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Re: Unmarried Women by crackland: 10:26pm On May 14, 2020 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Well you told me to do the interview, and I told you it's you who should do it. I was on my own making my own comments. 2 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Nobody: 10:27pm On May 14, 2020 |
Monishaa: ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Nobody: 10:28pm On May 14, 2020 |
![]() These things go way beyond legality. The problem is, we have always laid more emphasises on the wrong things, we are taught to grow, hustle, marry, give birth, die! Whereas It should be Grow, Learn, Get exposed, Know thyself, Work, and do other things you deemed fit. It is always laid down rules we forced on ourselves which do us more harms than good most times. I wonder what a being who is yet to understand himself or herself, Know what she or he wants, Discover his or her purpose is looking for in marriage? Oh! Societal pressures maybe! In all I'm not saying marriage is bad, neither I'm I saying it completes everybody. All I'm saying is it shouldn't come before knowing who you are. Let everyone decide what they want! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unmarried Women by Nobody: 10:28pm On May 14, 2020 |
The ancestry of evening newspapers. Where it all began, great pioneers. 7 Likes
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Re: Unmarried Women by Nobody: 10:28pm On May 14, 2020 |
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Re: Unmarried Women by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:29pm On May 14, 2020 |
crackland:Why should I be the one to do it when I did not ask for the stories of the average Nneka and Adetutu to believe the OP's point that some women stay unmarried by choice. ![]() But you said you needed to hear their stories first for it to be realistic to you. Since you are so keen on that why don't you do the interview na 11 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Nobody: 10:30pm On May 14, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Gbam! That’s what I gathered from the posts too (shrug) 4 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:32pm On May 14, 2020 |
Arthur2021: Do I know you? Have I ever seen your monicker before. Did I come at Buka on that thread or publicly disagree with her or attack her on her views so why the mention ![]() ![]() 9 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Unmarried Women by crackland: 10:36pm On May 14, 2020 |
Ladyhippolyta88:It seems the OP is your alternate, cos I don't see why you're all over me. She will respond herself if she feels any need to, it's not your problem. 5 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:38pm On May 14, 2020 |
crackland: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You are not serious. Bye ![]() ![]() 14 Likes
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Re: Unmarried Women by crackland: 10:40pm On May 14, 2020 |
Ladyhippolyta88: ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Arthur2021: 11:02pm On May 14, 2020 |
Ladyhippolyta88:my apologies. I always mistake LadyGCrueDKila.B with you... Remain blessed |
Re: Unmarried Women by Arthur2021: 11:08pm On May 14, 2020 |
Ariza:oh please grow past that calling of mods you aren't a kid. To show how hypocritical you are,you want to call the mods to ban me for expressing myself yet you felt those ladies that called bukatynes names has the right to express themselves. Spare me that,adjudicator...offer a rebuttal to my post or ignore,don't cry to the mods you are more than that 3 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Nobody: 11:25pm On May 14, 2020 |
Arthur2021:Reverse pyschology! Well sir if I call the mods on you, it wont make me a kid, but rather a mature mind putting a check to a disturbed mind's excesses without going back and forth. Try that kid stuff with someone else, ain't buying it. Are we really doing this again? Can't you just move on from that thread? Seriously? May I remind you that I ignored you earlier but you didn't get the drift and brought your issues here again. You should probably type your last paragraph to yourself multiple times until you understand it. Be guided. 10 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by emmaodet: 11:49pm On May 14, 2020 |
rockstarB: If you think so, then so shall it be. You don't expect people doing well in there marriages to come online and start shouting about it. If you want to see people with good marriages, change your circle because people i mingle with 90% have good marriages in this same nigeria. If you want to be single and hopping on dicks regularly, it is your choice but don't downgrade marriage due to your own shortcomings in it. Naturally, people hate or don't like things they fail at. Most employees don't like business because they don't have what it takes to succeed in it. It is very easy for you to see a dull student who doesn't like going to school and someone that hates church will always downgrade it. You may be succesful in other parts of your life like finance, business etc but so far so good, in relationship cum marriage, i believe you failed. 3 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Acidosis(m): 1:23am On May 15, 2020 |
