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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by quivah(f): 1:12pm On May 08, 2020 |
wiseone28:But you guys are rude to her too ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by quivah(f): 1:13pm On May 08, 2020 |
wiseone28:Be smart! Based on a true story doesn't mean it isn't 40% exaggerated. The movie must sweet na so they gatz add up. Based on a true story doesn't mean the script is totally true. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by quivah(f): 1:27pm On May 08, 2020 |
wiseone28:You do not get the point. What she is trying to say is- Hollywood portray Nigerians as corrupt, scammers and drug peddling people, are all Nigerians that way? Hollywood portrays some African countries as cannibals. Does it mean all Africans living in those countries are cannibal? After all, you just said some places in Africa still eat people, while not all places in Africa still eat people since you want to use a Hollywood perspective as a yardstick?!. Holly portrays Africa as a dirty place with animalistic people. So, are all Africans/Africa Countries that way? If your answer is no, then she's trying to let you know that Hollywood might portray AA as ratched people doesn't mean they all are. Generalization is the key here. Besides, isn't the op, pdudd or pdude, supposed to be married ![]() If he is the same pdude(correct me if I'm wrong), you were the man-slut, the doc who bleeps around even while engaged, but then happened to get married while still in Naija. What happened to your wife? Divorced? Or abandoned in Naija while you resumed your way of life with AA women?. Judging by your immorality, as well as many of the guys on nairaland (esp those ones seeking green card by deceit marriage ), can one conveniently call all Nigerian guys liars, scammers, thieves, cheats, and leeches?. If you are a Nigerian guy and you feel insulted by this name-calling because you don't belong to the group. Then my generalization is rubbish, and for that reason, there is definitely an exception to this gross generalization by the op. Some guys on the thread have even cited personal examples of fantastic AA women. As for AA men not ever being with a Nigerian woman, that's also a huge lie (although I agree, that combination doesn't look good, but it doesn't look good, doesn't mean it can't be good). A prevalent example is that of our fantastic female writer. pdudd or pdude isn't even someone any lady should want to associate with. He's a dog. Fact! So if he has had a bad experience with all AA women he has met or been with, then something must be wrong with him also. He's just a reflection of those ladies. If this story was from someone else, I might agree more, but you aren't a great example yourself. You would make all Nigerian men look terrible if you were the yardstick. Still, you can conveniently use the few AA women you have met as a yardstick to describe every other AA women. That's terrible! However, if you aren't the same pdude, then I'm sorry, but still, your thread is highly exaggerated. But I kind of feel good about it tho, at least Nigerian women aren't the worst of them all as our Naija bros say. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AristocraticMe: 3:03pm On May 08, 2020 |
pDudd:I will try and pick some your wrong assertion. This is wrong. There are lot of African American women i know who are good mothers. It all depends on your kind of life style and where you live and lastly your experience. I will suggest you dont generalise the statement., it is better you say some. Not all. Are Nigerian women good mothers ? Some are good while some are bad. Same thing. I think i came to the discussion thread late, but for knowledge sake i will explain some things to you. You come to America through visiting or schooling. Lets start through visiting. That is your CIRCLE. because of your level in the society. (You dont expect to meet someone reasonable in that circle) Using Nigeria as an illustration (You live in Mushin and work in Mushin, definitely you will only meet Mushin girls 9 out of 10.) The chances of you meeting a non-mushin girl is low Going to their dating site, you use POF.com. How many decent girls are on POF. Brother go to Paid dating site and you will see good one who are educated with a good family back ground. (Remember your circle determines who you meet) Back to Akata, change your circle and you will meet some one better than what you have been describing. Now you came to America through schooling - Most of those American Girls in college wont date a Nigerian, it is difficult, they will rather date fellow Americans. They are young and beautiful. so you end up going to free dating sites and you meet the illetrates ones and Agberos of the lot..... what do you expect. CHANGE YOUR CIRCLE. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AristocraticMe: 3:05pm On May 08, 2020 |
pDudd:True 100% 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by wiseone28: 3:06pm On May 08, 2020 |
quivah:I guessed you didn't read from the beginning ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AristocraticMe: 3:06pm On May 08, 2020 |
khiaa:i have told him in long post that , the statement that African Americans are not good mother is absolutely wrong. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AristocraticMe: 3:12pm On May 08, 2020 |
scaramucci:Please can you share your reason for this statement ''Beware of a white person who calls another white person racist.'' |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 3:22pm On May 08, 2020 |
AristocraticMe: They are mostly projecting themselves in the other person. And in most cases, it is to gain advantage over the other white person. In the case of the Democrats, it is all about political advantage. The can't beat the Republicans to the white people's vote. So now they're even trying to break away white women as a distinct minority group for which the are fighting for. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AristocraticMe: 3:24pm On May 08, 2020 |
