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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 12:59pm On May 27, 2020 |
Paxie55:abi ? Thanks |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Humanoid01(m): 1:00pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:Then you should have advised him to use the money for something meaningful. That's a good way to show that you care. Does this mean that when he gets a job and gets his first salary, the first thing you'll do is ask him for money? 12 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Paxie55: 1:02pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:Yes!! I had an ex, though he wasn't lazy but he was very stingy and he wasn't rich then. So, I had to use my head and calculate the speed of the race I was about to take. I finally left him, since then till now, he's still not financially stable. Lol. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Humanoid01(m): 1:03pm On May 27, 2020 |
Paxie55:So he should spend for her, and not his friends huh? What difference does that make? Why didn't she advise him to use the money for something meaningful? He doesn't have a job, and he got some money by chance, and the best thing he should do is spoil you because it's your birthday? My dear, you're an epitome of selfishness. You seem like one who would walk away from her man when things go south. 40 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Paxie55: 1:06pm On May 27, 2020 |
Humanoid01:My problem isn't his birthday money. Nothing concern me on how a broke boy decides to spend his #1 or 10kobo lol. My issue with him is his visionless attitude and laziness. Why are you guys not seeing that? Is it only birthday money you guys are seeing? No wonder some people said it's only senile people that full this section. 20 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by StrongandMighty: 1:08pm On May 27, 2020 |
Paxie55: You're an idiot. I'm very sure that when I did my NYSC you were still in primary school.. 56 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Humanoid01(m): 1:08pm On May 27, 2020 |
Paxie55:Have you even read the other comments I made, or you just cherry-picked the one you initially quoted because you wanted to strike? 5 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Paxie55: 1:10pm On May 27, 2020 |
StrongandMighty:What's the essence of this your insult? At your old age, you still lack sense. 29 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 1:14pm On May 27, 2020 |
Humanoid01:he didnt tell me when he got the money , I just knew he had money , I know him , he didn’t want me to start calculating he’s spending or tell him what to do or not do . And he never denied he didn’t either . But still he didn’t discuss with me . don’t expect me to start asking questions and start arguments . I don’t do that. Now the money is finished n he’s telling me long story . Doesn’t want to listen to anybody. 3 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by James4bright(m): 1:21pm On May 27, 2020 |
Shormiey: Lol. Guy, most Nigerians girls are uninspiring. Most girls won't even want to settle with a man making a low income unlike the OP But the OP seems willing to give the broke guy a chance. Hopefully they can build wealth together if he turns out to be serious minded. But the dude seems like someone who prefers playing around. Not every girl can deal with your broke ass and still inspire you to get a job, no matter how low it is for a start. They would rather leave the moment they realize you aren't at the top of your game, without hesitation. She seems different. She doesn't seem like someone who is excessively demanding, so how exactly is she a gold digger? So your aim is to have a gf you won't spend a dime on? Even white women are demanding sef, it's just a feminine thing. 35 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Lamanii22(f): 1:22pm On May 27, 2020 |
A boyfriend has to be a giver.... What's now the essence of dating you when you cannot even give... You'd find somebody better my dear... 4 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Shormiey(m): 1:25pm On May 27, 2020 |
James4bright:You need to listen to the other side of the story before judging ....the girl might not be giving first hand information and the girl might be the nagging type.....I will need to listen to both party before I make my final verdict 10 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Theundertaker(m): 1:32pm On May 27, 2020 |
Shormiey:abeg bros, so because u know deep down the guy Bleep up, u hv started saying she’s lying? Guy this na her story , if he comes up with lies to vindicate himself , so he automatically becomes the truthful one. We are only but spectators from different perspectives. 18 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by ledaman: 1:34pm On May 27, 2020 |
Babe cut off from a parasite relationship ok and move on ! 6 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by MedicH: 1:34pm On May 27, 2020 |
