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Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by nnamdiosu(m): 8:04am On May 23, 2020
Acmepreneur:

Thanks for this, that's just the truth. My best friend is my peace of mind,my plans, aspirations, things I plan doing when I retire. Even though I know life can't be predicted so many times, it pleasurizes me to know where I am going and what are my exact focus and working towards achieving them.
I don't believe in tomorrow will fix itself at all, I'm a person of ''action and response'', even though things might not work, I still like to do the right things and strive so much even if I won't achieve anything at the end. I will show my boyfriend your response, I want him to understand me and change. Truth is,he's very loving, kind,nice,hardworking and intelligent. Leaving him is not an option, I can't have feelings for anyone else, my mind is very stiff to fall/have feelings, I couldn't have feelings for anyone until I met him. I just hope he changes for the best


You are welcome friend.
For both you're sakes, I also hope he changes for the best. You sha have to be patient also, so it won't look like you wanna control or change him from his personality.

I wish you both the very best.
Cheers friend
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Johnnydboy: 8:37am On May 23, 2020
Acmepreneur:

Lol, jealousy jealousy
lolz..........no need to exchange words with you...... My little advice......Grow up

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by AkupeMBANO(f): 10:41am On May 23, 2020
Acmepreneur:

Lol,why does it pain you so much? Are you a rapist? Anyway, if you are one, be ready for the hanging because we will review even 50years cases of molestation and rape. You will be forgiven by God, but on Earth, you will receive your punishment
I ain't a rapist. but i guess you were raped at the early stage of your life probably by a relation (because you have constantly talked about rape and shit). you sound highly pained and vulnerable, kindly visit a therapist for help. or you could also lick your wounds which ever works for you. but my major point is, go and get a job and stop disturbing your poor weak struggling Boy friend. fvck you though!!

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by AkupeMBANO(f): 10:54am On May 23, 2020
od501:



Na that weak prey u dey date i dey pitty shaa! Of course you can't leave him, probably he is the only wimp you can easily manipulate! Congrats
exactly.

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:55am On May 23, 2020
AkupeMBANO:

I ain't a rapist. but i guess you were raped at the early stage of your life probably by a relation (because you have constantly talked about rape and shit). you sound highly pained and vulnerable, kindly visit a therapist for help. or you could also lick your wounds which ever works for you. but my major point is, go and get a job and stop disturbing your poor weak struggling Boy friend. fvck you though!!
Well I know Shame wouldn't allow you to admit the truth on a public forum even if you did, anyway I just decided to support justice and fight injustice and thus if you were a rapist, you will be brought to justice. And that my loving boyfriend is 1m time better than you are, he doesn't spew thrashes or engage in social media wars like you do. In fact, he's extremely cool ended, comparing you both is an insult to him

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:58am On May 23, 2020
od501:



Na that weak prey u dey date i dey pitty shaa! Of course you can't leave him, probably he is the only wimp you can easily manipulate! Congrats
That's why at over 40 years, you are still single. Well, HIV/AIDS is real. Hepatitis B is real, and Corona (covid 19), is sexually transmittable.

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by divineappo(m): 11:04am On May 23, 2020
Op: U said he earns #90k per month.
Madam, how much do u earn per month? and are u doing your masters degree now?
Ashawo Gold digger we know ur type, las las, u go turn lesbian/Bitter Feminist
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by kalex0(m): 11:09am On May 23, 2020
I love that guy he din reveal all his earrings to u...

U think is easy to be a manager right?


"I have a dream "
Idiot!!!

Go and fulfill ur dream and leave the guy alone.

Aunty dreamer
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by AkupeMBANO(f): 11:10am On May 23, 2020
divineappo:
Op: U said he earns #90k per month.
Madam, how much do u earn per month? and are u doing your masters degree now?
Ashawo Gold digger we know ur type, las las, u go turn lesbian/Bitter Feminist
don't mind the Oloshi feeling funky! the girl na jobless thief with big eyes.
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by divineappo(m): 11:11am On May 23, 2020
Acmepreneur:

Well I know Shame wouldn't allow you to admit the truth on a public forum even if you did, anyway I just decided to support justice and fight injustice and thus if you were a rapist, you will be brought to justice. And that my loving boyfriend is 1m time better than you are, he doesn't spew thrashes or engage in social media wars like you do. In fact, he's extremely cool ended, comparing you both is an insult to him
ashawo, stop deviating from the real post u made

so ur boyfriend is now better? Lol
same boyfriend u brought to Nairaland for public discussion? I pray the guy dumps ur filthy ass and filthy pussy

