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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 10:38am On Apr 26, 2020 |
The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex). Please loud it to all the small boys and girls here deceiving themselves thinking marriage is all about sex. They are too much here. Reason we have so many failed marriages today. They just rush themselves with sex, then jump into marriage not really understanding why they are embarking on that journey. Im very sure if I entered into marriage a long time ago when the first suitor came at age 20, I would probably have gotten tired by now and run out cos I didn't know jack about what marriage is all about or the spiritual indication and God's plan and purpose for marriage. But now I know to a large extent and a lot is still being unfolded during this waiting period. Hmm... Marriage is not "boyfriend and girlfriend in lalaland" hmm... I still learnt a few things even of recent. Marriage is not about size, beauty, handsomeness, height, tribe and color. It is deep, as in deeper and more spiritual than physical. That is why I'm not surprised anymore when a marriage crashes within 24hrs because it never had a solid spiritual foundation. It was built on the usual peripherals of "I love you" you're fine you're hot and sexy" basis. So nothing to hold it when the nitigrity, storms and challenges that comes with it begins to hit and toss it to and fro. Nuf said. 8 Likes |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 10:38am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Osagyefo98:was expecting to see Paul, John and the rest. you should understand those people live in a time when there was no clear guide about what is acceptable to God. the coming of Christ gave us a clear path to follow 5 Likes |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 10:38am On Apr 26, 2020 |
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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Agboriotejoye(m): 10:38am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Osagyefo98: 1 Peter 1:14 As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the former lusts in your ignorance: Bro, that was the time of ignorance. God has revealed his mind to us now through the holy spirit and calls us to repentance. 1 Corinthians 6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. I'm guilty of this too but the standard remains we only have to strive and pray for forgiveness when we fall short 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Stephenmoka4(m): 10:40am On Apr 26, 2020 |
sunshineV:Hormones, external and other body factors do affect it. It's doesn't get hard forever as it will diminish in time. If you hold urine for a long time it also occur too. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by zedegit: 10:43am On Apr 26, 2020 |
sunshineV: lalasticlala dominique mynd34 Seun See a moslem and other mockers posting nonsense pictures and comments on a Christian thread. If it was a moslem thread you just push it and expect us to swear allegiance before we can comment. This is injustice. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by HundredWays(m): 10:47am On Apr 26, 2020 |
zedegit:NL is a Biased Forum... |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nasty15: 10:48am On Apr 26, 2020 |
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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by GreatAchiever1: 10:48am On Apr 26, 2020 |
LeeSantos: When husbands sometimes tell their wives "God bless the day i found you." What do u think they meant? Lemme say dis, just as you said the bible says "He who finds a wife finds a good thing" . Also note that the bible also says Every good and perfect gift comes from God. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Oghenerobo2002(m): 10:49am On Apr 26, 2020 |
sunshineV:Hmmmmm |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by ofiko123(m): 10:49am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Nice write up OP,God has blessed you.. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by trutht828: 10:50am On Apr 26, 2020 |
BUSHHUNTER: You only need to study the Bible to know what God wants. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by zedegit: 10:51am On Apr 26, 2020 |
HundredWays: Imagine desecrating this thread with suggestive pictures and ads. This is unacceptable. Dominique mynd34 lalasticlala |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 10:53am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Agboriotejoye: You all twisting God's words and it is wrong Song of Solomon 1 vs 2 Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine. Proverbs 5:18-19 “Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.” This scriptures counters your stance. Let the word of God remains undiluted. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 10:54am On Apr 26, 2020 |
This is a very nice piece, I took my time to read it. Kudos! |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 10:56am On Apr 26, 2020 |
