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Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Nobody: 4:45pm On May 14, 2020 |
I met this astonishing, beautiful and unmatched soul barely two months ago, in all honesty she is the best thing that has ever happened to me in recent times. During one of our discussions lately, she disclosed the state of her hymen to me, which I confirmed to be intact and untouched. Literally, she made it known to me that she was going to keep it till the big day, to me it was no biggie cuz I had been a celibate for years now. And I don't want to come between her and the vow she made to God, she wanted to maintain chastity . I got a job @ NNPC this year as a graduate trainee without disclosing it to her, just to ascertained her level of loyalty, the big surprise was she has never complained of me being jobless. During this lock down, we became intimate and i deflowered her, hmm. The problem now is, she came to my place last night, and said that her spiritual father/ director told her to pause the relationship without any solid reasons. while I'm yet to hear from my own spiritual daddy's approval since i lodged the complaint to him. Fam, im in distress and heart broken right now, cuz this is a lady I want to officially get married to next year, and she is a rare breed that I want my unborn kids to emulate. Please Nlaanders, Should I just let go or still pressure her more ? |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by KristaPretty(f): 4:50pm On May 14, 2020 |
She disclosed the state of her hymen to you which you confirmed by yourself. Now she say she no do and you're worried. Give her time, she wants to put you inside a bottle. She will come around when she and her spiritual baba are done with your spirit Daddy Hymen 1 Like |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Nobody: 4:57pm On May 14, 2020 |
KristaPretty: Funny , she is a believer... seriously, is hard to let go! |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:01pm On May 14, 2020 |
let her go and follow-follow her spiritual daddy, and focus on finding a woman who will be in control of her own decisions in life. clean mouth and waka! |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by budaatum: 5:08pm On May 14, 2020 |
Adiadi1:I think you already pressured her when you broke her hymen "that she was going to keep it till the big day", though I bet you'd deny it. You should both wait till you are mature enough so your "spiritual daddy's" stop making decisions for you. 1 Like |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Phenomenal16(f): 5:12pm On May 14, 2020 |
Adiadi1:.....Do u think is easy for a gal to leave the guy that broke her? Trust me it is not easy Give her time to sort herself She's feeling used already... And probably her spiritual director must av told her that d relationship has been defiled........that she should quit.......we know all this things Now,,,give a little space....... Once u get to talk to her ....tell her ur intentions .......convince u r not trying to eat n clean mouth.... For a Lady to keep herself up till now strikes a cord for me personally..... Don't just let her go......she's feeling guilty of not being able to keep her vow to God...I don't blame her.... Then pray Good luck... Hope this helps ...... |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Nobody: 5:14pm On May 14, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: Baba, to have a woman is an issue but to have the right one, I'm entirely confused. Thanks though! |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Amarabae(f): 5:15pm On May 14, 2020 |
she must be a religious fanatic 1 Like |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Nobody: 5:17pm On May 14, 2020 |
Phenomenal16: Thanks dear, food for thought .I hope she will be mature enough to understand cuz my intentions are of good. |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Nobody: 5:19pm On May 14, 2020 |
Amarabae:You are not far from the truth... |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Nobody: 5:21pm On May 14, 2020 |
budaatum: Bro my family will not approve the marriage, if is not confirmed spiritually, that's the Problem. |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Liliantalks: 5:22pm On May 14, 2020 |
U both r kids 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Ishilove: 5:24pm On May 14, 2020 |
So your 'spiritual daddies' are the ones making the decisions on your personal life? The two of you are not ready or mature enough for a relationship. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Ningen(m): 5:25pm On May 14, 2020 |
Another virgin off the market. Please, you guys should take it easy now. Some of us want to lose our V card to a V card holder. |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by budaatum: 5:25pm On May 14, 2020 |
Adiadi1: I strongly suggest you heed the following: Liliantalks: Your family will and should not be in the marriage with you, and if you don't know that already, you are not mature enough to marry. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:27pm On May 14, 2020 |
Adiadi1: i never understand women that have r/ship with you, then out the blue, now talks of these bastards in robe controlling their lives. so the prophet was ok with you guys dating, ok with her staying at your home during quarantine, ok with her sleeping in your bed, ok with you guys fukcing... but suddenly you guys are not good together anymore?!?!?! what a waste of hymen! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:29pm On May 14, 2020 |
Ningen: br, there are many V card holders out there, no worries.... some are genuine V card holders and others are refurbished V card holders. |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Nobody: 5:30pm On May 14, 2020 |
[quote author=Liliantalks post=89546320] U both r kids [/quote We ain't kids Sis....we are just being careful! thanks |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Nobody: 5:35pm On May 14, 2020 |
Ishilove: hmm, I'm yet to hear from mine, moreover I had made up my mind , the problem is coming from her. |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by ibkayee(f): 5:40pm On May 14, 2020 |
I steer clear of religious fanatics and anyone brainwashed enough to put a relationship in the hands of any 'spirit daddy' You sha sound like you deserve each other 1 Like |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Starz825(m): 5:40pm On May 14, 2020 |
Adiadi1:So why did you take her virginity when u already claimed she wants to maintain chastity..... Something led to another abi 2 Likes |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by budaatum: 5:45pm On May 14, 2020 |
Adiadi1:Not that this is decided by numbers or anything, but as this thread of your's grows, count how many say you are kids then let me know if you will ignore them all. |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Liliantalks: 5:48pm On May 14, 2020 |
[quote author=Adiadi1 post=89546581][/quote] careful about what ? Both of u had sex , like every adult do n u r reporting urself to pastor , So u can’t make ur decision and stand by them. Was pastor there when she was opening her legs wide ? I don’t admire people with no privacy , it’s annoying, Well , just ask her this , don’t u wish to get married to the man that disvirgined you ? Cause as it is u r already my wife , it’s money that’s remaining. Jokingly , she will not leave you , she’s just emotional! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Nobody: 5:55pm On May 14, 2020 |
Liliantalks: Thanks, I see sense in it now. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Nobody: 5:57pm On May 14, 2020 |
Starz825: I shouldn't have done it, if I had no intention of getting married to her. |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by johnkey: 5:59pm On May 14, 2020 |
lol @ spiritual father. Na these kind people prophet dey tell say their mama na witch the mama go chop serious beating from them. 1 Like |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by IAmSkinny: 6:00pm On May 14, 2020 |
I am only interested in the NNPC employment part. The rest of the story sounds like bdldbbdkod djbd dhdjjwuejjd nndnjd but hdjuvdvdvbdvkdikd if hsiiwbbdjdjjjbdd or jdiihhiodbbdjdjduwvd to me 1 Like |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by AfroKnight: 12:51am On May 15, 2020 |
The way you’re going on about this, you will give this girl the tools to manipulate you. Get a grip. You can’t be panicking like a teenager because of a babe you just met. Chill. If she wants a pause, give her a long pause. Don’t initiate the reunion. If she comes back, fine. If she doesn’t return, that’s fine also. In the meantime, you should start moving on in your mind. |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by seunlayi(m): 2:03am On May 15, 2020 |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Olunmercy56(f): 2:14am On May 15, 2020 |
Never give up on her, she might want to see your reaction. |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Nobody: 7:17am On May 15, 2020 |
AfroKnight: Thank you sir... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Could It Be That Love Is Not For Me? by Nobody: 7:20am On May 15, 2020 |
seunlayi: Man, I have never created thrend on Nland before, this might be my first and last, i can't cook stories, be guided. |
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