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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Davash222(m): 6:37am On May 28, 2020
Paxie55:

Why you wan know?
He's broke do you want to sort him out?
Agadi Nwanyi, you're yet to answer my question.
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Paxie55: 6:40am On May 28, 2020
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Jones4190:
if you are a lady and you don't know that :
1. beyonce brought JayZ a jet

2. Kim Kardashian brought Kanye west a farrari

3. Angelina Jolie brought Bradd pitt an island

and you are here basking your boyfriend for birthday money or recharge card, you seriously need Jesus..........

begi begi aunty
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Naso, why not list out what these men did to deserve those stuff? You Negros are bunch of lazy asses. The way y'all talk bad about single mothers or women, can you marry a woman that has her sex tape all over the internet? Lazy haired brained scoundrels that won't work but rather want a woman to uplift their career and still cheat on her. That's why you all deserve singlet and boxers.

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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Paxie55: 6:41am On May 28, 2020
Davash222:

Agadi Nwanyi, you're yet to answer my question.
Mpa, I'm Broke, very broke. grin grin
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Collins4u1(m): 6:43am On May 28, 2020
Which one is you're expecting some cash from him on your birthday? Na u go tell your guy what to give you?
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Davash222(m): 6:43am On May 28, 2020
Paxie55:

Mpa, I'm Broke, very broke. grin grin
And you have the effrontery to call someone broke
BTW, where are you from?
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by ohinoyee(m): 6:46am On May 28, 2020
Leaving that lazy man is best for you
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by cedricksly: 6:47am On May 28, 2020
Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

If You ask me, birthday money for you when him nor give nor reach to cause breakup.... There is more birthday to be done... Don't be on his neck because of your birthday morning, you seriously want to celebrate birthday, do it yourself
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Paxie55: 6:47am On May 28, 2020
Davash222:

And you have the effrontery to call someone broke
BTW, where are you from?
Yes naw, a woman is never Broke, can't say same for whoever that says he's a man. tongue

Imo
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by hustla(m): 6:49am On May 28, 2020
Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??



Nigerian women, una no know pass money. Na why them no dey wan date una outside naija. Entitlement + only money mentality. E ti ya were

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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Davash222(m): 6:49am On May 28, 2020
Paxie55:

Yes naw, a woman is never Broke, can't say same for whoever that says he's a man. tongue

Imo
Lol
I hate to share same state with Agadi Nwanyi.
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Paxie55: 6:52am On May 28, 2020
Davash222:

Lol
I hate to share same state with Agadi Nwanyi.
Lol. Ekwensu akpokwala gi oku.
Nwannem onye apali. grin
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Davash222(m): 6:56am On May 28, 2020
Paxie55:

Lol. Ekwensu akpokwala gi oku.
Nwannem onye apali. grin
Lol
Onye iberibe.

You must be very Mbaitoli, bah?
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by loswhite(m): 6:57am On May 28, 2020
Liliantalks:
My dear don’t allow the comments from stingy broke men affect you , Focus on urself , u would meet someone better. He doesn’t even deserve you
There is always someone better...lol. The truth is most Nigerian women thinks love is all about them, they fail to know that love is sacrifice infact they keep looking for something better till they get to 40...lol

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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Paxie55: 6:59am On May 28, 2020
Davash222:

Lol
Onye iberibe.

You must be very Mbaitoli, bah?
Lol. Not atall.
Ka-odi.
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by loswhite(m): 7:00am On May 28, 2020
James4bright:


You seem like a really cool girl. Don't listen to those random guys making you look like a gold digger. That dude isn't serious about his life, let him be.

I wish I had a girl who really cared about my career that much.
Na them... smh
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Davash222(m): 7:01am On May 28, 2020
Paxie55:

Lol. Not atall.
Ka-odi.

Jisie ike. Ka ubochi mara gi mma

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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by ZeusP(m): 7:01am On May 28, 2020
Personal Choice
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by SILVERLINES: 7:03am On May 28, 2020
Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??
you are still an illiterate. Just look at what you posted full of errors and you needed something for your birthday, are you sure you are ok?
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Paxie55: 7:04am On May 28, 2020
Davash222:

Jisie ike. Ka ubochi mara gi mma
Awww!! Ya makwara gi mma.
Ezigbo mmadu.
smiley
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kalex0(m): 7:05am On May 28, 2020
Liliantalks:
food stuffs ar bought with money

Foodstuff are bought with money right?

