Give him space


Flash your presence where he'll see you but maintain a distance


Act unusually happy viking to good move.


I give you three weeks, you'll be here to come say what transpired.


Absence grows desire. By promoting your presence and then retaking it, raises your value and satiates his soul with a desire to re-pursue


He'll come running like a dog on heat, so get yourself ready for the heated chase

I’ve had this experience with a guy that likes me so much and has chased me for about five years but yet I don’t find him attractive . What do I do I such situation? Should I give in ?

Liliantalks:
from experience, guys loose interest on ladies that r into them , it’s like a competition, allow him do the calling , set the dates , make all the efforts . U should be accepting him for he’s efforts not cause u like him , ofcourse u must find him attractive to accept him

piamily:
I’ve had this experience with a guy that likes me so much and has chased me for about five years but yet I don’t find him attractive . What do I do I such situation? Should I give in ?

accept him biko , efforts r most important.

Liliantalks:
accept him biko , efforts r most important.

Wow seriously ?

Even when I’m not attracted to him?
I dunno why it’s hard for me to grow feelings for him

piamily:


Wow seriously ?

Even when I’m not attracted to him?
I dunno why it’s hard for me to grow feelings for him

is he ugly or broke?

Liliantalks:
is he ugly or broke?

Well he’s just short

Liliantalks:
is he ugly or broke?

Audacious . This isn't just loud. This is massive

Renida:



Audacious . This isn't just loud. This is massive

Asinnnn

piamily:



Asinnnn

If he doesn't project or induce futuristic success you can't find him attractive. Don't are yourself, female species are much easily drawn to certain qualities.


So, he could be broke, poor and uninspiring. And love requires some of these to stimulate interest. No one puts sugar in the mouth only to spit it out

piamily:


Well he’s just short

lol he might not be short in the department sha

I hv learnt a big lesson from life , let me share with you , when I was younger i had a lot of guys coming my way , but back then I was so ignorant on what I should look for in a man , now I am older I regret some guys I let go, guys I felt we’re too short , talks too much , swaggerless , aggressive , smoker , etc . Guys i liked were hoes , I dated some but i was little or no value to them , I was there till they met another. Funny enough all the guys I wrote off r in a relationship n doing very well in their relationships ,loving there women silly , well some remain idiots lol

look for efforts , money, care and attention, that’s what really matters. Get a list of what u want in a man , and check if this guy meets 75% of it , if he does , accept him. He can still turn out to be a fool after sex o, I can’t give u any assurance, men r wicked . But that’s a step to the right direction.

Liliantalks:
lol he might not be short in the department sha

I hv learnt a big lesson from life , let me share with you , when I was younger i had a lot of guys coming my way , but back then I was so ignorant on what I should look for in a man , now I am older I regret some guys I let go, guys I felt we’re too short , talks too much , swaggerless , aggressive , smoker , etc . Guys i liked were hoes , I dated some but i was little or no value to them , I was there till they met another. Funny enough all the guys I wrote off r in a relationship n doing very well in their relationships ,loving there women silly , well some remain idiots lol

look for efforts , money, care and attention, that’s what really matters. Get a list of what u want in a man , and check if this guy meets 75% of it , if he does , accept him. He can still turn out to be a fool after sex o, I can’t give u any assurance, men r wicked . But that’s a step to the right direction.

Allow me hard one thing to your life tips. The right man any lady should look out for is what we sages call :


" The man on the progressive path/pathway "


These are guys who at the immediate moment may look unpolished but breaking with ideas, many that seem somewhat unrealistic. These are guys that are constantly looking for how to improve on themselves and better thier lots


Guess what, when you'll meet them, you'll find 70-80% broke. But give them time, five to seven years. This is when to catch them on that upward trajectory so as to cement your grip and position as fruits of their exercises begins to hit maturation season.


A man with a self improvement consciousness will never miss success but maybe delayed, but would make excellent marriage partners as their push to better themselves continues to stir them towards improving everything around them.

Renida:



Audacious . This isn't just loud. This is massive

lol that’s the only reason we look at o he’s either ugly or broke . Lol

Liliantalks:
lol that’s the only reason we look at o he’s either ugly or broke . Lol

They definitely chased you a lot

Renida:



Allow me hard one thing to your life tips. The right man any lady should look out for is what we sages call :


" The man on the progressive pathway "

true but so many women see progressive pathway in different ways. And U can never know the future , the one wey u think say go blow fit no blow , the one u think is useless fit hit jackpot . Life is so unpredictable. So just pick a guy that fit ur quality but u start checking those qualities when he makes efforts , cares and yes has a financial source( atleast averagely )

Renida:



They definitely chased you a lot

lol i swear!!!

Liliantalks:
true but so many women see progressive pathway in different ways. And U can never know the future , the one wey u think say go blow fit no blow , the one u think is useless fit hit jackpot . Life is so unpredictable. So just pick guy that fit ur quality but u start checking those qualities when he makes efforts , cares and yes has a financial source( atleast averagely )

Not true


Allow me explain. A young lady met me at my friends place and just vibes with me, since then we became another thing o. Where dog is the tail would be there. She entrusted me to choose her partners. If we stayed months apart where she stopped she tells me, I'll tell her do this and that and sent many away. She was insistent she would trust on me to mentor her right. It took us three to six years, filtering from contractor to engineer different men with different motives, today she struck gold, after our long experimentation. She got married to a top. Engineering contractor. I broke my aim to let her enjoy her marriage, she's now about five years in marriage to a dude that turned out wealthy. What many ladies which like your case need is a male guide to help navigate those seasons you're in high demand to make the right choices


Everyone I told not to marry whom they married ten years ago are either dead or completely devastated. The ones that listened to me which were few are very happy. The choice in whom one gives one self to is one that determines much, but sadly at young age, ladies don't seen how their choicescan affect their entire life.

