StephenJoseph:


Wow. Nice one. That is a very good research topic. I equally worked on this topic as my final year project work in the university. I still have the hard copies. It was really interesting

Omojudy:

I didn't have it easy either for my decision not to pretend or to give this testimony. But after all I have seen in life, I refused to live for the audience anymore. It is what it is, sorry if my decisions offends people who don't care about me in the first place.

Omojudy:
I think it's time I dropped my childbearing story.

Thirteen years ago, aged 22, I married right out of university without the wisdom to realise the importance of finding my feet first. My husband was 11 years older than me. He wasn't rich but I thought we loved each other. Youth service year I conceived but lost it right out of service.

Hubby was helped to get a good job, stable government job by my family. When I lost my first pregnancy, we were staying a few months with his parents due to our financial situation, my father in law said to me after that loss while my husband travelled "did your ladies in the water say to you that the day you give birth you would die?"

With the new job right after the loss, we moved back home and continued our lives. Three more miscarriages came along with many drama ranging from deliverances to traditional midwives to in law's commanding the home.

Finally one day almost 5 years later, hubby travels and his father calls my aunty to tell her that "they don't want to marry their daughter again". I was at work when aunty broke the news to me. I travelled that night to the inlaws with my aunty and grand mother to beg, we were not given audience. They didn't even open their gate despite we could see my husband's car in the compound.

At 9pm my companions begged me to go home with them, I refused and chose to spend the night in a shed close by. The was no electricity in the neighbourhood, everywhere was dark. At midnight Power was restored, and from the shed I was hiding, I saw my father in law walking round the compound spraying incense, (he attended celestial church) I call out to him "daddy, daddy" obviously he hears me but does like I am a ghost.

At that point, I knew I was wasting my time, I started trekking. I trekked to the motor park which was very far, vigilantes stopped me numerous time and my tearful face made them not question me too much......a lot of drama in between, I traveled back and resume dwork while praying and fasting for his return. Mehn I lost weight without even trying. I met many scam pastors which are another story.........

One day, I suddenly realized I may have the password to hubby's Facebook, I tried it and it worked. What I saw pained me but it gave me strength knowing the break up wasn't because of anything he was accusing me of (like saying a pastor revealed to him that I was sent into his life by Kingdom of darkness to destroy him. To this I asked if Kingdom of darkness gave jobs, he said he has repaid me ie Kingdom of darkness back in connecting me to the job I had then which didn't last. Oh he wanted me to be paying my salary to him by the way).

So I got some courage to begin living again at this point and apply for a divorce. To this he also said "that good wives wait for their husbands no matter how long they go, but me I ran to apply because I want to remarry."

We got to court and he was accompanied by his father and them claiming that hubby didn't abscond but I did. Guess they were afraid I wanted to request compensation. Walking out of court, his father waves at me and I wonder why.
He was barely divorced then remarried and yes has kids now. Things went sour with my place of work and I relocated to a bigger city and that was my fresh start.

Met my husband two years after the divorce, I hid nothing from him especially my challenges with infertility. We got married same year. And got pregnant and miscarried. Second pregnancy for now hubby, I was put on cerclage, yet the pregnancy still ended and I almost ended with it as my body was going into shock due to its inability to dispel the dead foetus since a cerclage held the products in.

I had an history of pregnancy losses at 14 weeks. After 8 miscarriages and no living child, I visited more hospitals, met insensitive money alone conscious doctors, finally a correct diagnosis was made.

I had no demons worrying me, my womb was just too small to carry to term, it wasn't expanding with the pregnancies. An hysteroscopy was the procedure used to diagnose this.

Getting a diagnosis at last was some sort of relief, but what can we do doctor I asked? Doctor said "have you considered adoption?" I was shattered.

I went home and discussed it with my husband. We agreed to adopt and we applied two years ago. We only just got feed back few weeks ago from them self.

Then one day I was on social media and I saw someone advertise needing a surrogate and like a light bulb the idea stuck, I wrote to the woman and we started chatting. One day her Status said she needed someone to donate blood for a relative of hers and I say where to an online stranger I had never met. That was the first day I met my good friend Mrs R. I also put up an advert for a surrogate as I couldn't afford to the price agencies were charging. After two bad experiences, I finally got one good person that we could afford. And God just sent money mysteriously.

Then when God wants to turn your story around, you know it's just your time. I paid for one cycle at the hospital we used, already looking for money in case the first cycle did not work, guess what?

IT WORKED! MY TWIN DAUGHTERS ARE 3 MONTHS OLD NOW.

This is not your everyday testimony, I no get time to dey give testimony like some people wey go go church dey say "after waiting for 20 years, God blessed us with triplets, tell the journey when telling your testimony sisters, don't let the holy sister at the back waiting for a similar miracle be thinking God doesn't answer her prayers. Be real, stop pretending.