rockstarB: Why should I celebrate women who avoid marriage but actually have more sex without commitment? It's like telling me to celebrate pro. stitutes just because they're unmarried as a result of booming business. ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unmarried Women by ibkayee(f): 1:32am On May 15, 2020 |
Acidosis:Lool are you making these terrible correlations on purpose? 8 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Acidosis(m): 1:40am On May 15, 2020 |
ibkayee: Loool, doesn't make sense to you? 1 Like |
Re: Unmarried Women by ibkayee(f): 1:48am On May 15, 2020 |
Acidosis:At all 3 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Acidosis(m): 3:06am On May 15, 2020 |
ibkayee: Hmmn |
Re: Unmarried Women by cococandy(f): 3:17am On May 15, 2020 |
Except that the so called woke/feminist women have never said women should not marry. ![]() Stay on the facts. Arthur2021: 10 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Ishilove: 3:24am On May 15, 2020 |
Monishaa:She was a notorious recluse 1 Like |
Re: Unmarried Women by Ishilove: 3:27am On May 15, 2020 |
Monishaa:Why is she on the list? Charlize is a shitty mother and has no business being allowed to raise kids. 5 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by cococandy(f): 3:27am On May 15, 2020 |
Even if the average lady were to open up about being intentionally single, many of you still won’t believe them. In fact you will make extra effort twisting yourselves into unheard of shapes in order to try and prove to them that you know their lives better than they know it themselves. Someone will say they are masking their sadness. And those of you who shame single women will like them for saying such. As long as you have convinced yourself that a woman is nothing without a man, no amount of logic will change you. Logic and ego don’t mix. 19 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Unmarried Women by Zabiboy: 3:33am On May 15, 2020 |
One common occurence in the women the OP used is that they all had bf's in their early youth stage...Meaning at that point, they believed in relationships...But as They became mini-celebrities( independent) they began to see no need for those cravings anymore. Now the most important reason humans are on earth is to pro-create.. But God/nature had to make it possible for a woman to just pro-create one man's genes and so the man can support his genes, equip them with all d necessities for survival hence the need for marriage... But in the world we live in now, a woman can have sex anytime she wants and she still get to decide which of their babies she wants to carry and with this mentality at the back of their minds coupled with the fact that they are independent, the see no need to submit to a man... I'LL END WITH THIS: A WOMAN CAN BE FULFILLED WITH/WITHOUT MARRIAGE BUT SHE CANT FEEL THE SAME WITHOUT A CHILD ( BE IT HERS/ADOPTED)...the few who claim they dont need a child already have at least a child from their past so they wont understand.. GL ![]() Nice thread tho 2 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by purples25(f): 5:28am On May 15, 2020 |
Nice thread. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unmarried Women by Nobody: 6:02am On May 15, 2020 |
Arthur2021: My friend, will you shut the f*ck up and eff your way out of my mentions?! Have we all forgotten how everything started?! Nobody: ... Literally nobody: ..... Nobody oooo: ... Buka: I want to advise young ladies... Perhaps you should have advised her to live and let others live. But aren't you a hypocrite yourself? Otherwise, why am I even mentioned? To make matters worse, you even dragged an overflogged issue to another thread. Rubbish ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Monishaa: 6:12am On May 15, 2020 |
Ishilove: The thread is not about motherhood. 6 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Nobody: 6:16am On May 15, 2020 |
Monishaa: I have a crush on this woman ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Unmarried Women by Monishaa: 6:17am On May 15, 2020 |
Arthur2021: Has any of the ladies you mentioned here told any woman on this forum not to get married? Where do you see women telling other women not to get married? Where are women ridiculed for choosing a husband? I think you are making things up. We both know that Nigerians are notorious for disturbing people who do not choose a spouse "on time". I don't see anyone being looked down on for their choice to get married. Please, let us be realistic. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unmarried Women by Monishaa: 6:17am On May 15, 2020 |
fieryy: Great personality and a very fulfilled life. |
Re: Unmarried Women by Monishaa: 6:18am On May 15, 2020 |
Zabiboy: And you came to this conclusion how? |
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