I had to end a relationship because she was always asking for sex.She said i could change her from this habit but i never gave her a chance. And i so regret it that i didn't try to talk things out with her,who knows if i could really have changed her? See..,it is pure slavery to allow sensual pleasure control your life,and i believe a man and a woman can stay happy together without indulging in sex. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by innobarca(m): 10:58am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Eulalia: Premarital sex is bad... (Sex before or after marriage has nothing to do with failed marriages) I do not think there is a perfect marriage. If you believe that GOD provides a husband or wife,,,, You should not be talking of COURTSHIP again. When you pray and GOD reveals the woman or man to you, marriage should be done immediately bc GOD is perfect. He knows everything according to Christians. I have been married for a long time... There are things about marriage that are practical not by prayers. I am not saying someone should sleep with different people in the name of looking for a wife or husband. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by ladykolly(f): 10:58am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Why didn’t you mention names of men in the New Testament that had side chicks during the time of Jesus? Osagyefo98: 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by vinehedge: 10:59am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Timil: Antichrist Mode ? |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Eborty(m): 10:59am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Lostz: Please don't be annoyed, just want to ask you this, is'nt it the very era when angels are active with their wings. Or was there no means of communication then. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 11:00am On Apr 26, 2020 |
ladykolly: Are you trying to condemn old testament? 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Vicvalentine: 11:00am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Agboriotejoye: You’ve got a good point on this matter. The issue about this topic is most people that preach it , do it in a way that they willeven forget that we are human beings and things like that are bound to occur somehow in humans life. It is not easy. Let’s say in the natural sense , sex will definitely occur between the male and female. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 11:01am On Apr 26, 2020 |
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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by cooooooks(m): 11:07am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Teachings like what the OP wrote leads people to marry for sex and leads to all the problems you alluded to. Is it not in our country that some guys are saying I married you, therefore, you must be ready at anytime? Eulalia: |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Simpubozz(m): 11:08am On Apr 26, 2020 |
sunshineV:I believe you meant to say: "if God doesn't want..." Urmm shud I say I like ur logic U myt b making sense though. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 11:08am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Eborty:angels did not interfere in people's daily life. back then they were living under law. all they have was the ten commandments and later some scrolls. now we have the full Bible as a guide |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by EmperorGodswill(m): 11:09am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Jeromejnr: u said my mind abt dis trend God bless u 1 Like |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by zedegit: 11:13am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Osagyefo98: Acts 17:30 Find it! Compare Translations for Acts 17:30 Share Tweet Save King James Version w/ Apocrypha Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (KJVA) And the times of this ignorance God winked at ; but now commandeth all men every where to repent : Lexham English Bible Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (LEB) Therefore [although] God has overlooked the times of ignorance, he now commands all people everywhere to repent, King James Version Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (KJV) And the times of this ignorance God winked at; but now commandeth all men every where to repent: Jubilee Bible 2000 Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (JUB) For the times of this ignorance God overlooked, but <em>he</em> now commands all men everywhere to repent Hebrew Names Version Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (HNV) The times of ignorance therefore God overlooked. But now he commands that all men everywhere should repent, GOD'S WORD Translation Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (GW) "God overlooked the times when people didn't know any better. But now he commands everyone everywhere to turn to him and change the way they think and act. Good News Translation w/ Apocrypha Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (GNTA) God has overlooked the times when people did not know him, but now he commands all of them everywhere to turn away from their evil ways. Good News Translation Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (GNT) God has overlooked the times when people did not know him, but now he commands all of them everywhere to turn away from their evil ways. English Standard Version Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (ESV) The times of ignorance God overlooked, but now he commands all people everywhere to repent, The Darby Translation Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (DBY) God therefore, having overlooked the times of ignorance, now enjoins men that they shall all everywhere repent, The Complete Jewish Bible Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (CJB) "In the past, God overlooked such ignorance; but now he is commanding all people everywhere to turn to him from their sins. Holman Christian Standard Bible Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (CSB) "Therefore, having overlooked the times of ignorance, God now commands all people everywhere to repent, Common English Bible w/ Apocrypha Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (CEBA) God overlooks ignorance of these things in times past, but now directs everyone everywhere to change their hearts and lives. Common English Bible Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (CEB) God overlooks ignorance of these things in times past, but now directs everyone everywhere to change their hearts and lives. The Bible in Basic English Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (BBE) Those times when men had no knowledge were overlooked