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Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Nobody: 12:56pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Guys and girls, Stories like these are not uncommon even among our parents. And there are simple explanations I've come up with based on my readings and little experience. 1. People who had premarital sex are more likely to have extramarital affairs. The reason is simple, research has shown that couples who have had multiple sexual partners where reported to be less satisfied with their spouse in the bedroom. 2. People who are liberal/open minded to sex out of marriage are more likely to have extramarital affairs. For most people their first sexual experience was full of guilt and shame, but as they continued indulge, that guilt went away and became normal, making it possible for them to go from one body count to 30 body count or more. Having this open mind to sex leaves the average married person more likely to cheat without remorse, cuz sex has become just a chore and not longer a bonding and soul sharing experience. 3. People with multiple sexual partners always have a league of friends (Male or female) who they can easily call and have such experience because the bond has been created years back. This is why when married people meet one of their ex , the feelings they have is still there so they are susceptible to sharing that hot passion one more tine. Now, imagine someone that has 5, 10, 20, or 30 of those kind of people. Such a person if married without resolving those issues is a time bond waiting to go off. 4. People who engaged in premarital sex will most likely have found a size(pen.is or vagi.na)/sex style/fetish they like which their spouse may not be able to live up. This may leave them wanting that old experience and fantasizing about their old partners in marriage; thus, when they meet that person they found to be their "ideal", they will want to share that hot passion again. POSSIBLE SOLUTION TO THE ABOVE For any person seeking to get married, the best way to break the sexual link with their ex is to abstain from sex for 12 months to 18 months before marriage. This will teach your body to ignore sexual feelings and live without indulging in sex. This is not an easy journey because in the case where you are already having sex with your current boyfriend/girlfriend deciding to stop will become near impossible. But ultimately, you both must agree to abstain from sex completely for 12 months minimum. Nowadays we have couples cohabiting already before marriage, this is a recipe for disaster and will only lead to marital dissatisfaction. Marriage does not solve promiscuity, so if you sleep around before marriage (even with your so called boy/girlfriend) the same thing will happen after marriage. Somewhere down the line, years later something will come up and you will fall as long as you have not dealt with the issue. If you are already married and didnt address this issues before tieing the knot, joy your marriage and hope for the best. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Liliantalks: 12:56pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Chi59:mad oo |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by AfroKnight: 12:57pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar: Wow! Can you imagine daughters of eve? They are rushing married man like ice cream. Married men are trying. 2 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by KLand(m): 12:59pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Thanks for speaking out against this. Ladies, help men to refrain from adultery. Likewise men, please don't lure women into adultery. It is not good. 2 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Treasuredvessel: 12:59pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Unfortunately life is not always in black and white,should you decide to stay chaste ,don't do it in the hope that someone will reward you in future,do it because you believe in it and your values,bad happens to good people and good happens to bad people,and human beings will disgrace you.Life is not fair. 12 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by AsawanaDgreat: 1:01pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
With all these advice now, some girls will still not hear it. 4 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Meteng: 1:01pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
My question is, what if you don't sleep with someone's husband,but when you marry, young girls constantly sleep with yours? 4 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Franking: 1:01pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Are u saying married men should only be sleeping with married women? Take ur time o. I know say girls no go even hear that one. |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Liliantalks: 1:01pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
tubolancer:Thank you |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Nobody: 1:04pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Faysuze:Nairaland people will never see this one. Sometimes the married man is the one who pursues relentlessly but those bats will not see it. Only to be cussing single ladies as if they are the cause of their problems in life. 2 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Wayne4uall(m): 1:04pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
nokatakata: Yea.. May b u are right... The most important be say.. Make God give us money so that they won't use car with tinted glass to carry our girl or wife 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by JuanDeDios: 1:05pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rapmoney:Rapmoney, you write very well. Do you write professionally? Would you like to pursue a writing-related career? |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Jaqenhghar: 1:05pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
AfroKnight:Hehehehe. The thing tire me. The irony was he wanted us to go swimming so I can catch a babe. He was chastising me for being single. As we reach na him babes come dey show love. I just weak 5 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by ojuu4u(m): 1:06pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Wayne4uall: Of course single guys are supposed to be taking care than married men , but how many of them? Less than 10%.......single guys break heart of girls farrrrr more than married men. Married men give attention to girls farrrrr more than single....... As a result, they fall easily.... Go and ask girls that dated married men, they had been heartbroken by single guys times without number. |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by drmikeadams(m): 1:06pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
