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Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Alfather: 7:23am On May 06, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:is high time you settle down, riches is not every thing |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Alfather: 7:34am On May 06, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:being in rich man is not all roses, it takes years of hard work and deligent. Can the female folks wait? Your ideology is a support for the female folks,so you think, but it goes againts them in age. What you are saying indirectly is women should marry older men who are well extablish, and older men settle for younger women. So people like you end up being even newspaper. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Jman06(m): 7:52am On May 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Thank you sir for this post! That's what I have been saying. Our fathers were the providers and we are ready and willing to also work hard and smart to be wealthy and also provide. But our mothers also knew their places as submissive wives and so, they were willing to accommodate and live with their co-wives and even concubines. So, our ladies should also be like our foremothers! Many of us have resolved not to even "toast" Nigerian ladies until we have made money on the condition that when we eventually marry them, the following rules shall obtain: 1. We must be able to use our money to 'acquire' other beautiful and sexy women just like we acquire latest car models...it doesn't matter if we marry such other ladies or not, they can be side chicks or whatever 2. You must not see yourselves as equal partners to us. Just take whatever level we decide to place you in our lives based on your submissiveness. Just be submissive, we'll "take care of your needs" in our own ways. 3. Our relatives must have unrestricted access to our homes and you must not question our decisions to accommodate a relative. You must allow us to use our discretion to decide who visits or who doesn't. I also expect Nigerian ladies to stop getting worried when a man insists on marrying virgin girls in their late teens and early twenties. He who has the money also has the right to make a choice. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nobody: 7:53am On May 06, 2020 |
ImaIma1: In whatever pattern a bird flies we just av to throw it stone, i focus solely on woman here because the person in need of an advice is a woman. Her hubby might be the culprit buh it makes no sense advicing someone not here. abi On another similar thread, the man seeking advice, i focus solely on the man suggesting counter behaviours ... seem he as tried every gud advice.. you shuld see that thread.
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Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:54am On May 06, 2020 |
duchaB: That's exactly what I'll do as well. A stingy man is a no-no for me. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by crackkhaus: 8:04am On May 06, 2020 |
Jman06:You're a real G. Any man who knows himself lives by these principles, I see them everyday around me...Men with well crafted OT. As a wife/gf, you can't be well pampered and taken care of, then still want to open mouth to decide how your man should spend the money you did not make for him or who he can spend it on. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Alfather: 8:09am On May 06, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:If you decide not to get married in life is because you have failed in that aspect. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Jman06(m): 8:11am On May 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus:The most annoying part is when they start creating boundaries between the man and his siblings in his house. That attitude annoys me like mad! |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by crackkhaus: 8:33am On May 06, 2020 |
Jman06:It shouldn't annoy you so much. As long as you're in charge of yourself and your home, there's very little your wife will be able to do in manipulating you into having her way. 8 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by ImaIma1(f): 8:55am On May 06, 2020 |
emmaodet: But a lady should have rich and poor guys at her disposal and settle for the poor one abi? Rich guys are constantly marrying poor girls and rich girls marry poor guys. It's not only money people have to offer. When I was also planning to marry, I had a guy that had his own company, plus an interstate transport business: quite rich and I had a civil servant working with the fed govt and another doctor based in the US. And I wasn't from a rich home. I chose the civil servant. So stop thinking it's totally up to the man. What makes him decide to or not? Is it not the value you add to him? Or is it all about money for you? |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by duduade: 10:48am On May 06, 2020 |
So what I don't understand is why are people who are still managing go on to give birth to 3 or 4 or more kids when the more than average couple stick to two kids... 1 Like |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Raalsalghul: 12:04pm On May 06, 2020 |
duduade: "Children are blessings from God" "God will take care of them" "They are my investment" "So they will take care of me" You know, all those sentimental stupid statements with no iota of sense. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by ImaIma1(f): 12:11pm On May 06, 2020 |
duduade: -Mindset -Mentality -Lack of planning -Believing that God that gives children will take care of them. -Saying they have always wanted to have a particular number of children without surveying if their pockets can handle it. I have a family member/relative that has two kids and says he's done that he has no money for more. The wife gives birth abroad and they travel for vacation abroad. Meanwhile, someone with so much less will go ahead and keep having them and saying God will take care of them. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Genset: 12:43pm On May 06, 2020 |
