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Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by jamesxay: 10:33pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Hello everyone, I'm in a sort of huge mess right now. I met this girl years ago and I asked her out for a serious relationship after noticing I liked her, things were ok (mind you no sex) until I moved to Katsina for a handwork training, work was too much, food was little and communication between me and her was poor. I felt broke and useless to her and decided to call it quits just to ease her of the many bills I could not afford. She was kind, understanding and an angel but I knew I had to because I felt she deserved more, then slowly I just did not feel the deep love there anymore but I still really cared. Now na where the wahala start be this, after I called her on phone and told her everything and why, she agreed. But then she started calling, texting and it became an obsession, I felt her pain and she would try her best to just get me to text her goodnight. I tried to stop communication to ease but it seems she breakup made her worse. Her family members were beginning to call me and I was lost at some point. I returned to Adamawa to get a better Job after perfecting my handwork and since then she calls and cries for me to see her. I go to visit her (still no sex) but no matter how I try I cant find or create that love anymore. She now cries and texts me always that no one loves her and I am scared she might hurt herself because she Is very emotional, I have handled her with care but the case gets worse everyday, I dont know what to do anymore. I want to move on with my life and make sure she's fine and moved on too. |
Re: Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by Bullet01(f): 10:41pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
jamesxay: I will advice you tomorrow. Na from my dream I de type this. |
Re: Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by Ningen(m): 10:44pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
You break up, you move. It's her responsibility as an adult to accept the situation and move on too. You are not allowed to feel sorry and neither is it your responsibility to help her move on. Your only job was to make it a clean break which you did. Now delete her contact. Time to end the emotional blackmail. 4 Likes |
Re: Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by landmark86: 10:53pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Op I gat no time to read all the b*llshit up there. But the simple trick is that tell her u are Covid-19 positive simple & come and thank me later ![]() But u be thief ooooo after chopping her u want to drop her right?
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Re: Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by JAOS(m): 11:05pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
use a microphone and yell "LEAVE ME ALONE" at her face that will solve it |
Re: Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by jamesxay: 11:06pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
landmark86: Thank you my brother. But where did you see that I wrote "I chop her"? What is your problem, Don't furious me like the other op from two weeks ago. |
Re: Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by jamesxay: 11:07pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
JAOS:Thank you sir. Akanni the great Sound engineer. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by landmark86: 11:11pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
jamesxay: Oya swear u neva taste her ![]()
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Re: Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by mascot87(m): 3:53am On Apr 23, 2020 |
What do you foolish guys mean by "breaking up with her without her hurting herself " Hurt herself for who? You guys keep deceiving yourself. Hurt herself ko cold herself ni. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by jamesxay: 7:13am On Apr 23, 2020 |
mascot87: This is misleading, you better realize that different people have different take on breakup. |
Re: Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by gunners160(m): 7:20am On Apr 23, 2020 |
Ningen:menh, u are heartless. Don't listen to this guy oo |
Re: Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by gunners160(m): 7:24am On Apr 23, 2020 |
I don't want to advice going before but after reading almost all the comments here, I knew all of them are misleading and most of them are still sucking there mum's breast 1. There is nothing bad in seeking for self development in fact you made a right choice 2. Yes, developing yourself is good but that does not mean u should end a nice relationship just because of that. You still need some one to plan your future with 3. You are just too selfish. The fact that you were able to move on fast does not mean everyone is like You. Some people love with all there heart and it is not there fault but they just can't help it. 4. Continue with this lady and both of you should develop yourself, it is a win win situation 5. If you decide to leave, she will cry and wail but she will definitely move on and with time you will regret why you were stupid stay safe 1 Like |
Re: Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by colorsofrainbow: 7:26am On Apr 23, 2020 |
Op this one u keep emphasizing "no sex" upandan,u dey fear make we tell u say d race wey U pick no be here after U don chop clean mouth finish ![]() Nobody ask u nah
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Re: Help Me How Do I Break Up With Her Without Her Hurting Herself by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:32am On Apr 23, 2020 |
Is that even possible not to hurt her, with the way she's obsessed with you ?? |
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