Ladyhippolyta88:

Direct it to the OP then.
Nor be me open thread


The thread was not about the average Nneka,Adetutu and Aisha you brought that one up by yourself and since you want to hear their stories to know if it is realistic or not interview them.
That is your own cup of tea not the OP's
So you enter road do your research

Monishaa:
Clara Barton (1821-1912)

Barton found her calling as a health-care worker at age 10 when she nursed her brother back to health after he fell off a roof. At age 17 she became a teacher and later she became the first female clerk at the U.S. Patent Office and the first female clerk to be paid equal to a man's salary.

She received three marriage proposals and turned them all down. Though she thought of different men as possible lovers, no one of them measures up to her ideal of a husband her nephew Stephen said about her decision to remain single.

Acidosis:


Why is this important? We have thousands of nuns and reverend sisters around us. Unlike the above profiles who somehow always have more dvcks to play with, nuns don't even get to experience sex and the pleasure that comes with it.

crackland:

Well you told me to do the interview, and I told you it's you who should do it.

I was on my own.

SweetCunt97:
Most of them have partners but without the intricacies of "I Do". That they did not marry doesn't mean they led a lonely life

Arthur2021:

"A woman should marry " "A woman should not marry" are both constructs that cages people's choices
The traditional people are guilty of using the first statement.The non traditional (woke and feminists) are used to using the second statement.
Sadly the woke ones don't classify the second statement as oppressive as the first.

When one fights against people living out their "traditional beliefs",it is called enlightenment.
When one fights against people living their " modern beliefs " it is called oppression.

True enlightenment is giving room for those that wants to be traditional.

People like ladyhippolyta88,biglittle lois,dand e55,ari za,fieryy ,liberal chick et Al that came for your head will never understand this.

We should live and let live.

Ladyhippolyta88:

Why should I be the one to do it when I did not ask for the stories of the average Nneka and Adetutu to believe the OP's point that some women stay unmarried by choice.
But you said you needed to hear their stories first for it to be realistic to you.

Since you are so keen on that why don't you do the interview na

crackland:

It seems the OP is your alternate, cos I don't see why you're all over me.

She will tell me herself if she feels any need to, it snot your problem.

Ladyhippolyta88:




You are not serious.
Bye

Ladyhippolyta88:


Do I know you?

Have I ever seen your monicker before.
Did I come at Buka on that thread or publicly disagree with her or attack her on her views so why the mention

Ariza:
I see you suffer selective comprehension, you read and understand what you only want to understand. Earlier before, you mentioned that I mock/insult Buka for her thread but for the fact that you are inconsequential to my being here I did away with the desire to ask you to point out where I insulted or mocked the lady and graciously ignored. However seeing you have the this uncontrollable urge to drag me into whatever feud going on with the ladies here, I will not watch you label me as what I'm not or create a false reputation of me.

Any further attempt or mention to involve me in your childish tantrums/controversies here would be reported. It is advisable you have some self respect and maintain your lane. Thanks.

Arthur2021:
oh please grow past that calling of mods you aren't a kid.

To show how hypocritical you are,you want to call the mods to ban me for expressing myself yet you felt those ladies that called bukatynes names has the right to express themselves.


Spare me that,adjudicator...offer a rebuttal to my post or ignore,don't cry to the mods you are more than that

rockstarB:
The truth is it's not easy finding that worthy person. Some of us dont know what good marriages looks like judging from our parents own. Reading stories here everyday is a nightmare, it's better to be single than miserable in marriage. Have kids if you want to

Modified; SINGLE basically means I AM NOT MARRIED, not that they didnt have partners or whatever. And that to me is saving themselves from lot of marriage commitments that dont even hold water these days. Na scam love remain so

rockstarB:

Because they are nuns now they are better than these people. Nobody asked them to deprive themselves of sex. It's what they chose. And how are you 100 percent sure they dont ever experience sex? What if they masturbate or sleep with the reverend father
Celebrate the nuns if you want to, without having to downplay these women as well

Acidosis:


Why should I celebrate women who avoid marriage but actually have more sex without commitment? It's like telling me to celebrate pro. stitutes just because they're unmarried as a result of booming business.

ibkayee:

Lool are you making these terrible correlations on purpose?

