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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Roseey0(f): 10:29pm On May 30, 2020
Forgive them lord they dont know what they are doing.


Can the world just end already

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by jaxxy(m): 10:29pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.

No sex b4 marriage is only for couples that are not deceitful bt what we have is deceitful people going into marriage and using scriptures as a cover up. It doesn’t work that way.

Many have also created their own laws and turned it to Gods law and put themselves in bondage.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Munzy14(m): 10:29pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
It is the nature of mortals to condemn...Even in the bible, someone condemned meals sent to him ,until he was corrected not to call creatures unholy.

A journey of marriage, is a case of stick to what works for u both, but remember it is a permanent something.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 10:30pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.


OMG !! Have you written your own bible and dictionary?
Will you kick against the very words of Jesus in the book of revelation for your own selfish desire?
Do you think sex is just about having fun and not blood covenant.
I am weeping in tears for your high level of ignorance and your desire to deceive so many people.
Don't you understand that the new and old testaments you read are made legal by blood and so does blood connects couples. The fact that many people are doing the wrong thing , does not make it right.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Bigleaf1006: 10:30pm On May 30, 2020
Masterclass32:
Sex is meant for married couples. Any sexual gratification outside of marriage is sin.

Do not generalise, it's sin only in certain religions and cultures.

Those who don't have same believes as you are no less dignified.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Bleeze2: 10:32pm On May 30, 2020
All i can see from this post is that the OP was to justify this by all means, hence misquoting or intentionally decides not to understand the scriptures. I will suggest you read Hebrews 13:4 amongst other verses.
Thank you
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by StubbornGENIUS: 10:33pm On May 30, 2020
Roseey0:
Forgive them lord they dont know what they are doing.


Can the world just end already
Remember you,your family and everyone you know will also perish should the world end right now.Have you ever thought about their salvation,miss righteous.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Bigseven(m): 10:33pm On May 30, 2020
Well thank God it's your opinion which is like an ass everyone seats on his own. But the truth about God's standard on sin is still firm it won't be bend to fit in your opinion.
For those that are genuinely saved by mercy and grace of God, undastands that faith cometh by hearing, not hearing anything thing like your opinion but hearing the word of God. Now if one hAs faith and has believed God that his marriage will be for the glory of God, such a person cannot have sex related marital problem. So God will always perfect the marriage of those who trust him and had their marital foundation rooted in Him. So fornication is fornication no justification for it. So carry your yeye opinion and chork yourself Instead of misleading people.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Respect55(m): 10:34pm On May 30, 2020
What u have up there is simply ur own opinion Op. Don't force others to accept our own belief. I stopped reading when u referred to one's conviction to stay chaste "low African mentality."
That's just very poor on u for I believe your perspective is purely subjective. Don't ridicule what u don't know.
Have sex of u feel like but don't call those who have chosen to wait till after marriage names.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by HoliMaree: 10:34pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.



Why are you allowing yourself to be used against God's word? you are in grave danger right now

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by CaptainFM1: 10:35pm On May 30, 2020
Na wa ooo. Seriously, there should be a separate forum for unbelievers.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Peter887: 10:35pm On May 30, 2020
Ok oh...keep waiting after marriage while someone will fucking her on weekly basis

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by promotervickky(m): 10:36pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.


Wonder why this is on front page......

Have you wondered why HIV/AiDs, abortion and co are killing people? It's because of baseless ideas from individuals like you...tell that to the people who could have changed the mindset they had-that you now have.....some are in the grave, some are in unhappy marriage because of unplanned pregnancy! Some are carry HIV/AiDs around and infecting others..



When someone post something like this, it will seem they are posting sense!! They always refer and twist the Bible(a book they have not read for a long time), pick one or 2 passages that says something to debate on, and leaving the rest passage which explains the full meaning!

Make the world a better place!!!

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by ednut1(m): 10:36pm On May 30, 2020
No points made lol. Odumeje like explanation

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Cantonese: 10:37pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.

Even all you said do not make sense. Take your time to read through again. If it makes any sense to you then I will talk about it further with you and open your eyes appropriately.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Ekestar(m): 10:37pm On May 30, 2020
This post is a message from pit of hell meant to mislead ignorant people. You are just blabbing, you dont even have any scripture to back up your opinion. You claim to speak for God, and at the same time encourages what displeases God. Is there any where in the bible people were encouraged to have sex before marriage? The answer ofcourse us No.
But there are countless scriptures against fornication. Do you even know that fornication has many health implications which makes it safer to stay out of it? Spiritually you are killing your soul, and physically your body is likely to contact STI
1cor 6:18 NIV:Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.
Gal 5:19-21 NIV:The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity anddebauchery, idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions, and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Donbabaj: 10:37pm On May 30, 2020
@OP, I dole my hat for your biblical analysis to justify sex before marriage. #endtime prophet

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by MrNice001(m): 10:38pm On May 30, 2020
Only God is watching

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Roseey0(f): 10:38pm On May 30, 2020
StubbornGENIUS:
Remember you,your family and everyone you know will also perish should the world end right now.Have you ever thought about their salvation,miss righteous.
The more reason it should end already

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by ZICO111(m): 10:39pm On May 30, 2020
The Says flee From Fornication .the bible also make us to understand that fornication is a Sin...

