Ishilove:

So you reprimand one year old babies by hitting them on their head?

Trust me it's not the way she explained it that was how it happened.
Remember she's already angry with her for suggesting another wife for her husband

adontcare:
funny enough am not like that. So by hitting him hard on d head is reprimanding him.? May God forgive u for siding evil. Yea nobody asked me but the op need to know that not only her in that shoe of hate

Whatever!
Absolve the hate you have for her, and you'll see the beautiful things she does

TrollPolice001:

Who ask you??
I know women like you because you feel you've given birth to a son the whole world should bow at your feet.
Who knows if the woman was reprimanding your son for being naughty you termed it another thing.
God help men

My thoughts exactly.
Although hitting the baby was not cool.
Some women enjoy painting their in laws bad abeg

JONNYSPUTE:
...Can you just listen to yourself? I wonder how you found it easy calling Jesus after dishing out such an advice that will make her be in enemity with her in-laws forever. SMH.

Trouble maker, send her AK-47 to shot him to 6ft because he didn't call, .
Also advice her not to pray , onyeoma.

lilyheaven:

Trouble maker, send her AK-47 to shot him to 6ft because he didn't call, .
Also advice her not to pray , onyeoma.

...Did she tell you she is quarreling with the old man? Respect should be given to him. Let her call him and tell him officially.Even if the old man is on the know,she should be the one to call him.
So your advice to her is very wrong.It will only cause her more pains. It takes nothing to make peace.

Since he was friendly with u and usually calls, why not call him as usual and ask if he is ok as u haven't heard from him.
Then listen to what he has to say. If he didn't talk about it, chip that in.
I will call and tell you I have put to bed if I haven't heard from u. Maybe he is down. The news will uplift his spirit.

TrollPolice001:

Whatever!
Absolve the hate you have for her, and you'll see the beautiful things she do

I don't hate her. But her actions proved she hate me and my children. If I hate her I won't buy her stuffs nor send money to her. So u should absolve ur self from prejudgements. Not all daughter in-law hate their mother inlaw. Some have good heart and intentions. Like me, God is always by my side cos he sees my innermost intentions

Ladyhippolyta88:

My thoughts exactly.
Although hitting the baby was not cool.
Some women enjoy painting their in laws bad abeg

Someone that is suggesting another wife for the son is not a good in-law just saying.
The person’s aim is to break the home.

adontcare:
I don't hate her. But her actions proved she hate me and my children. If I hate her I won't buy her stuffs nor send money to her. So u should absolve ur self from prejudgements. Not all daughter in-law hate their mother inlaw. Some have good heart and intentions. Like me, God is always by my side cos he sees my innermost intentions

You don’t have to like her.
Your husband won’t like your mom if your mom suggested for you to bring another man into the home.
Just be civil and carry on with your life.
Don’t let anyone discount your feelings or act like disrespectful attitude towards you is a normal thing and expect you to tell them thank you for it.

TrollPolice001:

Trust me it's not the way she explained it that was how it happened.
Remember she's already angry with her for suggesting another wife for her husband

see interpretation. U want what d woman did to be right in ur own eyes. In ur thought, nothing she did is wrong. It shall come to pass in ur life don't worry

cococandy:


You don’t have to like her.
Your husband won’t like your mom if your mom suggested for you to bring another man into the home.
Just be civil and carry on with your life.
Don’t let anyone discount your feelings or act like disrespectful attitude towards you is a normal thing and expect you to tell them thank you for it.

that's it o. I believe in God and he fights for me

Ladyhippolyta88:

My thoughts exactly.
Although hitting the baby was not cool.
Some women enjoy painting their in laws bad abeg

not all women though. May God not let u have terrible inlaws. Pray o. because dis ur statement will haunt u when that time come. Peace.

adontcare:
see interpretation. U want what d woman did to be right in ur own eyes. In ur thought, nothing she did is wrong. It shall come to pass in ur life don't worry

So if it was your mother that did it, it would've been ok.
I've in-laws and we both treat each other with respect.

adontcare:
I don't hate her. But her actions proved she hate me and my children. If I hate her I won't buy her stuffs nor send money to her. So u should absolve ur self from prejudgements. Not all daughter in-law hate their mother inlaw. Some have good heart and intentions. Like me, God is always by my side cos he sees my innermost intentions

Akiko mike ejigha

TrollPolice001:

So if it was your mother that did it, it would've been ok.
I've in-laws and we both treat each other with respect.

why would it be ok. I will be angry of course. I will report her to my older siblings. And they will talk to her. But if I react on my inlaw, people like u will be offended. because u love evil

cococandy:


Someone that is suggesting another wife for the son is not a good in-law just saying.
The person’s aim is to break the home.

True.
I just felt she has had a thing or a issue with her mom in law from the begining and using that as an excuse to paint her bad.
The monicker I concured with said something of her glorifying herself for having a boy which I could deduce from her post.

adontcare:
not all women though. May God not let u have terrible inlaws. Pray o. because dis ur statement will haunt u when that time come. Peace.

I said some.


Amin to you your prayers
Nothing will haunt me.
If your mama in law dey give you headache and you have tried all amicable means to make peace with her and she refuses.Avoid her or minimize your level of interaction with her but don't let her disrespect or overide you or your kids.

adontcare:
why would it be ok. I will be angry of course. I will report her to my older siblings. And they will talk to her. But if I react on my inlaw, people like u will be offended. because u love evil

I know your type, continue.
It's just a pity I don't know your in-laws, you would've carry yourself and that son that's shacking you back to your parent's house.

