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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Reallv: 3:56pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Hmmm.....my love,my wife,the only woman i've ever cherish.Monsurat onaolapo owolabi.Died last year Since then my life has change to the worse. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by elchapoo: 3:56pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
In 2009 I lost my Aunt that that was so good to me. She has been taking care of me since I was born and we don't joke with each other. We spend every Christmas together in the villa till 08 December when I told her I was gonna spend the Christmas period with my family in my own villa,she was not happy with my decision but she later agreed after trying to convince me to spend the Xmas with her.all her children stays abroad so she stays with a house help.i visited like twice during the festive period and I can still remember how happy she was. On 3rd of January 09 my Dad received a call that my auntie fell down while she was taking her bath so we rushed to her place. Half of her body was paralyzed but she was still conscious. I remember sitting beside her feeding her breakfast before we took her to hospital, I still remember the drama when she insisted that I should eat before she continued eating again,the people around there started laughing and exchanging words of how we both Love our self..festive period has come to an end for us so we all left for the city. She was admitted at the hospital on that 3rd of January 09 I was with her all through till 15-jan 09 when I was supposed to pass the night in the hospital with her , I came up with all the excuses I could so will go in the morning. I can remember my conscience was telling to me go, that maybe something was about to happen but I insisted on maintaining my decision. I was watching TV in her sitting room suddenly around past 2am. I saw something approaching me from the kitchen in human stature shares same height with my auntie and the colour I saw was the same with rapper she was tying in the hospital, my head swollen and it suddenly disappeared. My instincts told me that something bad has happened but I kept my cool since I have not received any call from the hospital. In the morning I and my sister left for the hospital with her food, as we got there and opened the door( I was a private ward) I saw her lifeless body and oxygen cylinder which was not there before,chai It was like my world has come to an end,i placed my ear on her bared chest nothing, grabbed her wrist to feel her pulse nothing. I tried breathing into her mouth to see if will stare breathing, nothing, chai I felt like the world has come an end, I looked at my Dad, his eye balls was like red Sea but was not crying ..I made sure I didn't shed a drop of tears because I have had a myth that if someone close to you or relation dies and you didn't shed tears the person's ghost will be visiting..after her death no week will pass without seeing her in my dreams,like 4 days out of the 7 days in a week and continues like that till the end of 09 then I started seeing her like 3 times in a month and stretched to 2014 -15. I still see her once I while till today. I do pray against, cast and bind scary attacks in the dream but when she died and I started seeing her in my dream, it made realize I could ask her questions in my dream, question I needed answer to in real live. I always ask her (who killed you) because I don't believe her death was a natural death you know (village people)now lol. every time we meet in the dream my question continues but the problem was all along I was asking she was always mute steering at me in the dream while I asked her with anger and vengeance in my heart. one day at the last quarter of 2009 I saw her in my dream and she said that I should follow her so she could tell me who kill her, she took me to a bush part, entered inside the bush I followed and insisted that she should tell me who killed her, she started smiling as she was looking at me and was smiling till I woke up. After that day I stopped seeing her in my dreams the way I used to and I also stopped questioning her. Sorry for the long story, but I just see this thread as an opportunity to pour my heart out. RIP Decency 21 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by warrenweste(m): 3:58pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
My class teacher then May 20,1999 My dad April 6 2010(can't get over these) My aunt November 20,2012( she was terribly sick and in bad shape the picture still haunt me) My mum's friend March 26 2020 My long time pastor April 14 2020( still crying over these ) 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by onadana: 4:00pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
obidaddy: Thank you for this kind words.The biggest challenge is battling depression. We were a tight unit together. I cry everyday. But God is my strength, he is helping me and I have to help myself for my sons.Thanks bro and God Bless. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by SAMTOBIJU(m): 4:02pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
My Uncle. Dr Phillip Olumuyiwa Adegbile. Died March 20 2003. Till now I can't still forget Him. He had big dreams for mystery of and my siblings most especially me. Continue to rest in peace Daddy. His burial was the last time I shed tears over anybody's death 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Idenoch(m): 4:05pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Mr Uche be strong for her, she wouldn't want you to be that way, if she were around, The Lord who took her will fill the vacuum created. I grieve with you. Uche0610: |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by OLUWAcypris1(f): 4:06pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
