he saved his salary for many months without touching it until he made up his mind to move to another apartment and invest in a Keke.

You guys don't always have to run your mouth all the time please.

You still don't get it? If the money was from yahoo boys as he said then he can't do anything with it. Besides what is the moral in collecting money knowingly from ritualist and hoping to get a good life from it?
Can't you just understand you can't make any progress in life from such wealth! The yahoo boy gives you ritual money you collect but when they take you to the source of the money you say no and run.
The money he saved from yahoo boys did what in his life? Besides the legal age of consent in Nigeria is 18. The guy engaged a 15yr old lady with a child already in romance. He even impregnated her and paid for an abortion. On a good day I should call the police to arrest this guy.
Morality in Nigeria has gone south, youths don't know what is right anymore. I don't have time to edit my post but hope you just get the message sorry for all errors. It's the message you need.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by digitalman: 5:01pm On Apr 09, 2020
openmine:

That's not true...maybe you did not read the part where OP pleaded with her that he wanted the baby but she refused and said she wanted an abortion....hence,he gave her the funds to remove it!
She is not a straightforward person and she also lied!

"What" is not true?

You didn't say what is not true.

I also didn't say she is a straightforward person.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Karlifate: 5:09pm On Apr 09, 2020
wisdomkid:




I actually LIKED your post because the guy you quote name is "VERY FOOLISH BOY" grin
And when I looked at your name, it's CoronaVirus? shocked shocked
Thou art more foolish than "VeryFoolishBoy" grin grin grin grin grin
You're wicked

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by kikelomojessy(f): 5:10pm On Apr 09, 2020
Op, you are a strong man, you are an inspiration.

God bless you.

I learn so many things here but what I wud say to us ladies is, u see nagging, u see nagging, u see nagging can push a man to do the unthinkable from being violent, to doing the unthinkable. Please, that's why every woman should get something doing weda small or big. Provided the man is not using you as a punching bag don't just leave cause it's hard especially when u know he is a hardworking man.

RIP shola.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by kelechi50: 5:11pm On Apr 09, 2020
Inside life, but why single mother lipsrsealed
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 5:11pm On Apr 09, 2020
skj1377:

You still don't get it? If the money was from yahoo boys as he said then he can't do anything with it. Besides what is the moral in collecting money knowingly from ritualist and hoping to get a good life from it?
Can't you just understand you can't make any progress in life from such wealth! The yahoo boy gives you ritual money you collect but when they take you to the source of the money you say no and run.
The money he saved from yahoo boys did what in his life? Besides the legal age of consent in Nigeria is 18. The guy engaged a 15yr old lady with a child already in romance. He even impregnated her and paid for an abortion. On a good day I should call the police to arrest this guy.
Morality in Nigeria has gone south, youths don't know what is right anymore. I don't have time to edit my post but hope you just get the message sorry for all errors. It's the message you need.

I get your points but there's no need flogging a dead horse.

I still think you need to take time to read through his story well.

There are few morals in there and many lessons for everyone to learn.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by openmine(m): 5:12pm On Apr 09, 2020
digitalman:


"What" is not true?

You didn't say what is not true.

I also didn't say she is a straightforward person.

I was too emotional drained to press any further and i think by February of 2018 she told me she was pregnant and WOW was my reaction, I asked her who was responsible and she said me of course and I asked her what she wanted to do with the pregnancy and she said she wanted to get rid of it, I TOLD HER TO KEEP IT but SHE INSISTED ON GETTING RID OF IT and sincerely I didn't press her much and I gave her 20k that same day and a few days later she told me it was done and I believed her but a month after she left her mom's to go stay with her grandma at iyana ipaja.
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Chukapage(m): 5:19pm On Apr 09, 2020
Phenomenal16:
..broke ass nigar
Una no dey ever Learn! I bet you would have called Op a broke ass Nigga 6months ago but today storyline don change "brokness" is VERY temporary ...Op for 1secs had 1.3million in his account the next second he didn't have a dime ...life na change use ur head! Dangote girl

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by kaykad: 5:28pm On Apr 09, 2020
can you help me with the place you learnt the CCTV installation, please help a brother, just like other helped you
Tankunland:
thank you for your well wishes sir. Concerning the camera sir these pandemic called Corona virus made the prices of cameras to sourge even before the lockdown went into effect and you know I just can't give you a quotation without me properly seeing the site and the exact prices of camera's now. But if you have gotten the camera's and the DVR and other stuff's then if the site is around Lagos State sir 50k should be enough for my own Workmanship. Please can I know howany indoors and outdoors camera you wish to install
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Brainzz40(m): 5:40pm On Apr 09, 2020
chai...I really feel like crying
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Oadedayo: 5:42pm On Apr 09, 2020
God will provide better one
Tankunland:
Today the 8 of April makes it exactly 1 year that one of my bank accounts had over a million naira and it was that same amount that changed my life forever.

yes it changed my life so badly that it nearly made me commit suicide but thanks to these beautiful forum that came to my aid at just the last seconds of ending it all.

Now what you are about to read is my life story of how everything changed for bad in the space of just under a year and how
(1) i lost my job,
(2) my loving girlfriend dumped me,
(2) how I overcame some deep temptations
(4) how I overcame deep depression and nearly killed my self
(5) and how that my ex died and in her death I knew I had a son.

Just deciding to write about these has gotten me in a melancholy mood as I have been in a morose state for the past few days thinking about how my life changed but I know someone might learn from it. Now I had to use a new moniker for this as my former moniker has many things pointing directly to me as I don't want anyone I know to know it's me but I would surely be reading the comments with my real account and these could be lengthy but bear with me

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