liberalchick:
An ‘easy’ marriage is not common even for those in-love. Sometimes I think marriages are not really natural. If I am single again (knock on wood) in the future, I wouldn’t want to get married again. Marriages has its ebbs and flows. The first two years are difficult for obvious reasons. Then marriage challenges in year 8 (that’s generally the time most marriages hit a wall).

DH and I are in cruise control now, children are getting older, careers are taking off with more responsibilities. If you make it past year 7-8 unscathed, you are good.

Carchoice:
i don’t know why you people are making marriage sound like it’s a war zone. You married the wrong person no doubt. We all get to find out after marriage.

Here’s the truth of the matter, it’s either you married the wrong person or YOU ARE THE WRONG PERSON.

Hathor5:
My sister from the food family was married before and is about to be married again? See this girl living her life the way she wants.

liberalchick:

No, I didn’t marry the wrong person. I am just being realistic, living with someone for the rest of your life will not always be romantic and easy. There are different stages in marriages where it’s excellent, good, bad, sometimes ugly and then neutral.

Also, sometimes when people say their marriage is easy, sometimes it’s one sided, they are probably oblivious of their partner’s sacrifice to make the marriage an easy one for them.

Dyt:


Don't make me laugh harder
I am in class pls
Before my students start to get worried

liberalchick:



Also, sometimes when people say their marriage is easy, sometimes it’s one sided, they are probably oblivious of their partner’s sacrifice to make the marriage an easy one for them.

Hathor5:


They are not worried by now?

Carchoice:
true though.

For me I hate stress. Don’t stress my life. I can arrange for her kidnap if she tries to stress me but that is not happening because I don’t mind adopting a baby girl at the right time.

Dyt:


They laughed too and said teacher are you ok?

Hathor5:


Teacher is very ok.
Wish I had a teacher like you back in the day.

Dyt:


I really do wish every child has me as a teacher
Every man as a partner
Every mother as a daughter
Every brother as a sister

I am God's very own

Thanks for your kind words

Dyt:


Don't make me laugh harder
I am in class pls
Before my students start to get worried

Hathor5:


See love of self. You should be teaching self-love.
Girl, you rock! I love it when women are full of themselves.
Thanks for making me smile.

babythug:
RE: How has it been with those married for 5years and counting? the joy, feeling, the tears, the arguments, the sex, I mean all of it....“

I’ve not been too lucky so far! Many dashed expectations and turbulent times through the marriage and even though now we are on a somewhat cruise control I can’t say I feel joy or peace at being here.

There are children and financials to consider hence why I’ve not moved on as it were!

But now I feel marriage is a game of chance and what you see is literally what you get. Some are able to get it right with a few tweaks here and there but for some
Despite best efforts it just won’t work.

For anyone looking to delve in , I’d just say give it your best shot and what will be will be !

Nnaabros:


In class under this COVID situation? Where's that?

Plead:


This religious fanatic won’t stop displaying his stupidity all over the forum.

Dyt:


God shouldn't be an exemption my dear Plead

Plead:


God doesn’t exist.

crackkhaus:
One would assume that being married before would have provided some kind of perspective and realistic expectations about what the next one will be like.

Or did the last one last only two months?

Dyt:

Dyt:


Sometimes we all need sense
Don't you think you need more?

Dyt:
What is Before, In Between and After?

Yeah we all know marriage is an institution between 2 persons with the aim to have offspring and companionship, but is this all we see and make of it?

I am a person that believes in relationship/marriage and tries to go far in making it work well except when it starts to affect my mental health (i cant go mad all in the name of i want it to work)

Some say marriage is easy while some say its a hard work, we all have different opinions..
I for one been married before, it didnt work not because i couldnt try but (my choice anyway)

I am considering going into another and all the things that we do that counts now may not in few years, I mean the sexiness, the kamasutra and all, well ofcourse i am not just gonna be offering just sex, we both got more to keep us going for a 100years to come (my favourite part is the friendship and companionship)...

I am scared sometimes waking up to him every other day and same way it excites me

How has it been with those married for 5years and counting? the joy, feeling, the tears, the arguments, the sex, I mean all of it....

cococandy:
Married for 6 years going on 7.

I must tell you that the timeline people prescribe for certain things is often not the same for everyone. So the peak of your romance may not be when you expect it. Your difficult times may not be a the very beginning. Etc

What surprised me most is the inevitable fights you’re told that you’re supposed to be having. That may never happen depending on your temperament. So you may find yourself having dull boring disagreements that you won’t even know when it’s over. But nothing explosive that requires hot make up s*x like the romance books describe .

Plead: