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Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by Mira4Ashawo(f): 3:09am On May 20, 2020 |
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Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by Blackpearlous(f): 4:11am On May 20, 2020 |
Lionessza6: Very true. No 2 got me and I blame it on financial dependency esp on the woman's part, she can't walk away from an abusive marriage because of the financial security gotten from the marriage. I hate it when I hear, I stayed because of my children, can't blame dem much, some men won't marry daughters from a broken home. Sad 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by dejt4u(m): 4:29am On May 20, 2020 |
African parents don't understand children's privacy. The will never knock before they enter your room. So far you're still living with them, they can enter your room at any time 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by DexterousOne(m): 4:42am On May 20, 2020 |
lichocho:There are a lot of flaws in the way a good number of Africans raise their kids |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by DexterousOne(m): 4:47am On May 20, 2020 |
herich: You dont know what you are talking about |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by dasparrow: 4:50am On May 20, 2020 |
Lotusflowerbomb: You just described most Nigerian parents. 3 Likes |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by dasparrow: 4:56am On May 20, 2020 |
Most Nigerian parents are very abusive. If I had a say in the matter, I will never come into this world through Nigerian parents. Shikena! 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by chuksbogus2001: 4:57am On May 20, 2020 |
Guys I bet you !! If you come here in the US u will kneel down and thank God . The kids here lacks discipline ,no respect ,delinquent and out of control and this is due to the aiding and abating of their laws. The kids knows this and are exploiting it. Some of you here that think that the discipline we received is abuse will have a heart attack and or commit suicide if you are here in the US training up kids . Everyone wants his or her child to be better than him if not to be at least independent but here the kids dont listen to their parents ,kicks you out of her /his room when u try to reprimand him call police when u tried to discipline him. All you do is to tell him he is "grounded ". Kids will leave school and there is noting u can do. I fact Africans here in the US is appreciated when it comes to respect . My kids kept winning the best behaved students in their school and you here the older Americans saying " where did we go wrong ?" In child up bringing. So when I was growing up I thought it was punishment but believe me me it made me who I am today . 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by DexterousOne(m): 5:07am On May 20, 2020 |
chuksbogus2001: There is something fundamentally faulty with MANY MANY aspects of african way of parenting I'm not in any way making comparison with anywhere else I am making specific reference to African parents and parenting Even in America, there are many many well behaved and cultured kids who did not have to get whipped or rough handled in the African sense to be behaved Is there a crisis of delinquency in the USA? Sure there is But so is it in Nigeria and everywhere else In my opinion, single parenthood dealt a decisive blow on child upbringing in the USA, as in my personal experience, most most delinquent kids come from single parent (especially black) homes. Being a good role model to your kids (which let's be Frank, many Africans are NOT) ; and NOT letting any bad behaviour slide in my opinion are the key ingredients to better parenting, and it works ANYWHERE in the world However, being a complacent ans patronising parent is the recipe for disaster ANYWHERE in the world. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by Nobody: 5:09am On May 20, 2020 |
Christthesaviour:European/ first world parenting is best. African parents always love to feel entitled to the fact they bore,feed,clothe and educate their children. Who asked African parents to birth? Konji...not the poor child. So African parents should man up to their responsibility and stop demanding appreciation from innocent kids. |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by DexterousOne(m): 5:11am On May 20, 2020 |
dasparrow:They actually are I think some reform here and there is in order though The African way is not a write off 100% Reform and adjustment is needed 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by Gerrard59(m): 5:14am On May 20, 2020 |
saajus: Personally, I believe that has been the issue with most Nigerian parenting, the absence of a questioning culture. I believe people should question whatever anyone says or concept. That way, everyone gets to understand why it is so and can move forward. The nature of not questioning things is why we have wanton criminals at the helms of affairs of which if they get questioned, people are up in arms asking why they should be questioned. Overall, compared to Asian parents, the major problem with African parenting style is that after these tutelage, Africans became poorer. It is of no use training someone yet the person is poor. |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by abdullkabar(m): 5:25am On May 20, 2020 |
Parenting is not an automated action. Those things we call error might have been the ones that shaped us. I had many uncles around while I was little (it was like 4-5 pillars of parenting/beating/scolding etc) All their actions kept me on shore. A child's mind is the devils workshop(but sometimes, it might be good to gradually ease up as the child grows, which might eventually back fire) Na for the pikin to know they are only trying as they know it |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by forlexxy(m): 5:31am On May 20, 2020 |
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Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by Nobody: 5:37am On May 20, 2020 |
Lionessza6:It's a pride for our mother's to have male child for their husband, therefore we should be treated as one. |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by orumba(m): 5:44am On May 20, 2020 |
Goan ask yul |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by scott04: 5:46am On May 20, 2020 |
Everything Is Wrong With African Parenting Style 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by scott04: 5:53am On May 20, 2020 |
Craigbrown4076:God Bless You For These Jare 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by folake4u(f): 5:55am On May 20, 2020 |
1. They always feel that everything they do is 100% correct and can't make mistakes. 2. Giving sex education talk with their children is hard for them, they rather go to jail than do that ![]() And so many others... 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by scott04: 6:00am On May 20, 2020 |
abbey621:hahahahaha are you sure you are living in africa?? more than 50% of nigerian youth now use hard drug. upon all the beating we still have one of the highest criminality rate in the world. i could go on.... 3 Likes |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by Aystarz: 6:01am On May 20, 2020 |
Lotusflowerbomb: They would hurt you, even when you're a grown ass adult, yet expect you to grovel at their feet in the name of forgiveness. Common amongst Yoruba parents. 3 Likes |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by Aystarz: 6:04am On May 20, 2020 |
Deicide: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by Mosco100(m): 6:44am On May 20, 2020 |
Nigerians are self conceited ignorant barons of incompetence 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by oluwaseyi0: 6:49am On May 20, 2020 |
paul100: But do you know Nigeria Ella probably got things from boys for her birthday too but will rather lie about it to her parents 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by gisola(m): 6:49am On May 20, 2020 |
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Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by Nobody: 6:55am On May 20, 2020 |
POOR. F9 Just the discipline and provision part that are still top notch. |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by ukaface(f): 7:12am On May 20, 2020 |
Boss13:why the transfer of aggression, oga? A question was asked, and I answered,so what's the outburst for? Better calm down |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by TOPCRUISE(m): 7:16am On May 20, 2020 |
Wetin be African style of parenting. What other style of parenting do we have and which style of parenting is the best |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by ekineme: 7:19am On May 20, 2020 |
Amanee: Amanee which religion are u into? Just curious |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by kendological(m): 7:23am On May 20, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:Pretend you have sense tribal bigot. |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by mmsen: 7:25am On May 20, 2020 |
Nigerian parenting is far from the best. The country is a result of the values of habits of those who raise children, remember that when you next make such outlandish claims OP. People who lack self-respect and self-discipline cannot be expected to teach such to their children and that is the case with the average Nigerian. If they possessed such traits they wouldn't put themselves in disadvantageous situations (by having too many children) and then justify all manner of evil to get themselves out of the situation. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by Mrpojj(m): 7:31am On May 20, 2020 |
Christthesaviour: Nothing is wrong 1 Like 1 Share |
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