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Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Delite01(f): 1:07pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
As far as I'm concerned ladies have no excuse whatsoever to sleep with married men. Because the only thing they want from you is your body, they don't even love you not to talk of wanted to leave their wives for you. You are just a sex machine. I think it's only lazy ass ladies with no self worth that sleeps around especially with married men for financial gain. Thou some wealthy married men might want to entice and influence you with their money just to sleep with you speaking from experience but no amount of money can quantify your dignity and moral uprightness as a lady because after the sex and the money what else? Nothing I guess. You can make such money yourself if you are hard working, focus and ambitious in life. The most important virtue ladies should try and imbibe is contentedness, be ok and satisfied with the little you have and can get from people around you without you have to sleep around or sell your body for money. 15 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by AfroKnight: 1:08pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar: ![]() Can you just imagine the irony. They can’t tell me they didn’t see his wedding ring. Wetin dem dey find? 2 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Newboss(m): 1:09pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
See, let me tell you the truth. Married or single, a man is a man, and a woman is a woman. All it takes to be married is to sign a paper. All it takes to be unmarried is to sign a paper. In some societies, if you and your spouse have been away from each other for a period of time, you are free to remarry. Let's put sentiments aside and look at things with clear eyes. Marriage is just another societal construct. That woman you call your wife is and will always be a stranger (highest a friend). That man you call your husband is and will always be a stranger (highest a friend). They can drop your ass the next minute because of ... anything imaginable. Don't make a mountain out of a molehill 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Nobody: 1:09pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Liliantalks:Exactly my sister. If DNA test becomes mandatory in Nigeria today, a lot of married women will commit suicide. Married women commit as much abortion as single women and some of them have affairs with married men. But these nairaland bats are busy barking up against the wrong tree. |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Liliantalks: 1:09pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Chi59:babe u said fact, they pay more attention to ur feelings and emotions, they r Married but know how to make u feel wanted and appreciated, They r good listeners , and yes better givers. Getting men of all those qualities combined is very very hard. 2 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Liliantalks: 1:10pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Chi59:na them sabi ![]() |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Jaqenhghar: 1:10pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rapmoney:Thay last bit you put there. Truth 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Nobody: 1:11pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Liliantalks:Gbam! 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Galactico4ever(m): 1:11pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
I thought chy59 and liliantalks were not on the same page? anyway you guys should continue lighting up the thread 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by drmikeadams(m): 1:13pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
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Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Haywhymido(m): 1:14pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
TheFacelessMan:do grace us with that story bro, u never can tell one or two lessons may be learnt from it 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Nobody: 1:14pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Galactico4ever:You done? |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by pocohantas(f): 1:15pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Delite01: Tell that to Regina and Sade Okoya. Snow white, FFK’s wife. The late Stella Obasanjo. Etc... 3 Likes |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by drmikeadams(m): 1:17pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
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Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Nobody: 1:19pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
There is a problem and no one is trying to solve it or have preferred a solution to it, and instead people are here spewing sanctimonious trash. God ab initio made it possible for a man to be with more than one woman if he so chooses. Look everywhere in the animal kingdom. The alpha males always have a harem of females at their beck and call. And so it was in the olden days and old testament. Women were fine with it until lesser men got to making laws and in a bid to ensure that Alpha males do not keep monopolizing all the women, they passed the laws we know today to accommodate one man , one wife. However, that gave rise to the following problems : 1. Alpha males still exist. Women still want them even when they settle for "lesser" men. 2. Most women are primed to respond to mainly alpha males. Any attempt to be with any "lesser man" results in disaster. 3. This now decreased the incentive for men to actually upgrade themselves to alpha male levels since the thinking is that after all, we have solved the problem by enacting a one man , one wife law. 4. More women are born, more than men and they survive longer at any age range. What happens to the excess women? 5. Being an alpha male has always involved having some wealth at any point. How many wealthy men are available in the whole world. 6. How possible is it for non wealthy man to be with a woman who has primed herself for an alpha male? These are real problems and cannot be wished away. Just like we do not have solution for how very poor people will survive during this covid-19 and just assume somehow things will take care of themselves, but they dont. Same way we think that by quoting the bible and using man-made laws that goes against natural design will just not work. We need a much more better solution. Genital Mutilation is also an option. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Odion2016(m): 1:19pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Wat about Regina?? |
Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Galactico4ever(m): 1:20pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Chi59:"Done" as in? i've been a silent listener till now |
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