U said ur boyfriend doesn't engage in social media wars, but u actually brought a war against your boyfriend on social media. Issues u could have quietly resolved with him, u brought it here to get validation why ur pussy is tired of an innocent hardworking young man

u are now tired of ur boyfriend because the lockdown affected his job

I av told u, las las, u go turn lesbian
Ashawo 20kobo

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by divineappo(m): 11:22am On May 23, 2020
AkupeMBANO:

don't mind the Oloshi feeling funky! the girl na jobless thief with big eyes.
Lol

She is just like my ex

While I was earning #80k monthly and live in a room and parlor self contain, she was earning #32k monthly and living with her parents, she said we can't talk about marriage until I rent a two bed room flat and my monthly income hit #200k minimum

I was shocked. I thought she was kidding oo, she repeatedly told me she is Never kidding, she said she has big dreams. Later she needed #100k to start mini importation business (from my income she claimed was too low ooo). I gave my self brain immediately, I ended the relationship with the gold digger oooo

The bad mindset of some of these girls ehn, na wa

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by prettysassygirl(f): 11:32am On May 23, 2020
Acmepreneur:
Thanks to all commentors.
Edit: i want to use this moment to Thank the ladies, this thread of mine has made me to realize the future of Africa is in the hands of ladies, men are total disgrace, while some are quite inspiring and very helpful, the percentage of men spewing rubbish is quite very high, about 90% while that of female is just 2%. Thank you God for not making me a man.

But please, i want to know the mod that took this to front page?
Una don turn Nairaland to a joke wallahi

Thanks to all commentors, you really made my day and I laughed so hard, especially those that think I have low self esteem and I'm not near intelligence.

It seems that some males on NL are already pained and frustrated about their broke assess and was already ready to any bash girl.

For those that took their time to read all the stories, I wanna say thank you, it means we are bored together as if not lockdown, you no fit see me for NL they ask yeye questions and be reading comedians comments.

For the unbelievers, the story is true,though with some little tweaks, because I don't know if my boyfriend siblings&friends are on NL, so I gave it some tweaks, though I can't vouche for other stories here on NL if they are true or false.

For those that sent me mails, sorry, I don't reply Nairaland emails.
For those that wants to date,lol, I can't date people with account on NL, thats one reason I love my BF, he doesn't fancy NL at all, he thinks its for jobless people or people with so much money that they now have time at their disposal to waste or people severely bored. Yes, I know some people are making money with the help of NL, especially in the business section, bitcoin, cryptocurrency,PayPal, forex trade threads.
And the GRE,IELTS section is also very good, but I still can't date a NL active member especially those active on Romance section.

Final Conclusion, I can never leave my boyfriend, I don't even know why I asked such question
You are a confused girl.
Plus no one is perfect,if you want a perfect guy,you would have to create him. Since he is not a terrible person and you have decided to stick with him then thats fine.
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Offpoint: 2:41pm On May 23, 2020
Acmepreneur:
Thanks to all commentors.
Edit: i want to use this moment to Thank the ladies, this thread of mine has made me to realize the future of Africa is in the hands of ladies, men are total disgrace, while some are quite inspiring and very helpful, the percentage of men spewing rubbish is quite very high, about 90% while that of female is just 2%. Thank you God for not making me a man.

But please, i want to know the mod that took this to front page?
Una don turn Nairaland to a joke wallahi

Thanks to all commentors, you really made my day and I laughed so hard, especially those that think I have low self esteem and I'm not near intelligence.

It seems that some males on NL are already pained and frustrated about their broke assess and was already ready to any bash girl.

For those that took their time to read all the stories, I wanna say thank you, it means we are bored together as if not lockdown, you no fit see me for NL they ask yeye questions and be reading comedians comments.

For the unbelievers, the story is true,though with some little tweaks, because I don't know if my boyfriend siblings&friends are on NL, so I gave it some tweaks, though I can't vouche for other stories here on NL if they are true or false.

For those that sent me mails, sorry, I don't reply Nairaland emails.
For those that wants to date,lol, I can't date people with account on NL, thats one reason I love my BF, he doesn't fancy NL at all, he thinks its for jobless people or people with so much money that they now have time at their disposal to waste or people severely bored. Yes, I know some people are making money with the help of NL, especially in the business section, bitcoin, cryptocurrency,PayPal, forex trade threads.
And the GRE,IELTS section is also very good, but I still can't date a NL active member especially those active on Romance section.

