I read a story here yesterday about a young lad who committed suicide.A banker by profession with lots to offer if only he got help. My mind begin to race as i tried to process thoughts.Is there any challenge you are facing?Bare it all here help may come

adoreyou:
I read a story here yesterday about a young lad who committed suicide.A banker by profession with lots to offer if only he got help. My mind begin to race as i tried to process thoughts.Is there any challenge you are facing?Bare it all here help may come

I'm a private school teacher. Feeding presently is a hard task.

Career na ni... But SUICIDE is never an option.
Suicide ké, lailai

adebayour26:
Career na ni... But SUICIDE is never an option.
Suicide ké, lailai

What's your career challenge?

Its OK to give up.


No one deserves pain.

This lockdown

Jay5mie:
Its OK to give up.


No one deserves pain.

Kriss216:

I'm a private school teacher. Feeding presently is a hard task.

Go do private classes.

1) The course I was given to study in school. I never hear about that course before until I was given admission to study it. As I no get choice I studied it rather than stay home. Am not really happy about it because it's not my passion and I feel maybe I'd have gotten a good job if I studied something better.
2)its so sad thinking about my past relationships.
3)Business isn't moving because of Corona, customers dey owe me money
4)Corona dey delay my immigration progress, its really sad.
5)No good prospective man to marry. I'm really a fan of marriage.
What else? Life itself is a struggle. I've been dealing with consistent headache lately.

rockstarB:
1) The course I was given to study in school. I never hear about that course before until I was given admission to study it. As I no get choice I studied it rather than stay home. Am not really happy about it because it's not my passion and I feel maybe I'd have gotten a good job if I studied something better.
2)its so sad thinking about my past relationships.
3)Business isn't moving because of Corona, customers dey owe me money
4)Corona dey delay my immigration progress, its really sad.
5)No good prospective man to marry. I'm really a fan of marriage.
What else? Life itself is a struggle. I've been dealing with consistent headache lately. But suicide isn't the answer

I will be back.

I am back

1. What do you about it? Do you want to back to school on a part-time basis? Or do you want to acquire additional knowledge that will give you the leverage to move to what you want? Or do you want to find passion in what you do? I listened to a TedX talk a while back and it might be of help ( I did not agree with everything in it):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6MBaFL7sCb8
What is your purpose? What you want to do outside your work or education? What do you need to achieve it? You can achieve anything you have in mind to if you work at it.

2. Take the lessons and move on

3. Sorry, it is everyone. Are you looking at ways to diversify or modify your business to be relevant post-COVID?

4. You have your hands in many stuffs. What is paramount? What makes your heart beat? What is the thing people are almost sure will make you tick?

5. I like fans of marriage . When you say 'no good prospective man, what do you mean?' What are the qualities you are looking for in a prospective husband and father of your children? Do you want to share here?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3fIZuW9P_M&list=RDCMUCsT0YIqwnpJCM-mx7-gSA4Q&index=9 - another TedX talk (Disclaimer, I have not watched it)

@Headache: You have gotten good advises as regards drinking water, eating fruits and checking your BP. In addition you are worried about too many things which can also produce stress (emotional and mental) which can also affect you physically.

Take it easy, play music and dance naked in front of your mirror.

Jay5mie:
Its OK to give up.


No one deserves pain.

No one created themselves either and nobody has the right to take their own life.

It is NOT OK to commit suicide; don't rename it 'giving up' or any other thing.

bukatyne:


I will be back.

Lol

I dont know why I find this funny

Jay5mie:
Its OK to give up.


No one deserves pain.

Bro it is not ok oo. Where your soul will be hereafter is what you should be aiming for because we are just a stranger here!

rockstarB:

Lol

I dont know why I find this funny

Sign of good living

I wouldn’t call it depressed but there are a lot of things going on around the world that makes me sad.
The sadness comes from a feeling of helplessness. Like “oh if only I had the power to stop this bad thing or that bad thing from happening to this or that person/s or group of people.”
I don’t want to go into details.
Thanks for asking OP

Am unemployed and the little Business I engaged myself into just crashed because of Covid19 and so called lockdown.
It's really killing me slowly even to feed now is a big task for me.


Depression is really real...That's why most times I don't blame most people taking their lives because of the situation of things around them.Rather I blame people around them in the sense that they make things more difficult to this victims of Depression.
I pray God Safe every soul going through Hard times.AMEN

rockstarB:
1) The course I was given to study in school. I never hear about that course before until I was given admission to study it. As I no get choice I studied it rather than stay home. Am not really happy about it because it's not my passion and I feel maybe I'd have gotten a good job if I studied something better.
2)its so sad thinking about my past relationships.
3)Business isn't moving because of Corona, customers dey owe me money
4)Corona dey delay my immigration progress, its really sad.
5)No good prospective man to marry. I'm really a fan of marriage.
What else? Life itself is a struggle. I've been dealing with consistent headache lately. But suicide isn't the answer

This should be looked into Sis. Check your blood pressure three different times (morning, afternoon and night) in a day for three times (day today Saturday and Sunday or Monday). To rule out hypertension. It could also be stress-related, the headache.
(Also ensure you are drinking enough water in a day? And have no fever?)
Have a good life ahead.
Cheers.

merahki:



This should be looked into Sis. Check your blood pressure three different times (morning, afternoon and night) in a day for three times (day today Saturday and Sunday or Monday). To rule out hypertension. It could also be stress-related, the headache.
(Also ensure you are drinking enough water in a day? And have no fever?)
Have a good life ahead.
Cheers.