Renida:



They definitely chased you a lot

lol i swear!!! , the ones I like always show me wynnnee ,,, now I am single till further notice . Only the strong can survive.

Hed0nist:


One reason can be that he doesn't like the girl in question that much and that's it.

Another reason is that girls sometimes overload guys that they like with attention and expect to receive the same or even more attention in return. This gets to irritate and/or suffocate the guy most times causing him to withdraw. Cos sensible people don't like to start what they can't continue.

Another common reason is simple human nature. If you make a person feel like a star, it's only a matter of time before they start treating you like a fan. Humans usually can't help it. Except the person is self aware and genuinely good.

That's why they say that we should go into love/ relationships with our head

It seems you are also a hedonistic thinker like me. Good points you put there

Liliantalks:
lol i swear!!! , the ones I like always show me wynnnee ,,, now I am single till further notice . Only the strong can survive.

Eyah. What's your age group like 20-25.25-30.35-40. What's it?


I've seen strange things in life my sister. A lady with him positive status came to me for counsel. Through my sister, I gave her some tips, I swear you down, a wealthy man came some 18months after he was also HIV positive looking for love, he said he didn't want to die alone, as we're speaking she's around five years in UK.


Life may surprise you. It's for you not to give up hope.

Renida:


Not true


Allow me explain. A young lady met me at my friends place and just vibes with me, since then we became another thing o. Where dog is the tail would be there. She entrusted me to choose her partners. If we stayed months apart where she stopped she tells me, I'll tell her do this and that and sent many away. She was insistent she would trust on me to mentor her right. It took us three to six years, filtering from contractor to engineer different men with different motives, today she struck gold, after our long experimentation. She got married to a top. Engineering contractor. I broke my aim to let her enjoy her marriage, she's now about five years in marriage to a dude that turned out wealthy. What many ladies which like your case need is a male guide to help navigate those seasons you're in high demand to make the right choices


Everyone I told not to marry whom they married ten years ago are either dead or completely devastated. The ones that listened to me which were few are very happy. The choice in whom one gives one self to is one that determines much, but sadly at young age, ladies don't seen how their choicescan affect their entire life.

hmmmmmm okay, u might be right

Ur topic and ur experience speaks differently. Ur topic rather means mayb u are the one going after the guy and the guy in question is not interested.

Liliantalks:
hmmmmmm okay, u might be right

That's why e good make male wey get sense be first born, he mentors the rest aright

Renida:



Eyah. What's your age group like 20-25.25-30.35-40. What's it?


I've seen strange things in life my sister. A lady with him positive status came to me for counsel. Through my sister, I gave her some tips, I swear you down, a wealthy man came some 18months after he was also HIV positive looking for love, he said he didn't want to die alone, as we're speaking she's around five years in UK.


Life may surprise you. It's for you not to give up hope.

25 - 30

I trust in God for sure . ❤️

Renida:




That's why e good make male wey get sense be first born, he mentors the rest aright

I go vex for you for this one , so woman no fit mentor the rest abi ?

Can we have this thread moved to front page for more interactions. The information in this thread already looks so valuable and would not just drive traffic and interactive discussions but would also help lots of persons in similar positions and younger ones coming behind avoid errors. Please mods

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Liliantalks:
I go vex for you for this one , so woman no fit mentor the rest abi ?

A male has a different perspective. The perspective of the female. A female mentored me, but thank God for street

Liliantalks:
25 - 30

I trust in God for sure . ❤️

See you. That's the exact age many men are looking for. I was looking for 30-32 last year sef, they still thought they were young and all acting all nonsensically till I walked away.



You're in the right age range to attract serious suitors. Improve on your self marketing, change your routine, improve on your social media handles and how you interact and project yourself. Make the spotlight attract males to you. Project your best possible self and who knows. There are many good single men in 30s I know searching o. Men are just being careful with ladies, but are ready for serious commitments

Renida:



A male has a different perspective. The perspective of the female. A female mentored me, but thank God for street

i am a first born female. I am a wonderful mentor to my younger ones lol, it’s not about gender Biko , we make the mistakes on behalf of everyone. So we r always wiser .

Liliantalks:
i am a first born female. I am a wonderful mentor to my younger ones lol, it’s not about gender Biko , we make the mistakes on behalf of everyone. So we r always wiser .

It's also why you're single. It's a double edged sword. Tell me if you have the understanding ( now entered by negative life experiences) years ago, won't you be married since?

Renida:



See you. That's the exact age many men are looking for. I was looking for 30-32 last year sef, they still thought they were young and all acting all nonsensically till I walked away.



You're in the right age range to attract serious suitors. Improve on your self marketing, change your routine, improve on your social media handles and how you interact and project yourself. Make the spotlight attract males to you. Project your best possible self and who knows. There are many good single men in 30s I know searching o. Men are just being careful with ladies, but are ready for serious commitments

Liliantalks:

A bulb called hope just sparked/ignited.

Renida:



It's also why you're single. It's a double edged sword. Tell me if you have the understanding ( now entered by negative life experiences) years ago, won't you be married since?

definitely .