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Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend / How Do I Tell My Fiancee That I Am Tired Of Incessant Sex? / “ladies Stop Been Stingy And Allow Guys To Suck Your Breast” – Nigerian Lady (2) (3) (4)
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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Judolisco(m): 11:58pm On May 27, 2020 |
Paxie55:then your topic is derailing now.. U said stingy boyfriend |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Larrykaysail(m): 11:58pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:go get urself a job and be independent , a boyfriend is not ATM. I hate to hear word stingy, 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Stefenijoan002(f): 12:00am On May 28, 2020 |
[quote author=kalex0 post=90032600] I'm glad that you are working. If a guy doesn't spend on u, that shouldn't be a problem. U your money to take care of yourself, is that too much to ask for ![]() I'm broke right? It is well Nobody owe u any shit Get that to ur fucking skull(I'm repeating that again)[/quote the saying is true that broke guys are troublesome n talks to much I just confirmed now !you too let it sink into your fucking skull that's if it's still intact 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by mkoabiola: 12:01am On May 28, 2020 |
All these liability gals will always suits story. Go n huzzle |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nonsoboy4life(m): 12:02am On May 28, 2020 |
prettysassygirl:I'm seriously searching for your kind of lady... Kudos |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by 1miccza: 12:03am On May 28, 2020 |
Wetin concern us na we be your boyfriend? 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by drjoshua91: 12:03am On May 28, 2020 |
The day Nigerian unmarried Ladies start looking up to their fathers for their financial needs or take up jobs to support themselves, and keep aids from boyfriends at the friendship level and see sexual involvements as being mutual and not a sort of Sacrifice that requires monetary compensations, will be the same day they will gain total freedom from abuses and heartaches. I can remember sometime ago in school when a female friend tried compelling me into buying her a reading table when she also knew I hadn't one myself and was in need of a table too. The funny thing was, her family was bouyant enough to have given her money for the table and maybe for even mine if she wanted. I've come to understand that great greed resides in the hearts of the Women Folks. 7 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Stefenijoan002(f): 12:04am On May 28, 2020 |
[quote author=Stefenijoan002 post=90032649][/quote]never said any one owns me anything .now I see you just jump into trend without reading comment very well its a shame to you .coz I remember vividly there was no place I said anyone owns me anything.as a matter of fact I work for myself not even depending on my parents whatever . |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by FuckAllTheMODs: 12:04am On May 28, 2020 |
Positivechick: Both of you are mixmatch, you said he doesn't care about his vision and you are a lady with entitlement mentality. I am suspecting that his career talk is a cover up, your main focus is his money not his career blablabla... From the topic of the post, the guy just dodged a missile. You did him a favor by walking away, now his little money is save and someone else can come into his life to give him the help he needs genuinely. While you need to work on yourself before going into a new relationship for your own good. 5 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kalex0(m): 12:04am On May 28, 2020 |
[quote author=Stefenijoan002 post=90032649][/quote] You see that you don't have a point. Stop being a liability and stop all this entitled mentality. The earlier, the better. Nah ur type dey use the word "stingy " on any guy that refuse to spend anyhow Goodnight 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Stallione(m): 12:04am On May 28, 2020 |
Dump him then and go look for work for urself and stop relying on man's money everytin.How manytimes will i ask naija babes to learn how to be independent n stop complaining up n down,disturbing our peace.Ooh chim oo!! 3 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Unconquerable: 12:05am On May 28, 2020 |
Drama queen. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kalex0(m): 12:06am On May 28, 2020 |
Stefenijoan002: Y are u now advising her to break up with her BF instead of u motivating her to stop being a leech 3 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by FuckAllTheMODs: 12:07am On May 28, 2020 |
prettysassygirl: You're wise. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Omoluabi16(m): 12:07am On May 28, 2020 |
Cowbell521:tell me sir, i'm willing to learn. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by foleskay(m): 12:08am On May 28, 2020 |
Lamanii22:What a mentality. A boyfriend must be a giver?? Must kee you there 4 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by bizhop01: 12:09am On May 28, 2020 |
NONSENSE POST |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Cowbell521: 12:09am On May 28, 2020 |
Omoluabi16:Carry dictionary or Google. And use this as example. Positivechick: |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by emmnprince(m): 12:10am On May 28, 2020 |
You and the guy have serious problem you need to solve. The guy must be one of those lazy Nigerian youths PMB made reference to that year! The guy who practically is not earning had the mind to celebrate his birthday until he emptied or almost emptied his pocket in order to please friends! Only he can actually tell us how he raised the money. You know the kind of guy you're in a relationship with. Broke and not doing something worthwhile to earn, yet you are demanding money from him to support your upcoming birthday, when you should be responsible for your birthday expenses. Do you want him to go to his family or friends or Zedvance to collect loan all in the name of his girlfriend's upcoming birthday bash? Assuming I see una two this night, I for konk sense into una heads. But we need to hear your would-be ex or ex-boyfriend's side of the story because this is a one-sided story and it is unwise of us to pass our judgment and dish out our thought/advice. 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Cowbell521: 12:10am On May 28, 2020 |
