zexy2030:

fish farming is my side hustle, then working on uber this year.

Not bad but you said you will take the kid at 5 years old.

I hope you know, it is difficult to do.

sexylassie2:


Ok, but 6 children is a lot, and you are 4th, can't come and handle rivalries and hate from your elder siblings.

The money is nothing, I work too, I got my own stuff going on, but personality is everything for me.

hmmm, don't get urself worried over fears of the unknown, though expected but assurance from the one who took u in should be more affirming, so don't be a pessimist.

zexy2030:

the drama of kids before that age I can't deal, without his mum?

So it's women that's designed to deal with the drama huh? After u guys will open your dirty mouths to ask what are contribution is to a relationship.

sexylassie2:


Not bad but you said you will take the kid at 5 years old.

I hope you know, it is difficult to do.

It is, if she is fit to be married with my child without dramas, then we will do a wedding otherwise not to be worried about marriage, just peace of mind is what I need not unnecessary dramas.

SweetCunt97:
How does his siblings concern you? Someone is talking about a paid arrangement of babymama affair and u talking about sibling rivalry. Abi u thinking of moving in with him ni .. Save ur womb the stress and wait for a loving man who got the balls and orientation to keep a proper family.

Sibling matters, rivalry matters, even if it is a babymama affairs, the child need to be given priority, the child will also know the family at the end.

sexylassie2:
Bad investment, if you die or go broke, end of allowance, end of story. The beginning of suffering for the poor single mother.

I have some questions for you.

-What do you do for a living? What is your networth?
-Do you have life insurance? If yes, are you ready to allow the lady be the beneficiary. What is the worth of the insurance
-what is your father's networth?
- how many are you in your family
-Are your siblings dependant on you?
-Are your parents loving?
- what tribe are you?
-Are your parent open minded or stuckup, the always angry type or the jovial type.


Answer these questions or you are an attention seeker.

Why all these questions about his parents and family?

You should only be interested in the financial terms since he is not seeking a wife

zexy2030:

It is if she is fit to be married with my child without dramas, just peace of mind is what I need not unnecessary dramas.

I see but I feel like you are stylishly looking for a wife because you hope to convert her Into a wife, if she is good.

SweetCunt97:
So it's women that's designed to deal with the drama huh? After u guys will open your dirty mouths to ask what are contribution is to a relationship.

women have that natural capacity to bear with children, they are so emotional, but us men can be so touchy bcus of societal demands on us.
The noise at night, the scattering of the house et al, so many dramas from the woman too.

SweetCunt97:
This Op is funny.. He will take away the child when he's 5 years old yen yen yen yen. Easier said than done.

You'll explain to her people if you paid any bride price to take away her child.

it is business na. You are not meant to be in the child life.
Just like a surrogate. He will probably pay you for the services rendered

sexylassie2:


I see but I feel like you are stylishly looking for a wife because you hope to convert her Into a wife, if she is good.

yea, but I need time to observe her.

Lostz:


Why all these questions about his parents and family?

You should only be interested in the financial terms since he is not seeking a wife

she is free to ask any question.

sexylassie2:


Ok, but 6 children is a lot, and you are 4th, can't come and handle rivalries and hate from your elder siblings.

The money is nothing, I work too, I got my own stuff going on, but personality is everything for me.

he is taking away the baby at 5 and you will probably move on like nothing happen..... getting compensated financially.

Lostz:


Why all these questions about his parents and family?

You should only be interested in the financial terms since he is not seeking a wife

They are very important questions, the kid will eventually know his grand father and mother, do you want a situation where the kid is called a bastard and feel unloved.

Or you think everything is about money, what about the emotional wellbeing of the kid

Lostz:
he is taking away the baby at 5 and you will probably move on like nothing happen..... getting compensated financially.

It is impossible, seems you don't understand child and mother bond.

zexy2030:

yea, but I need time to observe her.

