Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Mirian91(f): 9:03am On Apr 15, 2020 |
I went to buy it yesterday it's now 9,200 AratOluda: @MyPeace
I got it for 3000 naira. It came in a tube with six applicators. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by chosen4now: 10:04am On Apr 15, 2020 |
mercyooGod:
plz can you mention the hospital your friend use for ivf? Nisa premier hospital based in Abuja is one of the best if not the best in that field |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by chosen4now: 10:26am On Apr 15, 2020 |
inspiredabbey: The Most Important Thing is Love and Fear Of God.
I got married to my beautiful and loving wife fourteen years ago. We courted for four years before marriage and me strictly observed no sex before marriage. We both came from a background that discouraged premarital sex and we were cool with that. While we were dating, I observed that she was always having severe menstrual cramps and pain for 2-4 days every month but we never took it as something serious.
On our wedding night, I knew something was wrong as she was in severe pain during sex. I knew she was not a virgin before marriage because she told me about an unfortunate incident that happened to her when she was very young. It was quite obvious to me that she doesn't enjoy sex because of pain and the fact that her parent circumcised her. (How I hates her parents for this).
I love my wife dearly, and the thought of being unfaithful to her never crossed my mind. Over the years, God has been giving me the inner strength to show great understanding to her emotional needs and improvise for our sexual life. I know that on her part, she is making constant sacrifices to endure the pains just to please me. There are periods she becomes paranoid that I will leave her. Her reactions is understandable as we have been TTC for 13 years. We have been to several hospitals and have spent so much money on medical procedures and IVFs. Initially she was diagnosed of fibroid and she had two hysteroscopy to remove the fibroid. We tried another IVF after the surgery to no avail.
Her menstrual and ovulation pains got progressively worst and she developed the accumulation of bloody fluids in her tummy. She was initially misdiagnosed by two high profile hospitals of liver cancer and ectopic pregnancy respectively. These were very difficult period for us. But thankfully she was eventually diagnosed of severe endometriosis and she commenced treatment immediately. It took thirteen years for doctors to diagnosed what was wrong with my wife-ENDOMETRIOSIS.
Most doctors often overlook endometriosis as the leading cause of infertility in women. The pains of endometriosis is indescribable and very few people also understand that husbands whose wives suffers from this ailment do suffer emotional pains and stress.
With hormonal treatment, her pain is now manageable. We are still hopefully TTC. My parents and siblings have been very supportive. They know I love my wife dearly and they respect our privacy and decisions.
This is our story.
I narrate this story to encourage all those who are TTC not to give up in showing love to their spouses and to have the fear of God. I prayerfully and earnestly look forward to the day my wife will carry our baby in her arms with a smile in her eyes. I know a woman that suffered the same thing she was operated by a private hospital and they were not to do the surgery after that gwagwalada specialist hospital attended to and was, able to separate the intestine but couldn't go further. It was in, Nisa premier hospital we met because at that time my wife went for major fibroid surgery .that sister was treated successfully at that hospital 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by chosen4now: 10:40am On Apr 15, 2020 |
cyntybabe: Good evening ma, i saw my period 16/2 lasted for 4days & 16/3 saw it which lasted for 4days too, when am i likely to ovulate and what's my cycle as i am likely going to see if 15or16 of this month
I've been sexual active from 27/3-6/4, had been feeling sick, dizzy, very weak, feels like vomiting, headache & stomach ache i thought i was pregnant but ran test 4 both pregnancy & typhoid, the pregnancy came out -ive while the typhoid +ive which I'm treating now.
Please when should i start trying again? Does typhoid stops one from conceiving? With the above description, when will i likely ovulate this month as I'm expecting my period on Monday or Tuesday? , you will ovalute on the 30th so I advise you hold your hubby well from the 27th and at least 2days after that date 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by iamfertile(f): 11:20am On Apr 15, 2020 |
RipVanWink:
they should be new models, they did same thing on the countboost, motility boost combo, i was confused at first. had to google and check on amazon, before i got convinced OK, mama. Maybe they rebrand. Tanx |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Bunny19: 11:21am On Apr 15, 2020 |
Fruit4me: thanks so much, I started taking the warm ginger tea and today af came.. thanks Yaayyyy....am happy for u dear. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 2:53pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by cutiereborn(f): 2:57pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Annaseyi:
@Mirian91, this was my post during my 2ww. I understand how frustrating this period can be. That was why I had to vent here when all hope seemed lost.
But to the glory of God, I tested on Valentine's day and two thick red lines were staring at me. Safe to say, DH had a fantabulous valentines.