My husband DonBobes it's two years now and can't stop crying, I miss him so much 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Idenoch(m): 4:07pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
The Lord will console you in Jesus name. onadana: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by TessaJ: 4:11pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Mine was a neighbour who was like a sister to me.I use to call her by her first child's name 'mummy Evans'. She was a very nice,caring,honest and loving woman.I can tell her anything that is bothering me and she will always av an advice that will solve the issue I will never forget the day she died.We spoke on Friday evening and she even gave me food to eat when I came back from work.At arround 12am Saturday morning, she fell down from the bed she was sleeping on and she never woke up again.She died immediately leaving a 3 months old baby.I cried till I passed out and till today I still do cry because her death still remains a mystery to me.Next month is her remembrance but I do remember her everyday. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by KingRabota: 4:11pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Lenab01: 4:11pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
My mom,to that dreadful cancer 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by SapphirePRINCEX(f): 4:12pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
My sister, Belinda, Sept 18 2012 still feels like yesterday, can't believe I still cried about her this morning. My son, Michael, died Feb 25th 2016, his bro fills his space but mehn, I always remember him and imagine how cute he would have been at 4years old. My godmother, Cynthia, even though after her death all I see is scary dreams of her but I still miss her. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Heineken(m): 4:12pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
KingRabota:I tell you sir. Please be strong. Ogadinma |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by KingRabota: 4:12pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Thanks man Sometimes we smile and Sometimes we cry . In every situation we praise the most high Katier00: |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Lamanii22(f): 4:16pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Wooow! Can't believe I clicked up to page 19! I pray that the lord will be with everyone who has lost a loved one, I decree that affliction would not rise again... No evil shall befall each and everyone of us.... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Sydney1995(m): 4:18pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
I feel your pain bro. May the soul of your mum and the souls of all those who have lost loved ones continue to rest peacefully in heaven. Amen � Nexus25: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Joyfulgal: 4:20pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
JasonJidenna: Thank you |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by SamOyovwi: 4:21pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
I feel your main. Please, worry no more. You'll have other male children PrettyLolo: |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by EzzyCarter: 4:21pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Lamanii22: Amen. This is probably the most heart-wrenching thread I've ever seen on Nairaland... It is well! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by SamOyovwi: 4:22pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
I feel your pain. Don't worry, you'll have other male children PrettyLolo: |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by sirjakez(m): 4:22pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Lost my mom 18th of last month (march), she was the only woman in my life... I really miss her Lost my close friend 3years ago, he died while serving in bayelsa... I miss you bro 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:27pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Jh0wsef: I lost my sister's fiance few weeks ago too in that useless hospital. It's so painful that I cry whenever his name flashes through my mind. They need to be shut down, however. Coincidentally, his name too was Gideon. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Jflex07(m): 4:29pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
This thread made me shed tears. Life itself is a mystery, no one knows tomorrow. Live a good life today so that when you die, your legacy will live on. RIP to every loved one we have lost. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Iamlakexide(m): 4:31pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
I lost my younger brother February 4th 2013 in gas cylinder explosion..still hurts and fresh in my memory,took me six years to come to reality of his death....22yrs old. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by ojoshu(m): 4:32pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Pierced:I also lost my mum July 15th 2019 to breast Cancer Everyday i feel the hole |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Nickymezor(f): 4:42pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Sure my mum n dad... Lost my mum when I was two years old ...in fact I didn't know her at all so my dad was both my mum + dad (PAMA) to Us Unfortunately we lost him in 2018. ..Gosh it still feels like yesterday... I do see him in my dreams but he is always happy which makes me not too sad when I get up and I am glad he is out of pain. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Sommydisaster(m): 4:45pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
