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Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 7:34pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Taal17: Thanks for your advice bro. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 7:36pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
faithfull18: Thank you, I have actually drifted far from God. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 7:37pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Thank you. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 7:40pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
HiFreda: I understand, especially your first line. I have opted to move out several times. Late last year she became very ill, it was just me taking care of her. Sometimes I have to rush her to the hospital in the middle of night. Thank you, I know I will succeed too. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by Mykel51(m): 7:45pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
[quote author=LoneRanger28 post=88269596] Chemical engineering [/quote Jeeez...you should be earning big bucks in the industry. Look for roles in process engineering even if it's intern roles. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 7:53pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
[quote author=Mykel51 post=88270083][/quote] Bro I even made it to the interview stage of the just concluded NNPC recruitment, I had high hopes, but then I didn't get the APL. I have tried so many other places & some will say it's based on recommendation. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:43pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
It's a pity that atimes loved ones can stand as a stumbling block for ones success/happiness. You need to leave that toxic environment, I cannot understand why a mother should pick a knife attempting to stab her only child, your mum definitely isn't okay mentally, you are living with a maddd woman. If you study Jacob's story in the Bible, you will see how his father in-law was his stumbling block, till Jacob finally made up his mind to escape. You are a mature adult, plan ahead and leave your home, if you feel that your mum will give you the go ahead to travel to get a better life, you will definitely wait till eternity. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by emmaodet: 8:47pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Yo bro, what's up? It's a pity that the Educational system has rendered most youths/graduates Useless. Where should we start from? You need to roll up your sleeves - I met a man at Elu village close to Ozoro in Delta state 2014, an illiterate. He is into catching of snails in the bush with chemicals. The chemical as at then cost #500 and when he goes into the bush at night, he sprays it which attracts the snails to them. Sometimes he gets 2 sacks of snails or 3 on a good day. Each sack he sells 5k then and he has buyers from delta and bayelsa. That is an illiterate earning 5k to 15k at least 3 times a week with a cost of #1,500 max. The truth is that we the educated are looking at the wrong direction to make money. We concentrate too much on certificate and looking for jobs, sitting inside AC office and pressing computers. I had the intention of doing it but i was scared of entering bush/forest at night because he goes around 9pm and comes back around 4am. Other things you can do are - Go to market and learn from anybody into Egg selling in bulk like a distributor. learn the trade for like 3 months and from there you can start yours. Low capital start-up of 50-100k should be okay for a start. Meet cow butchers and learn the trade for free or about 3 months at abbartior/market after which you can have your stand and pair with someone to buy and share a cow of 120k to sell per day. You should get good profit. Learn popcorn or donut/puff puff frying and selling at junctions from a good maker for some weeks and start yours later. You can still be working for your mum while you start snail rearing in your compound. It takes a small place to set-up, quite business and not stressful. You feed them once a day around evening. Meet fresh catfish sellers at a moving junction in your area. Work with them for free for about 2 months to learn the business. How they sell, where they buy and how they preserve. After which you can set up your stand also. Go to market and meet abokis into Onion, dry and fresh pepper selling. Learn the biz for free fro some months and start yours. All these businesses are businesses with low start-up capital which can make you stand if you are diligent after few years. maybe 1-3 years. Think about it. There are many more but let me stop here. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by 24kmagic: 9:20pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
I'm not saying you're lying but after reading that thread by takunlandd, I knew so many scammers will seize the opportunity and start cooking up fake stories. Well, I hope you get the help you need if your story is true. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by Nobody: 9:34pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
What state do you live in with your mum? |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by Amhappy(f): 9:47pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
LoneRanger28: My heart is very pained. May God be with you. Don't give up. See if you can pursue a career in Safety,Coating Inspection,Logistics or any way you could lay your hand. Leave home but always keep in touch with your mum. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 10:09pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
emmaodet: Thank you for the detailed information. 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 10:10pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
24kmagic: My story is true, I'm not asking anyone for money, scam have no place in this post. Thank you all the same. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 10:11pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Unelephantable: Plateau state. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 10:11pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Amhappy: Thanks for your advice. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by MariaAngeles: 10:34pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
