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Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by Forumobserver12(m): 10:39pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
pawesome: You dey mind the poster? just look at what a supposed adult wrote, 'MAMA na MAMA' I pity the girl that will end up with him as wife.. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by SeniorBros1: 10:39pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Grew up with my step mum so I’ve got first hand knowledge of what you’re talking about. My gain; even Covid-19 can’t do me shit 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by LordsBattleAxe(m): 10:42pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Ishilove:in a family filled with guys? They talk her on jogs because that's the only way they know about the issue. Besides, jogging doesn't kill. Imbibing the habit now will go a long way towards her mental and physical well-being 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by Bradiyung(m): 10:46pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
majamajic:Pls don't say it's normal, it's a hateful character sure you can't treat her like your own doesn't mean you should find the slightest means to beat or insult her. I very much dislike women of such nature, so for a poor child to be seeking for care is a bad thing now |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by KunleyY19(m): 10:46pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
OchoL: Calm Down na... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by Hndrrxxx(m): 10:51pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Your whole damn life story.. BYKW?? too boring asf |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by Bradiyung(m): 10:51pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
I would really advice you stand for her, just because it's your mum doesn't mean she can't be corrected, the little girl need someone to stand for her cuz now she is all alone. If karma took it's cause you would be involved because you saw the bad deeds and didn't do anything, the girl would probably have you all at her mind of how she was mistreated with no helper |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by jelel6: 10:57pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
pocohantas: I agree most cases don't need housing them under the same roof with the family. But I think the Poster said it's not an option as they believe her mom's place is even worse (you have to trust their judgement here I think). The girl can't live alone. She needs a place and it just happens THAT place is with the poster. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by Benjamin4388(m): 10:59pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Since you said she going back is a bad alternative..and she would go to boarding house soon..I think she can endure with the love and support of you and dad pending when your brother and mom will ever do...mehn through my secondary school year..I hardly made friends in my neighborhood because before I finish those wicked teachers holiday assignment...school have resumed o |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by Duru009(m): 11:00pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Rejected stone will certainly be the corner stone ! Only time will tell...... |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by Christie171(f): 11:08pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
ume1000:Hmmm....well, before then, she'd be on her own living and catering for herself and her family.... I'm already making sure of that by setting aside financial securities in her name. |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by pocohantas(f): 11:09pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
jelel6: You mustn’t bring the person into the house, but if you must- please fix the foundation, fix the family relationship, fix the flow of leadership. The problem here is, one person (most times the man) would just impose it on the other. It never works that way. It is the visitor that would always suffer the effect of the hosts petty squabbles. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by nairalandbeast1: 11:12pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Your mum should be in jail |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by nairalandbeast1: 11:13pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
hoygift: Stupid reasoning so she should abuse a minor |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by afroxyz: 11:22pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Bros you are a man. When the girl's story is told, you would be remembered for standing up for justice. Your action shows a lot of character 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by ProudBiafran: 11:23pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
I am sure people like your mum will be one of those who supported tbe zambian dad for slapping his son. Your mum is not nice. The girl is just 10. God! |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by kunletexs: 11:27pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
pocohantas: I say again keep quiet! You teach me how to train a child? I would rather let a dog teach me than you. What message do you want to pass to me, selfish bigot. I didn't type adoption message for your sorry ass to look good on NL slow poke but that my decision long after the idiotic gender as yours came to maltreat me when I was growing up. So stop bitching online fool, and get schooled in the area of calling a spade a spade by calling those heartless idiot calling themselves women/mothers to order. Let them show some level of compassion but to just foolishly hats other children because they can't stand to see another woman child inside under their roof. Now to your sorry ass statement the other times thing me I was typing because am using cheep MB, I think by now that quote you used that came from one of the useless actress that add no moral to the society is STALE. At least with my cheap MB, I am using it to impact sense into your senseless brain. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by crystalwig326: 11:28pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
