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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by sammyranking(m): 11:07pm On May 30, 2020
Psalmspsalms:
Do not be deceived. God can not be mocked. Seriously, you disappoint me... Something that's written black and white in the Bible. If u can't keep to bible standard, then pls don't mislead others.
The thing weak Me,Sex outside marriage is sin. People should not follow leg over.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by dagreat4(f): 11:08pm On May 30, 2020
dont know your pain point but would have felt better if you didnt use bible as the basis of your argument as the bible is very clear on the sex before marriage topic.Bible says marriage is honorable when d bed is undefiled dont get it twisted.i believe strongly in the law of you reap what you sow.Not kul to.mislead people cos of your weakness.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by edoairways: 11:10pm On May 30, 2020
Tallesty1:
What the poster is saying in essence is that all the married people who had sex before marriage are all happy in their marriage while those who waited till after marriage either divorce before their first anniversary or live unhappily in the marriage till they die.
Unfortunately this assertion is false. That many married couple who had sex before marriage enjoys a better home doesn't mean all do. There is more to marriage than just sex. The issue is when an inexperienced fellow marries a experienced person. You don't expect someone who hasn't tasted different soup not tell which taste better. It is advisable that both spouses be virgin( in mind, though and sex) instead of one
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Kayceenaz(m): 11:12pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
As I read each line of this untruth, travesty, misconception, writing borne out of ignorance of God's Word, I shook my head and sighed in disbelief. Your argument is baseless, full of assumptions, incoherent, and proves you are so poor in biblical knowledge. Clearly, this is a desperate attempt to twist the Scriptures to justify pre-marital sex.

Seeing comments nodding in agreement to your blatant inaccuracy is heart-breaking. It shows supposed Christians have little knowledge of the manual of their faith, Holy Bible. Hebrews 13:4 says "Marriage is honourable in all and the bed undefiled." This means sanctity of union of husband and wife is a godly, admirable relationship without sexual relations prior to being joined together. It is God's standard, don't get it twisted.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by faithfull18(f): 11:12pm On May 30, 2020
The beginning of the end.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by FGonline: 11:13pm On May 30, 2020
Successfulsuccy:
Oga if sex Dey hungry you leave the babe and find olosho for area , as for me and my household sex before marriage remain a sin

Op abeg shift motion
but u do commit other sin?

Are u without sin?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Kayceenaz(m): 11:15pm On May 30, 2020
faithfull18:
The beginning of the end.
How it made front page is baffling.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Funpeter: 11:16pm On May 30, 2020
hilaryCU:
Hello Everyone,

Please, I want to know how to recover a room that a tenant packed and left witj the keys.

The annoying thing is that, they are owing a year and six months rent. Please, how do I recover the room.

Thanks all
change the key simple.......
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by femmyapson(m): 11:16pm On May 30, 2020
Roseey0:
Forgive them lord they dont know what they are doing.


Can the world just end already
Have you made your first $1m?

Do you own a private jet (its too much to ask sef- i mean have u ever flown in one before??)

Have you bought a house for your parents yet

too many questions to ask you... Who sabi ur name for ur state? more less Nigeria as a whole .

You can pray to God and ask him to take you away from the world since it is not ending anytime soon.
PLEASE LEAVE US ALONE ON EARTH. We still want to enjoy life and most importantly travel around the world.Thank you.
Happy Migration. But I advise you not to go yet. I love you and I still want you here. Please don't go sad
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Lamasta(m): 11:16pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
You cannot change God's standard my brother its either you abide or you do as you wish....One thing I know is that God is not mocked You reap what you sow
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by don89(m): 11:17pm On May 30, 2020
That is how they said one man ,one wife, now see how unmarried women full everywhere while there are few men to match the number. Some of these teachings are outdated and cannot correspond with today's realities.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by olumike001(m): 11:18pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.

Which chapter of the bible are you quoting sir,
When has what baffle you become what should baffle me.

What baffles you at the moment, is that what baffles God?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by mikaael(m): 11:18pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.



I understand you are trying to make your point but try as much not to generalize or twist the Bible
There is no justification for having sex before marriage... it is Sin.....it is condemnable even on a moral scale
My wife and I dated for 4 years without sex....she was a virgin while I wasnt.....and we have a an amazing sex life in marriage...
Just find what works for you but pls dont justify Sin
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:19pm On May 30, 2020
We don hear!!!

Sex before Marriage is a bigger scam undecided

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by davisma: 11:20pm On May 30, 2020
Op, your experience and opinion is not bible standard. |Hebrews 13 verse 4. Has put to rest this issue. Is not compulsory to follow a rule. God rules are with rewards.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by davillian(m): 11:20pm On May 30, 2020
A lot of people don't see sex as sin generally
But the truth it is actually a sin....

