Is it really all that bad to date a friends ex

Now I would explain the situation properly for everyone .

This guy is a childhood friend from Jss days , I made the connect cause he was the friend of my boyfriend in secondary school , we weren’t in the same school tho , he broke my friends heart because of sex back then ,, but in recent times while in uni they both had sex , no relationship,, which I didn’t know about , he told me. So we hv been talking recently , we r getting close , I feel weird but I enjoy our talks but I am also scared it’s becoming a bit romantic or sexual , and I think I might like something sexual with him or probably a relationship, slim chance.

Your thoughts ?

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Chamukebenson:
Is it really all that bad to date a friends ex

Now I would explain the situation properly for everyone .

This guy is a childhood friend from Jss days , I made the connect cause he was the friend of my boyfriend in secondary school , we weren’t in the same school tho , he broke my friends heart because of sex back then ,, but in recent times while in uni they both had sex , no relationship,, which I didn’t know about , he told me. So we hv been talking recently , we r getting close , I feel weird but I enjoy our talks but I am also scared it’s becoming a bit romantic or sexual , and I think I might like something sexual with him or probably a relationship, slim chance.

Your thoughts ?

from your two posts... I realized you somehow fall for online chats. so it is so obvious that you really need to work on yourself.

Na turn by turn...na ur turn.enjoy.

olamy7:
from your two posts... I realized you somehow fall for online chats. so it is so obvious that you really need to work on yourself.

this isn’t an online chat , I know him personally and physically but yeah I love a nigga that keeps a convo interesting.cause I am indoor person so chats is the best way I converse with people. But this isn’t online stuff , this is a friend. Can u give tangible advise n stop looking for avenue to insult n troll.!

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Thoughts?

Thoughts

Do what makes you happy.

Liliantalks:
Do what makes you happy.

really?

Thoughts?

you are so desperate to the extent of posting over and over on your own thread for people to come and support the decision you've already concluded on your mind. Listen to yoursef, you will go into sexual affairs with him with slim chance of having relationship.
Well, Nobody can dictate your Karma, so Nobody should dictate how you should live your life.

kizwid:
you are so desperate to the extent of posting over and over on your own thread for people to come and support the decision you've already concluded on your mind. Listen to yoursef, you will go into sexual affairs with him with slim chance of having relationship.
Well, Nobody can dictate your Karma, so Nobody should dictate how you should live your life.

I don’t place dating first in any interactions I hv , I just let things flow, I don’t like being optimistic about those things , what r ur thoughts about the situation , my decisions can change and not change

Chamukebenson:
really?

yes what’s the worst that can happen?

Chamukebenson:
this isn’t an online chat , I know him personally and physically but yeah I love a nigga that keeps a convo interesting.cause I am indoor person so chats is the best way I converse with people. But this isn’t online stuff , this is a friend. Can u give tangible advise n stop looking for avenue to insult n troll.!

what I am trying to say is that you tend to fall for someone that gives you time online because of the reason you gave above 'indoor person'. It happens most time. I sometimes develop interest in people that I spent time chatting with and thesame goes for so many people. But at the end people tend to think straight after noticing. The fact that you once dated his friend and your friend once dated your ex's friend are enough reasons not to have an affairs with him. And I have never insulted you though.

my advice is ...just live life the way u like .....if e gets to the point of sex and its okay with you do it jare ...but don't forget to write on his back with pen and sign sayings I was here...then u jejely go before he wakes up shikina...that way he will not be like omo I knack this babe las las ...when he remember you signature on him he will just keep shut and fear u.........just joking ooo

olamy7:
what I am trying to say is that you tend to fall for someone that gives you time online because of the reason you gave above 'indoor person'. It happens most time. I sometimes develop interest in people that I spent time chatting with and thesame goes for so many people. But at the end people tend to think straight after noticing. The fact that you once dated his friend and your friend once dated your ex's friend are enough reasons not to have an affairs with him. And I have never insulted you though.

hmmmm okay but me n my supposed ex had nothing sexual , we were only kids hving fun , calling and texting . Does it really count

Helios85447:
my advice is ...just live life the way u like .....if e gets to the point of sex and its okay with you do it jare ...but don't forget to write on his back with pen and sign sayings I was here...then u jejely go before he wakes up shikina...that way he will not be like omo I knack this babe las las ...when he remember you signature on him he will just keep shut and fear u.........just joking ooo

noted !!

Liliantalks:
yes what’s the worst that can happen?

she might be hurt if she finds out ? I don’t know if I can keep it a secret enough

Chamukebenson:
she might be hurt if she finds out ? I don’t know if I can keep it a secret enough

why wouldn’t you? Is it everything she tells you? As far the nigga is an old ex , don’t think about it , she would pick her happiness over you any time any day. It’s not everything a friend needs to know about you babe.

Chamukebenson:
hmmmm okay but me n my supposed ex had nothing sexual , we were only kids hving fun , calling and texting . Does it really count

well, I really can't say. But as for me, I just think it is not really nice. But you can actually go on if you think it's love and not time.

Chamukebenson:
I don’t place dating first in any interactions I hv , I just let things flow, I don’t like being optimistic about those things , what r ur thoughts about the situation , my decisions can change and not change

don't lose your dignity over something you might regret later. that is my thought!

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You know what you want, right?
You should follow ur heart and remember to get ur brain connected too

Chamukebenson:
Is it really all that bad to date a friends ex

Now I would explain the situation properly for everyone .

This guy is a childhood friend from Jss days , I made the connect cause he was the friend of my boyfriend in secondary school , we weren’t in the same school tho , he broke my friends heart because of sex back then ,, but in recent times while in uni they both had sex , no relationship,, which I didn’t know about , he told me. So we hv been talking recently , we r getting close , I feel weird but I enjoy our talks but I am also scared it’s becoming a bit romantic or sexual , and I think I might like something sexual with him or probably a relationship, slim chance.

Your thoughts ?

babe,I don't think you need anyone's opinion on this. it's only Africans that sees this as something. there's nothing bad in that. personally, I love it. follow your instincts

aylive02:
babe,I don't think you need anyone's opinion on this. it's only Africans that sees this as something. there's nothing bad in that. personally, I love it. follow your instincts

alright thanks

It isn't proper. You should give yourself some prestige.

kizwid:

don't lose your dignity over something you might regret later. that is my thought!

noted