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Natilolo(m): 10:39pm On May 30, 2020
The OP is just looking for an easy way out. Your only point about Mary and Joseph is so weak. God who instituted marriage instituted it under His terms and Conditions. Jacob, Isaac and other patriarchs in the bible who are worthy of emulating knew their wives the night of their wedding.

Ask God for your wife/ husband and He will give you your better half. He is a perfect God and he will give you your perfect match. He can do it. The Virginia will not be too big nor too small, likewise the penis. He knows your size and will match it well.

But the problem with most of us is that we don't want to involve God in the process, and even when we do, it's not wholeheartedly. So, most people end up marry other peoples wife/husband that cannot FIT their SIZE.

I know God can pair small Virgina to small penis and big pennies to big Virginia. There is nothing He can't do. Human wisdom can never work out a good marriage. Only God's wisdom can.

I am married. I never slept with my wife before I married her. But believe me, our tools are perfect for each other. Orgasim is not hard to get when we really mean business.

JUST FOLLOW GOD IN MARRIAGE, HE WILL MAKE THE BEST CHOICE FOR YOU.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Donbabaj: 10:39pm On May 30, 2020
Peter887:
Ok oh...keep waiting after marriage while someone will fucking her on weekly basis

How are you sure that one better guy is not fucking that your gf?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Natilolo(m): 10:40pm On May 30, 2020
The OP is just looking for an easy way out. Your only point about Mary and Joseph is so weak. God who instituted marriage instituted it under His terms and Conditions. Jacob, Isaac and other patriarchs in the bible who are worthy of emulating knew their wives the night of their wedding.

Ask God for your wife/ husband and He will give you your better half. He is a perfect God and he will give you your perfect match. He can do it. The Virginia will not be too big nor too small, likewise the penis. He knows your size and will match it well.

But the problem with most of us is that we don't want to involve God in the process, and even when we do, it's not wholeheartedly. So, most people end up marry other peoples wife/husband that cannot FIT their SIZE.

I know God can pair small Virgina to small penis and big pennies to big Virginia. There is nothing He can't do. Human wisdom can never work out a good marriage. Only God's wisdom can.

I am married. I never slept with my wife before I married her. But believe me, our tools are perfect for each other. Orgasim is not hard to get when we really mean business.

JUST FOLLOW GOD IN MARRIAGE, HE WILL MAKE THE BEST CHOICE FOR YOU.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by tete7000(m): 10:40pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:


You can try and it can work for you. But whereby it doesn't work for you if you function with the "Normal" and your partner does not, then be ready to carry your cross. Prevention they say is better than cure. My point is ensure you go for sex before marriage to be sure of the sexual aspect of your marriage. Every other major ingredients of marriage might be very good and rosy but trust me, if they are but only the sexual aspect is terrible, the wall is already cracked and it must surely fall apart sooner or later.

If you have watched the movie "kingdom of heaven" there was a part before the way when the dying king and his sister the princess wanted a young man to marry the princess so he could become king and they will kill her husband because they knew he will bring war upon them if he is crowned king. The young man refused because he didn't want the princess's husbands blood on his hands. Then the queen told him something very simple "one day you will wish you did a little evil just to ensure a greater good".

What am I trying to say, it is better you test the water before marriage (do a little evil if you call it sin or bad) in other to strive for a life long marriage (to ensure a greater good).

Has sex before marriage cured infidelity in marriage for this current generation?

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by StubbornGENIUS: 10:41pm On May 30, 2020
Roseey0:

The more reason it should end already
Do you believe in rapture,heaven and hell ma'am?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 10:41pm On May 30, 2020
Avoidsexxx:
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Wrong number! There is no way to qualify a sin, u either rejects or falls into.
The only and real reason why God created sex is for unification btw a man(adam) and his wife(eve). Do not be decieved whatever a man sow so shall he reap.
hey! Do yourself a divine favour and try visiting this websites(christian truth center) run by joshua mugunti, to open ur eyes and shame the devil.
You dey worry for some shallow-minded people wey think say them sabi pass God.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Millerules(m): 10:42pm On May 30, 2020
Nice, the UI is cool. But try and rebrand!!! Romanceland does not sound romantic. All the best!

Scot1255:
A new and better forum strictly for relationships. Let's relocate cheesy
https://romanceland.com.ng

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 10:42pm On May 30, 2020
But baba GOD Don give him own commandment say make nobody fornicate. if you fornicate, baba talk say na sin for am. But we no be GOD, its hard to control it, even baba GOD Understand
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by humilitypays(m): 10:43pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
This your preaching na wetin Victor Anichebe, Anthony Joshua, Asa Asika and other Yahoo boiz like you use chop Otedola's daughter DJ Cuppy finish......una don come again so that all these our girls go de open for una sharp sharp abi, be careful oh make Sango and Amadioha no do collabo for your head ohangry angry
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Funkybabee(f): 10:45pm On May 30, 2020
Confused soul, pele

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