Lamanii22:And na person go later date and marry dis one naw? 3 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Stefenijoan002(f): 12:12am On May 28, 2020 |
kalex0:I said it n u just confirm it that you don't know how to read .I know ur type you're here to jump n comment n if you're even doing it well it would have been good .I think u go back n read slowly so u understand what I wrote coz I see you're stingy urself n ur fear is u don't always like people say it out so it pained ur soul coz u re broke n jobless that has really affected ur reasoning faulty .beside I'm not the one who told u to be a broke ass niggar .go get a job n stop all this your ranting online |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by fmwise2k(m): 12:14am On May 28, 2020 |
Liliantalks:You should work on yourself too and stop calling people broke. 3 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by drjoshua91: 12:14am On May 28, 2020 |
foleskay: Ogun will join and kee her. 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kalex0(m): 12:16am On May 28, 2020 |
Stefenijoan002: Let me try and school you before I go to bed Let me ask u some questions What's your definition of a stingy man ![]() Just because I'm trying to pass an important message, u just concluded that I'm broke and jobless All these girls will never stop to amaze me 8 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by WelcomeToBiafra: 12:16am On May 28, 2020 |
Positivechick: Whatever that will give you peace of mind and happiness, go ahead and do it. But please don't use his mistakes to punish other good guys like me that might approaching you for serious relationship. Please be kind to invite your boyfriend over here to speak for or defend himself here. Happy birthday in advance, sweetie. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by TheTruth99: 12:17am On May 28, 2020 |
Aside having a very low self esteem, you are wired to think that the assessment of a good relationship is the ability to give you cash. I want to ask, don't you have any dignity? That your birthday is approaching and you said he would be giving you some cash on the day.. From where? You sounded like you would mind he was an armed robber as long as there's is cash to "go fund you". Listen, no body owes you shit...in any relationship the goal is to find out if both of you are compatible. Ladies, y'all need to drop this ownership mentality and understand that sex is not an exchange for money in any relationship. And you must not have sex to have a relationship with your partner. That doesn't mean he cannot give but STOP assuming your partner is bad because that cannot meet your monetary and hungry tendencies 4 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Gsentme(m): 12:17am On May 28, 2020 |
[quote author=James4bright post=90013418] You seem like a really cool girl. Don't listen to those random guys making you look like a gold digger. That dude isn't serious about his life, let him be. I wish I had a girl who really cared about my career that much. [/quote See them.. Indirectly toaster.. Kuku tell her you need a girl friend instead of beating around the bush... Mtschewwwwweeeeeeeeeee 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by AdeolaOmoOba(m): 12:18am On May 28, 2020 |
Congratulations on your breakup. So having discontinued the relationship, what exactly do you want us to do? You weren't seeking our advise on the best way to go around the relationship, you already broke it. Are you here to seek our sympathy or just for the sake of showing us your dirty laundry in the open? If your account is accurate, The guy acted financially immature in the relationship, just like a parasitic organism or for the benefit of the doubt, a symbiont. We your audience don't know the terms of the relationship, especially the give-and-take aspects. That being said, I must confess that you also acted emotionally immature in your approach to end the relationship (especially when birthday money happened to be the circumstantial excuse). It shows an advanced sense of entitlement on your path rather than seeing it as a privilege or gift. This singular action makes it difficult for us to defend you. However, you have one thing going well for you, and that's your sense of quick observation. Having carefully studied him and his sense of direction in life, go for your dreams and quit crying over spilt milk. It's better you focus on your own future, probably with a like-minded husband-material (don't ask me how many yards o!). Above all, Overcome the bitterness of that past relationship and don't make your next boo pay for his sins. 5 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by foleskay(m): 12:18am On May 28, 2020 |
drjoshua91:Lol ![]() |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by James4bright(m): 12:19am On May 28, 2020 |
Cowbell521: True sha. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Gsentme(m): 12:21am On May 28, 2020 |
James4bright:See them.. Indirectly toaster. Kuku tell her you need girlfriend instead of beating around the bush... #yeyeperson 7 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by MakyavelitheDon(m): 12:21am On May 28, 2020 |
Positivechick: From the way you wrote it's obvious you're a child. First of all it's not the job of your boyfriend to continuously be paying you allowance. Especially as you both served together and were receiving the same 'allawee'. If he has extra to spare you.... No problem. But u make it sound like you're entitled to periodic allowance from yr boyfriend. This type of mindset is unfortunate. It closes yr own brain and prevents you from seeing where you yourself ascend to. A young couple must support each other and not be putting each other under unnecessary pressure. For your relationship was drives by vision then both of you would help each other along the path to achieve that vision. But from the look of things both of you were dating for the convenience. Maybe the breaking up go allow una brain open 2 Likes |
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