Sorry I couldn't announce earlier mummies but Ms and anxiety from my previous history (blighted ovum) made me to wait it out before coming to share the news. I have had two scans to confirm and both times my Lil bean is growing perfectly.
This is to tell you that all hope is not lost and miracles happen when we do not expect it.
Spreading baby dust on all Mamas here and wishing you a short stay. Congratulations Mama. You will carry to full term and deliver with ease, Amen. 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Mirian91(f): 3:12pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Big congratulations to you. I tap into your blessing. TTC anxiety is second to none. Annaseyi:
@Mirian91, this was my post during my 2ww. I understand how frustrating this period can be. That was why I had to vent here when all hope seemed lost.
But to the glory of God, I tested on Valentine's day and two thick red lines were staring at me. Safe to say, DH had a fantabulous valentines.
Sorry I couldn't announce earlier mummies but Ms and anxiety from my previous history (blighted ovum) made me to wait it out before coming to share the news. I have had two scans to confirm and both times my Lil bean is growing perfectly.
This is to tell you that all hope is not lost and miracles happen when we do not expect it.
Spreading baby dust on all Mamas here and wishing you a short stay. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 6:07pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 6:07pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mercyooGod: 6:08pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Big congratulations to you. I tap into your blessing.
dear do any widd for us? 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Flourishing19(f): 9:47pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Mirian91: The longest time in a cycle is this 2ww. God! The anxiety alone can cause the pregnancy to say I'm not doing again. This is my day 8 POD and I'm expecting AF on Sunday 19. I just try to calm down incase I get disappointed. I did HCG test this morning and saw a BFN clear negative line , even though I'm sad but not as sad as February result. Keep trying continues. My only worry is the severe menstrual pains I have all through AF days and even some days after. I'm waiting for AF already this April, I'm no longer anxious. But I was already hoping that I will come out with a testimony in this lockdown.
Pls where are the mamas that has gotten anxious and still got a FBP result. Come and tell us how it happened cos I think my anxiety is making this thing not to work.
Baby dust to us all!! Funny enough, I am also expecting AF on Sunday too although, I have a long cycle of 45 days. I haven't tested at all. Waiting to see what happens on Sunday first before taking the next step. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Flourishing19(f): 9:54pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Annaseyi:
@Mirian91, this was my post during my 2ww. I understand how frustrating this period can be. That was why I had to vent here when all hope seemed lost.
But to the glory of God, I tested on Valentine's day and two thick red lines were staring at me. Safe to say, DH had a fantabulous valentines.
Sorry I couldn't announce earlier mummies but Ms and anxiety from my previous history (blighted ovum) made me to wait it out before coming to share the news. I have had two scans to confirm and both times my Lil bean is growing perfectly.
This is to tell you that all hope is not lost and miracles happen when we do not expect it.
Spreading baby dust on all Mamas here and wishing you a short stay. Congratulations! You will carry to term and deliver safely. 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Azaebere: 10:35pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Annaseyi congratulations mama. You shall carry to full term and birth safely in Jesus name 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by MummyHalo(f): 11:31pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Annaseyi:
@Mirian91, this was my post during my 2ww. I understand how frustrating this period can be. That was why I had to vent here when all hope seemed lost.
But to the glory of God, I tested on Valentine's day and two thick red lines were staring at me. Safe to say, DH had a fantabulous valentines.
Congratulations mama. May God perfect that which He has started. 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by miraclebaby: 4:48am On Apr 16, 2020 |
mercyooGod: miraclebaby: dear is there drug one take to control hormonal state what out taking the test cos i no get money for hormonal assy Some people take vitex. It’s good for women fertility and hormonal balance. But I don’t encourage taking fertility supplements except you’ve had tests to confirm your body actually needs it. 2 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Amakapritty(f): 6:40am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Good morning,pls must my period come out on the same date every month,again I usually see my period 3-4days monthly but if recent it only comes out 2days,is their something wrong with me? 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by peacefulwealth: 8:45am On Apr 16, 2020 |
@Mirian91, this was my post during my 2ww. I understand how frustrating this period can be. That was why I had to vent here when all hope seemed lost.
But to the glory of God, I tested on Valentine's day and two thick red lines were staring at me. Safe to say, DH had a fantabulous valentines.
Sorry I couldn't announce earlier mummies but Ms and anxiety from my previous history (blighted ovum) made me to wait it out before coming to share the news. I have had two scans to confirm and both times my Lil bean is growing perfectly.
This is to tell you that all hope is not lost and miracles happen when we do not expect it.
Spreading baby dust on all Mamas here and wishing you a short stay.
