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Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by stormborn28(m): 1:36pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
rosalieene:is the norm normal? no lady will see anything wrong with this. Because they know the implications yet they don't mind living such life. While guys takes advantage of the lady(chop and clean mouth) |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Fem4real: 1:37pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Brother, if I must be sincere here I must tell you to pray for guidelines before moving on....Pray to God for direction... Human direction might mislead you...create time to seek the face of the lord and be rest assured he will communicate with you. Rgds |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by emede: 1:38pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Solatium: Baba u just spoke my mind. Key word. Have a good share of the game. so u don't feel cheated. 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by stormborn28(m): 1:39pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
xendra: no lady will see anything wrong with this. Because they know the implications yet they don't mind living such life. While guys takes advantage of the lady(chop and clean mouth) |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Look at you asking "can I forgive her"? Did she cheat on you? I don't blame you anyway. I blame the lady seeking closure from her ex by talking too much to you. Forgive my ass. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by ekenwen: 1:40pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
The truth is she is still in love with him , I can also tell you that she still goes through his FB page to see his recent update just to know how his doing . To be sincere she is addicted to the memory of love they both share together. So it will be difficult to delete that memory because to her does love memories are priceless. But what she don't know is , love will always find you if only you can let go of the past and focus on the future. My brother you have to make her believe you are her future. That is if you truly love her . |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Dangrace01: 1:40pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Solatium: Word bro! Another thing again is this thing called love and sex. These things are like seeds. The more u keep sexing one particular person for a long period of time the bond ( which people call love) keeps growing, it would take same number of years or more to forget such person 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by rosalieene(f): 1:42pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
stormborn28: Its 100% inappropriate. but now the deed has been done, lesson has been learnt...... The only solution is to forget the past. others will still keep doing it no matter how you talk to them about its implications, till they realise its implications themselves. |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by rosalieene(f): 1:43pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
stormborn28: Its 100% inappropriate. but now the deed has been done, lesson has been learnt...... The only solution is to forget the past. others will still keep doing it no matter how you talk to them about its implications, till they realise its implications themselves.. |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Abiola2akin: 1:43pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
It's not that bad, just steady bleeping. U don't have a problem. Ur mind is just playing u thinking they would have f**ked more than a thousand times. My question is that did you notice she has been f**ked countles time when u are bleeping her? Am sure it's feels good and is the reason u are still with her |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by grandpoh(m): 1:43pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
There's this girl I keep fvcking even though she's been in relationships after we part ways,she's always available anytime I reach out without thinking twice.. I think she has not gotten over the fact that we lived couples life in school and i deflowered her and this is 4yrs ago.. At op make sure you look after your girl very well cos when her ex reach out to her she might not be able to resist.. 4 Likes |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by jaxxy(m): 1:45pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Mydazz: See finish. I just learnt that. Lol 1 Like |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Dangrace01: 1:45pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Chi59: Y u dey vex |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Nobody: 1:46pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Dangrace01:Shift ![]() |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Naijaarchive(m): 1:47pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
She is still in love with the guy... Just simple and plain... The guy deflower her that alone self won't Make her let it go easily since she is a faithful type |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Sadsoulnow: 1:48pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Jasonjay101:I can see many advice from guys asking you to let her go because she still feels something for the guy..to be honest with you there is no way she can not have her emotions touch to see her ex engaged someone. It comes with the feelings of oh was I not good enough? So way you feel when you're rejected and that does not mean she does not love you. Sincerely that feeling is normal and nothing bad in it..Almost all my sister cried for days after marriage, because they will have the past emotions played over there head over and over again.. But it takes time to heal up..bro go ahead with that girl,if you let her go now do you know much about your next girl?I think you should be happy to have a girl that's willing to open up to you.. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by stormborn28(m): 1:48pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
