Chris2863:
I'm not surprised reading this trash because this is Yoruba babes for you, very shameful zeds always depending on boys even for pad... Aunty go get life please

u didn’t read my write up

The guy will give Thanksgiving this Sunday that you left him...
He is happy where ever he is now.

Cowbell521:
World toaster. Ur wishes go come and ur eyes go open.

Baba, how the girl take bad ni? Explain gimme.

Lamanii22:



Whatever you wish for yourself.... Pussy is not just a thing too, it is mostly at risk cause it's way too sensitive... The VJ can be infected and there won't be signs... The VJ suffers the more... The tightness wouldn't be there and all that but the penis never changes.... Y'all should treat your woman right and not just decide to be stingy and calling it "being smart"...

So because I don't oblige to her request everything. That means I'm stingy right?

Interesting

Liliantalks:
My dear don’t allow the comments from stingy broke men affect you , Focus on urself , u would met someone better. He doesn’t even deserve you

You must be a millionaire I presume! Birds of a feather will always flock together. "Association of Senseless Nigerian Girls(ASNG)".

I'm yet to get result on my research about how Nigerian Girls take their mere Boyfriends as their Fathers. IDIOTS!

Well a man with no ambition is not good to be with, broke or not.

STENON:
You have done the best thing. Break up, pay your Bills, Focus more on your life, Have a good savings, I mean save enough money.

Take yourself out for birthday shopping, enjoy and live a happy life. Surely, a good man will locate you soon.

amen .

Stefenijoan002:
that's your Biz coz I simple do not care what u do with ur girls or your money .only said don't generalized things.

Broke girls everywhere

Find something so that u won't tag a guy as a "stingy dude" if he doesn't give u money everytime

James4bright:


Baba, how the girl take bad ni? Explain gimme.

Bros... Make U hia the guy side naw...He sure me sey wen him talk, U go pray make U no meet person like her.
Day girl get entitlement mentality. She no even believe in herself.

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

ROFLMAO!!! I congratulate that young man on escaping an entitled young girl with dibs on his wallet. You practically punctuated this entire write-up with reminding us of how you haven't been taking money from him. You are expecting an unemployed young man to fish out money for you, but you haven't told us of how hard you are working to do same for yourself. My advice to you is to quickly join the trope of girls that follow yahoo boys (clearly your type), and get one of them to sponsor your highly anticipated birthday party, probably at Elegushi beach (I'm sure you would like that) where you Guys would be shouting 'elegushi spender!!!'. Unserious much.

greatseed:
Your impatience might make you regret the manner & excuse for breaking up with him.

If you had said you caught him cheating, it is more tenable. Anyway time will tell

why do u think he isn’t cheating .

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

Go make your own money and stop complaining. No body owes you anything. If you are tired just quit

Positivechick:
I should help him grow while he doesn’t take care of me , no matter how little. Am sorry I can’t do that .

'Taking care' of you is a task for yourself and your parents.

Lady is right to walk away, and I don't think it's the entitlement mentality.Upon the guy's unseriousness and lack of vision, Let's say the guy's miserly attitude is the last straw. Indeed it is very draining to keep giving in a relationship without getting anything in return.

nothing as worst as having an entitled broke bish as a gf.... on behalf of gee boys we're grateful for breaking up with him... lol oh bish he actually did the breaking you just didn't know it.... lolzzzzz send you money for birthday.... how old are you again?

Lamanii22:
A boyfriend has to be a giver.... What's now the essence of dating you when you cannot even give... You'd find somebody better my dear...

Hustle o make you no go dey rely on top boyfriend money as if say na salary.

Positivechick:
why do u think he isn’t cheating .

Well you never mentioned that & I can only comment based on what u wrote

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Saintinoo:

Hunty you said he doesn't have vision nor aim and you want him to spend his scares resources(money) on your birthday.

I think you met you match, sorry but you both had no vision, did you advice him to look for good job? Try business? Learn a skill?

