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Re: by Shormiey(m): 3:00pm On Apr 23, 2020
myles16:




I swear, the one wey dey my hand i no sure say i dey number 13 sef coz, her chat with other guys on facebook sef show say i be nobody, and she fit swear with God like..... I stopped trusting ladies
You know lie.....they will deny you when money is involved..

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Re: by Shormiey(m): 3:03pm On Apr 23, 2020
NyenwePHC:
sad
Is she your wife? Better save your energy for something better, trust me, its not worth it at all in this time of uncertainty pervading our climes. I understand your point but, you should quietly quit the relationship
Which kind of mentality is this one now ....."is she your wife"?. Instead of you to tell him that dude is dating himself cuz that girl doesn't give a damn about him she is only concern of the other guy's fiancee... undecided

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Re: by myles16(m): 3:06pm On Apr 23, 2020
Shormiey:

You know lie.....they will deny you when money is involved..



i no even dey surprised, even her friends sef....All these modern girls, Na even grace of God u go use see the 1 wey never cut belle, Forget about virgin sef

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Re: by Shormiey(m): 3:09pm On Apr 23, 2020
myles16:




i no even dey surprised, even her friends sef....All these modern girls, Na even grace of God u go use see the 1 wey never cut belle, Forget about virgin sef
Once you expose a virgin to sex you are in for it.....she will switch gear from 5 to 1 lobatan. undecided

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Re: by bennyblings(m): 3:11pm On Apr 23, 2020
Always remember in this life nobody owes u nada,stop getting worked up by a cheating hoe.

You should be grateful to God that she ain't ur wife yet.
Na jail u go enter if u kill person pikin.
Re: by ipobarethieves: 3:12pm On Apr 23, 2020
sad ToyboyAaron sad. Don’t Fuk dat girl/do anything that will soil ur family name/reputation if u have any.Free her/ur mind from useless pipu.D guy just Dey deceived her.The moment she get belle,he”ll kick her fl@t Yansh out.U might jammed her at bus stop hawking Pure water/Pepsi up/down iyana ipaja.There are responsible girl out there,no hurry in life

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Re: by Nobody: 3:16pm On Apr 23, 2020
If that chat is truly hers, yes sir, she had sex with him and na without condom sef. Period

When dating a lady, don't assume you are her lord and you'll be safe from emotional breakdown.

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Re: by PERVENCHE: 3:18pm On Apr 23, 2020
Davash222:

When dating a Nigerian girl, the safest way to remain sane is to assume you're her 13th boyfriend.
WORD ma Nigga! 'most' girls are like a bridge, you are not to claim ownership and stay put. you are just to pass through and enjoy the services they provide.

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Re: by Mykel51(m): 3:20pm On Apr 23, 2020
She is a LIAR and a CHEAT... I understand you have anger issues. Don't do what might land you in the police net... She was never for you bro....she doesn't love you...

Break up with her in a very solemn way...leave no space for foolish explanations or tears... Walk her out and warn her to NEVER COME BACK !!!

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Re: by Homguy(m): 3:20pm On Apr 23, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:
I have been in this relationship for almost 3 years now... I never knew I could love a lady this much because I am the kind of guy that doesn't give a sh*t. Things started changing when we started working at different places. She have a neighbour that claims he loves her and wants to marry her. I warned her about the guy and she assured me nothing will ever happen.
Few weeks ago she confessed to me that she dated him late last year just to push him away by frustrating him. She started with she must confessed she cheated on me, i almost stopped breathing and asked sex? She said no she dated the guy. I was shocked because the way she demonstrated her love to me makes me believe nothing can ever go wrong from her side. I forgave her after she explained the whole incident claiming there was no kiss or sex.
She visited me today and slept off, I decided to read her chat with this man. Guess what? They actually kissed because he said he can't focus after the day he kissed her. Scrolling down I got the biggest shock of my life. She asked... What if she was pregnant.
What do I need? I must confess I have anger issues and wants answers almost immediately (I don't get violent but I might yell and refuse talking for long if not clarified) she's sleeping now peacefully and I am at the verge of exploding. How can I demand answers calmly. Please experienced folks calm me down.
they fu*cked, thats the only reason she woild ask him that. You dating a public property. Do you think she would have told you they kossed and f*cked herself ?

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Re: by ToyBoyAaron(m): 3:26pm On Apr 23, 2020
Mykel51:
She is a LIAR and a CHEAT... I understand you have anger issues. Don't do what might land you in the police net... She was never for you bro....she doesn't love you...

Break up with her in a very solemn way...leave no space for foolish explanations or tears... Walk her out and warn her to NEVER COME BACK !!!
Easy to say. I loved this girl to the extent if we have a quarrel I find it hard to sleep.

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Re: by Seandisputed(m): 3:30pm On Apr 23, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:

Easy to say. I loved this girl to the extent if we have a quarrel I find it hard to sleep.
Your mumu never do
I like you jare. Ride on.

