[quote author=piroux post=88648354]

I don't think she's nasty or wicked. Selfish, definitely. Wicked, doubtful.

12 years with a man and you can't get him to the hospital to check himself?

That man is the wicked one! That's how they lie against God and make a mockery of spirituality.

He couldn't go and get tested, wasn't sleeping with his wife but supported her through pregnancy?! Is he Joseph? Or she's Mary?? Nonsense!!

He was more concerned about what people thought of him, his 'Man of God' status and the answer to his prayers.

He knew he was sick, he knew God hadn't answered his prayers, he knew she cheated but he would have gone with it anyway.

His reason for the suicide wasn't because the child wasn't his, it was because everyone else now knew that God hadn't answered him.[/quot
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You are 100% correct, he was more concerned of what people will say... Did he not hear Pastor Nginla and Wife story then console himself with what the wife did because his is akamu case

The thought of marriage always scare me.

crackkhaus:
There's an infestation of weak-ass men these days.

Just imagine, killing himself over a woman's infidelity...na jazz?

How old are you what do you understand about depression? Have you spent a significant part of your life working your asss off so your kids can become somebody, only to be told decades after they aren't yours? In my experience, it's actually the weak simpletons that always feel the need throw the alpha male card when issues needing different perspectives are brought to the fore. Grow up my friend.

Being a man of God, he was expecting a miracle and that was why he refused to go to the hospital. "It's a miracle working God, it's the alpha and omega, it's a miracle working God". This was his song during d naming ceremony of the child.

Rest in Peace. Who am I to judge where he is going after death. To think of it, I don't know if it's only me that don't free depress by women leaving me for another man.
The only thing that can make be succumb to that level of depression is "Lack of Money". I know money is not everything and I also know money is the only thing .

Dannyilo:
Rest in Peace. Who am I to judge where he is going after death. To think of it, I don't know if it's only me that don't free depress by women leaving me for another man.
The only thing that can make be succumb to that level of depression is "Lack of Money". I know money is not everything and I also know money is the only thing .

WISE MEN LOVE MONEY.


IT NEVER FAILS U.


IF ALL ELSE FAILS, U ARE STILL LAUGHING TO THE BANK.

Toks2008:
Every man should do a DNA test for his children especially first child who does not really look like him. Don't get me wrong, it is not a must that a child looks like the dad but if there is no form of resemblance at all i will advise the man to do a DNA test.

I ji kwa ego? If only you know how much it cost to run DNA test on a person,how much more children.Besides the day your spouse hears you did such a thing,ah your marriage is in trouble. You know what that means? You are insinuating that your wife sleeps around and you have no trust in her.

cococandy:
I think she also knew that he was aware. long before she told him. Her telling him over the phone was more like a formality.

I believe the best thing she should have done was to have the conversation with him. Look we both know you’re not the biological father of the child but we can still be married and you be a real life father to this child. And that could have been between them instead of her making it so public like that.
As long as she didn’t tell anyone else, something tells me he would have been okay with the arrangement.

Some men take infertility and impotence as the end of the world that it shouldn’t be. Especially if it’s public knowledge.

She knew why she ended everything on phone.

Both committed an act of adultery and fornication, they committed a sin

Nasarawa and bad news sef

He should have just moved on with his life and remained umarried if leaving her till she's no more, what a sad way to end one's life.

PeacenLove2:


It's very touching story, infertility of any kind is a real downer. And women get the brunt of it even if it's no fault of theirs. We will spend a whole day diving into this.

What that woman did, going to test outside is an act of desperation. Men do it all the time and heaven never falls. It's always very unfortunate for the side that seems to have lost out. 12 years of marriage, that woman cannot be very young. In an instance where she enters menopause and husband then decides to try away match and succeeds nko? Who then loses?

It's a thing of joy to become parents and should not be denied anyone at all. The husband should have been more open with his wife. They should have had a plain conversation about it so everyone knows where they stand.

Could the wife have handled this any better? Absolutely. But then that's what makes us human. May the soul of the departed rest in peace.

Amen my sister. Me of all people understand the rigmarole of infertility having experienced it at close range. My uncle and his wife didn't have their daughter until their eleventh year together...oh boy, It was a journey!

If you noticed, I wasn't beefing her for trying outside, my beef was about leading him on after. She allowed him nurtured her pregnancy, get attached to the baby, break it to him after several month via a phone call and had some much "remorse" by way of her attitude after learning of his demise. That woman is a stone cold hearted human. You dont want your family messing with her!

