Since childhood I have always had this problem .I don't like being praised whenever I do something extraordinary I just feel uncomfortable.i don't really like it when people complement my looks,My finance and all when I got my current job I had lots of friends who are always asking me for money because I am a freegiver I always Give out all of a sudden I they started calling me name's like boss,fresh ,e money and the truth is I don't really like
Recently I picked a lot of interest in Biafran issues because this lock down had nothin doing so I watched lots and lots of videos concerning biafra and Igbo history I shared a lot of my knowledge on this issue with my friends and my WhatsApp post are mainly on biafran matters .
Now I no dey rest
Everybody now calls me Biafran!biafran!
It's getting too much and I hate It
Even though there is not wrong in it I just don't like complement.
Can anyone relate?

Am coming

Ablemax:
Am coming

Did you even read it

I don't like being praised whenever I do something extraordinary I just feel uncomfortable.i don't really like it when people complement my looks,My finance and all when I got my current job I had lots of friends who are always asking me for money because I am a freegiver I always Give out all of a sudden I they started calling me name's like boss,fresh ,e money and the truth is I don't really like

I can only comprehend in this aspect.

But, whenever I receive praises like that, I do return the praises back.

Like,
nah you.
If no be you, who I be
Boss, nah you joor.

All those slangs, you grab?

bigpriik:


Did you even read it

Didn't see anything to read there na

Just tell them to be calling you blgpriik anytime they want to call you names. Neglect other names

U kind of deep shy but it shall pass especially if u make conscious effort to manage it.

I also feel awkward whenever I am praised for some stuff. Most times, I prefer to do stuff anonymously and sometimes I push the praise to some other person(s) who may have contributed little or nothing to the effort.

The fact remains that we are an appreciative people so you may just have to learn to live with such experience.

RillJ:
U kind of deep shy but it shall pass especially if u make conscious effort to manage it.

I also feel awkward whenever I am praised for some stuff. Most times, I prefer to do stuff anonymously and sometimes I push the praise to some other person(s) who may have contributed little or nothing to the effort.

The fact remains that we are an appreciative people so you may just have to learn to live with such experience.

Yes bro I am naturally shy even though I try to fight this nature I always avoid faces.the only place I don't get shy is with women I built myself on that but on social situations(crowd) meeen I just can hand the pressure I feel.

Work on the others same way you worked on the 'with women' part.

Too much of shyness not good on most fronts.

bigpriik:


Yes bro I am naturally shy even though I try to fight this nature I always avoid faces.the only place I don't get shy is with women I built myself on that but on social situations(crowd) meeen I just can hand the pressure I feel.

Biafran!!!!!!! I hail ọ!!!!!

Boss man Abeg find me small thing

Vyzz:



Biafran!!!!!!!
I hail ọ!!!!!

bigpriik:
Since childhood I have always had this problem .I don't like being praised whenever I do something extraordinary I just feel uncomfortable.i don't really like it when people complement my looks,My finance and all when I got my current job I had lots of friends who are always asking me for money because I am a freegiver I always Give out all of a sudden I they started calling me name's like boss,fresh ,e money and the truth is I don't really like
Recently I picked a lot of interest in Biafran issues because this lock down had nothin doing so I watched lots and lots of videos concerning biafra and Igbo history I shared a lot of my knowledge on this issue with my friends and my WhatsApp post are mainly on biafran matters .
Now I no dey rest
Everybody now calls me Biafran!biafran!
It's getting too much and I hate It
Even though there is not wrong in it I just don't like complement.
Can anyone relate?

attention seeker,u want us to praise u hese abi

Ablyz:
attention seeker,u want us to praise u hese abi

Don't worry, you are just an average African.

I don't think it is bad, I am the type and I am okay with it, you only need to learn how to play around it. You need to learn how to be giving too, People will drain you when they sees that you are a free giver.

Learn to whine them too

Turn am to play.

bigpriik:
Since childhood I have always had this problem .I don't like being praised whenever I do something extraordinary I just feel uncomfortable.i don't really like it when people complement my looks,My finance and all when I got my current job I had lots of friends who are always asking me for money because I am a freegiver I always Give out all of a sudden I they started calling me name's like boss,fresh ,e money and the truth is I don't really like
Recently I picked a lot of interest in Biafran issues because this lock down had nothin doing so I watched lots and lots of videos concerning biafra and Igbo history I shared a lot of my knowledge on this issue with my friends and my WhatsApp post are mainly on biafran matters .
Now I no dey rest
Everybody now calls me Biafran!biafran!
It's getting too much and I hate It
Even though there is not wrong in it I just don't like complement.
Can anyone relate?

I think the issue is with your name

Fix it

Bartork:



I think the issue is with your name

Fix it

Mtchewwww.

bigpriik:


Mtchewwww.

Bross

I hail

Lol this is just me. I hate compliments, especially when someone tells other people about some good features I possess or something good I did. I tell them straight up. For me, it's because I don't like people expecting the best from me.

I don't want them always fixing their eyes on me, and waiting to see if the hype is worth it. I don't know if I should call that humility, but that would be bragging, isn't it? All in all, I nor like praises.

boss, do weekend for me naw.