Ok...goodluck with your search but be careful

Lostz:
it is business na. You are not meant to be in the child life.
Just like a surrogate. He will probably pay you for the services rendered

Do u know what it means taking ones child from them?especially one you've bonded with for 5 years? It's better to simply take the baby immediately after birth without any bond.

Let him choke on that money and agreement.

zexy2030:

women have that natural capacity to bear with children, they are so emotional, but us men can be so touchy bcus of societal demands on us.
The noise at night, the scattering of the house et al, so many dramas from the woman too.

Do as you wish.

zexy2030:

she is free to ask any question.

just tell her you are stylishly looking for a wife

sexylassie2:


It is impossible, seems you don't understand child and mother bond.

nothing is impossible.

It is hard and that is why you get compensated financially

sexylassie2:


It is impossible, seems you don't understand child and mother bond.

It's very possible, Cristiano Ronaldo did it when his son was just 2, he paid the mum.

zexy2030:

hmmm, don't get urself worried over fears of the unknown, though expected but assurance from the one who took u in should be more affirming, so don't be a pessimist.

I am not a pessimist, anyway, I have a big fear about men here especially with the hate women get. If things go wrong, you become target for hate.

Anyway, goodluck with your search.

sexylassie2:


They are very important questions, the kid will eventually know his grand father and mother, do you want a situation where the kid is called a bastard and feel unloved.

Or you thing everything is about money, what about the emotional wellbeing of the kid

The child well-being should no longer be your business once you handover.
You don't know how surrogates or donors works? You are only meant to act as a vehicle for the child

Reichel99:
It's very possible, Cristiano Ronaldo did it when his son was just 2, he paid the mum.

It is impossible to forget your child, even surrogate mothers hardly forget the bond.

Lostz:


The child well-being should no longer be your business once you handover.
You don't know how surrogates or donors works? You are only meant to act as a vehicle for the child

Hand over what, do you think, the child is a piece of goods you exchange for money.

Surrogate mother still have bonds with the child they carry for 9 months.

SweetCunt97:
Do u know what it means taking ones child from them?especially one you've bonded with for 5 years? It's better to simply take the baby immediately after birth without any bond.

Let him choke on that money and agreement.

But some ladies throw the child away. Some even abort it.

His request is not for very emotional people.

sexylassie2:


I am not a pessimist, anyway, I have a big fear about men here especially with the hate women get. If things go wrong, you become target for hate.

Anyway, goodluck with your search.

I wouldn't want any broadcast here about this if it works between us, I don't like such broadcast. I will gladly decline if I notice any thread with respect to our meeting. Pls be mature, I don't need dramas.

Lostz:


The child well-being should no longer be your business once you handover.
You don't know how surrogates or donors works? You are only meant to act as a vehicle for the child

Go and read what he wrote down, he said he needs something close to a baby mama also he doesn't mind if she becomes his wife, that is if she is good.

Lostz:


But some ladies throw the child away. Some even abort it.

His request is not for very emotional people.

Or you think they are happy throwing the child away, the reason why they do it is because of the hatred they get.

sexylassie2:


Hand over what, do you think, the child is a piece of goods you exchange for money.

Surrogate mother still have bonds with the child they carry for 9 months.

It is not for emotional people like you.

That is why I said you are meant to act as a vehicle for the child.
Whatever becomes of the child is not your business.
just like a driver....... after dropping you at the park, you are no longer his business

SweetCunt97:
How does his siblings concern you? Someone is talking about a paid arrangement of babymama affair and u talking about sibling rivalry. Abi u thinking of moving in with him ni .. Save ur womb the stress and wait for a loving man who got the balls and orientation to keep a proper family.

everyone with his/her own choice, u can wait OK? Allow her decide.

Lostz:


It is not for emotional people like you.

That is why I said you are meant to act as a vehicle for the child.
Whatever becomes of the child is not your business.
just like a driver....... after dropping you at the park, you are no longer his business

You scenerio does not work with child birth except you just want to argue for argument sake.

OP
Why not adopt a child or just get a surrogate .
Taking a 5 year old child from it's mother isn't a good idea at all.