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Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by Gandollar(f): 5:15pm On May 21, 2020 |
MightySirKay:Respect go still dey. Unto say you too no dey bad. |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by IamOrei(m): 5:17pm On May 21, 2020 |
uncleFola: Then you aren’t self disciplined |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by lilyheaven: 5:23pm On May 21, 2020 |
emmabest2000:What is wrong with sleeping in in-laws place? |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by Nobody: 5:24pm On May 21, 2020 |
uncleFola: Bros no kill me abeg ![]() |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by denickboss(m): 5:24pm On May 21, 2020 |
All tis tins mentioned here r nt ah yard stick fr a successful marriage or relationship, marriage tis days is by d grace of God |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by icu4: 5:26pm On May 21, 2020 |
emmabest2000: Bro what if you are visiting then in a different state and it's a very long journey. Im in this kind of situation currently.. |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by smiliyB(f): 5:27pm On May 21, 2020 |
vvvbobby205:Exactly, that number 6 no follow at all. Some people hate wasting food, same with me. |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by smiliyB(f): 5:31pm On May 21, 2020 |
eleojo23: High five jare, you made a lot of sense...finish your food if you want to but don't eat as if you haven't eaten before ![]() ![]() |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by emmabest2000(m): 5:31pm On May 21, 2020 |
icu4:Hotel tin bro 3 Likes |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by Davoneskay(m): 5:31pm On May 21, 2020 |
Lamanii22: If na dat one, I go fk up... I don't eat chopped onions, pepper or tomato. If dem put am for food na reject I go give am. |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by emmabest2000(m): 5:32pm On May 21, 2020 |
lilyheaven:Its a disgrace bro 2 Likes |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by Donclique(m): 5:33pm On May 21, 2020 |
ehirosplusbiz:Never joke with this particular dish. Akwa ibom? I see u broh. |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by emmabest2000(m): 5:34pm On May 21, 2020 |
chubinwa: Lol, una inlaw'a are not Alfa men ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by madza: 5:36pm On May 21, 2020 |
The points you presented are very true, again one must never display their lack or how rich they are at first meeting, because that will define what happens onwards. Again most Christian parents appreciate if their would be son in-law would be a god fearing personality. By implication, one must be knowledgeable in the Bible or whatever religion that is involved. So they can answer simple questions when need arises. |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by OKTolu: 5:37pm On May 21, 2020 |
Noted |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by Nobody: 5:40pm On May 21, 2020 |
... 1 Like |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by Nobody: 5:40pm On May 21, 2020 |
Do you know some in-laws can say you're forming for them if you don't finish the food they served you? What do you expect them to do with the remnant? u don't expect them to trash and waste their food. So in that case, I believe you should just be yourself. Nice one OP. |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by abdullkabar(m): 5:41pm On May 21, 2020 |
All these don't do this, don't do that!!! I will still stand on being yourself(na because say money no dey, make us dey form another person) Be comfortable, be yourself Modified: I visited a girl I intended to wife sometime ago, while I was about leaving, the mother offered me some transport money(can't remember how much). I rejected, but she insisted till I was against the wall, so I collected it. The family is doing very good, maybe that's the reason for the stunt she pulled. Funny thing is, the daughter was all consigned about sharing the money with me while she was escorting me to the bus stop, I just gave her the whole money. Now I am wondering, could that be the reason it didn't worked out(if it is, then its really laughable). One thing I have come to understand and I try to follow is, never lookdown on anybody, never judge people too much. All these rules, never do this or that, is faulty The only reason we hide some characteristics(s) is because we yourself know they are not good Imagine, let's say I go visit her family, and the serve me okro soup and the okro is more than the pepper. I no go chop am, or better still, I will maneuver the okro, leaving the excess behind. Be who you are always, adjust when you can adjust but never ever pretend too much |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by Nobody: 5:41pm On May 21, 2020 |
Davoneskay: Na better clown you be...you say wetin bro?? Say you to 4kup ![]() |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by SweetCunt97(f): 5:45pm On May 21, 2020 |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by odogwunaija(m): 5:45pm On May 21, 2020 |
uncleFola: I think the point OP is trying to make is "don't request for it" if/when you're asked for a drink. But if they offer u alcohol without asking, I personally don't think it's polite to reject what ur prospective in-laws offer u unless u have very strong reason(s) yo do that |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by ufuosman(m): 5:47pm On May 21, 2020 |
Noted |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by phenylalanine(m): 5:54pm On May 21, 2020 |
iamyemiakins: Don't finish any food given to you is a no no, u will end up wasting their food blcos no one gets to eat it and also they will assume u don't enjoyed it after taking their time to cook it. So finish d food even if it is tasteless. |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by Jakama90(m): 5:54pm On May 21, 2020 |
Lamanii22:If I don't like the food, I will not complain about it, I will just leave it for them. I cannot come and eat concotion just to please anyone. 1 Like |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by Emmasnoop(m): 5:55pm On May 21, 2020 |
Make money b4 you go there and forget all this yeye write up. |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by zicoraads: 5:56pm On May 21, 2020 |
Noted. ![]() |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by jodeci(m): 5:57pm On May 21, 2020 |
I have slept in my inlaw's house multiple times and sees nothing wrong with it. Recently i tried forming a big boy by lodging in the hotel and my father inlaw was so angry the next day. I see nothing wrong with sleeping in my inlaws house if has the standard of a 5star hotel. |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by ibinaboonline: 5:59pm On May 21, 2020 |
Some families are actually offended if you don't finish the food. I don't completely agree with OP on that one. vvvbobby205: |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by macfish101(m): 6:01pm On May 21, 2020 |
Cover your Tattoos and remove those leg chains. No be everybody dey like jigida |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by Nobody: 6:03pm On May 21, 2020 |
xteve: Yes, I'm married. Or do you want to subscribe ? |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by landry07(m): 6:05pm On May 21, 2020 |
8: And don't forget to drop an envelop for the mother 1 Like |
Re: Things You Should Not Do When Meeting Your Partner's Parents For The First Time by Esco2: 6:06pm On May 21, 2020 |
Noted |
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