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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by fmwise2k(m): 7:46pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by EzzyCarter: 7:46pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by stanisbaratheon: 7:47pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Anumpama: It's not a matter of good or bad, it is a natural phenomenon. There is no way a parent can love his/her children equally. It's not possible. 2 Likes |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by NevetsIbot(m): 7:47pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Tcheeeeew. Upon the super fast space booking.. I still landed in 2nd page. I'm commenting no more abeg 1 Like |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Deicide: 7:48pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
With time you'll get used to it 1 Like |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by HeavenlyHolines(m): 7:48pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Na normal thing so likewise with two or three wives. U can't love all ur children to be factual equally. It mostly occurred among large family. There must always be or want to be a Judas among them. The best is don't show or say it among the children 3 Likes |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Sheriman(m): 7:49pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Surely it happens in every home especially African home.. parents do love one child over others. Joseph was his father favorite amongst his other brethren. Though if it too much it can cause jealousy and hatred |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by tammie24: 7:49pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
That's irresponsible 1 Like |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Truthbites: 7:51pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Very normal. God loved Jacob more than Esau. Whites are Jacob. Blacks are Esau. Africa will suffer till the end of time.na God talk so 1 Like |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Favy1235(f): 7:52pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Here my mum likes my 3rd sister more no matter how much she tries to hide it it always shows. To her she is always right |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Ablemax(m): 7:52pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
vickydankal: This touching 3 Likes |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Alwaysachick: 7:53pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Wrong....it breeds envy and jealousy. Its like sowing an evil seed. But I guess its human nature to always have preference. But whatever you do, don't make others feel less of themselves. 2 Likes |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Victor08032(m): 7:53pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
WHY DID JESUS CHRIST LOVED JOHN MORE THAN THE OTHERS DISCIPLES (12) WHY DID JACOB LOVED JOSEPH MORE THAN HIS CHILDREN BRETHREN (12) WHY DID ODUNDUWA LOVED OROMIYAN MORE THAN HIS CHILDREN (7) THE REASON I HAVE FOR MY SON I BELOVED HIM MORE THAN HIS SISTER, IT IS BECAUSE HE MY AREMO |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Anny505(m): 7:53pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Even God himself had his favorite between Esau and Jacob right from their mother's womb. Jacob I love, Esau I hate 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by callmeRichie(m): 7:56pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
[quote author=Anumpama post=88697483] Well it's normal and inevitable. But don't fucking show it!! As in at all!! Favourism is a joy killer jare, kids would just end up beefing themselves for life. They would just b like "i don't just like my brother" 3 Likes |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Ytea(f): 7:58pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
I really think it's quite unavoidable. Even I as an older sibling, loves one younger sibling more than the other. I'm not the parents' favourite. I think it's just what it is. Just know how to use sense to go about it. 1 Like |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by afecgivers: 7:59pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
[quote author=Anumpama post=88697483]Dear nairalanders . This question have been bothering me for long . Is it good for parents to love one of their child more than one. What is your view? [/quote What happened between Isaac and easy...no b today |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Nobody: 8:00pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Some children are just more impressive than others. I think the right word is "impress". Some parents are more impressed with some of their children. Mr Father, God bless his soul, loved me me so much because he was impressed by my academic performance and street wiseness. I was always coming first in class. |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by aduwak: 8:01pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
I am the only child, but still not the favourite. 4 Likes |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Nerro042: 8:01pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
babyfaceafrica: E b like say your "v" button no de work 1 Like |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by starbuck(f): 8:01pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
It's just natural and there's no how one can avoid it... Besides it usually occurs when one is the last kid or child in the family... But as a parent in order to Avoid siblings rivalry , do not relate with your children individually, bond them together, create an inseparable scenarios amongst them. As the last kid too, my parents loves me a lot that initially my siblings started developing envy and jealous towards me because i was given everything that i requested for even till this my adulthood, but as time went on, my 2 brothers were got to understand the whole scenario as it was unavoidable (as they said, i am a beautiful soul on my own) but up till this moment, i don't see eye to eye with my only sister because she once told me right in front of my siblings and parents that no matter what happens, she will never like me, that she doesn't know the reason why all my requests are being granted.. I wish don't make the same mistake because right at this moment, i love my last kid, he's like my favorite always tagging along with me... 3 Likes |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Nobody: 8:02pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
I was always the favorite of my parent because I was precocious, and my precociousness led me to not revel and sometimes reject this favoritism, guess at first it was my fault as I could be a bit manipulative and could spot out bs and align myself to be on the power end of most association. 1 Like |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Lisa001: 8:02pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
It normal to love a child more than the other children but it's so bad to make it obvious,my mother loves our kid brother more than us because of the complications she had during his birth according to her She made it obvious but it created Envy and Jealousy amidst us I vowed never to do that to my children 8 Likes |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by scanado(m): 8:02pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by babyfaceafrica: 8:02pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Nerro042:lol.. No vez |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by gift2xl: 8:02pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Same thing with children having there own favorite, "Mum or dad". 1 Like |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by OgbanjeProphet: 8:02pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
It's not good! It's not good! It's not good!.. If you love my brother pass me and I know it. If eventually I become richer than my brother and he is not capable enough to provide all your need,...?? You know the answer! Even if you love one better, never make it obvious or you will regret later. Na you born them, but no be you hold their fate.
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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Uyi168: 8:03pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
sherylbakky:.. We said... I doubt if as a parent u can love all yuur kids equally.. |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Kimzo: 8:04pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
As much as some parents don't want to show it, just so the other child/children won't feel bad, there is always that one child love more by either the Dad or Mum.. Before my Dad died, may his soul rest in peace, in a family of 5 children, he would call me once he gets his Salary and ask what foodstuff we need to buy, once we are done, my Mum would say it's not my duty to check as I am not even the first nor second born, but the man just feel more relaxed talking to me as I am with him, he gave me my nickname, and uptil today I am the only child that got a nick from him |
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Ambber(f): 8:04pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
It’s the worst thing any parent can do showing they prefer one child to the other. Congratulations if you are such a parent for taking a discount on your child’s self worth before others get a chance. Don’t do it. Build up your child and do not dent his or her confidence. Don’t compare your kids. Would you like it if they compare you to Dangote? |
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