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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by iammolise(m): 1:33pm On May 22, 2020
Anyahuruagu:
The worst mistake is to marry entitled wife with zero contributions..

Living Hell.

She may be working but she no dey contribute.

Looking for a go getter who is ready to wave poverty bye bye as am waving it not a mediocre whose taste buds doesn't taste investment and savings.

Exactly; that kind of girl that has the mental configuration that "my man must be the one to supply all our needs", the type that live in the delusion that she's entitled to her man's money and it's her birth right. She may be earning an elephant of a salary but because of this mindset she will always want to be at the receiving end with any aspect of the marriage, she will never be ready to make any sacrifices for the betterment and growth of the family.

Very bad my broda
I don't mind marrying 35 than to marry this kind of girl.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Godhead4(m): 1:34pm On May 22, 2020
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 1:34pm On May 22, 2020
Goodnigga:
Taa. You wish!!!! What your type calls money is what my type calls coins!!
good for you. I once heard money don't like noise. but u darling are a noise making small boy
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 1:34pm On May 22, 2020
DenreleDave:


Yes. I can offer u one
keep it to ursef. wack ursef out
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Naija246: 1:35pm On May 22, 2020
pocochantas I hope you don't end up marrying a ritualists undecided
That's even if you are lucky to see any man that will wife up your type..lol. grin
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Well that has some truth in it
And the biggest mistake any girl can make is to marry a broke man, which 75% of all naija guys fall into
Sad

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by DenreleDave(m): 1:35pm On May 22, 2020
ellapius:
keep it to ursef. wack ursef out
No.. I insist I Wana offer u
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 1:36pm On May 22, 2020
MrSly:

As a lady must all your thought s be around sex? Do you ever think of other things.
I domt have to let u into other things I think of ur mind can't carry many of them
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 1:36pm On May 22, 2020
Nnaabros:


Not true. Most women feel miserable, lonely and incomplete without a husband, crying 'God when' everywhere.

so?? Its normal for anyone to feel lonely at some point in their life's both male and female. So no biggies.

I have also seen men crying and feeling miserable because no girl is accepting them.

They see marriage as a bed of roses, because they have no wedding and marriage bills and expenses to worry about.

This is not true. But why would you expect a woman to pay the marriage /wedding bills? For crying out loud, if you're not ready to get married, hold your side. Haba! All these whinning is uncalled for.


Most men just want to live a free fun life without the burdens of marriage. Even many married men still have extramarital adventures.

is that the best? Then let them go ahead with all pleasure.

Shalom.
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Goodnigga: 1:36pm On May 22, 2020
ellapius:
good for you. I once heard money don't like noise. but u darling are a noise making small boy
Thanks, Small boy in his 30s blessed of God.
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 1:37pm On May 22, 2020
thundafire:
u went off point,no one is bashing a hard-working lady,who is supporting her man and having a kitchen mentality
did u see the topic sweet heart
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 1:38pm On May 22, 2020
Goodnigga:
Thanks, Small boy in his 30s blessed of God.
u rewlly a baby
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by mildteddy(m): 1:38pm On May 22, 2020
Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage grin

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them. grin

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!! cheesy

It depends on who you marry.
My father married my mother and I think my father actually gains more from the marriage.
If you marry the right person, it'll be a win-win

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 1:39pm On May 22, 2020
DenreleDave:


No.. I insist I Wana offer u
thanks
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Naija246: 1:39pm On May 22, 2020
lol.. I'm not on Twitter,
I have never really fancied the platform tbh
Godhead4:


Go and counter this twitter post with some red pills bro!

https://twitter.com/ulomareen/status/1153931490885062656?s=19

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by DenreleDave(m): 1:41pm On May 22, 2020
ellapius:
thanks
So how do u want it?
Anal or main pu***y

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Arkmanbuddy(m): 1:41pm On May 22, 2020
Naija246:
bro I'm just spilling red pill truths for my brother's oo grin
I hope they listen.
We men should seriously start questioning alot of thing's the society implicitly expects from us.

Marriage restricts a man's potential and freedom.
Have you ever noticed that the most productive time in a man's life is when he is still single.
Look at great inventor's from Nikola Tesla to Faraday, they all peaked when single.

They peaked because they were able to transmute their sex energy into something more creative. It would be double jeopardy for a man who is less burdened to waste is creative ability on the altar of freedom to do whatever!
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by AlhajaChinyere: 1:43pm On May 22, 2020
incogni2o:


Legitimate Companionship and Intimacy.

Children that give you happiness

Your head no correct!

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by KLand(m): 1:44pm On May 22, 2020
Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

Somebody who is not working now can get a good paying job later. And some body who is not earning any income now can begin to earn a sizeable income tomorrow.

Personally, without undermining the spirit of your post, I think the greatest mistake a guy (or a lady) can make in marriage is to marry the wrong person.