by God; but now he gives orders to all men in every place to undergo a change of heart: American Standard Version Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (ASV) The times of ignorance therefore God overlooked; but now he commandeth men that they should all everywhere repent: New Revised Standard w/ Apocrypha Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (NRSA) While God has overlooked the times of human ignorance, now he commands all people everywhere to repent, New Revised Standard Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (NRS) While God has overlooked the times of human ignorance, now he commands all people everywhere to repent, New Living Translation Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (NLT) “God overlooked people’s ignorance about these things in earlier times, but now he commands everyone everywhere to repent of their sins and turn to him. New King James Version Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (NKJV) Truly, these times of ignorance God overlooked, but now commands all men everywhere to repent, New International Version Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (NIV) In the past God overlooked such ignorance, but now he commands all people everywhere to repent. New Century Version Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (NCV) In the past, people did not understand God, and he ignored this. But now, God tells all people in the world to change their hearts and lives. New International Reader's Version Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (NIRV) In the past, God didn't judge people for what they didn't know. But now he commands all people everywhere to turn away from their sins. New American Standard Bible Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (NAS) "Therefore having overlooked the times of ignorance, God is now declaring to men that all people everywhere should repent, The Message Bible Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (MSG) "God overlooks it as long as you don't know any better - but that time is past. The unknown is now known, and he's calling for a radical life-change. Revised Standard Version w/ Apocrypha Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (RSVA) The times of ignorance God overlooked, but now he commands all men everywhere to repent, Revised Standard Version Chapter Parallel Acts 17:30 (RSV) The times of ignorance God overlooked, but now he commands all men everywhere to repent, 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by ladykolly(f): 11:14am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Osagyefo98: If those persons in Old Testament were perfect or living in accordance to God’s commandments, there wouldn’t have been reason for Christ to die for humanity. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 11:16am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Premarital Sex is actually detrimental to women who really want a to have a sane adult life/ marriage for the following reasons: 1. With sex outside marriage so much easier, there is no incentive for marriage. Used to be one of the major reasons. 2. Either countless abortions or unwanted children. Both are disastrous to women. Abortions forever scar women psychologically and emotionally. Having a child by oneself makes the job of parenting much more harder as the guys would have moved on to other women who will willingly also have sex with them. 3. It used to be that most men aspire to hustle , make money and marry so they can have unlimited sex... As one can now have sex without marriage, then the motivation for most people aint just there any longer. 4. Venereal Diseases : Women are more susceptible to venereal diseases and they are are far more deadly for them. 5. Most vices are committed by children from with unbalanced upbringing. Not saying there are not outliers but statistically , kids born in well adjusted homes usually turn out well adjusted also. 6. Experiences : having experienced a lot of either women or men, there is a lot of pressure put on a partner who does not measure up to past partners. This eventually leads to cheating e.t.c 6. Even for those that are married, many favor almost segregation of the extended family even during the marriage ceremony itself. Not a lot of background checks are done resulting to marriages built on just feelings at that point in time. The traditional method was such that it puts a lot of responsibilities on the extended family and kindred who gather together to ensure that the union is a union of two families and not just two individuals. This gives most marriages a chance to actually outlast the usual initial feelings as is obtainable today. Conclusion, premarital sex does no good for anyone interested in having a well adjusted family and long term happiness. The cons far outstrips the pros. So for women, engage in them but note that the most cons will be borne by yourselves actually. And for the men, well it is good that we know that the moral compass of a nation is usually determined by their women. Reason being that they are the biggest influence-rs of their kids who will eventually become adults. Keep this in mind when you want to sleep with a woman you know very well u feel nothing for and keep stringing her along knowing that if she gets pregnant that you will bail. N:B This does not apply to runs girls and prostitutes. They have psychologically prepped themselves for whatever. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Eborty(m): 11:17am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Lostz: OK THANKS. Lostz its been long since i came across you..! How are you faring over there, and hope all is well ..? |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by olamy7(m): 11:17am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Interesting15:nice one, may God bless you |
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