Alfather: U can't even type properly SMH. I say it again that na broke/poor/struggling people full nairaland. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by emmaodet: 2:30pm On May 06, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Well, what else can i say. Of course, money shouldn't be the bedrock or major determinant of relationship/marriage but it seems nowadays it is and more ladies are money conscious in their decision making but it is well. May God grant all of us our heart desires, Shalom |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Alfather: 4:20pm On May 06, 2020 |
Genset:the poorest man is not a man without kobo, but a man without a dream. millipede has many legs does not make him the fastest animal. That is, you are the richest does not mean you are the wisess. dangote was once a poor man, he sold sachet of sweet back in his school days. What is he today? The richest man in the whole of africa. wisdom gems: when a man is determine is a matter of time. The road to success is not realy easy, go ask joseph a former minister of egypt, he will tell you. thanks 1 Like |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by djon78(m): 6:37pm On May 06, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Very good. I like this reply. Guys think women don't reject rich made guys. Everyone goes for what will work for them. There was one where the first born of a billionaire was rejected by a girl from there town. And she picked an upcoming young dude. The guy rejected was mad that with all there money. The truth is that quality, responsible women, young from poor homes still make there choices from various suitors. I have seen it countless times. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by ImaIma1(f): 7:13pm On May 06, 2020 |
djon78: For me, I projected into the future based on the character of the three men. It wasn't enough for me to be married to a rich guy that was not disciplined in his life and now be frustrated later. Or to be miserable in the US with a man I wasn't sure I knew well. And I have been enjoying peace and happiness for the past years. Thank God 2 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by djon78(m): 8:05pm On May 06, 2020 |
ImaIma1: You were wise and you knew the most important thing you wanted in life. And you made the right choice. Enjoy your life jare |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by cocolacec(m): 6:44am On May 07, 2020 |
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Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by COdeGenesis: 11:58am On May 08, 2020 |
nautybride: You tend to forget money is not everything. Marriages this days do not last long because people dont create time for themselves. Even married couples don't know themselves. Money is not everyone's priority. It is not a do or die affair aunty |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by platido(m): 10:07pm On May 11, 2020 |
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Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Layographics(m): 10:10pm On May 11, 2020 |
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Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by GeneralPula: 10:13pm On May 11, 2020 |
The percentage of useless marriages is way higher than the percentage of happy marriages.. Marriages are for olden days people.. When every gender knows his or her compulsory role.. Some factores like being submissive, loyalty has already gotten extinct. You won’t just find them anymore.. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by hustla(m): 10:14pm On May 11, 2020 |
All those guys wey dey form Pastor, runnnnnnn from them. So obvious your husband has low self esteem 2 Likes |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by FGonline: 10:16pm On May 11, 2020 |
Jullima:if you can comport urselv and talk......fine |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Toks2008(m): 10:17pm On May 11, 2020 |
MizJaY this is a phase in your marriage. Relax and be prayerful. It will pass and you will have a reason to thank GOD you never gave up. Your husband is still the spiritual and loving type, just passing through some form of pressure. Respond less to him and pray more for him and your family. It is well with your marriage. |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by igbowoman: 10:18pm On May 11, 2020 |
MizJaY: Husband matter no easy.Please manage him.Get yourself some friends and gisting buddies. Join a good facebook or whatsapp group to use and distract yourself so you dont keep looking at his face. Find your class alumni group and join them online. Start an exercise routine to stay fit Squeeze out money buy some shoes Get your hair done or get 2 good wigs for your hair and make up for your face.You must do that Take care of yourself Dont allow him stress u out or you will get a stroke,you are already on BP medications. Download some good music and dance Get some good books or ebooks and read Dont apologize if you've not done anything and I promise you he will have no choice but to change or adjust. If you keep apologizing he will never learn. You must find what makes you happy and do it. If you spend your life looking at his face you will die young |
Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Dcoy: 10:19pm On May 11, 2020 |
MizJaY:See how quickly you join mouth with stranger online to insult someone you have four kids with.. now that's a part of you, your story did not tell us.. you are the type that discuss your husband with everyone and join them to criticize him.. that's if this thread isn't fake 3 Likes |
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