U did the right thing by cautioning your mum,but the question is will u always b there for her,what happens when u and your dad is not around,above all what if your lol bro start abusing her sexually,who will she run to,sit your mum down and talk to her,tell her if she don't desist,the girl will go back to her mum,and your mum will carry the burden of whatever become of the girl because she push her into it,forget the fact that she can not come out of the hood positively,u don't know God plan for her life and finally what will be in life will be. |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by crackkhaus: 11:29pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Christie171:That's nice. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by Lifecanbeamazin: 11:32pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Sit your mom down and talk to her. Ask if she'll be happy if someone treats you all like that & let me know she's your role model so you're all need to be kind & loving towards that child. |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by pocohantas(f): 11:33pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
kunletexs: Lol, please do not adopt a child- that is not what you need to be a good person. Use that money to attend a basic etiquette school. Even Mowgli that was brought up by animals wasn’t uncivil and uncouth, how much more you that was brought up by humans. Once again, invest your adoption fees into basic etiquette, lest you cause more harm while trying to do some supposed good. You shouldn’t raise a hen, let alone human. Trust me. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by DabFrankNG: 11:34pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
You are the girls guardian angel, never fail to do what you know is right to protect her. Never let her be alone with her tormentors, especially your younger brother. He may start sleeping with her. Continue showing love to the girl especially in helping her prevent bad emotions such as fear or low self esteem as these may scar her for life. Aside defending her, always talk to her, play with her, help her with home work, and also buy snacks for her when you go out or leave food for her when eating. You would have sown a seed you and your own children will reap for life, both from her and from God. Your mum is laying a bed of nails. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by Humanoid01(m): 11:39pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
OchoL:Why don't you just keep shut if you got no advice to render, instead of insulting and cursing his mother? Even if she's wrong, you didn't have to say all that bad stuff about her. He didn't ask you for that. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by kunletexs: 11:41pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
pocohantas: Shut up and go and talk to your selfish idiots like you who can't stomach to see other people children under their roof. What your funkier business with my beautiful life? Can you face your sorry life and stop been a bitch. If you have been schooled by the said fellow and yet still sound selfish then it time you get schooled in the animal Kingdom where female lions have been seen taken care of giraffe bady |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by pocohantas(f): 11:43pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
kunletexs: This is one situation I would agree a child should be under another person’s roof. Your parents roof failed- obviously. Keep cursing... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by Nwaonyishi69: 11:45pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
That is why marriage is becoming more and more difficult all over the world. No wonder, even God regretted creating them. if not because that girl came it could have been any of u she will be picking on, even your father o. |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by kunletexs: 11:46pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
pocohantas: And yours is bound to fail with that stupid attitude of you that only cares for her own. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by Nobody: 11:46pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
OchoL: I've not met anyone as greatly stupid lately. You are good! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by pocohantas(f): 11:52pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
kunletexs: Dude, stop being silly. I wonder why you even have to wait till you marry to care for others. Anyway, that we don’t jump on people’s comments with error-ridden epistles, doesn’t mean we are inhumane. It isn’t that hard to keep your brain company, use it often. Take care. |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by sapientia(m): 11:52pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
MuduOfRice11: We need to stop bashing people for begging. No matter how bad he was. Don't you ever wish that bad people will change? That's why some get new accounts to do that and you guys will still call them fake. . Nigeria is too tough and now is worse. If you can't give, just ignore oppsymos: Op, the bolded is of utmost importance. Hear your mum out first. She is a woman and you are a man. In all, never never ever blame her, let her know she has right to anger (allow her to win first, it sweets women). No matter what caused her anger, if tells you, try reason am wella like say na your babe. You got points already and some good fellows have dropped loads and loads of points too. Goodluck man. You are a good man |
Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by MrHerrera(m): 11:54pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
In my opinion the solution is very simple and could straighten both the girl and her mother's life and also make peace reign in ur own home too. But your father will bare the cost. Since your reason for not wanting the girl to go back to her Mom is because of the inconducive environment her Mom lives, I will suggest ur Dad rent her an apartment in a nice area and also establish her to be able to sustain herself and continue the payment, from there she might even get another suitor that will love her and also the child. |
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