Is there anything you have done because of love which you regret anytime you remember?

Hmmm, I can remember a friend of mine that helped his new girlfriend to write an exam, this my friend (Let me call him A) is a scholar on a good day, this babe begged him to write an exam because she has failed that same exam back to back, she couldn't afford another failure. My guy being the Samaritan he is agreed but with the promise of entering the promise land after all said and done.

We the friends gingered him and some advised against it.

To cut the story short, he was caught and saved by a hair's breadth, the said girl reneged on her promise and threaten to 'finish' my guy if he make any advance towards her.

Come see how she was loyal prior the exam, this made my friend never to try such and anytime he remembers, he always seem like crying. We do taunt him till today and to cap it all, he had to pay his way out with his own money.


Share your experience...

Travelled from Lagos to Abuja to visit my 'Nigerian' girlfriend via land. On reaching to Utako park, the uber driver she sent to pick me happens to be her main boyfriend.
It ended in pains.

It made me lose a good friend. Bobo was like, "don't relate with him again. in fact, block him" and I did but it later didn't work out between us. Now I can't even face the friend again. Regrets...

I ve never been in love.

Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment where I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou)

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paid salary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent within 5 years was around €125,500+ (54,233,804.62 naira) reason why I didn't not send to my mum is I wanted to make it a surprise for my her (only child)..

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

Ok

I'm still a baby, dont even know what is Love, not to talk of regretting it aftermaths or consequence

Honestly I can't write about it coz I will get loads of insults here...... Each time I reflect on the things I've done for love it breaks my heart. Love is a serious mental illness! God forbid

Fetched 33 Jerrycan of water for them... Packed her mums stuff to the market on my head... all in the name of love... Don't even know where the 4 o'clock eyed girl is now sef... Truly she been Put me for inside bottle

Osobi32:
Honestly I can't write about it coz I will get loads of insults here...... Each time I reflect on the things I've done for love it breaks my heart. Love is a serious mental illness! God forbid

Say it out.. Nothing much.. The insults will help heal you.

Osobi32:
Honestly I can't write about it coz I will get loads of insults here...... Each time I reflect on the things I've done for love it breaks my heart. Love is a serious mental illness! God forbid

Just share at least one biko.
You are anonymous now.

raphretle:
Fetched 33 Jerrycan of water for them...
Packed her mums stuff to the market on my head... all in the name of love...
Don't even know where the 4 o'clock eyed girl is now sef...
Truly she been Put me for inside bottle

Lol@she put me for inside bottle.

So who broke d bottle to set you free?

Davash222:

Say it out.. Nothing much.. The insults will help heal you.

You are not serious o.

raphretle:
Fetched 33 Jerrycan of water for them...
Packed her mums stuff to the market on my head... all in the name of love...
Don't even know where the 4 o'clock eyed girl is now sef...
Truly she been Put me for inside bottle

She is short, abi?
Na so short girls dey do.

dayleke:

Lol@she pit me for inside bottle.
So who broke d bottle to set you free?

They later packed out of the area....

Davash222:
She is short, abi? Na so short girls dey do.

Lol

Getting married to a father of two kids from two different women , it ended in tears, emotional trauma and depression. I guess I loved the very wrong person

ahnie:
I ve never been in love.

We know already.

ahnie:
I ve never been in love.

How come you're then a mother? Did your child come by immaculate conception and perhaps is the Messiah I've been waiting for since or should I be expecting another or is it an occupational hazard?

Osobi32:
Honestly I can't write about it coz I will get loads of insults here...... Each time I reflect on the things I've done for love it breaks my heart. Love is a serious mental illness! God forbid

Please tell us now... Please...


This thread is gonna be interesting!

julieeni:
Getting married to a father of two kids from two different women , it ended in tears, emotional trauma and depression. I guess I loved the very wrong person

Hmmm which kind man be that? Wait a minute did you give him a child too? 3 kids from 3 diff women holyyy shittt!!

I would go to their House and help her with all her House Chores

I give her my last dime just for her to be happy

How far about the relationship now

Was claiming Virgin, and i was happy forming "A guy with a Virgin Babe, na me go break her" Little did i know that the girl has pacific Ocean under her leg...

Chaii, I don mumu for this life no be small

MedicH:


Hmmm which kind man be that? Wait a minute did you give him a child too? 3 kids from 3 diff women holyyy shittt!!

yes, I gave him a son, he got a place and moved in with another woman while I was with his parents. Didn't know about it until when he was posted to Abuja and we had to join him, that was when I knew he still got a house there in Abuja and moved in with same lady, while I was hustling for money to give to him to rent at least a room for us... everything came out in the open anyway and I had to come back to my parents. He got married to the lady few months after I left and she put to birth around Nov. My worse mistake

Lamanii22:



Please tell us now... Please...


This thread is gonna be interesting!

I know u all are prepared to laugh at my stupidity abi.... I will not pen it down abeg but just know say my Bleep up dey extraordinary.

raphretle:



They later packed out of the area....

Good.
Happy for you.

julieeni:
yes, I gave him a son, he got a place and moved in with another woman while I was with his parents. Didn't know about it until when he was posted to Abuja and we had to join him, that was when I knew he still got a house there in Abuja and moved in with same lady, while I was hustling for money to give to him to rent at least a room for us... everything came out in the open anyway and I had to come back to my parents. He got married to the lady few months after I left and she put to birth around Nov. My worse mistake

But whyy naa? Which kind thing be this? This is a catastrophy of fundamental proportions and geez this is the height of wickedness. Iniquity shall abound and the love of many shall wax cold my bible tells me. Just find a way to be okay dear.

julieeni:
yes, I gave him a son, he got a place and moved in with another woman while I was with his parents. Didn't know about it until when he was posted to Abuja and we had to join him, that was when I knew he still got a house there in Abuja and moved in with same lady, while I was hustling for money to give to him to rent at least a room for us... everything came out in the open anyway and I had to come back to my parents. He got married to the lady few months after I left and she put to birth around Nov. My worse mistake

wow! This one strong ooo. So sorry dear

Davash222:
Travelled from Lagos to Abuja to visit my 'Nigerian' girlfriend via land. On reaching to Utako park, the uber driver she sent to pick me happens to be her main boyfriend.
It ended in pains.

Kpele

Davash222:

Say it out.. Nothing much.. The insults will help heal you.

all I can say here to all the single guys, when u are in a relationship and in love pls try to always listen to people around u mostly ur siblings, they see things u don't see coz ur emotions has blinded u.

I distanced myself from my close buddies because they didn't like her and she didn't like them as well. She's everything a man should not ask for in a woman, well except her incredible physique and pretty face that is all.Her character is -20. I sympathise with the man who's gonna wife that girl.
After she dumped me, my buddies mocked me for days. But what can I say, I was only 19 and silly drunk in love then

MedicH:


But whyy naa? Which kind thing be this? This is a catastrophy of fundamental proportions and geez this is the height of wickedness. Iniquity shall abound and the love of many shall wax cold my bible tells me. Just find a way to be okay dear.

I'm over it now, at least I didn't give in to thoughts of commiting suicide I used to hate him and wish him death, but not anymore because I have forgiven him and I wish him well, but he will never see his son again.

Osobi32:
wow! This one strong ooo. So sorry dear

Thank you