LoneRanger28: Plateau state? Wow! Vegetables and other farm produce are really very cheap there, and you can take the opportunity to source for interested customers in other states...that is if you're trustworthy Are you interested? |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 10:54pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
MariaAngeles: Yes, I am. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by MariaAngeles: 11:12pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
LoneRanger28: What's produce is available and cheap right now? |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 11:14pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
MariaAngeles: I'm not sure. The state will be on lockdown from tomorrow to next week Thursday. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by Ge0grapher(m): 11:26pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Bro.. I read ur post .... Didn't want to comment but just had to.. Pls note, ur mum doesn't hate you, it is just one of those feelings that comes when an individual over depend on someone else.. It is normal... Dude... You just gotta leave man!! I don't know how ur finance is, but if you can provide an accommodation for yourself elsewhere while looking for a job, and at the sametime engaging in few little jobs for utility payment purposes ...then you would be fine.... Because trust me, this situation you going through right now has killed a lot of young folks out there.... Summary of my post is ...."Leave The House please!!!' |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by MariaAngeles: 11:30pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
LoneRanger28: OK. Let's hook up on WhatsApp yeah? Can I have you number? My email to this monicker isn't functional |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by Nobody: 9:50am On Apr 10, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:listen to this advice. Especially the part that says she has lived out her youth. Think about it. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by Resurgent2016: 10:47am On Apr 10, 2020 |
LoneRanger28: Your mum is probably also frustrated at your lack of progress. You have to man up and decide his you want to move on to do other things to develop yourself even if it means leaving your parent house. You don't need her permission, you only need her prayers. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by ahnie: 10:55am On Apr 10, 2020 |
I believe your legs aren't tied? Leave the home,go find your own path. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by Greatzeus(m): 12:06pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
Your mother loves you,she is all you have and you are all she has. Her recent behaviour is as a result of not yet fulfilled expectations she had . She expected that by now you would be the one giving to her and taking good care of her. I know she is not taking it well,but please bear with her. God will give you a job soon. You will see how she will start respecting you. I experienced something like this when I was job from certain family members, though mine is not as deep as yours. There's light at the end of the tunnel. 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by Greatzeus(m): 12:08pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
ahnie:Yea the way you did with your pussy,but he is a guy,he doesn't have a bottomless hole. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by ahnie: 3:00pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
Greatzeus:Your level of stupidity is amazing! |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by Guysses(m): 3:16pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
Guy just stand up and leave, go and hustle... I know you will be afraid on who will be doing all the things you help your mum do but let me tell you, if you leave today your mum will not die and all those things you think can't be done without you, she will find a way and all of them will be done. My story is a little bit like yours, I left for a job in a city I don't even have who to accommodate me, I have to sleep in Warehouse almost 2months before I could raise money to pay 3months rent... But God is great cos where I am now, I never believed I will even get to half of it by this time in my life. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by frozen70(f): 4:19pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
LoneRanger28: Sorry for passing through such a painful situation that you don't even know when it will end I will suggest you change location because you can't achieve much as your freedom is limited Try and continue to be a good boy, save enough money while doing that, plan with any of your friends if they can accommodate you so tgat youive down to Lagos to hustle Before living, if there are any of your mum family members that do come around to spend days with you guys, visit that person, tell the person your plans If she arrives today take off the next day, the presence of your visitor will calm her down while she feels your absence She can only suffer the shock for one week and there after learn how to cope When get to Lagos, settle down and all her the next day and apologise for leaving with out her notice but assure her that you relocated to make life easy for her That she should pray for you so that you will succeed in anything you want to do |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 5:36pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
Ge0grapher: Thank you. |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 5:39pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
MariaAngeles: Okay please mail me @ |
Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by LoneRanger28: 5:41pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
Resurgent2016: I agree, thank you. |
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