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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by themaestro08(m): 9:20am On May 03, 2020 |
chubinwa: You guys talk as if one can just become rich overnight. This is pure delusion. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by humilitypays(m): 9:20am On May 03, 2020 |
Liliantalks:lol, when it comes to lifestyle, Nigerian lecturers live the most stupid and dirty lifestyle; they collect bribe from students as sorting to pass them or upgrade their exam result grade. They sleep with female students to pass them or upgrade them. They sell poorly written copy and paste handouts and nonsense textbook at outrageous price to meet up with their dream financial life they thought lecturing would provide for them. They join small boys in foolish school cult and also do jazz to protect themselves from students they maltreat, fail and sleep with. So what nonsense lifestyle are you talking about here Lilian ![]() Lecturing in Nigeria is a yeye work, Teachers are more respected and dignified than lecturers, so you better aspire to become a teacher than a lecturer if you want to live a modest life. Go back and read my edited comment you quoted, I have friends and course mates who are now lecturers, so I know ![]() 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by gentlemate00: 9:21am On May 03, 2020 |
Gbam! Ningen: |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Gentlealibu: 9:21am On May 03, 2020 |
meetme01: OP, pls follow this bolded advice. She might be your turning point in life. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by grandpoh(m): 9:25am On May 03, 2020 |
Bsc:Babcock MSC:convenant Op you sef reason am na If you were in her dads shoe what would you have done? Besides I'm sure you would have had inferiority complex any time the lady is around you cos that girl definitely would reek of class and a high standard of living. Even if the father oblige to you marrying his daughter it will not work because you will have no choice than to be subjective in the marriage.. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Omoakinzu: 9:25am On May 03, 2020 |
My own advice is get another qualification that can get close to the gal qualification . Thou qualification no mean say you can't be richer than the gal in the future. My wife is a PHD and i have master . My wife likes academic and i like biz. So get some professional qualificaiton and I'm sure it will help you to get a bigger offer from where you're working or another place in the future. You can even do online professional course too bro. If you kick start this , her papa go know say you mean well for her daughter. thank me later 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by carpdiemz: 9:26am On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me: Graduating from a polytechnic doesn’t make one to be dumb , I graduated from one of the best polytechnic in south west , You have to be very high up to beat my standard of education if you graduated from any of the glorified university in Nigeria , I study beyond my environment , it’s all about self development.... back to the subject; the guy should double up his hussle cuz all I can see here is a social class issue , if with that hnd he works at shell or dangote as a top staff , going to the girls house with a latest Mercedes Benz the story would have been different. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by gentlemate00: 9:26am On May 03, 2020 |
Like someone mention before its about your Bank account..Factory supervisor is just a modest job..If you are working with Shell or Chevron sure the father will not remember your qualification. Continue your life if the parent do not accept the relationship. Try to keep your dream bigger these could be use to push you to greater height. landmark86: |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by humilitypays(m): 9:29am On May 03, 2020 |
grandpoh:They are glorified secondary schools. You didn't even mention MIT, Harvard, London school of Economics, Cambridge, Sandford University, Oxford, ordinary Babcock and Covenant they enter with poor JAMB result, Nigerian youths are truly dumb ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Simjos(m): 9:31am On May 03, 2020 |
Nairaland is not a place for you to seek a professional advice. There are just some bunch of idiots looking for who to devour. Although there some reasonable people among them. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Exodora: 9:33am On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me:During my NYSC I met this guy , a poly graduate .He is cool but my problem with him is that , he so much believed that as a degree holder( A graduate of German Language) in near time I will secure a good job and then I will buy him a car and then fly him out of the country because of my education qualification. That was how I started hating him. That if I buy a car he will be in cahrge and other nonsense . I told him that psychologically I can't put up with his attitude and have to call it a quit. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by gotnel: 9:34am On May 03, 2020 |
Whatever your qualifications educationally, your account balance makes the difference. Your problem here is with the status financially not education qualification. Even if you are a drop out like mark Zuckerberg or bill gates and your account is speaking in million dollars, her father will receive you with plenty of celebrations. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Saintinoo(m): 9:41am On May 03, 2020 |
wman:I believe prince Harry married his class abi |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by adexpa(m): 9:42am On May 03, 2020 |
shegzydave: If you get the opportunity you go embezzle too and beside no be everybody de embezzle, we have some cool dudes who are business mogul |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by KunleyY19(m): 9:49am On May 03, 2020 |
humilitypays: Baba lecturer pass lecturer ooo.... I know one that travels abroad almost every 3 month to deliver lectures in top universities outside. He uses a Benz sef. As a very young Civil Engineering lecturer sef he still owns his own company and he his getting contracts from state government sef. It just depends on packaging jare and how the individual can maximize his potential. Even little UG girls are dying for the man. He his a star lecturer. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by LastSamurai: 9:53am On May 03, 2020 |
