I have a former school mate. We met way back in the university. No doubt, she was an intelligent girl then and was always shinning in her department. One particular issue she had and which I also detested was her fondness for sleeping with married men/people's husbands. I really didn't know what she would be looking for since her parents provided most of the things she needed in school. She wasn't from a poor home, neither were her parents super rich but they were very comfortable and could give her what she needed. I really didn't like advising people personally, especially when they are so much engrossed in an activity. You could easily be seen as a killjoy or fun-destroyer. Though, I did couple of times but the attempts were like pouring water in a basket. Today, she would be in Awka with Engineer Julius, tomorrow, it would be in Asaba with Chief Akpofure. No value for people's matrimonial territory! No retreat, no surrender.

Well, she got married in 2010 and it was all rosy. Few years into the marriage and it was something else. No day would pass without her posting criptic lines on Facebook about cheating husbands and how 'God' would see her through. I didn't need a babalawo to tell me what has been going on. Even a dumb primary 3 pupil in a local village school would be able to tell what has been happening. I later confirmed this from another former schoolmate who worked with her in Lagos. Her past has come back to hunt her.

In as much as I sympathize with her, it's pertinent to note that some activities are enjoyable until things start going south. Nemesis doesn't forget. You can't sleep with people's husbands as a spinster and expect yours not to be sugar daddy to some young girls out there. Wetin dey go around, still dey come around. Wetin happen for fowl house, go still happen for goat house.

If you are a young woman, get focused and leave other women's husbands alone. There's a reason why they call it MARRIAGE. It's a sacred matrimony whether it's conducted in a church, mosque, shrine, court, private house or even village square. It's not a visa to success. Person wey bring wood wey ants full, nor need to complain when lizards start to visit am for house. Many young women will tell you that they are being disturbed by married men. The truth is that such girls are the ones who give married men the cushioned platform to do that. I'm very sure he's not going to beat you if you don't give him your contact details.

Finally, as a young man, beware of girls who constantly tell you that they don't do married men even when such information is not relevant to you. It's mostly the other way round; a clear conscience fears no accusation.

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Most of our girls now sees it as a norm to sleep with married men.....

OK

Ezemarcel:
Most of our girls now sees it as a norm to sleep with married men.....

There's always a reward for it. Especially, those little girls, mostly between 17 - 23. They will comfortably lick the navels of potbellied grand daddies!

To chuk person with pin dey sweet until the pin chuk you. Many days for thief one day for owner. If lie run with 3G speed, na one day truth go catch am.

She can't stop it, she shd just be praying for mercy that as she aborted for those married men she slept with so as not to scatter their home, let the girls her husband is cheating with also agree to abort too. Cus if her husband go jam confirm werey, those types weh dey say for our family if we abort the man weh own d belle go get accident die, or those girls weh sabi juju wellwell, she go turn senior wife be dat

Well said OP.

My married friends tell me they get more green light now than when they were single. These girls should stop trying to seduce married men.

AfroKnight:
Well said OP.

My married friends tell me they get more green light now than when they were single. These girls should stop trying to seduce married men.

Same folks would strangle any girl who comes close to their husband.

Rapmoney:


Same folks would strangle any girl who comes close to their husband.

True.

They start panicking when they get married and Mr Husband is looking outside. I wonder if it’s amnesia. Did they really think they would escape their karma?

They should accept their fate or divorce and stop dropping coded wise words on WhatsApp status.

Karma is beautiful bitch.

AfroKnight:


True.

They start panicking when they get married and Mr Husband is looking outside. I wonder if it’s amnesia. Did they really think they would escape their karma?

They should accept their fate or divorce and stop dropping coded wise words on WhatsApp status.

Yea, you dey observe very well. How they expect nature not to be fair is a big issue on its own.

OP good story and point noted but you blame the single girls? The married men who chase these girls and sleep with them and some of them married lecturers.
Is it only married men they sleep around with or men(married or single) who will sleep with anything for material gains .
Sleeping around be it with married or single is unacceptable. See how our society has become not to mention our campuses.

Guy, guys and girls turning themselves in for sex for money or pleasure when not married makes them no better

McBrooklyn:
And that's exactly how some ladies ended up buying market they'll keep paying for a lifetime.. Smh

I think it doesn't even matter whether one changes or not later in life.

I smell Cooked up story

blackboy:
OP good story and point noted but you blame the single girls? The married men who chase these girls and sleep with them and some of them married lecturers.
Is it only married men they sleep around with or men(married or single) who will sleep with anything for material gains .
Sleeping around be it with married or single is unacceptable. See how our society has become not to mention our campuses.

