adexpa:
Oga, I know you have had many advice but my own is that you should calm down and relax about the whole thing since the other lady is not giving you dead line. Many people are giving you straight answer cus they are not in your shoes. Calm down and do more spiritual investigation about that new woman before you take your next move. The mistake you made is not obeying instruction that you should hold on a little more before getting married. Just calm down. God will help you out. I can relate n i practically understand what you are going through. Many people don't understand spiritual connection between husband and wife, when you marry your own wife the speed at which things turn around is always a mystery. I have had many testimonies on how things turn around for many people immediately after marriage n that is the favour part of marriage that Bible mentioned( he who find his ordean wife obtain favour). God will see you through brother.

Ningen:
Well, It seems you only planned as far as “putting your penis into another woman”.

Actually, I pity your wife.

Dude, I read your post 3 times.
There isn't any atom of remorse for infidelity!

You subconsciously believe that the heavens have granted you licence to cheat and a happy ending awaits you. You are wrong. Soon you'll dance to the tune and take responsibility.

I advice you confess to your wife asap.
Bare it out to her. Let her to decide to stay or not.

Be careful on how you break this news to her because you can easily drink from the wrong cup & fly to meet your ancestors. I hate your type.

Digmygold:
The new woman has nothing to do with your progress.

Olasco789:
Shey na u see am for dream by urself ABI na pastor talk am?

If at all it's u oo dats ur God sent helper.

But if you feel your blessings are enough let go off her.

Baba God answer my call make my helper find me ooo

Mystery9:
Please sir don't believe her, she is a spirit, I mean a demon on a mission to destroy your marriage and life. In a clearer term she is a spiritual wife. God after the coming of Jesus Christ has closed the door of marrying more than one wife, as such the dream you had was not from God. The problem now is that she has contributed to your life and that can be use to accuse you in the spiritual court. Please for your own good inform your wife, and you people should seriously pray and seek counsel from a true man of God.

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

I got married to my lovely wife on the 5th of March 2016 and we have a beautiful daughter together. Two years after the wedding I received a revelation from God through a dream that I will meet a lady that will change my life. I was scared when I woke up from the dream as I was newly married.

Fast forward to a year later I met this lady and we got talking. By then I had forgotten about the dream I had so we got talking and I wasn't really attracted to her at first. She fell in love with me almost immediately even though I disguised as a very broke person at first and I returned her gesture after which we got intimate but I made sure she knew about my marital status.

During the time I own a medium fruit juice and bottle water factory which was doing well. I noticed work began to improve at the factory and we started getting large orders from distributors all over the southwest. I struck a deal with a logistics company that provided us trailers to meet our distributor's target as we now sell thousands of packs daily. From there, I started buying lands and now have two estate projects we are now selling to recover funds the spent on the project. In addition, I have started taking building and drainage contracts.

A year after we met, my wife started suspecting am seeing a lady outside the marriage and she confronted me which I obviously denied. Immediately I started scheming of how to get rid of her. In compensation for her services, I sent her to a country in Europe with the help of my travel agent, all expense paid by me just to make sure I get rid of her. After spending three months abroad, she reached out to me telling me she can't cope without me. I thought she was kidding then I dare her to return to Nigeria if she truly misses me which I thought she won't.

To my surprise, she returned to the country a week later and I was shocked as I couldn't believe my eyes. I was disturbed that I had to confess to my pastor what I did outside my marriage. He was visibly angry with me but after listening to my story he calmed down and prayed for me. After the prayers, he said he would have asked me to marry her if I wasn't married yet but said now that am married he will not be involved.

The most shocking part was when he told me she was sent to my life to bless me and she is behind all the blessings I was coming across ever since I met her and I decided that I shouldn't send her away unless she decides to leave by herself. I love my wife and I have sworn nothing will ever separate us but sometimes I think of marrying her but I don't know if I can handle the headache of having two wives. If I ever make the decision to marry her, I will build or buy her a house and tell her not to come near my family.

Am sharing this here so as to gather advise from people with experience in such matter. You are free to insult me as much as you like as long as you can add something reasonable to the discussion. I know I am not a saint, all I want is a piece of advice.

Many Thanks!

Modified: I never tried to get rid of my wife. It was the lady I sent her away two separate times just to make things right between me and my wife. During the times I sent her away, things really slowed down but I refused to contact her until she came back herself.

I will never divorce my wife cos she is the wife of my youth. I need advice on how to open up to her without hurting her feelings as I understand this is a really sensitive matter.

liquidfaya:

What do you know about women when you married an evening newspaper? Lmfao. That's a granny not a woman.


Frustration kill you there after your father threw you into the dustbin. Ha ha ha.

Digmygold:



You wey don turn Metusselah, wrinkled tool, big belle, no money for account. Gigolo granny. Where your hope? Your hope done end. My wife is your pain. That's how dejected hopeless bacheloes like you role. JEALOUSY WAN MURDER YOU! Painment is very evident.

You want us to end like you, ancestor Ubunja, the face of bittermess,frustration plus misery
Old man no wife. God forbid. Who no go know say you get questionable character when dem see you for buka? Hahahahaha. Forever bachelor. God punish you. Na bachelor you go dey till you die.

You go soon go join your queue for Mama Basira Buka. Lockdown and konji don show you pepper yet you still no think say you dey do yourself with your disgraceful comdition? Shame no dey catch you.? On top that you dey fvck poo hole as pvssy scarce you die. When them dey call person wey im life done rotten patapata. Na you be numero uno.

Your hoe mother should have aborted that your useless quickie foetus i swear, see as you come useless pass gutter water.

She just tear her well toto for absolutely nothing and gave birth to a bunch of maggots in human form. Muhehehehe!

Hoe na im born you for randy deadbeat loser after an afternoom quickie, him come pick race. . Your outcome is not surprising. A hoe will bear a hoe and loser. Thats what you are GAYbunja..

Now keep barking. Thats the only thing you'll ever achoeve in life. Dog poobunja.

liquidfaya:
your father rejected you. That's why you are so pissed. He must have flushed you away.

Digmygold:


Lol. Without him i ended a rich simp.

Frustrated broke wailing redpiller. You will die poor. See otondo. Bitter mofo. Self induced Sorrow and dejection turned you a wailer. Hump.and dump. At the end of the day na your destiny you dump. Madness come set in. You come sit behind computer with your wrinkles dey dream say we go join you in the hell you will forever reside in. Die alone loser. Konji and hunger na your companions.

liquidfaya:
your father rejected you. That's why you are so pissed. He must have flushed you away.