Congratulations, for ur BFP. |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 8:48am On Apr 16, 2020 |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by cherishyy(f): 10:33am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Annaseyi:
Thanks so much.
There wasn't any particular drugs I took for that cycle as I had planned not to go medical already. I just relaxed and took the journey as a phase we would soon pass. But DH was more worried than I that for 3 months whenever I enter my fertile days, his JT will refuse to stand. It was funny the first two months as I always teased him about it. On the third month fertile days coincided with the time he would be out of town and despite we bding 3 days before at least to know whether anything will happen, his JT refused. At that point I was so worried and decided I must go meet him there.
Had to tell my boss one thing one thing so I could be let off for 2 days. Before traveling I armed myself with Preseed but it was mostly for the pleasure but because it was TTC friendly, why not. Immediately I got in town and entered his room, work started but for where, Mr man refused to cooperate. We tried all we could despite the distractions coming from everywhere as it was actually a party but nothing happened. I just told him at a point let's forget about it and go have fun with others as the party had already started. He was worried about the erection issues as he thought someone might have cast a spell on it. Deep down within me I was thinking in that line too but I told him him the person has failed as Las Las I will use syringe to draw out his sperm even if that's what it takes. We laughed over it and we went for our party and had our fun.
After the party we retired inside and was just gisting forgetting about the whole episode, like play like play JT don rise. This time we didn't even bother about the Preseed, Kia Kia put am inside. I didn't even care about enjoying it, the goal was let him ejaculate. My prayer was just 'God let him release, let him release'. He showed mercy on us and he did. Next day I felt my ovulation pain and prayer point turned to 'Baby stick, baby stick'.
So basically we didn't do anything differently, just relaxed and trusted God. The funny thing is that after that episode, JT has been rising to the occasion everytime its needed. Wowwwwww... Congratulations mama.. see me smiling coz I've been through this episode. Still waiting on my bfp 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by chosen4now: 12:19pm On Apr 16, 2020 |
Annaseyi:
@Mirian91, this was my post during my 2ww. I understand how frustrating this period can be. That was why I had to vent here when all hope seemed lost.
But to the glory of God, I tested on Valentine's day and two thick red lines were staring at me. Safe to say, DH had a fantabulous valentines.
Sorry I couldn't announce earlier mummies but Ms and anxiety from my previous history (blighted ovum) made me to wait it out before coming to share the news. I have had two scans to confirm and both times my Lil bean is growing perfectly.
This is to tell you that all hope is not lost and miracles happen when we do not expect it.
Spreading baby dust on all Mamas here and wishing you a short stay. A big congratulations to you there shall no evil come upon you and the baby 2 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 3:21pm On Apr 16, 2020 |
cherishyy:
Wowwwwww... Congratulations mama.. see me smiling coz I've been through this episode. Still waiting on my bfp Thanks dear. And so shall it come sooner than you expect. 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by cherishyy(f): 7:09pm On Apr 16, 2020 |
Annaseyi:
Thanks dear. And so shall it come sooner than you expect. AMEN!!! |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mumjosh: 10:37pm On Apr 16, 2020 |
Annaseyi:
Thanks so much.
There wasn't any particular drugs I took for that cycle as I had planned not to go medical already. I just relaxed and took the journey as a phase we would soon pass. But DH was more worried than I that for 3 months whenever I enter my fertile days, his JT will refuse to stand. It was funny the first two months as I always teased him about it. On the third month fertile days coincided with the time he would be out of town and despite we bding 3 days before at least to know whether anything will happen, his JT refused. At that point I was so worried and decided I must go meet him there.
Had to tell my boss one thing one thing so I could be let off for 2 days. Before traveling I armed myself with Preseed but it was mostly for the pleasure but because it was TTC friendly, why not. Immediately I got in town and entered his room, work started but for where, Mr man refused to cooperate. We tried all we could despite the distractions coming from everywhere as it was actually a party but nothing happened. I just told him at a point let's forget about it and go have fun with others as the party had already started. He was worried about the erection issues as he thought someone might have cast a spell on it. Deep down within me I was thinking in that line too but I told him him the person has failed as Las Las I will use syringe to draw out his sperm even if that's what it takes. We laughed over it and we went for our party and had our fun.
After the party we retired inside and was just gisting forgetting about the whole episode, like play like play JT don rise. This time we didn't even bother about the Preseed, Kia Kia put am inside. I didn't even care about enjoying it, the goal was let him ejaculate. My prayer was just 'God let him release, let him release'. He showed mercy on us and he did. Next day I felt my ovulation pain and prayer point turned to 'Baby stick, baby stick'.