Edited:
Please someone take me to front page for the first time in my life na. ����

Vyolet:
Hmmm,
I congratulate you madam, you are really strong.
I hope this story will encourage other women in this situation to explore this means too, I admire your husband's open-mindedness, he is also an MVP.

Confusedgirlie:
Thanks first to science and then to the surrogate mother.

Psoul:


My sister, you are extraordinarily strong and positive in nature. You don't easily give up even when it seems the best option is to give up. You are a great fighter. May God bless you.

The man that stood by ur side is a strong man. He's God's send.

For that man that abandoned u when you needed him most... Well, I don't know what to say.
The worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting married to a man that does not have his own will. A man that all his directives come from his parents and siblings without stopping to check how the directives will affect his own family.

Please permit me to share ur story.

Trayceey:
okay. But I don't understand that surrogate part. Did u give birth to the children yourself? Or was it with the help of a surrogate mother? Please clarify me

eyinjuege:


Several generations before us have always had twins. It's not only fertility drugs that give people twins. As you get older as a woman, your chances of having twins increases.
This is science and proven.
So while fertility drugs are great for those who need them, people do still get pregnant with twins naturally despite a previous delay.

https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/chances-of-having-twins

https://www.webmd.com/baby/news/20060222/older-women-more-likely-to-have-twins

litaninja:
lmao. god sent money mysteriously. na wa

Ebenezer2021:

BABANGBALI your wife don come back oh after how many years
Bad market for Dominique
CC enemyofprogress

Omojudy:

Please delete your comment. My children will live long healthy and successful lives, I will have sons after these daughters and together we shall create a dynasty. Burying their dad and I at a ripe old age after we have seen their grand children the way my grandmothers were able to see my children.

seunfly:


However 90% of people who are looking for babies ends up given birth to twins.

I'm not against the twins niether am i against the testimonies, but people should always state the fact and give God his own credit so that others can learn and get their help at appropriate time.

One of my oga in the office has been looking for babies for more that 15 years, people told her about different medical options but she rejected it holding on to faith and other people's testimonies without knowing other people she was looking at took the other medical options she rejected. She just gave birth to twins recently after she finally agreed to IVF. I know she would have done it long time ago if she had known that majority of the testimonies passed through the same journey but it took her more than 15 years to relised and solve what could have been solved 2 years after marriage.

Bible says give cesar unto cesar and give God unto God, infact it is God's doing for IVF to be successful, because i have a friend who had IVF and she still had complication.

enemyofprogress:
dominique is my one and only. No rival and will never be any rival. Vickyrotex just wan chop and clean mouth but na dominique get am and nobody can come in between us, not even mynd44, Ishilove, seunmohmoh, funkybabee nor ajepako

SweetCunt97:
OH well, atleast you gave a direct insult which was lacking in mine . Hope with all these talk you atleast sent some token to d account

Psoul:


My sister, you are extraordinarily strong and positive in nature. You don't easily give up even when it seems the best option is to give up. You are a great fighter. May God bless you.

The man that stood by ur side is a strong man. He's God's send.

For that man that abandoned u when you needed him most... Well, I don't know what to say.
The worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting married to a man that does not have his own will. A man that all his directives come from his parents and siblings without stopping to check how the directives will affect his own family.

Please permit me to share ur story.

kunletexs:


Lacking my foot! When you referred to me as asslicking, was that a commendation in your stupid vocabulary. Go and learn compassion. You are the type of ladies that would tell their house help not to sit on the sofa but on the floor.

As for giving, I have.

SweetCunt97:
Guy calm down naaa, haba. You ranting like I removed food from ur mouth. Wtf is wrong with you? We all know how people concoct stories to emotionally guilt people into giving on this platform.


Tears run down my eyes reading emotional novel and movies and u fink I'm capable of such wickedness to another being? Lol. Don't judge based on comments here OK.

kunletexs:


Step aside biko. By your words, we know who you are. You have the hint of hatred and for your sorry ass, it not called ranting but called saying the truth (your word, REMEMBER!!)

kunletexs:


Sir. I am grateful to you for your comment. Coming from a man like me tells me there are still men that are not bias but call a spade a spade. Thanks for supporting her with your words.

SweetCunt97:
Well, you can kiss my Ass. As per defender of d universe wey u be. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

Omojudy:

Thanks you. Feel free to share

Psoul:


Thank you my brother. We should always be fair at all times.

That woman is so wonderful. Her story challenged me. Read the story and you'll see the sincerity in her story.

May God grant her a peaceful home.

kunletexs:


That smelly ass? What the Bleep?
If that the last ass in the world, I rather say like Esther in the bible 'if I perish, I perish'

Park well and go and know how to make your comments seasoned with salt. Kai, this one wan marry o. Husband no know say he don enter one chance