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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by naijaschoolguru(m): 8:23pm On Apr 21, 2020
There is nothing bad in it but don't make it obvious.
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by wifeesnatcher(m): 8:24pm On Apr 21, 2020
angry


my mom made it obvious in fact every time. she really love my elder bro more than anyone else despite he did nothing to them and her most esp. her attitude never deterred me from doing my part for her, I'm not using this to proud but I've done more far for her than my brother who has huge income than I do


my dad that would have been enjoying my concerns too have nonchalant attitude for everybody but I'm gonna face and focus on my family once I'm married and do what a son can do for his parents

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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by buikem2: 8:24pm On Apr 21, 2020
It's normal. But as people have said should minimise possibility of being too obvious. Me sef i do it too, but try not letting them know

My mum once gave me 1 million and told me not to tell anyone.

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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by bukatyne(f): 8:24pm On Apr 21, 2020
aduwak:
I am the only child, but still not the favourite.

grin
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Nobody: 8:25pm On Apr 21, 2020
If that should happen in a family ,then resentment will develop.
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Nobody: 8:25pm On Apr 21, 2020
Its something that happens unplanned. So, you can't help it as you find yourself more attached to one than the other. But if you can control it, good. Where it is not good is when you begin show it to the extent they now get to notice it.

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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by janeyjoys: 8:25pm On Apr 21, 2020
We all are prone to "unconscious bias".
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by ayanbaba2(m): 8:26pm On Apr 21, 2020
NevetsIbot:
Tcheeeeew. Upon the super fast space booking.. I still landed in 2nd page.

I'm commenting no more abeg undecided undecided undecided undecided


keep it then!

Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by brainfordetails: 8:29pm On Apr 21, 2020
It's very wrong for any parent to love one more than the other. That's one of the antics of the devil to destroy a family against God's wishes.

If any parent is doing such, rebellion is sure in that family.

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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by openmine(m): 8:31pm On Apr 21, 2020
Anumpama:
Dear nairalanders
.
This question have been bothering me for long
.
Is it good for parents to love one of their child more than one.

What is your view?
Very wrong!
This will create hostility in the family!
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by ayanbaba2(m): 8:32pm On Apr 21, 2020
freeman4ever:
That's why the oyibos most times give birth to just a single child to avoid this

QED

Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by omonnakoda: 8:34pm On Apr 21, 2020
freeman4ever:
That's why the oyibos most times give birth to just a single child to avoid this
Oyibos most times have one child?
This is based on information from

A. The bible
B. The Quran
C. IFA
D . Lai Mohammed?
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by ayanbaba2(m): 8:34pm On Apr 21, 2020
omonnakoda:
Depends on what you mean by "love" Some parents show their love by flogging the shit outa you

Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Nobody: 8:34pm On Apr 21, 2020
ayanbaba2:


QED


Just like I plan to do.

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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Nobody: 8:35pm On Apr 21, 2020
If it's the last born,no problems.Every other family members will join to love you.

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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Shedrachmessi(m): 8:38pm On Apr 21, 2020
It is non good at all
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by apex5702: 8:39pm On Apr 21, 2020
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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Ginaz(f): 8:41pm On Apr 21, 2020
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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Nobody: 8:45pm On Apr 21, 2020
My parents "like" me more than my two brothers flanking me on both age sides.
Apparently, I'm the most understanding and easy to deal with.
Puts me in an awkward position at times.

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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Nobody: 8:45pm On Apr 21, 2020
They dont do it intentionally, it's just human nature to pick a favorite.

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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Pharaoh350s(m): 8:45pm On Apr 21, 2020
Don't be bothered
It's natural ,
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Iretee: 8:46pm On Apr 21, 2020
IT HAPPENED ALLOT BUT ITS VERY WRONG,.
GOD DID IT TO CAIN, YOU KNOW HOW THE STORY END, PARENTS SHOULD BE WON IF YOU CARE FOR THE ONE YOU TRULY LOVE

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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Elvisanderson: 8:47pm On Apr 21, 2020
No matter how unbiased parents tend to be towards their children, the truth is that parents always tend to love the child that does well the most.

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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Nobody: 8:49pm On Apr 21, 2020
aduwak:
I am the only child, but still not the favourite.
Mad o cheesy cheesy
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by ddippset(m): 8:51pm On Apr 21, 2020
buikem2:
It's normal. But as people have said should minimise possibility of being too obvious. Me sef i do it too, but try not letting them know

My mum once gave me 1 million and told me not to tell anyone.
lol

What if she gave one of your siblings 2 million and told them not to tell anyone?

grin

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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Stefenijoan002(f): 8:54pm On Apr 21, 2020
DanseMacabre:
Funny enough no matter how much a parent tries to hide it, it is usually an open secret. At least favourite children always know. To take it further, most times each parent has their own favourite. cheesy
exactly
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Lamanii22(f): 8:55pm On Apr 21, 2020
Dear God, help me to love my children equally... Let there be no preference... Let it be equal....


In my family, my loves us but my brother is most preferred, it's obvious... My brother's nice to everyone so there isn't any reason for me to feel jealous...

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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by bereto(m): 8:57pm On Apr 21, 2020
This is a problem because physical show of love is a taboo to African parents.
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Reference(m): 8:58pm On Apr 21, 2020
Anumpama:
Dear nairalanders
.
This question have been bothering me for long
.
Is it good for parents to love one of their child more than one.

What is your view?

Nothing good can come out of it but potential disaster. We are created in the image of God having no biases around our seed. If God doesn't treat us that way then where do we get such nature.

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Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by aimmoney9: 8:59pm On Apr 21, 2020
IT IS UBIQUITOUS IN EVERY HOUSEHOLD AND NATURAL TOO.
AND ONE THING ABOUT LOVE IS THAT IT WILL ALWAYS SHOW NO MATTER HOW U TRY TO HIDE IT.
I WOULD SAY WHILE PARENTS CANNOT CONTROL IT THEY SHOULD ALSO DO THEIR BEST TO TREAT ALL THEIR CHILDREN EQUALLY
Anumpama:
Dear nairalanders
.
This question have been bothering me for long
.
Is it good for parents to love one of their child more than one.

What is your view?
Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by Jonah507(m): 9:03pm On Apr 21, 2020
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