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You will find him at Number 1 Futa Jallon street off Kiriji Layout. Directly opposite New Believers Ministries. Ask for Akenzua when you get to the church

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25tolife:
aruba i greet you..... I sight ur signature likwise ur profile.....based on say me like to dae tackle ppl 4 nairaland and i no go like go tackle my mlordy......i greet u again bros

DDRM

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NonsoNathan100:

Served in 2014
Maybe left for Greece in 2015
Came back 2019 (i guess) and she is married with a kid.
Made more than 54 million wethin that space of time.
Bro invite me to your place of worship please

I was forced to pull out my scientific calculator.

ahnie:
I ve never been in love.

try it

Wow

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

is this real? How could a girl be that wicked....dats awhole lot of money!!

AbbeyvanPersie:
let Ishilove catch you. That woman is short but she's cool.

Ishilove is not short. Heard she's big headed and chubby.

Jackossky:
Is there anything you have done because of love which you regret anytime you remember?

Hmmm, I can remember a friend of mine that helped his new girlfriend to write an exam, this my friend (Let me call him A) is a scholar on a good day, this babe begged him to write an exam because she has failed that same exam back to back, she couldn't afford another failure. My guy being the Samaritan he is agreed but with the promise of entering the promise land after all said and done.

We the friends gingered him and some advised against it.

To cut the story short, he was caught and saved by a hair's breadth, the said girl reneged on her promise and threaten to 'finish' my guy if he make any advance towards her.

Come see how she was loyal prior the exam, this made my friend never to try such and anytime he remembers, he always seem like crying. We do taunt him till today and to cap it all, he had to pay his way out with his own money.


Share your experience...

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The only stupid thing I did all in the name of love which I can't stop blaming myself for is putting my relationship on social media and at the same time engaging in a long distance relationship where you are the only one traveling while the other party chose to stay in her father's house. That is stupidity. The relationship got crashed in spite of my commitment and sacrifice.

Nothing.

I have never and can never love another person.

Don't get me wrong.

I actually do like people but I don't love them.

That is how it works with me.

Now coming to the people I like, I don't think anyone in this life has actually done something to me that I can find so annoying to the extent that I can't move on...

Nah... not me!

Jackossky:
Is there anything you have done because of love which you regret anytime you remember?

Hmmm, I can remember a friend of mine that helped his new girlfriend to write an exam, this my friend (Let me call him A) is a scholar on a good day, this babe begged him to write an exam because she has failed that same exam back to back, she couldn't afford another failure. My guy being the Samaritan he is agreed but with the promise of entering the promise land after all said and done.

We the friends gingered him and some advised against it.

To cut the story short, he was caught and saved by a hair's breadth, the said girl reneged on her promise and threaten to 'finish' my guy if he make any advance towards her.

Come see how she was loyal prior the exam, this made my friend never to try such and anytime he remembers, he always seem like crying. We do taunt him till today and to cap it all, he had to pay his way out with his own money.


Share your experience...

This is contrary to your question cos your guy was not in love. He just wanted to have a taste of something he never had.

raphretle:
Fetched 33 Jerrycan of water for them...
Packed her mums stuff to the market on my head... all in the name of love...
Don't even know where the 4 o'clock eyed girl is now sef...
Truly she been Put me for inside bottle

Haha haha. Laugh wan kill me ....

I don't knw wht to say ooo

because l always Bleep married woman

Couldn’t eat for two days because we were having issue. I wonder how someone could have had such control over me.

julieeni:
No I wasn't abov 30, I was just 26yrs and No, I didn't have a child. I didn't comment on this post because I wanted to gain sympathy from anyone but because I wanted everyone out there to never let their hearts to control their head. I finally had the courage to post this and most of my friends don't even know I'm out of marriage. This happened a year ago and I've moved on, I'm now stronger, wiser, I hustle legit and I'm glad things are falling back in place. I didn't lose, he lost

U assume he lost but do u know if u r the one that lost..
He is probably living his life in a fulfilled way with his wife and another kid and u said he lost

Sorry in what way

lamalama:
trained a girl in the university even sponsored her overseas but she dumped me and married a white man

I almost liked your post until I felt liking it might mean I felt good about what happened in your story.
Damn! We need better emojis in this forum.

donsheddy1:
This is contrary to your question cos your guy was not in love. He just wanted to have a taste of something he never had.

It was done out of love.

I met this girl ( an undergraduate , year 2) while I was doing my NYSC , I refuse to date any fellow Corp member because I felt I have found true love , Immediately I finished my NYSC , i secured a job In Abuja , I promised to come back and make things formal with her, ( marriage ) .
One day , I travelled from Abuja to Zaria to see her with lots of expensive dresses ,
Upon arriving Zaria , she told me I can't see her cos she's in love with a guy who is always there for her . I was left heart broken , .

