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RE: E-relationship No Longer Needed: Nairaland Girls Got In Touch For Money by pmoye(m): 9:12am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Few weeks ago I made a terrible mistake of making a post asking for long distance relationship (e-relationship I called it) with any interested Nairaland babes. Quite a number of ladies reached out and got in touch. I must confess that all of them seemed to be pleasant individuals. However, within a few days all of them have started asking me for money, from 20k to 800k (some undisclosed amount). And while I politely declined that that's an inappropriate behaviour towards someone you're just meeting, a significant number of them abused me for turning them down. They somehow have this mindset that I have some sort of responsibility towards them even though we have only just met online. This forum is really a jungle of indecent manners, a platform some girls have decided to use to monetize the faintest semblance of friendship with the opposite sex. It is not a man's job to fund your luxurious or penurious life, much less a man you have just met and in whose life you have no stake. I know how to take responsibility for people in my life, including girlfriends: and it is sad that many girls here have misinterpreted this sense of duty to mean an express right to a man's pocket regardless of the absence of a relationship with such a man... It is inappropriate. Build relationship and trust first before making financial requests of any kind. It is your father, mother and brother's responsibility to fund your life as a girl. You can claim right with these your family members, but never with a man you have no relationship with. It will go a long way for ladies to do away with your nauseating sense of entitlement. Exchange of things, including affection and ideas, should be mutual... I am not going to call anyone out. I am no longer interested in any e-relationship with any Nairaland babe. Kindly ignore my former post attached below. Cheers. pmoye: |
Re: RE: E-relationship No Longer Needed: Nairaland Girls Got In Touch For Money by illicit(m): 9:24am On Apr 27, 2020 |
e relationship is e business 1 Like |
Re: RE: E-relationship No Longer Needed: Nairaland Girls Got In Touch For Money by bestabigaelever(f): 9:28am On Apr 27, 2020 |
I'm so sorry about that I don't know why some girls like embarrassing themselves Any little hi like this, they bill the guy Don't use that to judge all girls |
Re: RE: E-relationship No Longer Needed: Nairaland Girls Got In Touch For Money by bestabigaelever(f): 9:29am On Apr 27, 2020 |
illicit:Lol The ones with 'e' nko, dem go still change am to business 1 Like |
Re: RE: E-relationship No Longer Needed: Nairaland Girls Got In Touch For Money by Nobody: 9:29am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Op u must do ![]() |
Re: RE: E-relationship No Longer Needed: Nairaland Girls Got In Touch For Money by pmoye(m): 9:31am On Apr 27, 2020 |
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Re: RE: E-relationship No Longer Needed: Nairaland Girls Got In Touch For Money by pmoye(m): 9:36am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Thanks a lot bestabigaelever. At what point exactly do you think a man should reach a conclusion about such things? After two ladies, 3, 4, 5, ... 10?? I do not judge all girls; all I am doing is to reach a conclusion about Nairaland girls. From my experience I believe this conclusion is accurate for me. Perhaps some men have had more favorable outcome with Nairaland babes, I am happy for them and my experience doesn't necessarily invalidate theirs. So, no I am not judging all girls. But as for me, evil shall not arise a second time. bestabigaelever: |
Re: RE: E-relationship No Longer Needed: Nairaland Girls Got In Touch For Money by bestabigaelever(f): 9:45am On Apr 27, 2020 |
pmoye:Hmmmm, It is well |
Re: RE: E-relationship No Longer Needed: Nairaland Girls Got In Touch For Money by faithugo64(f): 9:48am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Guys also chatted you up... You just don't know |
Re: RE: E-relationship No Longer Needed: Nairaland Girls Got In Touch For Money by pmoye(m): 9:52am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Perhaps. But only one person. I explicitly requested for video chat, only one of them declined. She however sent a VN though, but I never stopped suspecting a foul play. faithugo64: |
Re: RE: E-relationship No Longer Needed: Nairaland Girls Got In Touch For Money by Nobody: 9:57am On Apr 27, 2020 |
LOLs. |
Re: RE: E-relationship No Longer Needed: Nairaland Girls Got In Touch For Money by Tozic: 10:10am On Apr 27, 2020 |
One quoted me last time and asked me whether I have any money with me, I told I'm a beggar just to see her response, surprisingly she called me a 'boy' for letting her down... Modified No Pms. I'm seriously broke too. |
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