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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Theundertaker(m): 2:07am On May 28, 2020 |
Lol some of us can lie sha , hypocrites 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by dinachi(m): 2:09am On May 28, 2020 |
Positivechick:Otondo! Please leave him oh, so that that he can be free! Go and look for a man that has money because it is no longer about love which you hypocritically professed for him but all about money! Keep looking for a man who has money, Lesbian! 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by grandstar(m): 2:11am On May 28, 2020 |
positivechick If you really love yourself, please dump him asap. The morning shows the day. He'll draw you back. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 2:11am On May 28, 2020 |
joyandfaith:I doubt , I don’t force myself on people. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Lordspicy(m): 2:19am On May 28, 2020 |
Women, children and pets are loved unconditionally. A man is loved on the basis of what he can provide. It’s a sad life 5 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by rummmy: 2:23am On May 28, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:better chill before I change my mind... Back to the topic........ |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by AreaFada2: 2:24am On May 28, 2020 |
Ningen: Quite amazing how some women still have a sense of entitlement in 2020. If this continues the respect and equality many women want will keep eluding them. Not that spoiling a partner is a bad thing. but tt shouldn't be the yardstick when dating. @ OP how well do you even know his economic situation? Has he shown you his payslip and bank balance? Lots of guys are not nearly as buoyant as they look outside. Had he sent you just 100k for your birthday, you'd ignore his immature approach towards the future. I'd have been impressed by your decision if it wasn't based on birthday stuff. Misplaced priority. Move on. He will find his true bearing and then settle down with the woman he truly loves. May you also find find a guy who's ambitious enough in your estimation and gives you money as you desire. 3 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by SweetCunt97(f): 2:26am On May 28, 2020 |
rummmy:I don't have business with d topic. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by OdenKelechi(m): 2:37am On May 28, 2020 |
Paxie55:So lowkey you're happy he's still not financially stable abi? 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 2:40am On May 28, 2020 |
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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by OdenKelechi(m): 2:42am On May 28, 2020 |
I'm enjoying all the premium gbas gbos and bashings here ![]() Clearly the guy is not the teaching type or any business type. He's the office work type.. orrr a gambler waiting for a big pay day. But lemme tell you something, some professions are not for everybody. I was a teacher during my Nysc and i hated it cos I'm not good at it so after nysc, that option wasn't even there for me. I hate bank jobs also so i curved that one out.. it's ok to be picky cos something is not just your calling. He'll be fine las las 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by OdenKelechi(m): 2:43am On May 28, 2020 |
Lamanii22:And a girlfriend should be what? |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by nora2018(m): 2:43am On May 28, 2020 |
She has not answered the question which goes thus '' what did you give him during his birthday "? if she can answer this question to my satisfaction then, i will know if the nigga is stingy or not. 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by ifihearam: 2:45am On May 28, 2020 |
The OP has refused to answer a very simple question and she keeps avoiding it; what did you give to him on his birthday?? Secondly, you have every right to leave this relationship if you feel he is not upping his game to your taste or not ambitious enough, however, leaving because of birthday is a childish and foolish move. You told us he has no job and he spent on his birthday. A little expo to you. Baba didn’t spend his friends probably hosted him or he asked a friend or relative for some cash to celebrate his birthday. Him not wanting to teach as you advised is not a sign of laziness. He has broader visions for his life and you don’t love him more than he loves himself. He might have sent applications to several companies waiting for feedback or have other plans. Have you ever asked him what his plans her? In conclusion, you really don’t love him enough and the feeling is mutual. I see him as a “ do me I do you” type of guy, if you had given him a little gift on his birthday, you would have reciprocated. Small madam you can leave the poor boy ooo. 4 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by sarutobi: 2:48am On May 28, 2020 |
Theundertaker: I want my sister to be able to take care of herself without the help of any man. Only whores do that 4 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 2:49am On May 28, 2020 |
Humanoid01: Is it that you guys didn't see where the said bf spent money buying drinks for his friends? Where did he get the money from? You people should stop supporting wickedness. 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by rummmy: 2:53am On May 28, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:then go and sleep. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 2:57am On May 28, 2020 |