You are a graduate, what have you done for yourself?

U make sense.

Paxie55:


You guys should just shut up. I'm sure you guys are less than 20years. What are you saying? Sidnt you see where she said the guy prefer to follow his friends around than find a career? Like you guys didn't see where she has asked him to look for something to do?
Can you guys saying this rubbish stay with a stingy male friend that always come to your house to feed and never contribute shi shi? Stupid comments all over here.

the topic said he is stingy... If the lady is complaining about him not serious with his life I'll take sides with her... But with her complaint up there even if she is dating a rich fellow she will always feel entitled

DEVOICE1:
The guy will give Thanksgiving this Sunday that you left him...
He is happy where ever he is now.

That's if he is wise.

Positivechick, send am the link to this thread naw....

Ladylite:

Wow, you have really suffered.
But are you sure you don't have low self esteem?

For you to cope and continue with a burden of a man, with a man who is proud enough not to hustle.

Babe, you should really study more books on relationship so you know that you are not in one, you are in a disaster waiting to happen.

Don't waste your time. Walk away, he may blow later or become rich... It does not matter. Go and watch the movie ACRIMONY... Then you will receive sense.

You are in a relationship with Covid19 in human form. Pls have self respect enough to leave and stay single till you meet a man that complements you.

Ladylite has spoken! Gbam!

Positivechick:
why do u think he isn’t cheating .

What did you get him on his birthday


Answer this question nau

DEVOICE1:
The guy will give Thanksgiving this Sunday that you left him...
He is happy where ever he is now.

I swear

kalex0:


Broke girls everywhere

Find something so that u won't tag a guy as a "stingy dude" if he doesn't give u money everytime

I told u you're not OK you thought I was joking haven't you see it yourself now why is it that broke guys refers to every body they see as broke well I don't blame you I understand perfectly coz you just state the obvious n i know who you are !for you information I have a very beautiful n lovely job so u see I'm not broke like you n dont start jumping into peoples write up calling them broke learn to respect people's opinions .my only pity is ur gf coz she really doesn't not know the kind of .....she's dating.

Ningen:


Tell us; How much did you send to him on his own birthday? — Or that didn't cross your mind?

I am genuinely pleased you broke up with him.
Man gotta wake up and plan with no liability.

You did yourself a good thing too.
But the pleasure is HIS.

My guy

Move on and bear it as an eternal cross.

Liliantalks:
My dear don’t allow the comments from stingy broke men affect you , Focus on urself , u would [b]met[\b] someone better. He doesn’t even deserve you

It is not only met, na bet you for tell her.

Stop this entitlement mentality and grow yourself or else, you will be seen as a leach.
Work on yourself, make your own money and let his money be complementary or freewill, in that way you will get your deserved respect.

Omoluabi16:
Lady is right to walk away, and I don't think it's the entitlement mentality. Upon the guy's unseriousness and lack of vision, Let's say the guy's miserly attitude is the last straw. Indeed it is very draining to keep giving in a relationship without getting anything in return.

U sure sey U Sabi wetin entitlement mentality means?

Positivechick:
I should help him grow while he doesn’t take care of me , no matter how little. Am sorry I can’t do that .

U be Baby?

Stefenijoan002:
I told u you're not OK you thought I was joking haven't you see it yourself now why is it that broke guys refers to every body they see as broke well I don't blame you I understand perfectly coz you just state the obvious n i know who you are !for you information I have a very beautiful n lovely job so u see I'm not broke like you n dont start jumping into peoples write up calling them broke learn to respect people's opinions .my only pity is ur gf coz she really doesn't not know the kind of .....she's dating.

I'm glad that you are working.


If a guy doesn't spend on u, that shouldn't be a problem.

U your money to take care of yourself, is that too much to ask for

I'm broke right?
It is well


Nobody owe u any shit

Get that to ur fucking skull(I'm repeating that again)

Babe hustle ooo, so they can come running after you





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