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Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 11:55pm On May 24, 2020 |
Romangalactic:Peter obi/ Soludo side. |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Romangalactic(m): 11:57pm On May 24, 2020 |
sassysure:Where in Anambra exactly? I just know Peter Obi is from Anambra. |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by ibkayee(f): 11:59pm On May 24, 2020 |
Romangalactic:Your word choices are essentially the reason why the thread exists in the first place, I'm responding to the foundation your words set If I want to also engage in dialogue with other contributors, that's different 2 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 12:05am On May 25, 2020 |
Romangalactic:U are very funny. That's why I said people should not rope all cultures together as we have different practices. We don't give out children born out of wedlock too to the father. It's crazy but that's the truth. Even if u live next door. My mum showed me a child my late dad fathered while he was single ![]() That guy resemble us very well. Seems he knew cos he used to call me his wife. I hated him so much then as a kid but he is always teasing me like a brother teases his kid sister. Any childish insult i haul at him for calling me his wife, he will just laugh and if opportunity arises, he will want to prove that I meant something to him. The guy was very fond of me and it was unusual until l learnt he is my father's child Shuuu. ![]() |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 12:08am On May 25, 2020 |
Romangalactic: U should have googled him na. |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Romangalactic(m): 12:11am On May 25, 2020 |
sassysure:Okay, Onitsha. I have people I can ask then. The idea that a husband must accept a child his wife bore from her infidelity is very hard to believe. |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Romangalactic(m): 12:19am On May 25, 2020 |
ibkayee:You like to dwell. Some other contributors were able to overlook my word choices and personal reasons and then went on to offer up good reasons outside finance or me believing it is a man's right to bring in a lovechild. There is no need to analyse specific words, sentences, and the foundations they set when there's a larger point to be seen. you're not Maya Angelou. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Romangalactic(m): 12:22am On May 25, 2020 |
bukatyne:Really? I assumed it was just an exclamation. Thanks |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by ibkayee(f): 12:29am On May 25, 2020 |
Romangalactic:Lol I answered the way I wanted and you'll be alright 2 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Romangalactic(m): 12:34am On May 25, 2020 |
ibkayee:Okay, so in your opinion why do men find it hard accepting children their wives had from infidelity? |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by ibkayee(f): 12:44am On May 25, 2020 |
Romangalactic:It's a horrible thing to go through, I can't be bothered to list why accepting it is difficult, it's pretty self-explanatory, anyone would find it hard... The issue is despite it being so hard to them, why do a good portion of them so flippantly expect their wives to handle it any better 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by cococandy(f): 1:46am On May 25, 2020 |
ibkayee: Entitlement . 7 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by cococandy(f): 1:48am On May 25, 2020 |
Kingarthur21: Good realization on you. It will definitely make you a better dad for it 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by ibkayee(f): 1:48am On May 25, 2020 |
cococandy:Bingo 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 2:01am On May 25, 2020 |
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Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by cococandy(f): 2:06am On May 25, 2020 |
Hathor5: Same response I gave him on the original thread that caused him to come and create this one. The money argument falls so flat on it’s face. Do female breadwinners automatically have “the right” like he puts it to bring in love children from outside? I guess the answer is yes 8 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by cococandy(f): 2:13am On May 25, 2020 |
@bold, This is also my culture. And I think it’s unfair to the side guy ( yes I know. whatever). But I think people have a right to their children. Even if the kids came from a married woman. sassysure: 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by mrblessed(m): 8:20am On May 25, 2020 |
sassysure:What kind of confusionist are you? You should be aware that there are people reading this post and making observations, even if they decide not to comment. The young man specifically asked you what part of Anambra state are from? You couldn't answer, instead you waffled "Peter Obi/Soludo side" gibberish. Perhaps these are the famous names you know that are from Anambra. Since you are so ashamed to state where you come from, you don't have the right to miseducate people. Peter Obi and Soludo do not hail from the same side in Anambra, not the same local government or even senatorial district. While Solude is from Aguata LGA in Anambra South Senatorial District, Peter Obi is from Agulu in Anaocha LGA, in Anambra Central Senatorial District. The question remains, where are you from? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Romangalactic(m): 9:14am On May 25, 2020 |
ibkayee:This was already broken down by a lot of people like pdudd, bukatyne,rockstarB, acidosis, and others. at least go through the pages. There are very different situations involved overall.many moving parts. Summarizing the reason as just entitlement or ego is too oversimplified for an analytical Maya Angelou. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Romangalactic(m): 9:19am On May 25, 2020 |
Hathor5:I missed this until I saw cococondy riding on things she doesn't understand as usual. From my first post, I already stated that if a woman agrees to be financially responsible for her lovechild with at least 90% contribution,then yes I'm up for it. I don't even want to be the one paying the child's school fees. The reason I said that is because I know that there is no single Nigerian woman who will agree to this arrangement because you all like a man to be the one doing more financially, so then she is left with the only choice of going back to who impregnated her or just exiting the marriage. That my condition is for women to arrive at one conclusion and that is to bounce. Think. |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Romangalactic(m): 9:23am On May 25, 2020 |
mrblessed:I don't even understand that woman, just to say where she's from and she sent me on a wild goose chase. I really need to know the place in Nigeria where a man will be forced to accept his wife's lovechild from infidelity by his kinsmen. It is just too unbelievable to be believable. |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 9:40am On May 25, 2020 |
descartes400:Then they come and cry when the child is being maltreated by the stepmother. It's blackmail and double standards 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by mrblessed(m): 9:41am On May 25, 2020 |
Romangalactic:Kindly ignore the half-truths that effortlessly flow out of her mouth, or is it her hand self. Nowhere in Igbo land is a man compel to accept a child he didn't father. If a man decides to accept a child he didn't father, he does so at his discretion, not because some laughably nonexistent Umunna wills it on him. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 9:42am On May 25, 2020 |
Kingarthur21:double standards 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 9:45am On May 25, 2020 |
bukatyne:family tree, to contribute what exactly? Family tree that cannot contribute to society, is that one worth existing? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 9:48am On May 25, 2020 |
Kingarthur21:women, we are our worst enemies, especially the enablers of double standards and sexist behavior. This is quite exhausting. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 9:50am On May 25, 2020 |
Jullima:as in, make it make sense. The fuckery 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 9:52am On May 25, 2020 |
Kingarthur21:Lol |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Mariangeles(f): 9:53am On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: Are you saying it is not important? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 9:55am On May 25, 2020 |
rockstarB:the wife will kill that child. God knows i will never accept any child of my husband's infidelity into my home. That child is a going to be salt to injury. Never!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Nobody: 9:55am On May 25, 2020 |
Mariangeles:it is not 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Find It Hard Accepting Children Their Wives Had From Infidelity by Mariangeles(f): 9:58am On May 25, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: OK. Where I come from, somewhere in southeast Nigeria, it is very important. |
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