Neurotika:

[s]How old are you what do you understand about depression? Have you spent a significant part of your life working your asss off so your kids can become somebody, only to be told decades after they aren't yours? In my experience, it's actually the weak simpletons that always feel the need throw the alpha male card when issues needing a different perspective are brought to the fore. Grow up my friend.[/s]

Shut your putrid alternate trap.

Ok this is an old story and has been posted on front page before. R we that bored?

Some ladies are very heartless.....

dre11:
Man commits suicide after wife told him their only child was fathered by a stranger

....Husband to The Nation before killing himself: it’s a huge loss akin to a bereavement

......I only told him the truth, says wife



https://thenationonlineng.net/bizarre-man-commits-suicide-after-wife-told-him-their-only-child-was-fathered-by-a-stranger/

very wicked woman,why not divorce the man long ago, instead you have now killed him,if it were the other way,this thread will be flooded by the convenient feminists spewing thrash but now most of them have developed sudden catarrh n sneezing.

Lovelyn451:
Anytime the issue of infertility is from the man, they become secretive abt it, start acting like snakes, I'm sure he's been going to the doctor alone and hiding the result from his wife...just kept a fertile woman childless for 12yrs, not knowing what is wrong or how to help...so what then is her role as a wife in ur life, is it not to help you?

lol, you're sure?

Joefat:
My brother.. Fear woman.. Something is telling me. Are you going to married with all this now better still go for baby mama...

well said my brother, most women are evil

ibkayee:
Nigerians have a...weird way of addressing mental health and topics about suicide.

Everything about this story is just unfortunate, from his obvious medical issues and being stubborn and refusing to go to the hospital for 12 years, to his wife being frustrated into cheating on him (which I don't even blame her for), conceiving as a result, allegedly not telling the guy she cheated with about her marital status etc, to him being delusional about the baby...he could've handled the situation differently but I wouldn't necessarily call him 'weak' for committing suicide. Why are people reducing things to 'he killed himself because he got cheated on' when there's clearly a lot more depth to the story?

RIP to him sha

because the man is not alive to tell his own part of the story

most of you here defending the woman will also do same to your husbands

most of you women are naturally selfish and heartless

FEAR THE ONLY BEING THAT HAS SEEN THE DEVIL FACE TO FACE.

The way and manner some ladies here support promiscuity...hmmmm!
Agreed,the hubby refused to check his fertility status for 12 years....was that not enough reason to divorce him and find someone else!
Why remain with the hubby while fucking another guy and even get pregnant for that same guy?
Gosh!

[quote author=JasonJidenna post=88697191] If you noticed, I did not stress myself over the story...


Cyriacus and Linus are prolific in reporting lies and make-belief stories.[/quote

Thanks

Missyajoke:
Thanks

You welcome.


By the way, what happened to your other handle?

Nwanne after God fear woman dey can do and undo

SenorFax:
Like someone once said

I fear those that don't fear women.

Woman, the only thing that I'm afraid of; that wouldn't hurt me.

SweetCunt97:
Why selfishly tie a woman down with childlessness when the man knows he's impotent? Ego aside, they should have agreed to the deed as one.

tie her down?

with rope or handcuffs

be reasonable for once

why didn't she leave the marriage instead of cheating on the man?

Very very very stupid man

abbey621:


You're not making sense, did you read that he was a farmer/petty trader? Where would he see money for constant checkup/tests? Most likely he's been trying the herbal way but to no avail. He did not keep the woman childless, the woman could have left at any point in time, she had no excuse to cheat and have the man take care of her pregnancy, it is wickedness to give someone hope and then take it away, stop trying to justify such acts!

don't mind all these daughters of Jezebels, they will even do worst than the said evil woman

Richy4:
12 years.. A whole 12 years of marriage, she just ended it with a freaking phone call.. as if it was 12days.. That's the height of disregard/ disrespect of the highest order. When she got pregnant, she should have disappeared at that point knowing that the baby can't possibly be his... And he stood by her all through the pregnancy to birth..

No matter what the man has done, he doesn't deserve that kind of treatment. I wish he visited a therapist for this instead of taking his life.

I think the man is depressed aside the child's issue. The child's issue added to it because of the shame when ppl in the neighborhood start asking whereabout of his supposed son and he will have no answer to give. It's such a pity Sha.

Fear woman. Is only God, Satan & eve that knew what really transpired between Satan & Eve. They keep selling tales to us. Of which it might not be true.

ngwababe:


If na woman get issue for marriage, and has refused to seek for medical help, and still don't Bleep you, won't you cheat on her? Na question i ask oo.

I will divorce her instead

this is wicked