Final Conclusion, I can never leave my boyfriend, I don't even know why I asked such question
Which isolation center are you currently?
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by cassbeat(m): 2:51pm On May 23, 2020
Offpoint:

Which isolation center are you currently?
For Her to say that the said guy thinks NL is for jobless people or people with so much money means she is one of the above probably the jobless one..... Na she carry matter come NL no be the bobo send her....
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by AristocraticMe: 5:14pm On May 23, 2020
Acmepreneur:

Why do I have both? Am I not in real world?
you are confuse.
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by lalanice(f): 6:16pm On May 23, 2020
AkupeMBANO:

Some guy already called you a witch (maybe he's spiritual enough). I give extra offering every Sunday because i ain't the dude that will marry miscreants like you. I pity the weakling who will carry a jobless load of crap like you. Oloshi!!
why are you so pained though cheesy cheesy abi you are the unseriouse boyfriend Or maybe one girl don do you takecheesycheesy you are just all over the thread crying foul like it was written for you. Lmao
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by od501: 11:01pm On May 23, 2020
Acmepreneur:

That's why at over 40 years, you are still single. Well, HIV/AIDS is real. Hepatitis B is real, and Corona (covid 19), is sexually transmittable.


I look at you and I thank the universe for giving me the courage and wisdom to take the path i took. Yes, I am 38 (actually), 3 kids, and single (never been married). Women like you is the major reason why live expectancy of an average Nigerian man is getting shorter every day.

With people like u, no man needs to look out for either HIV or Hepatitis B any more, you are 4 in 1.

As for your puppet, help me say adieu! He is long gone!
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 6:29am On May 24, 2020
od501:



I look at you and I thank the universe for giving me the courage and wisdom to take the path i took. Yes, I am 38 (actually), 3 kids, and single (never been married). Women like you is the major reason why live expectancy of an average Nigerian man is getting shorter every day.

With people like u, no man needs to look out for either HIV or Hepatitis B any more, you are 4 in 1.

As for your puppet, help me say adieu! He is long gone!
I pity those innocent beautiful children, sometimes I wish children could choose their fathers. You are a complete waste of a Man, you still have two years for redemption, once you are 40, then it would be forever.

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by od501: 8:54am On May 24, 2020
Acmepreneur:

I pity those innocent beautiful children, sometimes I wish children could choose their fathers. You are a complete waste of a Man, you still have two years for redemption, once you are 40, then it would be forever.


Awww....so pained grin

Bitter bitter bitter fellow. Like ma baby mama will "love comes with an absolute peace, a peace that can only reflect through our countenance". Wisdom! But from your expression ma dear u are faaaaaar from the the word 'Love' more reason I doubt the possibility of you having peace in your life time.

By the way... She is a Lithuanian who knows what she wants, not some hungry, lazy, send me recharge card, audio ambitious, she-dominus like.... (you know who grin) who looks for wimps to dominate.
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by adegeye38(m): 9:06am On May 24, 2020
enemyofprogress:
na so una dey take snatch person wife. Kontinue you hear?
lol, no o my brother, i jus wan preach and counsel her
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by AkupeMBANO(f): 10:09am On May 24, 2020
lalanice:
why are you so pained though cheesy cheesy abi you are the unseriouse boyfriend Or maybe one girl don do you takecheesycheesy you are just all over the thread crying foul like it was written for you. Lmao
Bitch i'm not your mate at all in any form or shape though. i'm a freaking married fellow that hates bullshit. fvck you and your likes!! above all, you are not close to my league!!..just get your jobless broke ass outta my mention.
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by lalanice(f): 10:18am On May 24, 2020
AkupeMBANO:

Bitch i'm not your mate at all in any form or shape though. i'm a freaking married fellow that hates bullshit. fvck you and your likes!! above all, you are not close to my league!!..just get your jobless broke ass outta my mention.
crying foul againcheesy cheesy y so pained though And why are you answering questions I did not ask you?
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by AkupeMBANO(f): 10:22am On May 24, 2020
lalanice:
crying foul againcheesy cheesy y so pained though And why are you answering questions I did not ask you?
i'm actually dignifying a lowlife miscreant like you with no legitimate source of livelihood but just prostitution with my replies. that i won't do again. crawl back to your squalor and get a life. fvck off Bitch!!
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by ebenezary(m): 10:54am On May 24, 2020
presently, what are you doing? are you working for someone or yourself, what is your monthly income, and above all are you practically what you expect from your partner?
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 1:40pm On May 24, 2020
od501:



Awww....so pained grin

Bitter bitter bitter fellow. Like ma baby mama will "love comes with an absolute peace, a peace that can only reflect through our countenance". Wisdom! But from your expression ma dear u are faaaaaar from the the word 'Love' more reason I doubt the possibility of you having peace in your life time.