hmmm i think the main problem is this guy is not ready to do something meaningful with his life. in this case it doesn't make sense sticking with him. if he finds it rosy now, what about the rainy days? i believe in doing the work of He that sent me while it is in the day because night shall come when no man can work. if i flip to the other side of the coin where u said you are leaving because he is stingy pls do, leave the guy alone, he doesn't owe u anything. Someone like me find it excruciatingly difficult and mind-blowingly painful to get a debit alert because of some woman i'm dating. it hasn't stopped the women in my life from liking me as a matter of fact, it's a matter of principle. i do not give, i owe u nothing. it gets worse when it's a lady that is of no value to me no gain. i won't have the loss either. leave him alone 4 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Liliantalks: 1:37pm On May 27, 2020 |
MedicH:WTF !!! Jesus. The woman that ends up with this one will surely, most definitely suffer . 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by James4bright(m): 1:38pm On May 27, 2020 |
Shormiey: Very true. I would have called the girl a gold digger only if she left him because he was doing a low paying job, but she's even begging the baba to do anything for a start. 11 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by MedicH: 1:42pm On May 27, 2020 |
Liliantalks: Pls don't refer to me as this one 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Godoverevery: 1:43pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:ds an ingrate statement ..he hasn't done a single thing for you People say D's alot after break up and is very annoying. 4 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Chummynoni(m): 1:46pm On May 27, 2020 |
i dont know the OP but she sounds like a reasonable lady. being stingy is a bad thing xpecially to people u claim to luv. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Shormiey(m): 1:49pm On May 27, 2020 |
James4bright:The bolded.....I didn't read that part.....if it's true then dude is fvcking lazy. 4 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by xendra: 1:50pm On May 27, 2020 |
I hate it when a girl thinks about wasting money for birthday, when you don't even really have the money. on the other hand, that boy is dead weight, you did right to leave him. It's the laziness that gets into them when a lady starts being supportive, and they trap you with the "I'll become rich" Rubbish they trap women with. If he does become rich he will still leave you for a girl that offers him nothing, don't allow all their talk get to you, being there for a man doesn't mean he will take you serious once he gets change he will go about claiming his ex left him because he had no money. their boys Anthem 14 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Shormiey(m): 1:50pm On May 27, 2020 |
Lamanii22:Atleast a small gift abi ? 3 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 1:53pm On May 27, 2020 |
xendra:far from it. The birthday was just an avenue to make my request. Not like I wanted to do a party . Every other day I feel like I hv no reason to ask . 6 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by echibuogwu(m): 1:56pm On May 27, 2020 |
There’s nothing wrong with pushing ur boyfriend to greatness, but on the other hand u want money and u are sad he can’t give u that. Positivechick: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Rickmann: 2:00pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: First of, he hasn't told himself the hard truth...it goes beyond been stingy. Secondly, it's clear he s got no plans for you dear. Just take a walk. 7 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Arrogantbro(m): 2:04pm On May 27, 2020 |
Lamanii22:...And a girlfriend has to be a parasite right ? ode. Don't go and make your own money 38 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by SATANworshipsME: 2:05pm On May 27, 2020 |
u are a pathetic gold digger. get a job 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Arrogantbro(m): 2:05pm On May 27, 2020 |
Lamanii22:And a girlfriend has to be a parasite right ? ode. Don't go and make your own money 21 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Rickmann: 2:05pm On May 27, 2020 |
Ladylite: The case of ACRIMONY is quite different from this in that he never stopped working hard, believing in his hustle and at the same time still loved and cherished her even though he had nothing...all she had to do was wait a little longer as the darkest part of the night is just before dawn, but she gave up, falling to family pressure... Just then, the breakthrough happened. 6 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by xendra: 2:05pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:That's alright, you did the right thing. He is dead weight anyway, such men never appreciate what a woman does for them, he has already placed you at the back burner, it will never change, whether he ever becomes rich or not. 10 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by HeavenlyCherub(f): 2:11pm On May 27, 2020 |
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