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Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nobody: 3:02pm On May 05, 2020 |
djon78: Thanks God you know the basics, before you conclude men are selfish how about we analyse r/ships women had upperhand (i.e the men more in love) is the same "maltreat" women dish out to them .. please go research babalola & his wife. The best form of marriage remains wife & hubby 60-40 respectively cos men manage power well than women, whoever is less in love as more power in that r/ship. such power is like an alcohol men handle it better. I don't see how settling for a rich man, enforces a perfect marriage or home ... both poor& rich men are fallible, women only came up with "it is beta to cry in a mansion than cry in a face me i slap you" to console there being ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by djon78(m): 3:33pm On May 05, 2020 |
anslem04: Actually there are more divorce than ever before because people are becoming more insensitive to relationships. Which sometimes have been as a result of past suffered wrong. True those married to a rich or made man is not a guarantee of happiness. Same way some ladies are married to a poor man and are still unhappy in the relationship. So they prefer the made guys. The truth is that for a union to be successful it involves a serious work from both the man and the woman. Once one part renegades from its own share of contribution, the union will fall. They may not divorce, but it won't be a good experience. There are couples having a terrific enjoyment in there marriages, but it's work. A good marriage is the closest way to experience heaven on earth. Because the only tangible thing that we humans leave on earth anyday we die is good memories in the lives of our loved ones and good legacies. Nothing else, even if you have all the money, treasures in this life. The day man dies, not even one cent is following him to the grave. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nobody: 4:51pm On May 05, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: Almost in all cases. 1 Like |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nobody: 4:52pm On May 05, 2020 |
djon78: May ur days be long. Op just please learn to save for the raining day. 1 Like |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nobody: 4:54pm On May 05, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: My perfect score. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by emmaodet: 4:57pm On May 05, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: Don't get me wrong, am not annoyed. Annoyed over what? I don't have that time. Just saying it the way it is. I only pointed out a fact from you statement that - You can only date a rich guy if he approaches you(and that is hiw far you can control the relationship or the limit of your power) while the guy reserves the right to either sleep with you and dump you after agreeing to is offer or he decides to marry you (you don't have control on who marry you, rather who you date). And that statement above is the fact, am not lying. You said should they advise themselves to About guys also looking for working class girls - of course, what do you think? For a working class guy to marry a jobless lady? Will a lady do that too? Most guys expectations are feasible or realizable unlike ladies. A lady who is staying at isheri-idimu will be dreaming and hoping to date a man at lekki or VGC all in the name of scamming him with Love and Submission (who needs that anyway) just to alleviate her from poverty. A working class guy working and staying at isheri-idimu will be looking for a working class lady within the environment and class e.g Egbeda and that is feasible. Over and out 3 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nobody: 5:07pm On May 05, 2020 |
princessConfy: A friend once had a guy like this they broke up ND the lady he later got married to is almost equivalent to a slave. U should know ur self worth. abi if he leave u another man nor go come. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by djon78(m): 5:10pm On May 05, 2020 |
iamloyalty: Amen ooooo I receive it in Jesus name!!! |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by CHoccolaTE: 5:16pm On May 05, 2020 |
emmaodet: Which religion are you Christian, Muslim or juju worshiper |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by pocohantas(f): 6:08pm On May 05, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: So pained!!! ![]() ![]() eyinjuege: Pink ba? I sha like the pill. ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by emmaodet: 6:15pm On May 05, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: Hahahahaha ![]() ![]() ChiccolaTEeeeeeeeee Christian
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Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by CHoccolaTE: 6:23pm On May 05, 2020 |
emmaodet: I will continue telling women to only marry rich/comfortable guys. No sensible human, male or female likes poverty, no woman in her right mind will open eyes and marry a poor broke guy, sorry if you are broke maybe that's why this issue is peppering you but remember that in your religion men are supposed to provide for women in exchange for women submitting to them. That's why women look for guys that can do a good job providing for them.women dont attack you guys when you say you want to marry submissive and obedient women so dont get defensive when they say they like rich men. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by crackkhaus: 6:32pm On May 05, 2020 |
Today they want men who will provide for them, tomorrow they will say men are no longer sole providers in relationships... I can't keep up The provision is hardly even the problem. The real funny thing is that these women after getting the well-to-do guy, will still assume they are the only ones entitled to your money when in fact there are countless other women more beautiful than them willing to open nyansh for the same money... lol ![]() 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by emmaodet: 6:45pm On May 05, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: Lol Like i said before, they can only date rich guys and not marry them. Marrying a lady is the exclusive right of a man unless the man is not financially buoyant, in such case they are the ones pestering ladies to marry them. I approached my wife then girlfriend, she accepted but during the relationship, she stylishly told me are we not settling down soon and marry? Because her sister will soon marry her bf. You see, she had the power to yes to me for dating but i had the power of saying Yes, let us marry. Point of correction, am not broke and your comments didn't get to me at all, Nah. Also like i said, it is only a poor man with low self esteem that will be worried women are avoiding broke men. Women avoiding broke guys is a Blessing in disguise because in their own little way they can quietly enjoy their little money without dramas or headache. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by CHoccolaTE: 7:00pm On May 05, 2020 |
emmaodet: Whatever mehn, I can't read this your long novel, bye. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by emmaodet: 7:38pm On May 05, 2020 |