My idea of marrying the wrong person is to marry someone who you know is not the will of God for you.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Zephy: 1:44pm On May 22, 2020
[color=#006600][/color]My brother thanks for your opinion. But just to help other brothers see things differently: a prospective wife could be a working class or income earner but not a contributor. Avoid this type.
Again, u may meet a prospective wife who is not earning nothing at the moment but posses the potential and credentials to do so in future and will contribute. Keep thus type close.
Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by codesport(m): 1:45pm On May 22, 2020
sexylassie2:
The biggest mistake a woman can make is marrying a man with no income.

The reality is most men want to eat their cake and have it, they want a traditional wife but cant carry the responsibility of marrying a traditional woman.

Shebi you are the man, why do you need a woman that works, aren't you guys the superior being.

The only reason why you need a working woman is to prey on her finance, to be realistic, only broke men want a working woman, a rich man wants a house wife.

Note: cry me a river, you won't get any reply from me.
... Exactly!! They want woman to act/treat them same way they did to their grandfathers but they are stylishly running away from the responsibilities involved. All these guys aren't ready for marriage I swear.
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by AlhajaChinyere: 1:46pm On May 22, 2020
Kingspin:
I hope you understand the whole truth about life and hustle. Rich and poor.

Her bullet hit you! grin

Pe le, ndo!

Starting a family without any financial security?
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by EMIOMOADEOYE: 1:49pm On May 22, 2020
Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage grin

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them. grin

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!! cheesy

And you my dear are an example of a person headed towards mid life crisis.
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by kalufelix(m): 1:50pm On May 22, 2020
Osobi32:
pls let all the singles both men and women maintain their status, make everyone carry their cross abeg
na guys wan come hijack the feminism agenda cheesy .. This is serious! .. We all got 5 sense organs, 4 limbs, one head and one brain. Make every adult take care of there self mbok..

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Danester: 1:50pm On May 22, 2020
Anyahuruagu:
The worst mistake is to marry entitled wife with zero contributions..

Living Hell.

She may be working but she no dey contribute.

Looking for a go getter who is ready to wave poverty bye bye as am waving it not a mediocre whose taste buds doesn't taste investment and savings.

Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by cezarman(m): 1:50pm On May 22, 2020
That melanin lady is something else oh!
Her lies are just mind blowing. I'm really surprised and short of words how someone can lie with so much confidence.

She even convinced herself within, that those lies are actually true.

Real life experience of marital crises around the world shows how sad and unfulfilled most married couples actually are.

C'mon mehn, lets be realistic. Just consider yourself lucky if you're married and actually happy deep inside you.

As for the ladies, most of them start becoming worried and unhappy when they clock 35 and still single... probably because finding a man is one of, if not their biggest goal in life.

Make una marry if una like oh! but as for me...

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ibawon(m): 1:50pm On May 22, 2020
I disagree, The biggest mistake will be to marry a woman who has nothing to contribute in all Ramifications
Financially = 0
Emotionally = 0
Physically = 0
Spiritually = 0
and you that used all your money to do her dream wedding you be big fool, you didn't split the money to help set her up when you know she is totally blank
Then why did you marry her in the first place
Marry wife wey get hand work or engaged in any sort of trade as I can't stand my wife dropping our 3/6 months baby because of office work.
My 2 cents

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by AlhajaChinyere: 1:51pm On May 22, 2020
don89:
Majority of a mans stress in life come from marriage related issues ,check well .

100%

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by oglalasioux(m): 1:52pm On May 22, 2020
Nooil:


If you grew up in a happy home, you'll know it's not wise. I

Happy for your parents doesn't mean happy for you. This is 2020 not 1985.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by rhames(m): 1:53pm On May 22, 2020
Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

No English dictionary has been able to differentiate the meaning between complete and finished.

When you marry the right woman, you are 'Complete.' If you marry the wrong woman, you are 'Finished.' And , when the right woman catches you with the wrong woman, you are 'Completely Finished.'
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Chrisgarba: 1:53pm On May 22, 2020
MJBOLT:
i just hope you wont get married to a working class lady with bad character undecided character should be the first thing you look out for in marriage.

You're on point
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Mekas2016(m): 1:55pm On May 22, 2020
All your opinions are very good and quite informative, Infact what a day to be a member of Nairaland! Am so glad we have very intelligent and well informed guys here in Nairaland.
Just a little contribution from my corner.
Marriage is a good thing, Even God the creator of man made it clear that it is not good for a man to be alone, You can't call bad what God calls good.
The only challenge is that the devil has hijacked the institution called marriage and making people marry for the wrong reasons and just like it is said when purpose is not defined, Abuse is inevitable.
My candid advice is seek the help of GOD before you venture into marriage and be informed that the devil himself waits everyone at that junction to wreak havoc because its a transition point in the life of every individual and must be guided jealously.
Marriage is a serious business that needs a lot of soul searching and concrete plans and also needs a lot of compromise and sacrifice from you to make it work.
In summary make your marriage a best seller through patience, love and understanding.
God bless you sir.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by felixawe(m): 1:56pm On May 22, 2020
Trouble in marriages is more than this... You prayer should be peace first. Would money gives u peace
Marriage is unexplainable institution, so many upandan
Some woman are working but not supportive, if I lie ask lalaslika .

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