Exodora:I'm a poly graduate looking for a sweet young Bsc holder to be in a relationship with and I promise not to be in charge. Just spoil me small with money and I'm all yours ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by shamsin6300(m): 9:53am On May 03, 2020 |
Thiwalade: Sorry sir. What course do u read? 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by FlameZ80s(m): 9:54am On May 03, 2020 |
OP to settle this matter give me her number |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by NamelessOGBENI(m): 9:55am On May 03, 2020 |
MadeMan01:The Oracle has spoken. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by openmine(m): 9:56am On May 03, 2020 |
Ybaby:You are still making the same mistakes that you made in your previously postulated comments! You are still assuming and second guessing what the lady's father is thinking which might be totally wrong! Let's follow through with what the OP said....there are people like that lady's father who have such mindset about a poly graduate! I have studied quite keenly your trail of comments....hence these are my observations/queries... You have spoken about the school their future children might attend...what about the peace in that marriage? Will having a Harvard degree or the kind of assets like Akin alabi guarantee a peaceful and loving marriage? Furthermore,Has anyone including you bothered to ask what the lady actually wants? For Christ sake,this lady is neither a teen or a child...she is a full grown adult who can make her decisions without any kind of interference from her parents despite taking their daughter to one of the expensive schools in the country! This is NOT a business transaction or a job employment that requires a paper qualification to enter.....this is about MARRIAGE! She is the one that will decide OP's next step and not whether he is a Harvard graduate or if her prospective suitor is an aliko dangote! One of the reasons why some ladies in naija are yet to get married is because they are looking for a future hubby with a Harvard certificate or a reputable businessman just to please her parents! |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Oneday82: 10:01am On May 03, 2020 |
My guy go and make money and return back. Qualifications is just a paper, don't be deceived with it. The man wants a future for her daughter, he only used that to keep you away from her daughter. But if you make a real money, the man will be proud of you. That is why we the igbos don't take sheet, na hustle. Whenever fortune smiles on you, your enemy will relocate. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by meetme01: 10:01am On May 03, 2020 |
emmaodet: I totally accept your submission. Can't stop laughing. It's through though. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 10:01am On May 03, 2020 |
jaxxy: Let me explain something. Men donot menstruate or get pregnant... in a family setting what men bring is finance - the woman brings the rest. So it is natural for men to pull a woman up because she like mother nature will return is seed with harvest. She has a womb (soil) within her to carry his lineage to earth. She will trade her beauty, memory, hair, brain, body and much more to achieve this for him. Give her a seed she will give you harvest. 2. The girl is not his mother or father and any man waiting for a woman to encourage him is lazy. Women encourage men but it is not by force. Through her actions of bettering her self or her parents action of bettering her , a hardworking man would have been doing copy and paste. 2b. I did not see him encouraging the girl or talking about his plans only love as if Jesus love is not sufficient for us all. 3. Now that the girl did not encourage him and he did not encourage himself who has been rejected .....? In life you push yourself... help comes from God. Anyone who does not menstruate or have menstral pain waiting for helper instead of entering market to do baranda is a joke. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Tumbulum: 10:01am On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me:you guys should stop being funny. The op didn't meet her as a MSC holder and working in a top coy to classify him as a gold digger. They meet when they were just Nysc members and the relationship has been there. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 10:02am On May 03, 2020 |
micxwell:i swr�� 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by spiceadole: 10:04am On May 03, 2020 |
igbowoman: Did you graduate from Covenant,Babcock,Bowen or Igbinedion? What is your profession? What kind of job were you doing and how much were you earning? I bet if you were in the high social class,you won't stoop low. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 10:06am On May 03, 2020 |
openmine: Risi omo Iya alagbo will give him more peace than this lady can. Marriage is a legal contract ... it is a business. Donot get it twisted. People choose to love .... loving someone is a choice but marriage is a legal business contract. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 10:07am On May 03, 2020 |
Tumbulum: He saw her bright future jo. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 10:08am On May 03, 2020 |
openmine: So if ladies are looking for a successful man let the men be successful.... abi? Marriage to a poor man is worse than no marriage abeg. What will you feed your children ...... |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Fakelondonboi(m): 10:10am On May 03, 2020 |
tidalstorm: IS A GOOD EDUCATION FROM A RICH MAN'S UNI A DETERMINANT OF A GOOD HUSBAND MATERIAL? |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 10:11am On May 03, 2020 |
mechanics: Good for her. She is your daughter. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Tumbulum: 10:13am On May 03, 2020 |
Ybaby:fucccck. How can you know one has a bright future?Everyone has a bright future but that may never come to frutition if one does not work hard. |
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