So basically we didn't do anything differently, just relaxed and trusted God. The funny thing is that after that episode, JT has been rising to the occasion everytime its needed. Congratulations mama. I tap from your testimony IJN. Amen 2 Likes |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by miraclebaby: 11:14pm On Apr 16, 2020 |
Amakapritty: Good morning,pls must my period come out on the same date every month,again I usually see my period 3-4days monthly but if recent it only comes out 2days,is their something wrong with me? It’s calculated based on number of days from beginning of one to the next and not actually on a said date. You can download a tracker to help you confirm how many days yours is for a cycle. It ranges between 25 and 45 days for some people though most people have 28days. 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mercyooGod: 9:02pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
miraclebaby: Some people take vitex. It’s good for women fertility and hormonal balance. But I don’t encourage taking fertility supplements except you’ve had tests to confirm your body actually needs it. dear plz guide me on how to do hormonal balance test plz including the cost, when to start? the test. how is dh and our lo inside the womb? hope the ejiams are doing well inside the womb? |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Mirian91(f): 9:15pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by customizedme: 11:08pm On Apr 17, 2020 |
Mirian91: Hi dear, I went to buy Vitamin E but suprised and confused about its varieties. Please can you recommend the one you used. I saw one by Emzor and some imported ones that comprises 100 tabs. Is it also 1000mg? Thanks in advance for your response.
Hello dear,The Maker is by Archy's comprises of 50 soft gels.its 1000 IU.I bought it for 2k6.If peradventure u don't find this particular Maker,any other one will be fine as long as it 1000 IU.Baby dust to u 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by miraclebaby: 5:46pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
If you have a regular cycle of 28days, check for fsh,lh,prolactin and other hormones on day 3 of your cycle. You can ask the lab other important hormones to check for too on same day 3. Then check for progesterone day 21 or if you’re able to pinpoint ovulation, check 7 days after ovulation. We are doing fine by God’s Grace, thanks. Fertility blessings on you dear. mercyooGod:
dear plz guide me on how to do hormonal balance test plz including the cost, when to start? the test.
how is dh and our lo inside the womb? hope the ejiams are doing well inside the womb? |
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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Roseey0(f): 10:41am On Apr 19, 2020 |
If you have pains during your menses Read along.
There is a 100% chance that your Pelvic is inflamed. You should only have mild cramps and not pains that travel all round like some people experience.
Sometimes, inflammation starts from the vagina as just yeast infection, but as it is not properly treated, it migrates to the uterus and after a while begins to accumulate fluids, that is when scan picks it up as PID, by this time, it has eaten deeper than you can imagine. You can still arrest it at this point if you find the right cure. But what we see mostly is people treating the symptom. Once it goes away, they end treatment and think they are ok. It will surely return and when it return, it comes deadlier than before. This time, more resistant.
At this pelvic inflammatory stage, alot begins to go wrong in the pituitary gland and it's secretion of hormones (FSH and lh) because of the inflammation ongoing in the uterus. Hormonal imbalance sets in. The imbalance in hormones give rise to complications like polys, Fibroid, Uterine cyst, endometriosis, endometrial hyperplasia, adenomyosis and all
Inflammation climbs to the fallopian tube and blocks it . Sometimes with fluids(hydrosalpinx) sometimes with mucus build up which is typical on all inflammatory response.
The ovaries are not left out . It gets to the ovaries which are responsible for estrogen and progesterone secretion, invariably contributing to hormonal imbalance . Complications like ovarian cyst, endometrioma, and many more show up.
And the list continues.
Why am I writing this? We have so gotten accustomed to menstrual pain ( inflammation )that we see it as normal. Whereas , that is our body's first signal that something is going wrong in there. We suppress it with felvin and co not knowing we are only postponing our dooms day. Giving it more room to deepen it root in us.
I know you will say, pain is normal. All the ladies you know with menstrual pain are carrying their babies. Yes, it's true, but your body and that person's body is not the same. Just like the case of this Benue State Covid19 index case, She is creating scene in the news, refusing medication because she isn't showing symptoms even after weeks of isolation versus Abba kyari who didn't should signs intially buy died in isolation. That how these things play out. Your body's immunity response will determine who comes out strong and who doesn't. Aunty A may have all these and still take in anytime she tries, Aunty B may not be so lucky until she addresses the root cause. Which is inflammation.
I hope this helps someone out there to find solution comprehensively. Don't ignore that pain sis. It's only an inflamed organ that pains. Pain is not normal. You were not created to have such pain. Yes there will be mild contraction when the Uterine lining shades, but not severe pain. Find solution asap. And let it be a comprehensive solution, one that goes down to the root and not just cut off the symptoms
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