rosalieene:one of the implications is "Okafor law " even after marriage |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Dangrace01: 1:50pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by blazintrail: 1:50pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Oga what happened in the past stays in the past. If you knew you cannot handle what she did in the past why did you ask her? She lived a couple's life in school and so what? Why are you judging her on her past? Is she judging you on your own past? The only reason she feels bad is because your slow ass has not given her a ring and the stupid guy she dated back then is getting married. You better step up your game and get your block head together else she will dump your ass for someone that is ready for marriage. |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Asuito7(m): 1:50pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Jaeis:You guys have condone what should not be condone. In fact from the comments so far, I am thinking whether Nothern Muslim girls are the best for marriage. Because I don't think they have lived as couple in school or engaged in all the nonsense sexual innuendos like their counterparts in the south Men like you should not lead any society because you will lead it to moral bankruptcy. Sorry if I sound harsh, I am just being blunt with you. May the good God reward all the chaste and morally clean ladies no matter their religion or where they come from. 5 Likes |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by stormborn28(m): 1:51pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Chi59:Okafor law applies |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by ayusco85(m): 1:51pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
rosalieene: You made a whole lot of sense but I disagree with your last statement of it being a norm in the university. I don't know which school u went to or ur kind of cycle of friends, people that engage in such IMO have low self esteem and don't know what they came to school for, most people that Co habit are naive especially the girls. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by clemmonce(m): 1:51pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Jasonjay101:Brother i can see that you love this girl judging by the way you describe her and you sound like a good person. Here is my little advice. Dont act out of emotions and lose a good, we know quite alright there are alot of girls outside but how many of them are good. 1. I know you might maybe she must have commited alot of abortion (Assumption is the wrongest form of information) DONT ASSUME. I know girls who use family planning method to avoid pregnancy so lets not be narrow minded in the regards. 2. In regards to her past, we all have a past. If you hear my past brother you go fear me.... But am i still that kind of person? NO. You also have a past as well, some good, some very bad. 3. You mention she lied in regards to her past i will assume she was scared of you judging by her past. Which is what is happening right now. JUDGE HER BASE ON WHO SHE IS NOW. Ask yourself is she a good girl., is she what i want in woman.... Brother if your answer is YES, then move to the last stage. Instruct (not ask or plead) her to delete the Ex pictures if any, phone number and unfriend him from all her social media platform. She might have gotten over him quite alright, but seeing him getting married will definitely bring some bad memories if she was the one that was dumped or cheated on. Base on your analysis of the girl , she seem like a good girl. so act wisely. |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Nobody: 1:52pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
stormborn28:Fv.ck you |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by princeogbeide1(m): 1:53pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Jasonjay101: Your babe is fucking real. You can't expect her to be calm and relaxed when she watches her ex who deflowered and bleeped her back to back for two years get engaged with another lady. My advice for you is to hustle up, make money and make her feel great. Love her up and make her understand that you are the one for her. Meanwhile you are lucky to have a genuine girlfriend who respects you. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Youngpo413: 1:54pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Jasonjay101:she was fuçked inside out,front and back,black and blue and i'm sure she has aborted too...just have all these at the back of your mind...kid. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by stormborn28(m): 1:55pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Chi59:Okafor law now |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Kenneth10110(m): 1:55pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
xendra: I need to applaud you for this hypocrites everywhere |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by princeogbeide1(m): 1:55pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Youngpo413: You are explaining your guilty life on nairaland. |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Youngpo413: 1:56pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
stormborn28:it's not a big deal na. |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by darfay: 1:56pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Jasonjay101: I'm not an authority on this sort of issues but I think what she feels is regret for having wasted 2yrs of her life with the said guy, she now realize that all the sacrifices and decision she made with him wasn't worth it hence the deep feeling of sadness and regret. Next thing she would feel is fear, yeah because she would be afraid you might do the same thing to her hence she might seem to want to distance herself from you for a while but you might think it's because she still loves her ex, which is still a huge possibility. The only solution to this, is if you love her, just tell her you her that and also let her know that you are not like her ex and provided everything goes as planned you won't leave her and lastly you both should attend the wedding together 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
stormborn28:What's that supposed to mean? |
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