MMotimo:
Yes, I can. If I can’t live without her and she’s genuinely sorry, only death can separate us

Mustack:


I did forgive my woman. But what pained me the most is that she decided to leave the relationship

sassysure:

U no wan port na

Muslims do marry one wife you know.

U are not smart.
Say yes, and marry her.
Then u can have a change of heart.
Who knows, if u are good, she may join u in your religion.
U carry religion for head in this 21st century
A girl can do anything, even defy her parents for the man she love.

merahki:



Honestly you need to swallow one coloured kind of pill like that

The picture I have of you saying that “my woman” is not a good one- like she is the sole source of oxygen you need to live (I dunno why I have this mental picture )
Pick yourself up and live...

Biglittlelois:



They are coming for you

faithfull18:
No, cheating is exclusively for the men as most Nigerian men say.

Well for me, cheating isn't in the exclusive preserve of anybody, nobody should cheat in the first place.

madridguy:
I am a very liberal person and not fanatics. The matter about the lady get somehow and i don't want to start what i won't be able to finish.

Oyindidi:
Who born them to forgive?

Oluneutral:
Men are too emotionally weak to forgive their cheating wives.

cococandy:


And I thought women are the emotional ones

Oluneutral:



Have you ever heard women threatening that they want to commit suicide because their husbands cheated on them? But I've seen and heard so many men who did. I've even seen more than one man who actually killed himself because his wife cheated on him.


So, who's more emotional then?

Abeg, we're all human jare, with blood and water flowing through us all. No Superman anywhere.

Peace.

Oluneutral:



Have you ever heard women threatening that they want to commit suicide because their husbands cheated on them? But I've seen and heard so many men who did. I've even seen more than one man who actually killed himself because his wife cheated on him.


So, who's more emotional then?

Abeg, we're all human jare, with blood and water flowing through us all. No Superman anywhere.

Peace.

Mustack:


On this note, I was depressed and nearly commit suside after our breakup.

Her friend was my rescuer that saved me.

cococandy:
Lol. They are emotional or logical whenever it suits their argument.

I can’t can Biko.

Oluneutral:



Actually, men are emotional and they know it but wants to always appear strong and sound more logical to give impression that they're in charge.

Not their fault though, it's their nature, remember the first man, Adam was exactly like that and transferred it to them.

Good? I don't know, but it has always been helping and working for them.

Oluneutral:



Thanks for confirming my point.

Affliction shall not arise the second time for you.
Peace.

merahki:



Honestly you need to swallow one coloured kind of pill like that

The picture I have of you saying that “my woman” is not a good one- like she is the sole source of oxygen you need to live (I dunno why I have this mental picture )
Pick yourself up and live...

pocohantas:
Is it not what you know of, that you will forgive?

Toor!

chivera018:
Telling naija men to forgive cheating wives would be like telling them to drink sniper. Even the one that has numerous side chicks won't like their wives to cheat on them. When they cheat they remember men are polygamous in nature and preach forgiveness, when a woman cheats they label all Nigerian women sluts and irresponsible.
The glaring hypocrisy though.

Mustack:


Yes I use my woman bcus I out everything on her and I placed nothing above her. Eventually, she pulls the trigger

merahki:



You don’t love anyone in a way that erases your own person or soul. She cheated on you, you forgave her, she later left you, and you are still lamenting.
It just shows you loved her in a way that obliterates you. In a way that belittles your spirit. That’s not good at all.
You have to use this period of missing her and learn yourself, learn how to love yourself and love yourself. Take all the time you need meanwhile. When and after you do this, you will learn and realise how you want to be treated in relationships. You will learn to demand this (by just being) and you will get it.

(I can’t say it has never happened to me, but we learn, pick ourselves up, and love and live better. That’s called growth, that’s self realisation, that’s life).
Cheers and good luck

Mustack:


Thank you. I latter realize that no problems are bigger that the creator of it. I have learn few things I have bowdown my head in shame and I have washed it away. I need to start a new begging with fresh hope .

merahki:



That’s great
Have great expectations and watch them come to pass
Happy Easter!

Oluneutral:



Actually, men are emotional and they know it but wants to always appear strong and sound more logical to give impression that they're in charge.

Not their fault though, it's their nature, remember the first man, Adam was exactly like that and transferred it to them.

Good? I don't know, but it has always been helping and working for them.

pocohantas:
Is it not what you know of, that you will forgive?

Toor!

Nooil:


Their emotional side only comes when they find the girl attractive and appealing. Aside from this, they have beastly tendencies.

Nooil:


Their emotional side only comes when they find the girl attractive and appealing. Aside from this, they have beastly tendencies.