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Re: So Who Will Date The Broke Lady? by CAPSLOCKED: 9:26pm On May 28, 2020 |
emmaodet: THIS PERSON THAT HAS BEEN RUNNING AROUND THIS THREAD IS A TYPICAL DRUNKARD. IN MY FAMILY, STARTING FROM MY GRANDPARENTS, EVERYBODY WAS RAISED TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR EVERYTHING. THE MEN IN MY FAMILY ARE 100% GREAT HOUSE KEEPERS AND COOKS (I'M A ZERO HERE THOUGH) AND THE WOMEN ARE INDUSTRIOUS. IF THERE WAS NO INTERNET AND I WAS RAISED ON AN ISLAND I'D HAVE BELIEVED ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THE WOMEN WHERE I'M FROM. WOMEN PAY THE BILLS WITHOUT EVEN INVOLVING THEIR HUSBANDS. SOME WOMEN CONTRIBUTED FOR THEIR OWN WEDDINGS AND HELPED BUILD THEIR FAMILIES. MY SISTER TAKES THE KIDS TO HOLIDAYS FROM AFRICA TO EUROPE WITHOUT MR. MAN PAYING A DIME. WHEN IT'S TIME TO PAY THE RENT OR CHANGE CARS EVERY PARTY COLLABORATES. THESE WOMEN TAKE CARE OF THEIR FAMILIES WHILE THE HUSBANDS FOCUS ON OTHER THINGS BECAUSE HERE EVERYBODY (I KNOW OF) IS EDUCATED, EMPLOYED OR DOING BUSINESS. AND THERE'S MUTUAL RESPECT AND UNDERSTANDING BETWEEN EVERYBODY INVOLVED... AND I BELIEVE MANY FAMILIES WORK TOGETHER LIKE THIS AS WELL. THESE ARE THE GUYS THAT LOVE SELFLESSLY, AND WILL HARDLY HIDE THEIR BANK BALANCE FROM THEIR PARTNERS. THROW IT ALL ON THE KIDS AND GIVE THEM THE BEST LIFE. IF THE HUSBAND'S BUSINESS IS SHAKING SHE SUPPORTS AS MUCH AS SHE CAN. THESE ARE THE TRUE WOMEN THAT SHOULD BE RESPECTED, AND NOT ALL THESE NONSENSE TWERKERS LOOKING FOR THEIR FATHERS TO BROKESHAME. I GREW UP WITH WHAT I OBSERVED FROM MY FAMILY IN MIND SO FROM DAY ONE IF SHE'S NOT CALLING OR TEXTING BACK, OR THROWING IN CASH LIKE I DO, I CUT OFF. I'M NOT GONNA SETTLE FOR SOME YOUR MONEY IS OUR MONEY BULLSHIT. IF I'M DOING A HUNDRED PERCENT YOU BETTER BE DOING A HUNDRED OR ELSE IT WON'T WORK. THE WOMAN THAT CLAIMS SHE CAN ONLY "SUPPORT" HER HUSBAND WITH AT MOST 20% OF ANYTHING, PLEASE TELL ME. DOES SHE INTEND TO TAKE THE REMAINING 80% TO HER GRAVE? OF WHAT USE IS THE MONEY IF YOU'RE NOT TAKING CARE OF YOUR HUSBAND AND KIDS WITH IT? 12 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: So Who Will Date The Broke Lady? by MJBOLT: 9:30pm On May 28, 2020 |
good riddance to bad rubbish and dont forget to change your evil ways ![]() HeavenlyCherub: 2 Likes |
Re: So Who Will Date The Broke Lady? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 9:53pm On May 28, 2020 |
BigJoe19: How did I broke Shame? Why didn’t you comment when he called me evil. Take several seats |
Re: So Who Will Date The Broke Lady? by emmaodet: 10:02pm On May 28, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: Gbam!!! You have said it all bro. The mentality of some ladies here is mind boggling. 3 Likes |
Re: So Who Will Date The Broke Lady? by Queenserah26(f): 10:16pm On May 28, 2020 |
Deep anthonyuncle: |
Re: So Who Will Date The Broke Lady? by oluwaseyi0: 10:23pm On May 28, 2020 |
HeavenlyCherub: If he lost his job, what will happen? You will jump on to the next available man? 2 Likes |
Re: So Who Will Date The Broke Lady? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 10:42pm On May 28, 2020 |
oluwaseyi0: I will support him temporarily and we will come up with a vision board and set goals on when we can expect him to be back on his feet. If it’s not in the projected time we agreed upon he will need to find another hustle. Usually when men are idle for too long they start becoming aggressive and angry. I will give him space to figure it out, to ensure he doesn’t think I’m nagging him. 1 Like |
Re: So Who Will Date The Broke Lady? by TSBO: 11:05pm On May 28, 2020 |
I LOVE THIS THREAD. Should be a reference on all other entitlement mentality reformation threads.. 2 Likes |
Re: So Who Will Date The Broke Lady? by TSBO: 11:30pm On May 28, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: Apart from the first sentence, this post should be virtually framed and have it's own exhibition. I am inexplicably baffled when I hear "men provide, women support", breadwinner, my money is my money, man is the head so he should provide and all those ridiculous comments. How on earth do you choose to marry someone and intend to spend the rest of your life with someone or even claim to love someone and you cannot see yourselves as one unit, a family? I mean, my money is our money, your money is our money. Is it really that hard? For non-marriage relationships, no one owes the other anything. Each person is responsible and where one assists the other, the assisted party should be appreciative and not feel entitled at all. I just cannot make do with a lady that does not pull her weight. In fact, once I notice you don't do jack, only waiting for me to set up dates and spend, I flee and friendzone you. We might talk or go out from time to time but trust me, the expenses will remain negligible in the grand scheme of things. And there will never be a cash transfer except I'm making a normal friendly contribution or loan I could have made to anyone. The funny thing is, the female friends I have had, who had no qualms pulling their weight, have my utmost respect. I end up spending much more than I ordinarily would on them, because I know the person is not trying to use me. I really don't understand how so many guys are fine with having partners that deliberately contribute little or nothing. 11 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: So Who Will Date The Broke Lady? by emmaodet: 8:26pm On May 29, 2020 |
HeavenlyCherub: Not bad if true 1 Like |
Re: So Who Will Date The Broke Lady? by Obodo999(m): 11:48pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
WilliamsChelster: but why will you waste your energy on a worthless girl. |
Re: So Who Will Date The Broke Lady? by MrCork: 3:12pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
SweetCunt97: how much to date u for 35 minuite in my hotel please? ![]() |
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