My headache is as a result of thinking too much, stressing my head I guess. I dont drink water as such, mostimes two satchet water a day. I'll try to improve on that

like I want to phuck. I'm h.o.r.n.y.

rockstarB:

My headache is as a result of thinking too much, stressing my head I guess. I dont drink water as such, mostimes two satchet water a day. I'll try to improve on that

You need to drink 4-5 in a day (2.0- 2.5L). Find a way to do this please? The recommended for females is a little bit more than this, but there is water in food and fruits and vegetables too.
Just check you BP for my peace of mind, okay? Then if normal we are fine. Where is the headache? Divide your head and tell me the area or it it all over?

rockstarB:
1) The course I was given to study in school. I never hear about that course before until I was given admission to study it. As I no get choice I studied it rather than stay home. Am not really happy about it because it's not my passion and I feel maybe I'd have gotten a good job if I studied something better.
2)its so sad thinking about my past relationships.
3)Business isn't moving because of Corona, customers dey owe me money
4)Corona dey delay my immigration progress, its really sad.
5)No good prospective man to marry. I'm really a fan of marriage.
What else? Life itself is a struggle. I've been dealing with consistent headache lately. But suicide isn't the answer

Everything is going to be alright.

It may not necessarily be how you would have wanted it, it might even be better.
Just be hopeful.
Live one day at a time.
Do new happy things everyday.
Celebrate achievements no matter how little they may seem.

For your health part, eat about 2-3 different fruits and 1 vegetable and drink about 2.5 to 3ltrs of water everyday.
Coffee also helps to improve your mood, but take it moderately.

I was talking with a friend yesterday, told him I think I am falling into depression and he laughed that the whole world is going through that phase


I feel everything is just on hold
I want to do so many things
Had plans and here I am looking at the world right in my room every other day....

Yes I am grateful for all that I am and have but I feel so empty and I can't explain why .....

What's making me depressed right now is the fact that I'd soon pass out. My service year is almost over. Now my struggle begins. So help me God

merahki:



You need to drink 4-5 in a day (2.0- 2.5L). Find a way to do this please? The recommended for females is a little bit more than this, but there is water in food and fruits and vegetables too.
Just check you BP for my peace of mind, okay? Then if normal we are fine. Where is the headache? Divide your head and tell me the area or it it all over?

Lol
Front part. Thank you

cococandy:
I wouldn’t call it depressed but there are a lot of things going on around the world that makes me sad.
The sadness comes from a feeling of helplessness. Like “oh if only I had the power to stop this bad thing or that bad thing from happening to this or that person/s or group of people.”
I don’t want to go into details.
Thanks for asking OP

You have the willpower to surmount your overwhelming current disposition: stay continually occupied with a thought of conquering yourself without striving to conquer the world, while loving the world without hating yourself.

@rockstarB,

I have responded to you.

I was robbed at gunpoint this week. Cash and my ATM taken. Was also forced to give my ATM pin. Everything was cleared. Almost went into depression when I remember my lost but once there is life, there is hope. Money can be restored but not Life...#SayNoToDepression

I work in a depression inducing environment (psychiatric hospital) but the passion I have for the job is what is helping me go through it and conscious that the serenity prayer can really help as we deal with our realities.

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.

rockstarB:

Lol
Front part. Thank you

Could be stress related. Just rule out the high BP first.
You are welcome, have a happy day today

Ceefashion:
I was robbed at gunpoint this week. Cash and my ATM taken. Was also forced to give my ATM pin. Everything was cleared. Almost went into depression when I remember my lost but once there is life, there is hope. Money can be restored but not Life...#SayNoToDepression

That is the spirit; thank God for life.

merahki:



Could be stress related. Just rule out the high BP first.
You are welcome, have a happy day today

I just checked the BP too and it's really fine. Thank you

bukatyne:


I will be back.

I am back

1. What do you about it? Do you want to back to school on a part-time basis? Or do you want to acquire additional knowledge that will give you the leverage to move to what you want? Or do you want to find passion in what you do? I listened to a TedX talk a while back and it might be of help ( I did not agree with everything in it):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6MBaFL7sCb8
What is your purpose? What you want to do outside your work or education? What do you need to achieve it? You can achieve anything you have in mind to if you work at it.

2. Take the lessons and move on

3. Sorry, it is everyone. Are you looking at ways to diversify or modify your business to be relevant post-COVID?

4. You have your hands in many stuffs. What is paramount? What makes your heart beat? What is the thing people are almost sure will make you tick?

5. I like fans of marriage . When you say 'no good prospective man, what do you mean?' What are the qualities you are looking for in a prospective husband and father of your children? Do you want to share here?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3fIZuW9P_M&list=RDCMUCsT0YIqwnpJCM-mx7-gSA4Q&index=9 - another TedX talk (Disclaimer, I have not watched it)

@Headache: You have gotten good advises as regards drinking water, eating fruits and checking your BP. In addition you are worried about too many things which can also produce stress (emotional and mental) which can also affect you physically.

Take it easy, play music and dance naked in front of your mirror.