But me o
I can't be a Benz in sex and my wife a bicycle in sex.... Or my wife a Benz and me a bicycle in sex...
We would have problem.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Happyguy201: 11:22pm On May 30, 2020
hilaryCU:
Hello Everyone,

Please, I want to know how to recover a room that a tenant packed and left witj the keys.

The annoying thing is that, they are owing a year and six months rent. Please, how do I recover the room.

Thanks all

so you claimed front page to ask this silly question
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Zimzy(m): 11:23pm On May 30, 2020
Be careful of the opinion you allow to influence you. 2 Corinthians 11:14 And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Abbeylanre15(m): 11:24pm On May 30, 2020
Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.[color=#006600][/color]

If only you can quote a Bible verse where there was Sex out of wedlock and God didn't frown at it. Better still, you should give me examples of those that had boyfriend and had sex with them. Forget civilization,sex is meant for couple. Paul in one of his books said if a young man or woman can't abstain, he or she should get married. If you're a widow or a widower, Re-marry so as to afford fornication.
That aside, none of our culture smiles at it. Do u want to imagine the kind of joy on parents face when the new groom comes out with a blood stained hanky? Or we should talk about side effects of pre marital sex on humans body?
My brother, pls don't pass this mentality to ur offsprings,they may not be as smart as you n ur postinor mistresses. Pls save their souls. I doubt OP religious belief self.. I'm not sure you are fit enough to be an herbalist,let alone of a CHRISTIAN. JESUS should just come back on time. CHAI. False teaching everywhere. Set awon INDABOSKI.

How this made front page still baffles me
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by bizhop01: 11:25pm On May 30, 2020
No sex before marriage but she is fucking your best friend twice per week.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by webani: 11:27pm On May 30, 2020
When a woman says NO sex before marriage, she must be a virgin or else, if she has done it prior to the marriage. Man RUN, she must have destroyed her womb or she has a wide hole and she only want to entrap you with marriage so you don't change your mind.
Only The truly Born again, a Virgin also has the right to say such a thing. Ashewo must not say such silly thing

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Delightedonyi: 11:31pm On May 30, 2020
That u aren’t on with something doesn’t mean u should carry others join...sin is sin no matter the reason behind it Mr writer we have freedom of speech but pls don’t lead many to join ur way..ready ur Bible well...what is the position of the bible regathering sex .did bible support sex before marriage or after that why are we so foolish and keep allowing sin to overcome...what will u teach ur kids there’s fire on the mountain
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by odeejay28(m): 11:34pm On May 30, 2020
Walk By Faith and not By Sight

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Hahjascho(m): 11:35pm On May 30, 2020
davillian:
A lot of people don't see sex as sin generally
But the truth it is actually a sin....

But me o
I can't be a Benz in sex and my wife a bicycle in sex.... Or my wife a Benz and me a bicycle in sex...
We would have problem.
But how do you get to know that Benz and bicycle formats exist when it comes to sex(copulation)?... that's how the confusion starts.....reason why many say abstinence from both parties remains the best bet....no assumptions, no infinite comparison... coupled with acceptance with peace of mind.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Ifeanyimike123: 11:35pm On May 30, 2020
Lol this is so true like my next door neighbor with his wife complete religion freaks everyday prayer anybody that doesn't want them to have children die and in my mind I'm like have you two actually tried having sex

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Adorableessy: 11:37pm On May 30, 2020
Hebrews 13 vs 4
Nkjv



Marriage is honorable among all, with the bed undefiled, but fornicators and adulterers, God will judge....

Everyone does it doesn't make it right...

Do not go about misleading people...
The period of time your partner lasts in bed doesn't keep marriage
You have sex before marriage doesn't mean your marriage will be successful

It's God who keeps the marriage

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by MrTosin01: 11:38pm On May 30, 2020
Hmmmm... So if I happen to date 5 or more persons before marriage, I can keep testing them in bed till I find my taste
Keep on testing till you test your future husband best man join... undecided undecided
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:38pm On May 30, 2020
You are doomed if you believe OP

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by foleskay(m): 11:39pm On May 30, 2020
The Nigeria police should go learn from thier US counterparts on how protests are controlled. The police in US are only with batons and rubber bullets. No ak47 or any armunition in handling crowds even as d crowd go violent. We still have a very long wat to go in Nigeria. The kind of heavy protest going on in the US can't happen. In Nigeria without bodies littering the streets. That George Floyd death is really painful.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Gemineye: 11:40pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
[s]Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.[/s]
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:40pm On May 30, 2020
Emmacolinho:
I wish a friend of mine can read this
copy the link and send to him via WhatsApp or text

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