Few years back , she called and want to come back but no way .

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Hmmm..I used to love by my brain but not by my heart...my heart is unbreakable

[quote author=julieeni post=89140944] yes, I gave him a son, he got a place and moved in with another woman while I was with his parents. Didn't know about it until when he was posted to Abuja and we had to join him, that was when I knew he still got a house there in Abuja and moved in with same lady, while I was hustling for money to give to him to rent at least a room for us... everything came out in the open anyway and I had to come back to my parents. He got married to the lady few months after I left and she put to birth around Nov. My worse mistake [/quote
My dear , in life we all make mistakes- shits do happen to everyone but those who turn out great are those who have learn to forget it and keep moving forward
Life is too short to be spent on holding onto the past
HAKUNNA MATATA

apexc1825:
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Scam

grafixdon:
Though she's my crush then, but I love her so so much.

She was schooling in ado, it was around 2010... I travelled from Lagos to Ado just to see her. Bought provisions (milk, bread, 5alive,soaps,bounvita etc).

I got to her hostel around 2am because there's a heavy traffic. I almost fainted when I met a guy at her place at that time putting on just boxer, she later introduced the guy as her boyfriend. Both of them slept on the bed while she gave me mat to sleep on. I couldn't sleep because I could hear them fvcking.

The following morning, she prepared the bread, milk and bounvita I bought with my money for her boyfriend. Oboy, I don suffer.

U tried ooo ... U for die that Night ... I will never sleep in that room ... Hotel straight ... Eje riru (Hypertension) go kee me !!

ahnie:
I ve never been in love.

lemme show you how to love dear

The only stupid thing I did all in the name of love which I can't stop blaming myself for is putting my relationship on social media and at the same time engaging in a long distance relationship which I was the only one traveling to my girl's place. She only came visiting once in 11 months. That is stupidity. The relationship got crashed in spite of my commitment and sacrifice.

lamalama:
trained a girl in the university even sponsored her overseas but she dumped me and married a white man

Men should stop doing this nonsense!!!

Stevecreativex:
yunno my initial plan was to surprise my family with that house...

And for a girl I dated then and she has sacrifice her salary for me then I so much trust her..

So that was what prompt my trust on her...

Hush! She didn't sacrifice anything. She only assisted because she thought it would help you in achieving that bright future which will eventually benefit her as you will end up spending way more on her than she can ever give you financially. Women don't give men financially for free or out of love. Women only give if they think they will get something equal or more in return in the short or long term.

seanwilliam:
you are right .. when one is in love especially man. He looses his senses

Not all men please.

machiavelli95:


You are loud and uncouth!!! The OP said he transferred over 500,000 euros back home. PTDF scholarship lasts for one year. The per-capita income of Greece hovers between 16,000 Euros to 20,000 Euros.
Now the op was not even a citizen, but was a student qualifying him for only part-time jobs.

Why are you wasting your time on smallies who can't tell a fable from a real gist...?

The smart ones will know how false the story was when he mentioned Pounds Sterling.

Greek nationals never get job na you wey say you come study wan come dey send Pounds come house?

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

bro try to forget about the past, good girls are still outside there, if u can't let the past go you won't be able to see front,
let me your friend so that you can arrange any Greece girl for since am single too....thanks

Stevecreativex:



The building was initially to surprise my family and she was the the only one I trusted then..

For someone to sacrifice a whole month salary on my behalf, Yo if twas you, you might have no other choice than to trust you know...

I am disappointed in u bro.... U didn't trust ur mum but trust a lady coz she gave u one month salary.. Very bad ooo very bad...

U shud have atlesst trust ur own mum or ur brother...

U lost big time and that lady won big time

julieeni:
I'm over it now, at least I didn't give in to thoughts of commiting suicide I used to hate him and wish him death, but not anymore because I have forgiven him and I wish him well, but he will never see his son again.

You are punishing your son, not him. If you love your son, always allow him speak with his father.

Jackossky:
Is there anything you have done because of love which you regret anytime you remember?

Hmmm, I can remember a friend of mine that helped his new girlfriend to write an exam, this my friend (Let me call him A) is a scholar on a good day, this babe begged him to write an exam because she has failed that same exam back to back, she couldn't afford another failure. My guy being the Samaritan he is agreed but with the promise of entering the promise land after all said and done.

We the friends gingered him and some advised against it.

To cut the story short, he was caught and saved by a hair's breadth, the said girl reneged on her promise and threaten to 'finish' my guy if he make any advance towards her.

Come see how she was loyal prior the exam, this made my friend never to try such and anytime he remembers, he always seem like crying. We do taunt him till today and to cap it all, he had to pay his way out with his own money.


Share your experience...

I've travelled long distances despite d risks to visit my ex
I don't want to mention the monies I have spent, and some 'nasty' things she made me do
Henceforth, loving with my 2 eyes open, walahi