No thoughts. You have broken up with him already. What the fuk do you need thoughts for. Leave everyone the fuk alone with your messy tale. 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by ekerintee: 2:57am On May 28, 2020 |
I can't really judge this matter until I hear from the other side.from experience,men and women think difeernently .the way you think is different from his.You may think he is stingy but he may not think so .some guys may be rich but may not believe in spending money on a girl and thus act stingy to see if u will leave them.but personally,I believe you can change him.on the other hand,I think it's not good for ladies to be in a relationship and expect the guy to spend on them like as if he is their father.in some relationship ,someone spends more ,in Nigeria ,the guy usually spend more to keep the relationship and most ladies see a guy who does not as stingy .if you really love him,try to talk to him.i think he has to get a job ,no matter how small.not everybody loves to teach,there are some jobs that you will take up ,that will not allow you to go for interviews.it will just tie you down.he needs a job that is flexible and will allow him to seek the desired job.you just want any meagre job for him and later you complain your man is a teacher .lol.To be stingy is bad ,but I think it has to be a little moderate spending .it's not a must for him to send you money on your birthday,I wonder the way Nigerians think.i don't stay in Nigeria and I have seen white guys who will prefer just a little flower than money.a white girl will never ask for money,but you see the African girl,it's in the blood .whethr born at home or abroad ,just My opinion.if you don't like his character and can't change him,then you make him know and leave him to find somebody who suits you.As simple as that ,anyway we need to hear from the other side to know if he is really stingy lol Positivechick: |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by mright05(m): 2:58am On May 28, 2020 |
Positivechick: It’s obviously you have make up your mind on what you really wanted, so why brings your story here for advice, you can give what you don’t have , you can help him grow because he doesn’t take good care of you, but you want money for him for your birthday and deep down in your heart you know he is not working, Are you breaking up with him because he doesn’t give you money for birthday or he is not working at the moment 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by nora2018(m): 2:59am On May 28, 2020 |
Nooil:even if he buys an entire brewery for his friends this shouldn't make her feel self "entitled".na her money? 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 3:01am On May 28, 2020 |
Arrogantbro: So after making her money, what next? |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 3:04am On May 28, 2020 |
nora2018: His friends can feel entitled. But his faithful girlfriend shouldn't? Why do you guys disturb a girl's peace when you're not ready for responsibilities? Hope you read where the guy comes to eat at her home. Even you, when you feed a girl with your indomie and egg, don't you feel entitled to make sexual advances? 4 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by HRMK: 3:05am On May 28, 2020 |
u say he is stingy and jobless!where wuld the money come from?the parents or relations or frds?u shuld share in the blame!why not compel him to get a job? |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 3:06am On May 28, 2020 |
Nooil:it’s seriously funny how they ignore all that |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 3:08am On May 28, 2020 |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by nora2018(m): 3:08am On May 28, 2020 |
Nooil:nne this not the issue here for me, you what dear? am so so concerned about what she did for him during his birthday 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 3:10am On May 28, 2020 |
nora2018: Are you only concerned about what she did for his birthday? Hasn't it occurred to you that someone that can feed a man during NYSC without complaining will do more? 3 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 3:11am On May 28, 2020 |
Nooil:I don’t know I’m kinda Emotionally num . 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by ekerintee: 3:11am On May 28, 2020 |
It's not about being broke .it's the African woman mentality.even when they have money,they still want the man to spend and that is the sign of a responsible man.this ought not be so .if he does not send you money but he remembers it and values you .its still better .life is about time ,have u asked him about his plans for life,and what he intends to do with his life..did you try to support with miney for him to start a course ,maybe in it.how much did you invest in him? .I think the guy knows you have money and he is only acting stingy Positivechick: |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 3:13am On May 28, 2020 |
ekerintee:Lol |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by NiCurious: 3:15am On May 28, 2020 |
Positivechick: He's a visionless moocher who is happy to receive from everyone, without giving in return, cannot plan a week in advance, and makes a priority of nobody but himself. Don't even worry about why he thinks you are leaving, after you have already spoken. Walk away and move forward with your life. Ignore those who tell you you are ungrateful. They are trolls. 1 Like 1 Share |
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