Acidosis:


Loool, doesn't make sense to you?

ibkayee:

At all

Arthur2021:

"A woman should marry " "A woman should not marry" are both constructs that cages people's choices
The traditional people are guilty of using the first statement. The non traditional (woke and feminists) are used to using the second statement.
Sadly the woke ones don't classify the second statement as oppressive as the first.

When one fights against people living out their "traditional beliefs",it is called enlightenment.
When one fights against people living their " modern beliefs " it is called oppression.
We should live and let live.

Monishaa:
Greta Garbo

In 1955, film legend Greta Garbo told TIME Magazine, “If I could find the right person to share my life with, I would. If you are blessed, you are blessed, whether you are single or married.”

The screen star was close to getting married once; in 1927, she left her former co-star and longtime love, Jack Gilbert, at the altar on their wedding day. Garbo wasn’t the warmest person towards those she wasn’t acquainted with and for many years, a rumored relationship between she Mimi Pollak was often discussed.

Monishaa:
Charlize Theron

Like many other successful actresses on our list, Theron has had several high-profile relationships, but has never been married. Instead, she won an Oscar for Monster (2003), starred in over 60 films, and is actively producing many projects. But most importantly, Charlize is a mom. She adopted 2 kids in 2012 and 2015 and raises them as a single mom.
Theron explained her stance on being single in 2014: “I’m sure there are a lot of aspects to my life that a lot of people wouldn’t want... Just personal choice things, like the fact that I’m single at 38. That’s not necessarily what a lot of women want... But I’m just saying, a life is good if it’s the life that you want... But I work at that, you know?”

Arthur2021:

"A woman should marry " "A woman should not marry" are both constructs that cages people's choices
The traditional people are guilty of using the first statement.The non traditional (woke and feminists) are used to using the second statement.
Sadly the woke ones don't classify the second statement as oppressive as the first.

When one fights against people living out their "traditional beliefs",it is called enlightenment.
When one fights against people living their " modern beliefs " it is called oppression.

True enlightenment is giving room for those that wants to be traditional.

People like LadyGCrueDKilaB ,biglittlelois,dande55,ariza,fieryy ,liberalchick et Al that came for your head will never understand this.

We should live and let live.

Ishilove:

Why is she on the list? Charlize is a shitty mother and has no business being allowed to raise kids.

Monishaa:
Susan B. Anthony (1820-1906)

She was dedicated to the abolition of slavery and workers' rights but marriage was not on her mind. She organized anti-slavery campaigns and fought for women's right to vote. In 1877 she said in a speech that as women gained more freedoms it would be harder for them to submit to the inequalities of marriage.

Arthur2021:

"A woman should marry " "A woman should not marry" are both constructs that cages people's choices
The traditional people are guilty of using the first statement.The non traditional (woke and feminists) are used to using the second statement.
Sadly the woke ones don't classify the second statement as oppressive as the first.

When one fights against people living out their "traditional beliefs",it is called enlightenment.
When one fights against people living their " modern beliefs " it is called oppression.

True enlightenment is giving room for those that wants to be traditional.

People like LadyGCrueDKilaB ,biglittlelois,dande55,ariza,fieryy ,liberalchick et Al that came for your head will never understand this.

We should live and let live.

fieryy:


I have a crush on this woman

Zabiboy:

One common occurence in the women the OP used is that they all had bf's in their early youth stage...Meaning at that point, they believed in relationships...But as They became mini-celebrities( independent) they began to see no need for those cravings anymore.
Now the most important reason humans are on earth is to pro-create..
But God/nature had to make it possible for a woman to just pro-create one man's genes and so the man can support his genes, equip them with all d necessities for survival hence the need for marriage...
But in the world we live in now, a woman can have sex anytime she wants and she still get to decide which of their babies she wants to carry and with this mentality at the back of their minds coupled with the fact that they are independent, the see no need to submit to a man...
I'LL END WITH THIS: A WOMAN CAN BE FULFILLED WITH/WITHOUT MARRIAGE BUT SHE CANT FEEL THE SAME WITHOUT A CHILD ( BE IT HERS/ADOPTED)...the few who claim they dont need a child already have at least a child from their past so they wont understand..

GL
Nice thread tho