BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.
What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN). Many will say its formication but they don't even know the true meaning of formication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasnt the only virgin. The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.
Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Baba.

phelonrays:
Please I'm just curious about this marriage of a thing

My question is


Is Sex a prerequisite for marriage

BobbyHammar:


Normally it is not suppose to be but in this present generation , you better ensure it is center of the marriage if you don't want a broken home or you don't want to kill the person you will finally catch having sex with your partner.

phelonrays:

Thanks for your insightful answer....


But it still left me more perplexed than before

My observations are....... @the emboldened

Can't we function with the ''Normal'' while letting go of the '' present generation' toxicity??

VickyRotex:
Mr. English Dictionary, welldone! So what is the definition of fornication?

I stopped reading at this point: "Many will say its fornication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible"

Like are you real? please scholar, what's the "true" meaning of fornication in the bible?

The fact that we go against some set rules/morale standards (and I'm talking in general here) doesn't justify our acts, neither does it change what is right.
It's even funny how you reference the other people living in the time of Mary. And so what? Because they engaged in pre-marital sex automatically means its not a sin? It's like saying because "sinners" existed in the time of Jesus and some even became His disciples, so believers should also keep sinning that Grace may abound.

I'm so happy you're ranting. you know why? its because you're being convicted for something you've done or planning to do. You just dont know it. There are different phases in conviction, so dont worry, you're getting there.


And it's so funny you say African mentality? really? is that what you were told? because a lot of foreign churches actually preach marriage and purity. maybe you should make more research on that and expand your knowledge.

I understand if I'm having this conversation with an atheist, but if as a "believer" like you claimed you are, you dont see fornication in the bible the way it is clearly defined, then I dont know what to say to you.

And please don't bring up the "let he who is without sin" card. There's a difference between admitting/acknowledging one's sin vs being ignorant about it and defending it at all cost.

Btw, please dont quote me. Cos even if you do, I wont be responding to any quote on this thread.

Selah!

habsydiamond:
i will only say one thing.. No sex without marriage is like buying okrika for market without testing if it fits you. if e no size when u get home what will u do other than to discard it. thats what ends most no sex b4 marriage... divorce ni oo

Tallesty1:
What the poster is saying in essence is that all the married people who had sex before marriage are all happy in their marriage while those who waited till after marriage either divorce before their first anniversary or live unhappily in the marriage till they die.

Westernlove:


Guy.....You don tey for this Parole lol....

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