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Re: by kingbasuraiii(m): 3:33pm On Apr 23, 2020
the thing is don't trust anything in a skirt even bobrisky. ladies have this penchant for cheating and acting holy and if you ask them, they'll tell you it's nothing, nothing happened
just have it at the back of your mind that you're dating in the rubbish bro

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Re: by Shormiey(m): 3:34pm On Apr 23, 2020
Seandisputed:

Your mumu never do
I like you jare. Ride on.
His mumu never do truly

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Re: by kingbasuraiii(m): 3:36pm On Apr 23, 2020
PERVENCHE:

WORD ma Nigga! 'most' girls are like a bridge, you are not to claim ownership and stay put. you are just to pass through and enjoy the services they provide.
True bro, there's this girl I've been seeing now for quite a while, the day I just asked out of the blue to check her phone cuz she always check mine, come and see defensive formation wey pass Mourinho own. she just tell me say if I see am, my heart go break so since then I've just been treating her like a normal friend

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Re: by pmoye(m): 3:41pm On Apr 23, 2020
What exactly is going on with this generation?
How come most young men and women find it difficult to sort their own matters out instead of bringing it to the SM?
You have the hard facts staring you corocoro and you're here asking people what to do.

Well, if you must ask, pardon her. And when she gets impregnated by the other man, you should still pardon her. Just keep pardoning her you hear? Good boy.

ToyBoyAaron:
I have been in this relationship for almost 3 years now... I never knew I could love a lady this much because I am the kind of guy that doesn't give a sh*t. Things started changing when we started working at different places. She have a neighbour that claims he loves her and wants to marry her. I warned her about the guy and she assured me nothing will ever happen.
Few weeks ago she confessed to me that she dated him late last year just to push him away by frustrating him. She started with she must confessed she cheated on me, i almost stopped breathing and asked sex? She said no she dated the guy. I was shocked because the way she demonstrated her love to me makes me believe nothing can ever go wrong from her side. I forgave her after she explained the whole incident claiming there was no kiss or sex.
She visited me today and slept off, I decided to read her chat with this man. Guess what? They actually kissed because he said he can't focus after the day he kissed her. Scrolling down I got the biggest shock of my life. She asked... What if she was pregnant.
What do I need? I must confess I have anger issues and wants answers almost immediately (I don't get violent but I might yell and refuse talking for long if not clarified) she's sleeping now peacefully and I am at the verge of exploding. How can I demand answers calmly. Please experienced folks calm me down.

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Re: by myles16(m): 3:45pm On Apr 23, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:

Easy to say. I loved this girl to the extent if we have a quarrel I find it hard to sleep.



Please learn how to sleep without her, coz you're going to feel this thing for a while

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Re: by Mykel51(m): 3:49pm On Apr 23, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:

Easy to say. I loved this girl to the extent if we have a quarrel I find it hard to sleep.

Love

You saw all that and you still love ?... You deserve her type ! Pet her when she wakes up, Loverboy wink
Re: by Realist1(m): 3:49pm On Apr 23, 2020
Firstly try to contain your anger so that you don't go and kill her,that will put you in jail for life.You need to move on.They had sex alright, there is no way that didn’t happen because they won't be talking about pregnancy now.I'd advice you not to ask her more questions,the details she will provide will make the pains more and linger on longer.You need to focus on shortening your heartbreak recovery time now grin.

I understand you want to let off some anger by inflicting pain on her as well.If you know you bought her flat screen TV for her,inflict your anger on that then grin. Don't be too hard on yourself time will definitely heal your wound. It may seem impossible now,it surely will.You just have to make up your mind and move on and the rest will fall into place.Goodluck !

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Re: by Ishilove: 3:49pm On Apr 23, 2020
I'm more concerned about the battery. It is 2% and you're still pressing the phone cry

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Re: by ToyBoyAaron(m): 3:53pm On Apr 23, 2020
Ishilove:
I'm more concerned about the battery. It is 2% and you're still pressing the phone cry
Lol. I said I loved her
Now all I feel is complete disgust. I can handle it myself but I have anger issues that was why I was looking for a way that won't trigger the anger. I am taking a step right now. Thanks for all the advice. This won't happen again by the grace of God.

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Re: by SeverusSnape(m): 3:55pm On Apr 23, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:

Easy to say. I loved this girl to the extent if we have a quarrel I find it hard to sleep.
I pity you after seeing this comment. Don't worry, Please continue with her.
Keep being a cuckold.

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Re: by PERVENCHE: 3:56pm On Apr 23, 2020
kingbasuraiii:
True bro, there's this girl I've been seeing now for quite a while, the day I just asked out of the blue to check her phone cuz she always check mine, come and see defensive formation wey pass Mourinho own.

