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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by don89(m): 12:53pm On May 22, 2020 |
Majority of a mans stress in life come from marriage related issues ,check well . 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by JonCina(m): 12:53pm On May 22, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: Where were these studies conducted biko? Was any of them localized in Nigeria? |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Naija246: 12:54pm On May 22, 2020 |
divorce her Happyguy201: 4 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Ibechris2: 12:54pm On May 22, 2020 |
One of the guys here said,the worst is to marry Nigerian women...I just laugh! Am not joking,Nigerian women are trained to tolerate shit from men and that is why men like that fellow could spew out his frustration. Our women are the best in Africa...they love u even when u know no one cares. Make una remain single and to all those who believe in marriage,do not despair,that what God has framed for humanity, shall not derail because of civilization. Old age is real and can be devastating if not well planned,specifically,I am talking to all those who prefer to be single for life, u might be towing the wrong path. Is it the child u didn't nurture or emotionally contributed to his life that would be there for u at old age abi what are ur plans. Let us be careful what we chose to represent in life because,although time shall reveal our outcome in life. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 12:55pm On May 22, 2020 |
ellapius: Yet, your dp in your profile shows what you are looking for in men |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by comradeMOSHOOD: 12:56pm On May 22, 2020 |
it is a man's responsibility to take care of his family. it's not a mistake to marry a woman that is not working. don't run away from your responsibilities brothers honest opinion though |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Liposure: 12:57pm On May 22, 2020 |
cnonyechi:which luv |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by twinycharis6(f): 12:58pm On May 22, 2020 |
And a woman that is employable even if she doesn't have a job at the time. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ProphetofOdin: 12:58pm On May 22, 2020 |
why will anybody want to be a full time house wife in this 21st century? In a country like Nigeria where the life expectancy of a man is just 52 years, what if this man dies where will you start from? I grew up under a mum who never waited for my dad to come home before i buy books and pay school fees, so of cos a woman should work for her own money too. 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by romanusebhodagh(m): 12:58pm On May 22, 2020 |
Don't be a dreamer. Naija246:Don't be a dreamer |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by EdiskyHarry: 12:59pm On May 22, 2020 |
sexylassie2:I pray may God never punish me with a woman like you. 8 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Theoarhics: 1:00pm On May 22, 2020 |
The biggest mistake is marry a wife without character, empathy and courtesy. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by OnyeFely: 1:01pm On May 22, 2020 |
An elderly man told me sometime ago that he can cope with a woman that doesn't respect his mama, but contributes to be family. That's a woman that knows wen d husband doesn't v n brings her own without complaining. But for a man to marry a STINGY woman will be a very grave mistake. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by bullionman(m): 1:01pm On May 22, 2020 |
Obierika: Should we divorce her if she gets sacked 3months into the wedding? |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by AlhajaChinyere: 1:02pm On May 22, 2020 |
Akinbahm: Alaye, when you are ready you will give yourself peace of mind! |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by vasco01(m): 1:05pm On May 22, 2020 |
Sha if you get money like dangote you don't bother about this kind warning Working or not i go just kukuma marry her if she tied My problem be say make she Sabi spent my money Ego dikwa too much
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Billygee2u: 1:06pm On May 22, 2020 |
Davash222:who has degrees in cheating |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by InvertedHammer: 1:06pm On May 22, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl:/ The weakest point in a debate is starting with "Studies show". What studies? Conferring authoriry where it doesn't belong to hoodwink half-baked minds. Who did the studies? What is the reference point? / 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by MrBen619(m): 1:08pm On May 22, 2020 |
Is even better this way, at least she can care for her self and parents even if you don't care for her. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by NordicBrown(m): 1:08pm On May 22, 2020 |
Are u married ? Naija246: |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by TheArchangel(f): 1:08pm On May 22, 2020 |
Gforce2015:You know nothing John Snow. A man speaking for a woman is what I detest the most. Stick with your men point of view and preferences please. In the modern world, being financially independent devoid of marital hassles is the greatest thing ever for women. With it, you have the choice of having kids without any man tagging along. Women can always juggle their careers and kids without the baggages and dramas a man brings. Marriage has never favoured women from time immemorial. It has always been a man that seek out or ask a woman to marry him never the other way round. Have you ever asked why? 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Futurejoy(f): 1:09pm On May 22, 2020 |
pDudd:It is your type that will marry a baby mama of two and still pay their school fees while smiling in the open |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 1:12pm On May 22, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: Tell them. They know they can't do without us no matter what they say. The smart ones are Manning up and getting married and today they happy and fulfilled at least to some extent. while the weak ones are wailing here but still feel empty and depressed cos no woman to make them complete and the fear of the unknown has robbed them of this wonderful experience.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Cosyfaith(f): 1:12pm On May 22, 2020 |
gypsey: Lol, you already said it. You are the constant factor. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Advancedman(m): 1:13pm On May 22, 2020 |
ellapius: Senseless. This is not rivalry or gender banter. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Billygee2u: 1:13pm On May 22, 2020 |
MJBOLT:once she has good character,she knows what to do to make the marriage work and enjoyable and not managing and enduring |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by 21cents: 1:14pm On May 22, 2020 |
bluefilm:LMAO ![]() |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by dahlen71: 1:15pm On May 22, 2020 |
[quote author=Obierika post=89707620]As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income. Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon] what if you marry a working class lady and she get fired after marriage or don't you know that the lady that is not working today may have work after marriage? |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by wonder233: 1:15pm On May 22, 2020 |
Best write-up ever! Our society has sold this idea that "you must get married" , they try to stampede you into getting married. Telling you you're missing something if you don't have your own kids. When You get married, you realize its all hogwash. Just a meaningless life of toil and strife. The so-called kids are separate humans in themselves, there is nothing that technically makes them yours. They become part of the world's 7billion population. Naija246: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by megareal: 1:17pm On May 22, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl:My sister, from the experiences around me, the men benefit more than women in marriage. It was this imbalance in equation that made me decide not to marry when I was a kid. 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by emmanuelewumi(m): 1:18pm On May 22, 2020 |
ellapius: What is your selling point? |
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