But a guy can feed a lady for days Without complain

Don't be surprised if he started for money to get foodstuffs too...

Tit for tat

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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kalex0(m): 7:09am On May 28, 2020
SweetCunt97:
So it's now a competition?

What's this one saying??

C nonsense question

Z not a competition right buy u want a guy to keep spending on You

I reserve my comments
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Tillatalk: 7:10am On May 28, 2020
Only hypocrites will support this lady .. ungrateful human being. how much have you given him before to support him . Ladies and money are like 5&6
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by crayon001(m): 7:14am On May 28, 2020
You said he doesn't have a job, where did he get the money she spent on his birthday? The money you were expecting for your birthday, where was he supposed to get it from?

Madam if you want to leave, leave and stop whining about it. Nobody go blame you for making a decision this important. It's your life.

But I just tell you that the reason you're breaking up has more to do with your love for money than it has to do with his attitude towards life.

Focus.

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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Juoflife1(f): 7:15am On May 28, 2020
Babe you have broken up with him right? Pls move on and don't look back
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Olumeme: 7:15am On May 28, 2020
You're basically baby sitting a grown up man? Continue
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Paxie55: 7:15am On May 28, 2020
kalex0:


Foodstuff are bought with money right?

But a guy can feed a lady for days Without complain

Don't be surprised if he started for money to get foodstuffs too...

Tit for tat
I don't understand you. So, ladies should start feeding you or what? This is height of shamelessness. Tomorrow, you will open your mouth and call yourself a man?
Pack to your girlfriend's house so she can be feeding you.
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Jones4190(m): 7:16am On May 28, 2020
Paxie55:
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Naso, why not list out what these men did to deserve those stuff? You Negros are bunch of lazy asses. The way y'all talk bad about single mothers or women, can you marry a woman that has her sex tape all over the internet? Lazy haired brained scoundrels that won't work but rather want a woman to uplift their career and still cheat on her. That's why you all deserve singlet and boxers.
Beyonce, apart from her music, She also runs a successful fashion brand and a vegan meal delivery service, she work so hard to contribute and support jayz right from time and even when Jay-Z could not afford a high-end lifestyle, he rely on Beyonce. She is known for her luxurious gifts to her husband. On his 41st birthday, she gave him a $2 million (£1,535,000) Bugatti Veyron Grand, the jet jayz is using now was brought by beyonce as a presentation on father's day.
this are woman who are ready to give, not boxer or singlet.
stop begging and start supporting our dreams

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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by loswhite(m): 7:16am On May 28, 2020
James4bright:


Lol. Guy, most Nigerians girls are uninspiring. Most girls won't even want to settle with a man making a low income unlike the OP

But the OP seems willing to give the broke guy a chance. Hopefully they can build wealth together if he turns out to be serious minded. But the dude seems like someone who prefers playing around.

Not every girl can deal with your broke ass and still inspire you to get a job, no matter how low it is for a start. They would rather leave the moment they realize you aren't at the top of your game, without hesitation. She seems different.

She doesn't seem like someone who is excessively demanding, so how exactly is she a gold digger?

So your aim is to have a gf you won't spend a dime on? Even white women are demanding sef, it's just a feminine thing.
The way you guys makes these ladies feel like there is one rich dude there waiting never seize to amaze me... Are we begging women to settle with us? The ladies are they high income earners? Bros nobody is doing you a favour by marrying you.... Imagine a broke girl thinks he is doing a broke guy favours by dating him... Rubbish!!!!

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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Bethelchimdi: 7:19am On May 28, 2020
Mmmm
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 7:19am On May 28, 2020
Paxie55:

Lol. Please, stfu.
How many of you Nigerian idiotic men even have money? Even op fed her ex, I'm sure a woman is still feeding your broke ass.

Don't go and hustle, keep looking for who will feed and suffer with you.

Lazy ineptitude excuse of a man.
You're too emotional to get a conversation started that's why you're resulting to insult, I don't fall for such prey, am above that.
There's a post on nairaland with evidence to these , a lady refused to marry a man that love and cherish her, her only excuse was he wasn't up there financially as of that time but now the guy is fucking rich. She now envy the young man and regretted going in for a man just because he showed his prowess in bed, she's crying hard now. You better build your life like other independent people out there in the society other than been a leeche and later cause nussaince on the internet calling them broke while you're living a miserable life than them.

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