������� no be small parking the bus
Re: by Nobody: 3:58pm On Apr 23, 2020
op in ur mind u think u dating this girl but in actual fact u not dating her.dat a girl give u free kpomo chop doesnt make her ur girlfreind cheesy

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Re: by sylvez(m): 4:12pm On Apr 23, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:
I have been in this relationship for almost 3 years now... I never knew I could love a lady this much because I am the kind of guy that doesn't give a sh*t. Things started changing when we started working at different places. She have a neighbour that claims he loves her and wants to marry her. I warned her about the guy and she assured me nothing will ever happen.
Few weeks ago she confessed to me that she dated him late last year just to push him away by frustrating him. She started with she must confessed she cheated on me, i almost stopped breathing and asked sex? She said no she dated the guy. I was shocked because the way she demonstrated her love to me makes me believe nothing can ever go wrong from her side. I forgave her after she explained the whole incident claiming there was no kiss or sex.
She visited me today and slept off, I decided to read her chat with this man. Guess what? They actually kissed because he said he can't focus after the day he kissed her. Scrolling down I got the biggest shock of my life. She asked... What if she was pregnant.
What do I need? I must confess I have anger issues and wants answers almost immediately (I don't get violent but I might yell and refuse talking for long if not clarified) she's sleeping now peacefully and I am at the verge of exploding. How can I demand answers calmly. Please experienced folks calm me down.

That explosion you mentioned will solve the problem, just explode my guy!!!!
Re: by Twoclans(f): 4:15pm On Apr 23, 2020
It's a double cheating,even the guy she is cheating with has a fiance.

@OP this one you are saying anger issues dont go and kill somebodys child.

Wake her up look her in the eyes and tell her the relationship is over,tell her to go to her neighbor.Regardless of your decision it does not mean the next girl you date won't cheat on you.

I know a guy who has been cheated on by every girl he dated .Somehow I got to talk with two different girls he dated and they both said the same thing .Same reason they were all cheating

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Re: by ashawopikin(m): 4:24pm On Apr 23, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:
I have been in this relationship for almost 3 years now... I never knew I could love a lady this much because I am the kind of guy that doesn't give a sh*t. Things started changing when we started working at different places. She have a neighbour that claims he loves her and wants to marry her. I warned her about the guy and she assured me nothing will ever happen.
Few weeks ago she confessed to me that she dated him late last year just to push him away by frustrating him. She started with she must confessed she cheated on me, i almost stopped breathing and asked sex? She said no she dated the guy. I was shocked because the way she demonstrated her love to me makes me believe nothing can ever go wrong from her side. I forgave her after she explained the whole incident claiming there was no kiss or sex.
She visited me today and slept off, I decided to read her chat with this man. Guess what? They actually kissed because he said he can't focus after the day he kissed her. Scrolling down I got the biggest shock of my life. She asked... What if she was pregnant.
What do I need? I must confess I have anger issues and wants answers almost immediately (I don't get violent but I might yell and refuse talking for long if not clarified) she's sleeping now peacefully and I am at the verge of exploding. How can I demand answers calmly. Please experienced folks calm me down.
how is it possible to date someone without sex in 2020?
Re: by Dilijingsly(m): 4:25pm On Apr 23, 2020
Ishilove:
I'm more concerned about the battery. It is 2% and you're still pressing the phone cry
Re: by Mykel51(m): 4:26pm On Apr 23, 2020
myles16:




Oga no waste your time, they bleeped well...... there's this girl too that we are into something and she's always swearing about her being faithful to me, tho never believed her till i hacked her fb account, what i saw mehn!!! not even Number 5 on her list and she still message me pretending with her yada yada love. Just playing along too

Guy, how you take run the Fb hacking paroll ?
Re: by fashionale(m): 4:33pm On Apr 23, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:
I have been in this relationship for almost 3 years now... I never knew I could love a lady this much because I am the kind of guy that doesn't give a sh*t. Things started changing when we started working at different places. She have a neighbour that claims he loves her and wants to marry her. I warned her about the guy and she assured me nothing will ever happen.
Few weeks ago she confessed to me that she dated him late last year just to push him away by frustrating him. She started with she must confessed she cheated on me, i almost stopped breathing and asked sex? She said no she dated the guy. I was shocked because the way she demonstrated her love to me makes me believe nothing can ever go wrong from her side. I forgave her after she explained the whole incident claiming there was no kiss or sex.
She visited me today and slept off, I decided to read her chat with this man. Guess what? They actually kissed because he said he can't focus after the day he kissed her. Scrolling down I got the biggest shock of my life. She asked... What if she was pregnant.
What do I need? I must confess I have anger issues and wants answers almost immediately (I don't get violent but I might yell and refuse talking for long if not clarified) she's sleeping now peacefully and I am at the verge of exploding. How can I demand answers calmly. Please experienced folks calm me down.

In Simi's voice "lie to me if the truth will break my heart oo"
Such is life, ndo (sorry)
Just know she has had sex with the guy.
You've to restrategise
You've to revaluate the relationship
You've to confront her with the chats and let her know you're aware of her sexcapade with the dude.
If possible, forgive her and talk to her that any wrong doing of such behaviour will be the end of the relationship.
Don't forget to let her you've lost your trust on her
And if she wants it, she has to work hard to gain it back

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Re: by ToyBoyAaron(m): 4:41pm On Apr 23, 2020
Thank you everyone. I really appreciate. I'll update in the evening.
Re: by Ishilove: 4:48pm On Apr 23, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:

Lol. I said I loved her
Now all I feel is complete disgust. I can handle it myself but I have anger issues that was why I was looking for a way that won't trigger the anger. I am taking a step right now. Thanks for all the advice. This won't happen again by the grace of God.
Sorry it turned out the way it did. Love is war

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