Ladyhippolyta88:

True.
I just felt she has had a thing or a issue with her mom in law from the begining and using that as an excuse to paint her bad.
The monicker I concured with said something of her glorifying herself for having a boy which I could deduce from her post.

Probably glorifying herself for having a son because that’s the issue for which they have mocked her and suggested another wife.

Personally I wouldn’t because hell will freeze into the arctic circle before another human being makes me feel unworthy for not having a male child but not every woman has arrived at that mindset yet. To them if you mock them for it, they deserve to rub it your face when they actually do have one. They are humans too

TrollPolice001:

I know your type, continue.
It's just a pity I don't know your in-laws, you would've carry yourself and that son that's shacking you back to your parent's house.

I know ur type too. U r d entitled type. Always seeing ur brother wife as ur enemy. U will not hustle again and put ur life problem on ur brother immediately he get married. U will soon run mad or die if u don't stop hating on ur in-laws. Tueh

cococandy:


Probably glorifying herself for having a son because that’s the issue for which they have mocked her and suggested another wife.

Personally I wouldn’t because hell will freeze into the arctic circle before another human being makes me feel unworthy for not having a male child but not every woman has arrived at mindset yet and to them if you mock them for it, they deserve to rub it your face when they actually do have one. They are humans too

True really.
Some have not really arrived at that mindset.

Very true at bold.

adontcare:
I know ur type too. U r d entitled type. Always seeing ur brother wife as ur enemy. U will not hustle again and put ur life problem on ur brother immediately he get married. U will soon run mad or die if u don't stop hating on ur in-laws. Tueh

It's good you're bearing it all.
So they shouldn't ask their son/brother for anything beacuse he married a nuisance and called her a wife.

You think because you've a son your leg is down, remember a barren woman is no different from a woman with one child.

You don't have to love her, show her RESPECT

Ladyhippolyta88:

True.
I just felt she has had a thing or a issue with her mom in law from the begining and using that as an excuse to paint her bad.
The monicker I concured with said something of her glorifying herself for having a boy which I could deduce from her post.

even at that, it is wrong to transfer hatred to an innocent child cos u had issues with d parents. Nobody is painting anyone bad here. If u see an act that shows wickedness, u should know. Whether what u think am glorified thru my moniker, still I don't care

.

adontcare:
even at that, it is wrong to transfer hatred to an innocent child cos u had issues with d parents. Nobody is painting anyone bad here. If u see an act that shows wickedness, u should know

I never supported her action ooo.

And if I were you I will address it there instead of keeping quiet as you claimed.As you saw the act of wickedness by her on your son you should have addressed it and put her in her place.
Let there not be a next time that she does that and don't keep quiet for any stupid peace to reign.

Klass99:


I read her post and didn't see or interpret it in my mind, as her glorifying herself for having a male child.

What I understood is that, her mother in-law was gearing up to find another wife for her hubby, in the event that she has a female child. Her saving grace was the fact that she had a male child.

Ok thanks for your POV I did not see it as that but I am now.

What gave her mom in law such boldness in the first place?So if she had a daughter again would she allow her hubby have another wife or give her mother in law the effontery to try and run her home.

If she addresses her mom in law instead of keeping quiet and allow such woman grow tentacles in her marriage and kids in the beginning all those silly talks nor go happen.

Ladyhippolyta88:


Much respect boss

Dude is an hypocrite that hides under banner of religion to spread hate, I've seen some of his hypocritical comments for a very long time.

TrollPolice001:

It's good you're bearing it all.
So they shouldn't ask their son/brother for anything beacuse he married a nuisance and called her a wife.

You think because you've a son your leg is down, remember a barren woman is no different from a woman with one child.

You don't have to love her, show her RESPECT

lol. I have 4 kids. 3 girls and a boy. I knew what I went through. Even this boy pregnancy was hell cos they thought it was a girl. Is it hunger, humiliation, abi na the countless insults? Or the one I was locked out for days. Pls don't hide behind a faceless forum and lay accusations u r not so sure of. Who told u I reason that because I have a son my ' leg don dey ground's ? I pity ur mindset because it won't do u well in life. Take care

Efewestern:


Dude is an hypocrite that hides under banner of religion to spread hate, I've seen some of his hypocritical comments for a very long time.

Me too.

I don't like self righteous people and saints na dem worse pass and he has no idea that he is worse when he defends unchristian acts done by Trump all because he is blind to believe that Donald Trump is a born again christian and democrats are demons.
That guy really opened up his hypocrisy.

adontcare:
lol. I have 4 kids. 3 girls and a boy. I knew what I went through. Even this boy pregnancy was hell cos they thought it was a girl. Is it hunger, humiliation, abi na the countless insults? Or the one I was locked out for days. Pls don't hide behind a faceless forum and lay accusations u r not so sure of. Who told u I reason that because I have a son my ' leg don dey ground's ? I pity ur mindset because it won't do u well in life. Take care

Lies upon lies.
You want to play the teary act, ain't gonna work madam.

Ladyhippolyta88:

I never supported her action ooo.

And if I were you I will address it there instead of keeping quiet as you claimed.As you saw the act of wickedness by her on your son you should have addressed it and put her in her place.
Let there not be a next time that she does that and don't keep quiet for any stupid peace to reign.

haba? During her husband burial? Nobody will believe me. I don't have hard evidence. They will think am making issues at the wrong time. No one saw her. Had it been another eye saw it or the baby could talk, I would have spoken out. But I handed everything to God

TrollPolice001:

Lies upon lies.
You want to play the teary act, ain't gonna work madam.

lol.