PrettyLolo: May the good lord grant you peace and may his blessings never seize from you |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by pabish(m): 4:45pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
quote author=elchapoo post=88877821]In 2009 I lost my Aunt that that was so good to me. She has been taking care of me since I was born and we don't joke with each other. We spend every Christmas together in the villa till 08 December when I told her I was gonna spend the Christmas period with my family in my own villa,she was not happy with my decision but she later agreed after trying to convince me to spend the Xmas with her.all her children stays abroad so she stays with a house help.i visited like twice during the festive period and I can still remember how happy she was. On 3rd of January 09 my Dad received a call that my auntie fell down while she was taking her bath so we rushed to her place. Half of her body was paralyzed but she was still conscious. I remember sitting beside her feeding her breakfast before we took her to hospital, I still remember the drama when she insisted that I should eat before she continued eating again,the people around there started laughing and exchanging words of how we both Love our self..festive period has come to an end for us so we all left for the city. She was admitted at the hospital on that 3rd of January 09 I was with her all through till 15-jan 09 when I was supposed to pass the night in the hospital with her , I came up with all the excuses I could so will go in the morning. I can remember my conscience was telling to me go, that maybe something was about to happen but I insisted on maintaining my decision. I was watching TV in her sitting room suddenly around past 2am. I saw something approaching me from the kitchen in human stature shares same height with my auntie and the colour I saw was the same with rapper she was tying in the hospital, my head swollen and it suddenly disappeared. My instincts told me that something bad has happened but I kept my cool since I have not received any call from the hospital. In the morning I and my sister left for the hospital with her food, as we got there and opened the door( I was a private ward) I saw her lifeless body and oxygen cylinder which was not there before,chai It was like my world has come to an end,i placed my ear on her bared chest nothing, grabbed her wrist to feel her pulse nothing. I tried breathing into her mouth to see if will stare breathing, nothing, chai I felt like the world has come an end, I looked at my Dad, his eye balls was like red Sea but was not crying ..I made sure I didn't shed a drop of tears because I have had a myth that if someone close to you or relation dies and you didn't shed tears the person's ghost will be visiting..after her death no week will pass without seeing her in my dreams,like 4 days out of the 7 days in a week and continues like that till the end of 09 then I started seeing her like 3 times in a month and stretched to 2014 -15. I still see her once I while till today. I do pray against, cast and bind scary attacks in the dream but when she died and I started seeing her in my dream, it made realize I could ask her questions in my dream, question I needed answer to in real live. I always ask her (who killed you) because I don't believe her death was a natural death you know (village people)now lol. every time we meet in the dream my question continues but the problem was all along I was asking she was always mute steering at me in the dream while I asked her with anger and vengeance in my heart. one day at the last quarter of 2009 I saw her in my dream and she said that I should follow her so she could tell me who kill her, she took me to a bush part, entered inside the bush I followed and insisted that she should tell me who killed her, she started smiling as she was looking at me and was smiling till I woke up. After that day I stopped seeing her in my dreams the way I used to and I also stopped questioning her. Sorry for the long story, but I just see this thread as an opportunity to pour my heart out. RIP Decency [/quote]Sorry about that,i have read so many deaths traceable to bathroom falls. Let's be careful and admonish our aged ones. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Jh0wsef(m): 4:47pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
elchapoo: Wow.. Is this for real? It's supernatural 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by cherryfay(f): 4:49pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
starbuck:https://www.jw.org/en/search/?q=When+someone+you+love+dies+ Trust me, follow this link, you'll find comfort, it helped me |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by Jh0wsef(m): 4:49pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Wow |
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by chextlife(m): 4:49pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
My father in-law I love him so so much......indeed a father On March 1, 2020, he called and we played together. And even prayed for us On March 2, 2020, he died.....so painful 1 Like |
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