Guy, guys and girls turning themselves in for sex for money or pleasure when not married makes them no better

Sure, I understand your point of view but I focused on sleeping with married men because I think it carries a matrimonial curse or nemesis.

Same thing for a young man who sleeps with married women because he wants financial or material gratification. Nature cannot be mocked; there's a force of agreement existing when two people come together as husband and wife.

This life sef

Op ori eh wa n be...

For guys who sleep with married women for financial gratification, a time will come when younger guys would try it with your wife. It can be bring disintegration and shame to your family. If you murder her, you serve life in prison!

Oluromantic:
To chuk dey person with pin dey sweet until the pin chuk you. Many days for thief one day for owner. If lie run with 3G speed, na one day truth go catch am.

She can't stop it, she shd just be praying for mercy that as she aborted for those married men she slept with so as not to scatter their home, let the girls her husband is cheating with also agree to abort too. Cus if her husband go jam confirm werey, those types weh dey say for our family if we abort the man weh own d belle go get accident die, or those girls weh sabi juju wellwell, she go turn senior wife be dat

You too funny. E be like say you dor stay Benin before o!

my brother have you seen recently what Naija Uni Girls share on Instagram?! And surprising even the ones wey dey Secondary School...They will leave you Undulating your tongue.

See, we are not in a happy country, whatever can make you happy do jare. Nothing concern serious people with boys and girls matter or lovers problem. If you have a girlfriend going after married men dump her, you can't control someone destiny. Did you think that most girls doesn't know what they are doing, we the matured one don't give a jack! My problem with young guys of today is that they are too emotional and strange, they won't grow up to become real men like our forefathers. A girl can choose anyone as friends including married men, you don't pick their choice, I beg let our girls enjoy their life and you as a guy don't keep your eggs in one basket. Abeg make una leave me alone jare, Corona dey town.

Semperty:
I smell Cooked up story

Wow, thanks all the same.

tubolancer:
See, we are not in a happy country, whatever can make you happy do jare. Nothing concern serious people with boys and girls matter or lovers problem. If you have a girlfriend going after married men dump her, you can't control someone destiny. Did you think that most girls doesn't know what they are doing, we the matured one don't give a jack! My problem with young guys of today is that they are too emotional and strange, they won't grow up to become real men like our forefathers. A girl can choose anyone as friends including married men, you don't pick their choice, I beg let our girls enjoy their life and you as a guy don't keep your eggs in one basket. Abeg make una leave me alone jare, Corona dey town.

OK. Thanks for the contribution.

They mainly go after married men for financial gains

Whoa

80percent of girls are on this table

Many years back, i slept with the wife of a Mafia Don...

This is how it ended





There is a good story in here. Just too lazy to write...

why is she pained?

Meanwhile, Igbos and Aunty Kemi are busy throwing punches on twitter.

Most girls of nowadays sleep with married men, it has become so rampant and so bad that I can put the statistics at around 90%. And the worst part is they actually enjoy doing it, and most of them do it because of money (sugar Zaddy tinz), some do it because it's a no "commitment" relationship that gives them the pleasures of a normal relationship but without accountability and policing that normal boyfriends do. A married man doesn't have time or moral justification to be checking or monitoring her life whether she is cheating or not, after all he is a cheat too, so they enjoy being cheats together without condemning themselves. So she has her "freedom" intact while she is sleeping with a married man. They also do it because of social connections, because generally the married man is older and might have a social network that she can connect with for other benefits besides sex, like job connections or business connections. Some girls do it because of ego, they are egomaniacs but because their boyfriends are alpha males too and won't lick their shoes or kiss their ass, they run to a married man that will worship and pamper her emotionally with sweet words and call her queen all the time and fill her head with adulation and adoration lies, while she gives him the cookie jar to eat for being a good boy unlike her dictator boyfriend that dictates to her all the time. But the WORST ONES, are the girls that just do it for the THRILL of it. These ones are natural psychos, with twisted minds. THEY SLEEP WITH MARRIED MEN FOR FUN, for the fun of making themselves feel higher and better than his wife, for the fun of feeling they are too beautiful and can snatch any man they want from any woman, and for the fun of watching another woman suffer as she makes her man choose her over the wife or the fun of feeling good about a man rejecting his wife because of her..................... Fear women, after devil, na dem