pDudd:We all have different experience. I can see you are talking out of your own experience of the kind of ladies you have met. I am Nigerian, i just dont feel it is right for you to make an assertion on a group of people. Like someone saying Nigerian are Scammers. I am not a scammer i guess you are also not a scammer. That will be offensive. SOME NIGERIANS ARE SCAMMERS- will be right. I will say it again. It all depend on the type of girls you have been meeting. I just finished watching Steve Harvey Show. - He just walked his Daughter down the Aisle. (Is he Asian ?) Go watch this show - My Big White Wedding - You will see African American getting married with so much planning and joy. You go to low places and you meet low life people and you make an Assertion that is how everybody is.... It is called Stereotyping and it is bad. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AristocraticMe: 3:24pm On May 08, 2020 |
scaramucci:Thanks. |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AristocraticMe: 3:51pm On May 08, 2020 |
pDudd:I WILL RECOMMMEND YOU FOR A BAN. I know your type, looking for vulnerable women to use and dump, not wonder you cant find decent women. I Am Nigerian for your information. i just saw this post now. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 3:56pm On May 08, 2020 |
[quote author=AristocraticMe post=89325120]Thanks. [/quote You're welcome. |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 3:56pm On May 08, 2020 |
AristocraticMe: You're welcome. |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AristocraticMe: 5:12pm On May 08, 2020 |
khiaa:My exact point. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AristocraticMe: 5:38pm On May 08, 2020 |
billynoni:There is nothing Educative about it. It is packed with wrong assertion. IT IS WRONG. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AristocraticMe: 5:44pm On May 08, 2020 |
Judybash93:Exactly my point. African Americans have being through alot and i must commend them to be honest. But people like the Op who dont know anything travel to America and start saying rubbish.... We must commend they scale through against all odds.... Ordinary Abacha we were shaking like jelly fish...... I tell myself this everytime... African America need some hats off..... they tried. their forefathers tried and we must respect them for that. Period. i finally see someone who thinks differently. 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AristocraticMe: 6:19pm On May 08, 2020 |
Maduawuchukwu:God bless you. i respect them too. I have lot of respect for them. They came out strong despite the odds against them. The Op came to America and started living a jolly life he did not know someone fought so that he could enjoy what is enjoying today. Instead of us to learn from them, we are bashing them thinking we are better than them. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Maduawuchukwu(m): 6:42pm On May 08, 2020 |
AristocraticMe: You dey mind Nigerians? Instead make we dey hide our face we dey boast up and down. No level. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by hermesprogidy(m): 6:42pm On May 08, 2020 |
OP, human beings are not monoliths to be generalized like you are attempting to do through this thread. Your so-called wisdom just exposes one thing, you have been interacting with the only hood rats. An idiot who sees himself as smart is the worst kind of idiot. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by ugolinze123(m): 6:44pm On May 08, 2020 |
AristocraticMe:are you married to an African American? |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by hermesprogidy(m): 6:45pm On May 08, 2020 |
pDudd:Let me guess, you are from Eastern Nigeria? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AristocraticMe: 6:48pm On May 08, 2020 |
ugolinze123:No..... I am not. I just feel it is inappropriate for someone to defame a group of people. It is wrong. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by hermesprogidy(m): 6:51pm On May 08, 2020 |
AristocraticMe:The OP is simple-minded. He just doesn't know it. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by ugolinze123(m): 7:00pm On May 08, 2020 |
AristocraticMe:but don't you think when statistics proves a higher figure from a great percentage is a base to easily generalize to a great extent. abi what do you think |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AristocraticMe: 7:05pm On May 08, 2020 |
ugolinze123:What statistics ? on what grounds - Business, Education, Morals , on what ground. What does the statistics say 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Eniolakiite(f): 7:15pm On May 08, 2020 |
You are very right about the social circle thing. AristocraticMe: |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by ugolinze123(m): 7:25pm On May 08, 2020 |
AristocraticMe:on every single thing mentioned here by the op..stats has proven the ordinary AA to be on the higher percentage in the US... |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Leeindy: 8:33pm On May 08, 2020 |
If all you attract is trash women, it says more about you, than them. Either you dont know how to find the decent ones because of your social circle or you keep getting fooled by a big butt and smile. Whenever my friends talk about this, i ask them 3 questions, how did you meet, what do they do for fun, or hobbies, how were they dressed, act like?? Answers go like this...Tinder/Pof, club; man she has a nice A#$$, etc. And my finds are newly immigrants so they live in the not so nice areas and work entry level jobs. I tell them that anybody that has well traveled on black American circles know that the better ones are in church heavily, are heavily involved in minority organizations like black sororities, black professional organizations, and are into other stuff. If you go to a predominantly black american church, the differences of the people are night and day, lots of married families, they give back to their commities, etc. The problem is that i see very few Africans in these environments, so you dont know what you dont see. Do you see where i am going with this? Its mostly due to your circle. Change your circle, better results BUT to get to these caliber of women, you are now competing with their own men and other ethnicities, so now you will then you run into the women op has described. 4 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by CHIMAOBICCU(m): 9:03pm On May 08, 2020 |
pDudd:are u talking about the white or black |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khia: 10:31pm On May 08, 2020 |
Leeindy: Exactly what I told them but they are to stubborn and bigoted to hear. I believe the op is also paying for prostitutes. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Zeinymira(f): 10:36pm On May 08, 2020 |
Ruined thread. #unfollow |
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