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Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Ayinke93(f): 8:51pm On May 05, 2020 |
[quote author=Illuminated993 post=89168431]You've been able to whitewash your husband. The next step should be heeding to the advices of the useless women in the comment section, so that you can finally destroy your marriage. When you destroy the marriage, I'll be here to congratulate you for joining the club of the "liberated sisters". The bar has come so low now that we have to glorify suffering and call a woman patient for taking bullshit from her husband all in the name of being married and advise her to keep praying for the "man of the house" change, massage is ego continuously and hope he drops his toxic traits.. lol Everyone, both male and female should be accountable for their wrongs. We should stop telling women to hit the prayer room and hope that someone with an obvious bloated ego relaxes. If roles were switched and a man that came up with the same story, I'm sure you'll be the one clamouring for him to dump her sorry ass because she doesn't respect him. I really do not know what constitution stated that respect is solely for one gender. That your mum went through all that toxicity and now it has reduced because the man is older doesn't make it right. You might even need to seek therapy because it's obvious you think that's a standard for good marriage when your story screams toxicity. stating their story while advicing a woman in pains is very comical. Address the issue which is obviously a sick man and leave your archaic standard out of it. 1 Like |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nobody: 9:49pm On May 05, 2020 |
Time to delete this account. [quote author=Ayinke93 post=89227968][/quote] |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Ayinke93(f): 9:52pm On May 05, 2020 |
Illuminated993:Lol |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Fabuloski(m): 10:05pm On May 05, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:He has said the truth that you ladies don't want to talk about now. You do know a lot of female folks are reading your post and I think you owe them the whole truth. They don't get to choose who date them or marry them. Men do the wooing, and the number of rich girls is very low compared to the number of females available. This ratio is not going to get better, as a matter of fact it will worsen starting from this post covid-19 era. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by CHoccolaTE: 10:41pm On May 05, 2020 |
Fabuloski: See painment Men hustle oo, Hustle so that you will not suffer sifia pains when women say they want only rich guys ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Fabuloski(m): 10:45pm On May 05, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:Now this reply is funny because it's the complete contrast of my person. I am less concerned about the pain you keep talking about, I only asked you to say the complete truth. Shalom 1 Like |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by ImaIma1(f): 11:21pm On May 05, 2020 |
anslem04: Seems like you are just giving excuses for men and transferring the burden of making a marriage work to the woman alone. I still maintain that both are responsible for the marriage and one should not be let off the hook for whatever reason. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by candy2016(f): 11:21pm On May 05, 2020 |
KanuSE:ok oóo |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by ccffwx: 11:39pm On May 05, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: Whoever you are, I liked this a zillion times! Truth everyone knows but no one wants to accept. 1 Like |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by ImaIma1(f): 12:24am On May 06, 2020 |
emmaodet: People have different expectations and ways to go about achieving them. Even if a lady is not from a rich family but she gets an education, polishes herself, chooses her crowd, she can get the kind of man she seeks. We are not talking about the kind of ladies that remain redundant and wake up everyday with no plans for the future but just looking for a man to leech on. Not every girl will marry a struggling guy. Guys should learn to deal with this fact rather than always bellyaching when a girl points out she wants a comfortable guy. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by ImaIma1(f): 12:30am On May 06, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: Most struggling/broke Nigerian husbands are ticking time bombs. They become so touchy and sensitive. They can sniff rudeness from hours away and are always ready to pounce. The ego multiplies by 10 and the wife has to walk on eggshells around him. God help us 4 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by emmaodet: 12:56am On May 06, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Ooohhhhhhhh (rolls eyes) Nairalandersssssa From my write up, did i say ladies shouldn't date rich guys? I only said they can date rich guys if the rich guys approaches them and that is how far their power is in the relationship and this is true. Whether the man will now marry you or not is up to him and not you anymore - Have said anything special here? Is it not the truth? He has many ladies at his disposal and when he is ready to settle down, he will weigh his options and pick the best for himself. For example - when i was dating my wife then as gf, i had other friends but nothing attached. I had a civil defence officer, a custom officer lady , a lady from a rich home and then my wife from an average home (dad working as a doctor in saudi arabia, mum principal) I can't have these type of ladies at my disposal at my level and settle down with a struggling poor woman who only has beauty and nice shape to display Have paid my dues as a man and it is only normal to select who will complement me. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by duchaB(m): 2:01am On May 06, 2020 |
No need to theorise things on here.All these opinions. No need to analyse matters of matrimony cos it has many deep layers the mind wld never comprehend. Marriage is mainly spiritual and karmic. I think in life, one either has a fortunate, unfortunate or semi fortunate matrimony. The majority of humanity gets an unfortunate matrimony, the rest get semi fortunate and very few get a fortunate matrimony. There are people that also remarry and turn from unfiortintae to fortunate or semi fortunate matrimony. One must just learn how to react prayerfully and consciously with intelligence to all the ugly drama of matrimony if one finds themselves in it so as to avoid causing problems for one self and others. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by duchaB(m): 2:09am On May 06, 2020 |
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Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by duchaB(m): 2:23am On May 06, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You have offloaded all the garbage piled up in your mental body, While in the field of practical life events, you would be completely clueless as to what to do. You, give yourself wisdom and be quiet! |
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