By the way... She is a Lithuanian who knows what she wants, not some hungry, lazy, send me recharge card, audio ambitious, she-dominus like.... (you know who grin) who looks for wimps to dominate.
A fool at 40, is a fool forever so a proverb says. You still have 2more years of hope. I will pray for your redemption within those two years.
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by od501: 2:06pm On May 24, 2020
Acmepreneur:

A fool at 40, is a fool forever so a proverb says. You still have 2more years of hope. I will pray for your redemption within those two years.


....Lol.. so sweet. I wish i can do the Same. i will kuku channel mine own prayers to your latest victim. That dude really need a break through, a complete salvation!

Hanti i know ur type, ogbanje dominated mgbeke feeling funky! Trying so hard to convince yourself that you are a hardworking independent woman, which is why you posted this fluff at the first place.

What do you know about responsibility?! Cos you manage to buy ur sef stuff automatically you are that ambitious, hardworking, resilient modern woman...? Chai... Again, i that young dude. Don't forget to say adieu cos he is sure gone!

We know people like you gah, we know u! grin
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by lalanice(f): 6:36pm On May 24, 2020
AkupeMBANO:

madam feminist, where are you working and how much are you bringing to the table currently? bla bla bla sheep have you any wool? talking rubbish Up and down!!
oga stop crying on NL, you sound like you don't have a life yourself.

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 6:19am On May 25, 2020
od501:



....Lol.. so sweet. I wish i can do the Same. i will kuku channel mine own prayers to your latest victim. That dude really need a break through, a complete salvation!

Hanti i know ur type, ogbanje dominated mgbeke feeling funky! Trying so hard to convince yourself that you are a hardworking independent woman, which is why you posted this fluff at the first place.

What do you know about responsibility?! Cos you manage to buy ur sef stuff automatically you are that ambitious, hardworking, resilient modern woman...? Chai... Again, i that young dude. Don't forget to say adieu cos he is sure gone!

We know people like you gah, we know u! grin
Look at all you typed, its shows you are a mental health patient, why would you turn my whole post to your headache? Why are you so pained? Anyway, I understand that in real life, you are a frustrated, depressed broke guy,that only feels happy when bashing others. You are a definition of Immoral. You claimed you are 38 and your life is still like this? I know people who are 38 and they are quite responsible, in fact I have mentors who are 35.
I shouldn't actually be replying you because if you are 38 and you are still like this, you really need lots of help. You are a disgrace to all the people who are 38years old, in fact you are a shame to people who are above 30
Don't you have families who can help you? Reach out to people for help please, before you commit suicide out of frustration.
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 6:22am On May 25, 2020
Acmepreneur:

Look at all you typed, its shows you are a mental health patient, why would you turn my whole post to your headache? Why are you so pained? Anyway, I understand that in real life, you are a frustrated, depressed broke guy,that only feels happy when bashing others. You are a definition of Immoral. You claimed you are 38 and your life is still like this? I know people who are 38 and they are quite responsible, in fact I have mentors who are 35. Don't you have families who can help you? Reach out to people for help please, before you commit suicide out of frustration.
try to focus on the positive reply ,just forget about the nagative ones.
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 6:30am On May 25, 2020
AkupeMBANO:

i'm actually dignifying a lowlife miscreant like you with no legitimate source of livelihood but just prostitution with my replies. that i won't do again. crawl back to your squalor and get a life. fvck off Bitch!!
Sometimes I wonder how people like you turned to be this way. No atom of moral. You crying up and down my post as if you are paid to type. Even if you have no moral training, you should have at least acquired one before clocking 40.
Just because your life is filled with frustration and you are depressed is not a reason to bash everyone, you should instead reach out for help. No matter how much you bash, its all going to give you temporary satisfaction, your anger, frustration, sadness would still lie within you. Those satisfaction you derived from bashing would make you continue bashing as you thirst for more happiness through it, the real help lies with a psychotherapist, and other psychological analysis of your frustration and depression state.

Gold, I have none, I have given you what I have, if you listen, you would go into an everlasting happiness, and if not, you will continue with your unending agony of bashing thirst. A word is enough for the wise
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 6:32am On May 25, 2020
25tolife:
try to focus on the positive reply ,just forget about the nagative ones.
Thanks my friend

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